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Need to get this off of my chest…

I would say you are on the General Board and getting something off your chest equates to "general" at this point.
So, what is the issue, is it the affair, being a mother of two, or still married????
 
I guess it depends on the details. If wips and leather were involved, or it was between you and a whole cheerleading team, probably there are subforums that might be more suitable.
 
Is the issue that you liked it and want to continue or find another person to cheat with?
 
AliTrishFL said:
Before doing so, I want to make sure this is the appropriate forum for it. I am a married mom of two who recently had an affair
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As 2022 turns to '23 this is nothing scandalous.You need to stay focused on your needs
There could be a million reasons or more for what you you did and why you did that.
If old school morality is hurting you from inside,it is good to discuss it with a stranger, counselor or friends in that order.
It may help you get it off your chest better.
 
Is the reason you like it because its forbidden? Is there no love or no chemistry with youre husband? Does youre husband have a tiny wang? That last one was a joke BTW.
 
The forbidden piece is definitely a part of it, him being black adds to it as well.

And yes, the passion, intimacy, chemistry is non existent and has been that way for years now
 
AliTrishFL said:
Before doing so, I want to make sure this is the appropriate forum for it. I am a married mom of two who recently had an affair
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As someone who has been there, I would highly encourage you to stop the affair and consider your way forward.

If you want out of your marriage, leave your marriage. There is no need to stay in an unhappy relationship. Kids are better off with happy parents. If you don’t want your marriage to end, definitely stop the affair and talk to your husband. Get your needs met. Put the energy you’re willing to put into the affair into your marriage. If you want an open marriage, talk about that (but be prepared for fall out).

Divorce is painful and often messy, no matter how much you want it. I’m really glad to be divorced and my current relationship is soooo much healthier and supportive and fun than what I had known before. If I could go back in time, though, and end my marriage without cheating, I 100% would do that. He didn’t deserve that. I don’t know you or your husband, but just be prepared for the pain that will be caused (for him and for you, and possibly your kids) when this is discovered.
 
AliTrishFL said:
Before doing so, I want to make sure this is the appropriate forum for it. I am a married mom of two who recently had an affair
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If you want out of the marriage, do it rather sooner than later. If there is any chance to do it without your husband and kids knowing about the affair even better. You husband is going to get hurt no matter how you spin it, assuming that you still care about him, why make it more painful than it needs to be? If you continue, he will eventually find out, don't wait for that.

If for whatever reason you can't leave now, then stop the affair. It is not about morality of the society at large, it is about YOU. If it bothers you now, that feeling of unease is not going to disappear.

But whatever you do, for the love of god, never ever talk about any of this with your real life friends! Not until the marriage is over and preferably not after either.
 
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