Are men really obsessed with large boobies?

[crazychemgirl]

 

[crazychemgirl]

That came up in my Facebook memories for today … how appropriate

 

[SassySheDevil]

There was a time when I thought that we were getting better as a society. Caring less about physical perfections (perceived perfections) and caring more about confidence and how a person feels inside. Younger me was a lot more shallow. Older me learned that there was so much more to a person than looks. I cared (and still do) about who the person was on the inside.
However. For every step forward we took as a society to include more body types and stop (or lessen) the ideal perfection. Then we brought on apps that change how we look (Snap chat) and we started once again hiding behind filters. I've gotten sucked into that and I hate it. I was just getting to a point where I was becoming comfortable in accepting some of my flaws. Certainly, doing amazing at accepting others and finding beauty in them.
A filter quickly takes away the lumps and bumps and smooths out my 50 year old skin.
So. Just as quickly as we started to accept these things. We are now going backwards again and hiding behind filters.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

I truly wonder about the sexcapades of the younger generation that grew up exclusively with internet porn … how has it shaped how they approach sex? Is sex better overall or worse?

It's definitely made porn easier to come by. When I was of age I had to awkwardly go to places in person and buy my porn. Lol I think porn watching for me made me much less inhibited for when the real sex happened. Seeing it happen, even if it is staged and planned, was helpful and eye opening.

I do hope that's the case for the younger people (once they come of age of age, of course). Sex, in all its forms, is amazing and should be celebrated. And with the onset of sex educators (Caitlin V and a few others) and women created and ethical porn (Bellesa, Erika Lust) there are more readily available tools.

 

[AmberLGreen]

There was a time when I thought that we were getting better as a society. Caring less about physical perfections (perceived perfections) and caring more about confidence and how a person feels inside. Younger me was a lot more shallow. Older me learned that there was so much more to a person than looks. I cared (and still do) about who the person was on the inside.
However. For every step forward we took as a society to include more body types and stop (or lessen) the ideal perfection. Then we brought on apps that change how we look (Snap chat) and we started once again hiding behind filters. I've gotten sucked into that and I hate it. I was just getting to a point where I was becoming comfortable in accepting some of my flaws. Certainly, doing amazing at accepting others and finding beauty in them.
A filter quickly takes away the lumps and bumps and smooths out my 50 year old skin.
So. Just as quickly as we started to accept these things. We are now going backwards again and hiding behind filters.

The biggest filter I use is clothing. I don’t like my body. It is a hideous shape. Naked I do look like a child’s drawing of a big circle body, little circle head and sticks for arms and legs. My bum looks like that of a 12 year old boy so I wear long tops to cover it. I am a 36C chest but I wear bras with padding to enhance and lift and draw focus away from my stomach. It isn’t media or society that have made me feel like this. It is myself and how I feel about me.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

That's men ruining men lol

Hahaha omg it is! Hilarious.

 

[crazychemgirl]

The biggest filter I use is clothing. I don’t like my body. It is a hideous shape. Naked I do look like a child’s drawing of a big circle body, little circle head and sticks for arms and legs. My bum looks like that of a 12 year old boy so I wear long tops to cover it. I am a 36C chest but I wear bras with padding to enhance and lift and draw focus away from my stomach. It isn’t media or society that have made me feel like this. It is myself and how I feel about me.

Fucking truth … I’m with you there. My body imagine is 100% my own doing. Some days I feel ok … then I see my body from an unflattering angle and it’s a spiral of sadness for days. Like getting a haircut on Friday … oh man… I look like a potato turd.. like 100%

 

[Mrtenant]

Boobies is quite possibly the worst word for them in existence.

Tits, boobs, tatas, breasts… in that order for me.

....jugs, hooters, knockers, melons, sweater puppies

 

[crazychemgirl]

....jugs, hooters, knockers, melons, sweater puppies

Basically anything but “boobies”

If a guy refers to them as boobies I’m immediately turned off

 

[SassySheDevil]

The biggest filter I use is clothing. I don’t like my body. It is a hideous shape. Naked I do look like a child’s drawing of a big circle body, little circle head and sticks for arms and legs. My bum looks like that of a 12 year old boy so I wear long tops to cover it. I am a 36C chest but I wear bras with padding to enhance and lift and draw focus away from my stomach. It isn’t media or society that have made me feel like this. It is myself and how I feel about me.

But I also still think a lot of why we are so insecure about those things are because of what we grew up with. Women grew up with beauty magazines telling us what was beautiful. Men grew up with porn mags that told them bigger was better.
I swore that because of my own insecurities and how hard I could be on myself without help of anyone else. I would raise my daughter better. I would spend every day telling her how beautiful she is. I would make sure she knew she was loved and valued no matter what. My daughter is 24 now and has never once said she was fat or ugly. She's never been hard on herself. I didn't have the beauty magazines in my house. I constantly told her that beauty doesn't come in sizes. It comes from within us. Beauty has more to do with your heart and how you treat yourself (and others) and she has one of the kindest souls I've ever met.

While I love reading todays smut books. I hate that every character is no different. They are the "Perfect" men/women. He has the body of a greek god. He has a big dick. He is rich. He is....
Look at Fifty shades of grey. Anna was a virgin and immediately took on Christian Grey's monster cock without pain or anything. What a super star she was.
Bring me a normal man. He doesn't have to be perfect. Bring me realness. Bring on the frumpy woman who is not perfectly skinny and actually screams her first time she has sex. That's the book I'd rather read.

 

[Mrtenant]

Basically anything but “boobies”

If a guy refers to them as boobies I’m immediately turned off

Yea boobies seems like a toddler's words

 

[LongDraw]

I will say hands down I am a boob man, and with few exceptions, the larger, the better. I do however have an extremely strong distaste for artificially large breasts. For me though, the closer you get to having a flat chest, the more masculine you look, and that is a big turn off. I also can't stand to look at breasts that point straight out, or god forbid defy gravity by pointing to the sky.

My desire for large breasts is particular despite what many would assume. For instance, most women of Indian descent have areolas that are anything but attractive to me. And the breasts should be soft and conform to my face, or my manhood, whichever happens to be between them.

I should add that I do have a preference for wide hips, a big butt, and I don't discriminate when it comes to age. That babysitter makes me wanna cum just as much as wet dreams about my mother-in-law or a granny blowing a huge cock.

Oh, and since when was I not average at 13"? Did I not get the memo when I picked up the TPS reports?

 

[Mrtenant]

That is the social construct - that all/most men want large breasted women. I would challenge that. Certainly some do, just as some men might prefer redheads or short women or long legs. But is this alleged and nearly universal big boobie fetish real?

In my previous incarnation here as LusterMunky I had several fantastic playmates. All had large breasts. But I didn't even know that when we started communicating and then playing. Their boobie size had absolutely nothing to do with my initial attraction to them. I liked and then enjoyed our play time because of who they were, not because of their tits.

So question for Lit men: Is breast size a big deal for you? Why?
And for Lit women: Do you believe your breast size in any way influences your interaction with Lit men?

Breast size is not a big deal for me. I enjoy them.

Since we're talking about physical attributes- I like hips. That curve of the hip coming up from the thigh as it meets the ass and then narrows into the waist....mmm hmmmm.

 

[crazychemgirl]

I will say hands down I am a boob man, and with few exceptions, the larger, the better. I do however have an extremely strong distaste for artificially large breasts. For me though, the closer you get to having a flat chest, the more masculine you look, and that is a big turn off. I also can't stand to look at breasts that point straight out, or god forbid defy gravity by pointing to the sky.

My desire for large breasts is particular despite what many would assume. For instance, most women of Indian descent have areolas that are anything but attractive to me. And the breasts should be soft and conform to my face, or my manhood, whichever happens to be between them.

Oh, and since when was I not average at 13"? Did I not get the memo when I picked up the TPS reports?

Maybe that’s the root of it …. Smaller breasts giving the impression visually as a more masculine shape… and for straight men that would be construed as a turn off

 

[LongDraw]

Maybe that’s the root of it …. Smaller breasts giving the impression visually as a more masculine shape… and for straight men that would be construed as a turn off

Bingo! Also masculine facial features. It doesn't matter how big your chest is if your face says 1000% man.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

The biggest filter I use is clothing. I don’t like my body. It is a hideous shape. Naked I do look like a child’s drawing of a big circle body, little circle head and sticks for arms and legs. My bum looks like that of a 12 year old boy so I wear long tops to cover it. I am a 36C chest but I wear bras with padding to enhance and lift and draw focus away from my stomach. It isn’t media or society that have made me feel like this. It is myself and how I feel about me.

Fucking truth … I’m with you there. My body imagine is 100% my own doing. Some days I feel ok … then I see my body from an unflattering angle and it’s a spiral of sadness for days. Like getting a haircut on Friday … oh man… I look like a potato turd.. like 100%

I feel you all on the body image thing. I think EVERYBODY feels it on some level. I do at least.

Parts of me I like. I like my face, my style is cool. But I've put on weight the last couple years with work, school, and health shit. Every now and then I see pictures of myself and I'm like "Yikes." But I look in the mirror and I see a cool, decent looking guy.

I think it's part of aging. I'm a 40 something Italian guy with some chonk and I look it. I've made peace with it to an extent. I may never be thin and ripped enough to star as Captain America but hopefully I can at least fit into my old leather jacket again.

Also, you're both delicious. So there.

 

[ashesatwork]

I never understand when someone says I have great tits..

Well I do.. its because they see them in a great bra...

Because these big girls go wherever the fuck they wanna go when they ain't in a bra.
Shit ....laying down you best plan on picking up each 8 pounder and pulling them up to your lips.

Big boobs are not sexy.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

But I also still think a lot of why we are so insecure about those things are because of what we grew up with. Women grew up with beauty magazines telling us what was beautiful. Men grew up with porn mags that told them bigger was better.
I swore that because of my own insecurities and how hard I could be on myself without help of anyone else. I would raise my daughter better. I would spend every day telling her how beautiful she is. I would make sure she knew she was loved and valued no matter what. My daughter is 24 now and has never once said she was fat or ugly. She's never been hard on herself. I didn't have the beauty magazines in my house. I constantly told her that beauty doesn't come in sizes. It comes from within us. Beauty has more to do with your heart and how you treat yourself (and others) and she has one of the kindest souls I've ever met.

While I love reading todays smut books. I hate that every character is no different. They are the "Perfect" men/women. He has the body of a greek god. He has a big dick. He is rich. He is....
Look at Fifty shades of grey. Anna was a virgin and immediately took on Christian Grey's monster cock without pain or anything. What a super star she was.
Bring me a normal man. He doesn't have to be perfect. Bring me realness. Bring on the frumpy woman who is not perfectly skinny and actually screams her first time she has sex. That's the book I'd rather read.

A persons appearance is just wrapping paper. It just opens the door. One wants to be attracted to them physically. Whatever that initial attraction is. It’s what the person is on the inside that keeps that attraction.
I’ve met very beautiful women physically. After getting to know them a little. They were the ugliest people I’ve known. Just as I’ve met beautiful women with wonderful personalities.
As for 50 shades. Pffttt. More like 50 shades of shit. Just a semi “ total crap” kinky romance novel.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I feel you all on the body image thing. I think EVERYBODY feels it on some level. I do at least.

Parts of me I like. I like my face, my style is cool. But I've put on weight the last couple years with work, school, and health shit. Every now and then I see pictures of myself and I'm like "Yikes." But I look in the mirror and I see a cool, decent looking guy.

I think it's part of aging. I'm a 40 something Italian guy with some chonk and I look it. I've made peace with it to an extent. I may never be thin and ripped enough to star as Captain America but hopefully I can at least fit into my old leather jacket again.

Also, you're both delicious. So there.

I love your face . You have gorgeous hair and wear the best t-shirts. There isn’t really that much chunk to you and you are well proportioned

You also have a cock that can reach your asshole. You should lead with that next time

 

[Bry1313]

The best ones are the ones a woman likes on herself. If they are big, small or in between, what makes them sexy is if a woman finds herself sexy sharing them. Sort of like looks in general, if someone finds themselves sexy, they become sexy.

 

[AmberLGreen]

The best ones are the ones a woman likes on herself. If they are big, small or in between, what makes them sexy is if a woman finds herself sexy sharing them. Sort of like looks in general, if someone finds themselves sexy, they become sexy.

I do lay in bed at night on my left side and my right hand cupping my right breast. My thumb strokes over the swell and I really do love that boob at that precise moment

 

[crazychemgirl]

I do lay in bed at night on my left side and my right hand cupping my right breast. My thumb strokes over the swell and I really do love that boob at that precise moment

Ok girls question … do you have a boob preference? Left or right?

 

[Bry1313]

I do lay in bed at night on my left side and my right hand cupping my right breast. My thumb strokes over the swell and I really do love that boob at that precise moment

Ummmm, I’m going to need a moment now…..be back in a few

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I never understand when someone says I have great tits..

Well I do.. its because they see them in a great bra...

Because these big girls go wherever the fuck they wanna go when they ain't in a bra.
Shit ....laying down you best plan on picking up each 8 pounder and pulling them up to your lips.

Big boobs are not sexy.

Not to mention that some/ lotta women with large breasts have some issues. Not that lotta guys hear about that. I’ve heard some women complain about the neck, shoulder, back pain that they have with large breasts.
Years ago I was working next to a few women. They were discussing the way they looked. One mentioned she had a reduction. Hard for a guy to talk to a woman about that subject at work.
I asked if it’s ok if a asked her a question. By all means you can tell me to drop dead. So I asked why she got the reduction. She explained it was because of the issues with neck, back and shoulders. I nodded thanked her for being open. Left it at that. She looks at me like… and? I told her I was curious why is all. Nothing more or less.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

Because these big girls go wherever the fuck they wanna go when they ain't in a bra.
Shit ....laying down you best plan on picking up each 8 pounder and pulling them up to your lipsy.

I totally respect your point of view but I do have to admit that this part sounds incredibly sexy.

I love your face . You have gorgeous hair and wear the best t-shirts. There isn’t really that much chunk to you and you are well proportioned

You also have a cock that can reach your asshole. You should lead with that next time

Awwww thanks, lady. You are so damn awesome. And you are a motherfucking fox.

Also, I'll be right back. I have to do some...testing.