To edge or not to edge….

[sandybrooke]

I agree with steve. Being "edged" or teased to the brink of orgasm is the best! This was a game my wife and I played often, she like being bound and helpless during this play time!
All my masturbation includes edging.

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[Filipinawife]

A guy teasing my clit on his tongue but not letting me cum drives me nuts

 

[xdresssissytoes]

A guy teasing my clit on his tongue but not letting me cum drives me nuts

From the pics you've shared, I would love to tease your clit and nipples for the thrill of watching you squirm and hearing you moan...now knowing that edging you near to orgasm drives you nuts. I sooo like to take my time with a woman's body.

 

[Filipinawife]

From the pics you've shared, I would love to tease your clit and nipples for the thrill of watching you squirm and hearing you moan...now knowing that edging you near to orgasm drives you nuts. I sooo like to take my time with a woman's body.

My kind of man. Come here

 

[xdresssissytoes]

My kind of man. Come here

Mmmm...my kind of woman...where do I start?....willing to please you as you wish.......

 

[Handeguy]

If given the time and privacy, a nice, looooong, relaxed solo session with lots of edging is simply heavenly.

 

[Britva415]

I always think it's funny when a 'new term' emerges for something so common. So, let me get this straight.

If you don't 'edge', then for a man, masturbation is 1) stimulate one's self to the point of orgasm and have the orgasm immediately.

If you 'edge', masturbation is 1)stimulate one's self to the point of orgasm 2) enjoy the feeling for a while 3) have the orgasm

I'm a bit confused too. "The edging community" as I perceive it seemed to be focused on something a little different.

Of course, my perception is likely to be narrow at best and way off at worst, and probably some of both.

Anyway, for years I only ever heard of edging as a delayed gratification - at least to the extent that the edging itself is not already gratifying. That is to say, "edgers" seemed to be out there bragging about how many days they edged while holding off before finally orgasming.

Not exactly an orgasm-denial thing, though edging can be part of that but that is a whole other thing that's outside the scope of edging in my opinion, the same way exhibitionism is outside the scope of nudity.

Anyway yeah, come to find out a lot of edgers bring it to climax/conclusion during the session instead of after many sessions.

My success with edging hasn't been too great. If I don't get really close, I lose arousal and can't keep it going a really long time like some of these other champions, but if I get that close, it's so hard to pull back - I usually just "go" instead.

 

[Imperfect_Guy]

I'm a bit confused too. "The edging community" as I perceive it seemed to be focused on something a little different.

Of course, my perception is likely to be narrow at best and way off at worst, and probably some of both.

Anyway, for years I only ever heard of edging as a delayed gratification - at least to the extent that the edging itself is not already gratifying. That is to say, "edgers" seemed to be out there bragging about how many days they edged while holding off before finally orgasming.

Not exactly an orgasm-denial thing, though edging can be part of that but that is a whole other thing that's outside the scope of edging in my opinion, the same way exhibitionism is outside the scope of nudity.

Anyway yeah, come to find out a lot of edgers bring it to climax/conclusion during the session instead of after many sessions.

My success with edging hasn't been too great. If I don't get really close, I lose arousal and can't keep it going a really long time like some of these other champions, but if I get that close, it's so hard to pull back - I usually just "go" instead.

That's what makes sexuality so amazing and fun. It's different for each of us which opens up so many possibilities for exploration and arousal. Our differences are what make life so interesting!

 

[Mr_Blackr0se]

Both, both is good lol... If I have the time I will 100% edge. But otherwise I will finish what I started.

 

[Britva415]

So like... I have questions.

Are you supposed to get as close as you can without orgasming?

Is that what makes it "edging" as opposed to just masturbating without getting off?

How do you decide when to stop edging and just "go"?

 

[xdresssissytoes]

The longer I edge...the more explosive the orgasm....the bigger the load of my creamy cum....mmmmm.....

 

[NancyPan]

I am in a FLR. She manages my orgasms, and I am not allowed to cum without Her permission. This makes edging a risky endeavor. I am required to go to Her to report if/when I have ejaculated without permission. This has not happened often, but last did (a few months back) when I thought I could manage edging, but I did not stop soon enough and ended up with a ruined orgasm.

Telling Her was very humiliating and difficult. She was understanding, not really angry, more disappointed (which was probably worse for me). She said that I should have come to Her and asked for permission to masturbate, and she “re-set” my period of orgasm denial.

I do like to edge, but for me, it’s risky. I’ve learned to stop way, way short of the “point of no return.”

 

[Imperfect_Guy]

So like... I have questions.

Are you supposed to get as close as you can without orgasming?

Is that what makes it "edging" as opposed to just masturbating without getting off?

How do you decide when to stop edging and just "go"?

I think edging is a little different for everyone. For me masturbating without getting off and edging are basically the same things although for me edging lasts much longer... hours or sometimes days. Often it's your body that decides when to just go because it just becomes overwhelming and basically unstoppable.

 

[2bhard]

Definitely edge but you have to finish her off.

 

[Handydan]

Edging for sure. It leads to an incredible massive orgasm.

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

It’s rare that I just rub one out….I like the slow build up, the tease, taking the time to fully relax and immerse myself in the drawn out pleasure

It's pure bliss, one of my favorite ways to spend a morning, afternoon, or evening, or the next morning...

 

[Dreamer110]

The best way to spend a couple three hours.

 

[IARainman]

It’s rare that I just rub one out….I like the slow build up, the tease, taking the time to fully relax and immerse myself in the drawn out pleasure

Me too, often edge for hours if not over the course of days

 

[remypare]

Didn't know about tribbing....new thing to look for!

I love doing tributes!

 

[Dreamer110]

Going to spend all tomorrow morning edging, at least a good three hours.

 

[IARainman]

On about a two hour edge now

 

[IARainman]

5 hours now, with one small ruin, arrggh

 

[eric_erosfan]

So like... I have questions.

Are you supposed to get as close as you can without orgasming?

Is that what makes it "edging" as opposed to just masturbating without getting off?

How do you decide when to stop edging and just "go"?

Yes getting right to the edge and backing off. Sometimes you go too far and can't stop it. I will back off and start up again in less than a minute it keeps me constantly right on the edge of orgasm for a prolonged period.

When you can see your reflection in the tight skin of your cockhead you know you are edging perfectly.

 

[Dreamer110]

Yes getting right to the edge and backing off. Sometimes you go too far and can't stop it. I will back off and start up again in less than a minute it keeps me constantly right on the edge of orgasm for a prolonged period.

When you can see your reflection in the tight skin of your cockhead you know you are edging perfectly.

Love edging just like this. Longer the better.

 

[Abbafan]

Edging is one of the things that got me into the stories on this site. I found I could last a lot longer than if I was watching a video or even just fantasizing for some reason.