To edge or not to edge….

[Britva415]

Yes getting right to the edge and backing off. Sometimes you go too far and can't stop it. I will back off and start up again in less than a minute it keeps me constantly right on the edge of orgasm for a prolonged period.

When you can see your reflection in the tight skin of your cockhead you know you are edging perfectly.

How much practice does this take? I can't manage it.

 

[slightlysubhub]

I love to edge as often as I can. Usually a good chat session on Lit is the perfect way. I’ll be able to edge for a few hours,leaking pre cum non stop and stroking gently. The load is always insane when I do finally cum.
On some occasions I’ve denied myself cumming and end up getting blue balls so bad it aches so much until I cum the next morning.

 

[eric_erosfan]

How much practice does this take? I can't manage it.

I've been edging more over the past 10 years or so. When I was younger I just wanted to cum as quick as possible. Now I like to make it last.

 

[eric_erosfan]

I used to then I came to the realization I wasted too much time on masturbation. Prostate orgasms take long enough. Edging to me is a waste of time.

Definitely takes longer. But sometimes I will do it during the workday when I am waiting for a software build to complete. I will stop without cumming and continue later or even another day.

 

[Bisexguy70]

I love edging. Its helped me last much longer. When i do finally release its so intense. Ive edged and shot my load clear up to my mouth. And the its so much hotter to be at that heightened state of pleasure. My buddy loves that i can last so long without cumming to soon. Id have times when i had the house to myself and id watch porn but want to watch all the scenes. Edging help me be able to get through all of the hot action without cumming too quick.

 

[Britva415]

When I was younger I just wanted to cum as quick as possible

Right, so, when you stopped wanting that, how did you develop the ability to stop before coming without simply losing arousal?

 

[eric_erosfan]

Right, so, when you stopped wanting that, how did you develop the ability to stop before coming without simply losing arousal?

When you are just about to cum and then you can stop it by squeezing hard on your cockhead, you just keep going after you have regained control. And keep doing that multiple times. You don't lost arousal. If anything edging causes you to keep an erection even you finally orgasm. I remember still being hard an hour after finishing edging when I had to give a presentation to a local organization. I decided then that I should probably not edge before I have to stand before an audience again.

 

[ArabianNights]

Over the weekend, i must of edged over 30 times. By the time I cum, i was off the charts horny. When edging I used a vibrator, shower and hand.

 

[KyleR215]

I thought this morning, waking up horny, that I would rub out a quick one and be somewhat satisfied to start my day. But as nice as that thought was, my phone started going off and there was a work emergency.

Luckily, that was resolved quickly. But still the need rages and rather than get off quickly I have decided to just edge throughout the day and build up to later this evening.

So here I am today, edging. Enjoying myself on and off. Teasing and letting the build up grow and strengthen until I can't take it any longer.

Fun times

 

[Lostsoul34]

I definitely prefer edging, love the slow burn, the build up and anticipation of an incredibly strong orgasm. Occasionally it gets too to be too much and I have had an intense orgasm just from the heightened state of arousal without even touching myself

 

[Jeb56]

I definitely prefer edging, love the slow burn, the build up and anticipation of an incredibly strong orgasm. Occasionally it gets too to be too much and I have had an intense orgasm just from the heightened state of arousal without even touching myself

Well said.

 

[Wonderer67]

I am into edging AND orgasm denial. I like being taken to the brink, or taking myself to the brink without cumming.

My wife and I have been into this for many years.

I actually enjoy NOT cumming. When she does release me, (every 3-4 weeks or so) it’s usually after a long, edging session. The cum and orgasm is unimaginably great.

 

[bookworm69]

Been edging for 4 hrs
feels so good rn

??? I hope so.

 

[ArabianNights]

I love my edging to be controlled, to be told when and how often.

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife teased the fuck out of me last night and again this morning. She was rubbing me to just short of orgasm thru my sweatpants in bed.

I have been 7 weeks without orgasm.

Before bed, she rubbed my cock thru my sweatpants. She teased the head, occasionally the shaft, but it was like a bunch of sexy tongues on the underside of my cock. I’ve never felt anything like it before. It was exquisite and at the same time it was maddening.

I thought I may reach orgasm (I’d have to let her know) but I stayed just under orgasm for about 45 minutes. It felt great, but It was also a mental, physical, physiological and biological struggle.

Same things this morning…abt 20 minutes of teasing, this time. Then she had me take my cock out and masturbate for her… I did, which I enjoy… I like being observed when I masturbate… I edged and edged and edged and backed off each time I approached orgasm.

At one point she went down on me and sucked me. I was close and had to let her know when I was close so she could back off.

We’re going to the nude beach today for my birthday. Tonight she said she was gonna peg me with her strap-on. The only way I’m allowed to cum today is if I cum from her strapon fucking me, which almost never happens.

If I don’t cum that way, she promised me she’ll let me cum tomorrow and promised me a nice long, frustrating hand job. (It’s my birthday) That’ll be a nice present.

 

[artslut86]

So like... I have questions.

Are you supposed to get as close as you can without orgasming?

Is that what makes it "edging" as opposed to just masturbating without getting off?

How do you decide when to stop edging and just "go"?

With training from my Miss I can now get to a state where little precum dribbles come out, stop, wait and thrash about a bit Nd then go again. 4,5 times. Then I have to stop otherwise I'll blow. Yhe level of sensitivity is nothing like I've experienced b4. I'm on day 28 but it's been the last 3 days of edges that have been amazingly intense. I'm praying I'm allowed to orgasm or have some sort of pspot orgasm for the 30 day mark. Being the longest I've ever gone with out an orgasm.

 

[2ServeWoman]

Been edging all my life…didn’t know it had a name or was a thing. Just learned that this week @55 years old, lol. Got me thinking how edging is distinguished from regular masturbation and then it occurred to me that edging is normal masturbation…I’d say I edge 95% of the time or more and really only rub out a quickie once in a great while.

So I’m wondering about how you all view it. What percentage of the time do you edge and what percentage of the time are you really on a mission to rub one out?

Ponders you with thick, gooey fingers, THEN, shoving them on my mouth!

 

[Dillharris]

Edge....always edge....never surrender...

 

[PantiesAndPies]

Been edging since my early 20s, initially on my own. I’d play with myself through my panties for hours each day. Only every third day would i allow myself to cum. I often had wet dreams before the third day to reset to counter. Longest was nearly a month. Now my wife sets when and how I can cum, rarely more than once a week. It’s always worth it with the power of the orgasm when I’m finally allowed to cum.

 

[Crownvic]

If you can’t edge who you want...edge with the one who is this there..

 

[stevesthename]

If you can't edge who you want... edge me.

 

[thetiesthatbindme]

Kind of the same thing, there are times I love to delay intercourse … teasing with slides and oral and just the tip. Maybe too much. My partner starts to get bored.

But would u deny yourself,but bring your partner to orgasm?

 

[hulmule]

Not that iwant to but like last night i was on Lit edging but wanted a release . No luck, so back at it this morning hoping again for good stimulation and a release. But might be stuck again with no release . Ist that i want it that way... but hand and cock need morning stimulation or the real thing

 

[rob50yorks]

Been edging all my life…didn’t know it had a name or was a thing. Just learned that this week @55 years old, lol. Got me thinking how edging is distinguished from regular masturbation and then it occurred to me that edging is normal masturbation…I’d say I edge 95% of the time or more and really only rub out a quickie once in a great while.

So I’m wondering about how you all view it. What percentage of the time do you edge and what percentage of the time are you really on a mission to rub one out?

Mostly edge depending on the company online

 

[AlwaysDancing]

But would u deny yourself,but bring your partner to orgasm?

Oh! Hmm.

I’m all about teasing and delayed gratification. And I certainly love when my woman cums that that alone would be satisfying. I’d absolutely play that game.

But maybe you’re asking about more of a submissive denial. So … maybe? I don’t know if I’m in to that but I think I’d take it out for a test drive.