I know you too well to share my kinks.

[Endless_Night]

By far the most awesome title: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show...iend-s-mom-is-a-sasquatch-she-s-hot-and-i-m-t.

I’m also surprised there don’t seem to be many stories about The Blob. Seems like a natural monster for physical pleasures. Plus naked and slimy is hot.

Well, it's certainly one of the longest titles.

Huh. Blob erotica would never have crossed my mind. Maybe you should try your hand at writing?


It was a loooooong day. So, naturally, I parked my derrière on the couch and perused the list. Naturally.

-Cleverest title: Djinn and Tonic.

Turns out there are two more. Dun Djinn and Djinn Rummy. (She also does a male Medusa series.)

-Series: There appears to be a whole Yielding To series. Like ten titles!

Including, Yielding to the Giant Slug. Yep. You read that right.

-There's a title listed, Eaten, by Neil Gaiman! No description and a little poking around seems to indicate it was in a short story anthology. Which, for some reason, the US version did not include. (I am now wildly curious….)

-Weird or amusing or just plain disturbing titles: Gator Got Her, Laved by Lycanthropes, and The Ocean Leech. (That last one has no description. Thank the Universe. )


Yeah, I know. But I'm too tired to do anything but surf.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Those are good titles. I saw the Gator Got Her and read that at least it is an alligator man and not just an alligator.

I feel like there is a moderator flipping through the pages of Lit rules trying to figure out if we’re crossing the line with these beasties.

I think I did “write” that blob story with my hand once. If you know what I mean.

 

[Endless_Night]

< I think I did “write” that blob story with my hand once. If you know what I mean.

I absolutely, 100%, do not know what you mean.

Nope.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Have you ever been surprised to see a Lister in a thread/forum that you never expected to see them in?
If so, did you mention it to them, or play it cool?
Have you ever learned something about a Lister that surprised you from one of their posts or stories?
Details please, but no names to protect the innocent unless it’s me. You can name me.

 

[Endless_Night]

-I don't always wander that far afield, but the only incident I remember is being surprised at seeing a member who never posted in AM pics, make a one-off post in an AM pic thread*.

(*zero idea what I was doing in pics. )

Turn out they were secretly having a *thing* with the thread owner - which I didn't find out until much later. (Should've guessed. )

-I didn't mention it to them.

-I'm rarely surprised by what strangers post, yet am frequently surprised by what people I Lit-know post.

 

[Endless_Night]

-Oh! I do remember a long-gone Litster from another board wandering into Endless Curiosity and expressing great surprise at my participation in the questions.

(They actually used the word "surprised".)

Their manner seemed to express...disapproval? Consternation? Which rather took me aback. I squirmed like a guilty schoolgirl.

-No. I never asked why they were surprised. I probably should have, though. It was strange.

 

[Azuldrgon]

Have you ever been surprised to see a Lister in a thread/forum that you never expected to see them in?

Yes only because they had a squeaky clean image.

If so, did you mention it to them, or play it cool?

Played it cool. To each their own.

Have you ever learned something about a Lister that surprised you from one of their posts or stories?

I did. It was interesting conversations after.

Details please, but no names to protect the innocent unless it’s me. You can name me.

I'm going to honor her by not revealing anything.

 

[hotwords229_A]

https://64.media.tumblr.com/d6904e148a9adc1158eb62a21a6bf4e6/1f40113480f6f13b-d7/s1280x1920/c619b524f3e97e8e9dc36ccae53b3b972a03effe.jpg
How come ghosts all seem to be into chain play?
Are their moans derived from pleasure rather than pain?
Do our kinks follow us into the afterlife?
If a ghost gives you oral in bed next to your spouse is it cheating?
What if your spouse is into it?^^^
Would a ghost made of silk sheets come off as pretentious?
Do ghosts maintain their sex in the afterlife or does a soul transcend wieners and hoo-ha’s?
Do you have any sexy ghost kinks? Share, please.

 

[Endless_Night]

How come ghosts all seem to be into chain play?

They're like rope bunnies, but, ya know, different.

Are their moans derived from pleasure rather than pain?

Depends. Are we talking scary ghosts are erotic ghosts? (Incubus/Succubus)

Would the plural be incubi or incubuses?

Do our kinks follow us into the afterlife?

That could be all kinds of awkward if afterlife = typical heaven scenario.

If a ghost gives you oral in bed next to your spouse is it cheating?

Is it consensual? Then...yes.

What if your spouse is into it?^^^

Then, no!

Would a ghost made of silk sheets come off as pretentious?

Oooh. Classy.

Do ghosts maintain their sex in the afterlife or does a soul transcend wieners and hoo-ha’s?

Idk. Erotic ghost literature certainly implies that some hang on to their...errr...active nether regions.

Do you have any sexy ghost kinks? Share, please.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I came across this thread about ‘would you rather kiss a guy or suck his dick?’
https://forum.literotica.com/thread...-cock-or-kiss-him-on-the-lips.1238008/page-26
and wondered . . .

I’ve also read that a lot of porn stars don’t kiss because it’s too intimate.

Can (do) you engage in lustful sex that has no intimacy?
How is kissing more intimate than going down on someone?
Isn’t a kiss after oral just good manners?
If the question was posed to females, would the answer be “kiss” by massive numbers? Or are they just as casual about sex, but choosy with intimacy as guys?
What, in your opinion, is different about sucking a dick as opposed to kissing?

 

[Lord Pmann]

I came across this thread about ‘would you rather kiss a guy or suck his dick?’
https://forum.literotica.com/thread...-cock-or-kiss-him-on-the-lips.1238008/page-26
and wondered . . .

I’ve also read that a lot of porn stars don’t kiss because it’s too intimate.

Can (do) you engage in lustful sex that has no intimacy?
How is kissing more intimate than going down on someone?
Isn’t a kiss after oral just good manners?
If the question was posed to females, would the answer be “kiss” by massive numbers? Or are they just as casual about sex, but choosy with intimacy as guys?
What, in your opinion, is different about sucking a dick as opposed to kissing?

I've never understood the whole "kissing is more intimate than sucking a dick" thing. But as a guy, I like that logic.

I have never tried to suck a dick that wasn't my own (damned rib cage), but would think kissing would be easier than sucking a dick. I mean, I thought that's how most blowjobs started.

But I'd say a lot of people would consider cunnilingus more intimate than sucking a dick. Why is that? Is it because a vag is an innie and a dick is an outie? Cosmos questions fo' sho'.

 

[BongoGal]

How is kissing more intimate than going down on someone?

I can see how someone could see it that way. Kissing someone most often involves someone kissing you back. It's an equal relationship. Going down on someone typically is a one-sided affair. To make it clearer, imagine a handjob instead of a BJ. A handjob could be given without even paying much attention. One could hold a phone conversation or play a video game while jacking someone off. Going down on someone requires more focus because it is quite literally in your face, but it still could be impersonal and mechanical as in a glory hole situation. The recipient simply receives it. Kissing means you and your partner are both givers and receivers.

 

[Mnkinkcpl]

I came across this thread about ‘would you rather kiss a guy or suck his dick?’
https://forum.literotica.com/thread...-cock-or-kiss-him-on-the-lips.1238008/page-26
and wondered . . .

I’ve also read that a lot of porn stars don’t kiss because it’s too intimate.

Can (do) you engage in lustful sex that has no intimacy?
How is kissing more intimate than going down on someone?
Isn’t a kiss after oral just good manners?
If the question was posed to females, would the answer be “kiss” by massive numbers? Or are they just as casual about sex, but choosy with intimacy as guys?
What, in your opinion, is different about sucking a dick as opposed to kissing?

A lot of couples in the Swinging world have a no kissing rule as that is something just for them. I can kinda understand it but not a rule that works for us. When we first started swapping as a couple we had a no anal rule as we reserved that for just us. A few years in that went by the wayside as we discovered that we didn't need to have something just for us. Sex between my wife and I is making love, sex with others is fucking no matter what orifice is being penetrated.



I did read the op and can say that if I over share I really don't care, I am who I am kinks and all.

This is my fourth or fifth screen name not because I needed or wanted to change it but because I forget the old one and couldn't log in.

Kinks do evolve over time, just like everything else in life. If today I say "I'm really into sucking toes" in a few weeks, months or years that might change to a new fetish.

Some may stay for life, as long as I can remember I have loved giving bare handed spankings and I expect that to not change.

 

[hotwords229_A]

But I'd say a lot of people would consider cunnilingus more intimate than sucking a dick. Why is that? Is it because a vag is an innie and a dick is an outie? Cosmos questions fo' sho'.

Okay, but if we are discussing, scientifically, innies and outies how does taking a cock in your mouth not seem more intimate than a kiss on the lips (barring French kissing)?
Then we have the issue of Europeans. They kiss everyone they meet on both cheeks, but you never see them slapping both cheeks with their cocks to everyone they “meat”—it’s just too intimate.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I can see how someone could see it that way. Kissing someone most often involves someone kissing you back. It's an equal relationship. Going down on someone typically is a one-sided affair. To make it clearer, imagine a handjob instead of a BJ. A handjob could be given without even paying much attention. One could hold a phone conversation or play a video game while jacking someone off. Going down on someone requires more focus because it is quite literally in your face, but it still could be impersonal and mechanical as in a glory hole situation. The recipient simply receives it. Kissing means you and your partner are both givers and receivers.

I like this explanation, but getting a blowjob does require some involvement from the guy (getting hard, throbbing, blowing his load).

I’m kind of hung up on the idea that putting a dick in your mouth is not as intimate as a kiss on the lips.

 

[BongoGal]

I’m kind of hung up on the idea that putting a dick in your mouth is not as intimate as a kiss on the lips.

A dick in one's mouth is much more intimate than a quick kiss like the one you might give to a stranger at a New Year's Eve party at midnight. And it is way more intimate than a non-intimate Euro kiss greeting or what you might give to an old aunt. Actually making out with someone, however, is on a whole different level than those kisses.

 

[DarkRaven13]

Last night I was res-erecting old threads and I found a few that I was a little embarrassed to dig out of the old Lit basement.

It occurred to me that when you are new to Lit it’s easy to walk in and share all kinds of crazy stuff, but as we get to know each other, it may become awkward to overshare.

This is, in my opinion, one of the issues with relationships. You may want your wife/girlfriend to don a strap-on and go to town on your butthole, but you are afraid to admit it, tell her about it or you are concerned that she might not be into seeing her man taking one for the team.

Does this happen to you on Lit?
Do you find yourself not sharing as much with the people you become closer to so as to not tarnish your awesome, carefully cultivated Lit persona?
Are you a little more bi than you let on?
Are you kind of embarrassed to admit you “maybe” looked at the BDSM threads longer than you want people to know.
Have you considered creating another Lit account so you can post in (or create) threads that you are curious about, but you want to do it “anonymously”?

Tell us, we know each other well enough.

I've just seen this forum thread because it came up in my listing. I've started reading from the beginning, but at some point moved to the ends. I apologize if I might be breaking between an ongoing topic...but I figured I'd also just toss in my answers to the original question first....

Does this happen to you on Lit?
I believe I am actually on the other side of this. I tend to not overshare. Only now, as I've started to make friends and have begun talking to some..that I find myself opening up a little more. Though ... I still try not to overshare. (I wonder if I fail or succeed at that?)

Do you find yourself not sharing as much with the people you become closer to so as to not tarnish your awesome, carefully cultivated Lit persona?
I don't think I have a carefully cultivated Lit persona. However, as I get to know people ... I decide whether I will share more or less. (Less? Not sure how I can share less when I don't necessarily share a lot....

But ... I share more with those I start getting to know and start to trust. And I share less if I see something in the forum threads that make me wary or question someone.


Are you a little more bi than you let on?
Not sure how to answer this one.

Are you kind of embarrassed to admit you “maybe” looked at the BDSM threads longer than you want people to know.
I roam all over the Lit forums. Is it because of curiosity? They are things that interest me? Research for stories I write? Hmmm ....

The only area I do not actively frequent is the Politics forums.


Have you considered creating another Lit account so you can post in (or create) threads that you are curious about, but you want to do it “anonymously”?
No. (I am fairly new, being a Lit member since August.)

 

[Lord Pmann]

I’m kind of hung up on the idea that putting a dick in your mouth is not as intimate as a kiss on the lips.

Are you the kid that reminded the teacher that she forgot to give homework?

Don't ruin a good thing!

 

[hotwords229_A]

I've started reading from the beginning, but at some point moved to the ends. I apologize if I might be breaking between an ongoing topic..

This is totally unacceptable. You may not post here until you’ve read every word of this thread and then commented on how brilliant and insightful my questions are. I don’t make the rules, but they are my kink.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Are you the kid that reminded the teacher that she forgot to give homework?

Don't ruin a good thing!

I think you’re getting confused by assuming you are the one getting your dick sucked. The question is about being the sucker not the suckee.

Or are you saying you’d rather suck a guy’s dick than kiss him on the lips? If so, .

And no, I rarely did my homework even when that kid reminded the teacher to assign it.

Based on what I’m learning about guys would rather suck a dick than kiss another dude, I’m now wondering, if you were about to make out with a guy and then a third guy slipped his dick between both of your lips would that count as not being intimate at all?
Would it even be gay if your lips didn’t touch?

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I came across this thread about ‘would you rather kiss a guy or suck his dick?’
https://forum.literotica.com/thread...-cock-or-kiss-him-on-the-lips.1238008/page-26
and wondered . . .

I’ve also read that a lot of porn stars don’t kiss because it’s too intimate.

Can (do) you engage in lustful sex that has no intimacy?
How is kissing more intimate than going down on someone?
Isn’t a kiss after oral just good manners?
If the question was posed to females, would the answer be “kiss” by massive numbers? Or are they just as casual about sex, but choosy with intimacy as guys?
What, in your opinion, is different about sucking a dick as opposed to kissing?

I could make an argument why either, or neither, are the most intimate.

Kissing is a paired, synchronous activity. You can look into each other’s eyes. You can feel and express a wider range of emotion while kissing. There’s no inherent beginning or ending and it can be initiated for a multitude of reasons.

Oral sex requires you to bare yourself physically. You’re hyper focused on body parts you usually conceal. You are trusting your partner to pleasure you. There’s often some level of societal guilt or shame attached to the act, especially for younger individuals and women.

What you find the most intimate is a reflection of personal preferences - what makes you feel the most connected with someone, the most vulnerable, etc.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I think what is interesting about this is that it seems to be a really good exercise in emotion vs. logic.

I totally agree with the idea that making out with someone is more intimate than blowing someone, on an emotional level, but logically, it makes no sense whatsoever.

It like Schroedinger’s cock . . .

Two straight male actors can make out in a movie/TV show and it doesn’t mean anything, two straight male porn actors can suck each other off (gay for pay) and it doesn’t mean anything, but I bet we all feel like those are not the same thing.

On the other hand, in real life, kissing seems more intimate and sucking cock doesn’t. At least emotionally.

There’s a double standard/contradiction there and I love it!

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I think what is interesting about this is that it seems to be a really good exercise in emotion vs. logic.

I totally agree with the idea that making out with someone is more intimate than blowing someone, on an emotional level, but logically, it makes no sense whatsoever.

It like Schroedinger’s cock . . .

Two straight male actors can make out in a movie/TV show and it doesn’t mean anything, two straight male porn actors can suck each other off (gay for pay) and it doesn’t mean anything, but I bet we all feel like those are not the same thing.

On the other hand, in real life, kissing seems more intimate and sucking cock doesn’t. At least emotionally.

There’s a double standard/contradiction there and I love it!

So it’s heart versus head?

 

[hotwords229_A]

With the exception of the cooler people among us, most of us can look back and wish we had been more experimental with sex.

What is something you wish you had tried or experimented with when it comes to sex?
What’s is stopping you from trying it now?

 

[Beholders_Eye]

With the exception of the cooler people among us, most of us can look back and wish we had been more experimental with sex.

What is something you wish you had tried or experimented with when it comes to sex?
What’s is stopping you from trying it now?

I never had the opportunity (or the awareness that it could be a thing) to cum anywhere in or on a woman except in her vagina. More specifically, never got to cum into her mouth. It was an unknown act to me, or to them until, of course, the internet. [That is assuming the lady would have allowed/enjoyed that act in the first place.] But now I have been treated for prostate cancer and have no semen to offer and that is stopping me from trying it now. To be sure, orgasms still occur; they are so-called dry orgasms. Immense feeling but lacking that quintessential substance to impart.
Sic transit gloria spermi....