Women who like to be taken forcefully

I find I'm so dominant in life.... a real 'ball breaker' I guess you might say. That in this one area, I like to lose total control (in a consenting way of course) and let someone else take charge, and just take what they want, in a forceful manner. It's not for everyone, but it's almost like a holiday for my mind while my body enjoys the pleasure. But even if it gets a bit rough, there's still got to be consent from him and me, because let's face it, it's not for every guy either.
 
from my perspective it is a lot about just knowing he wants me so bad he is losing control and becomes more raw and intense. Rough many times seems to mean potentially painful but for me it means hard passion as he starts closing in to his own orgasm.
I think there is a world of difference between being taken forcefully and being forced. The first can be really exciting for me. The second it likely to get you a kick in the balls.

As you say, there is something about knowing he wants you so bad. Has to have you. Needs to have to have you, and to have you exactly how he wants.
 
I think there is a world of difference between being taken forcefully and being forced. The first can be really exciting for me. The second it likely to get you a kick in the balls.

And it's a crime

It’s quite possible to have fun with consensual non-consent.
It can still be legaly tricky, so best done with a trusted partner. Morally though, I don’t think it is more problematic than other things under the BDSM umbrella.

from my perspective it is a lot about just knowing he wants me so bad he is losing control and becomes more raw and intense

I enjoy force as a show of aggression and passion.

I find I'm so dominant in life.... a real 'ball breaker' I guess you might say. That in this one area, I like to lose total control (in a consenting way of course) and let someone else take charge, and just take what they want, in a forceful manner.

there is something about knowing he wants you so bad.

There have been many interesting posts lately about why this is hot.
I’ve spent a ridiculous amount of time trying to figure out why I like the things I like.
When it comes to the rough sex I can certainly relate to the feeling of being so desired, the hot hint of fear at the thought that he might actually really have lost control this time and the primal joy of animal aggression. While I’ve never identified as a ball buster, I’ve also felt the relief of not being in charge of something.

The only thing people mention often, that I don’t recognize is the feeling of not being responsible. Probably because my inner locus of control is very overdeveloped and manned by a megalomaniac who thinks I’m responsible for everything.
My idea of ladylike is also more in line with Heinlein’s
Darling, a true lady takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best. At other times you can be as modest and dignified as your persona requires.
than with the more puritan religious ideas.

The more I’ve thought about it though, beyond all the reasoning and ideas, I think this proclivity is really just a part of who I am.
 
I find I'm so dominant in life.... a real 'ball breaker' I guess you might say. That in this one area, I like to lose total control (in a consenting way of course) and let someone else take charge, and just take what they want, in a forceful manner. It's not for everyone, but it's almost like a holiday for my mind while my body enjoys the pleasure. But even if it gets a bit rough, there's still got to be consent from him and me, because let's face it, it's not for every guy either.
It's not uncommon for a person who's dominant and controlling in his/her daily life to want to be the one to submit in a BDSM relationship. I think it's a form of release from stress and a way of channeling true sexual needs. I've known a few women who were exactly of that mindset, and it made for some very exciting scenes in the bedroom (and other places). ;)
 
I found a porn lately where a girl who is in total control over her live went to an agency who provide exactly that
She asked to be taken by several man in a bdsm way and that she doesn’t know when it happened
That was very hot!
I guess what turned me on the most was that she didn’t know when it happened and where and she gave them the control
(I know it was staged but my mind loved that thought)
But it wasn’t at all forcefully because she discussed before what her limits where and what she likes etc.
 
I found a porn lately where a girl who is in total control over her live went to an agency who provide exactly that
She asked to be taken by several man in a bdsm way and that she doesn’t know when it happened
That was very hot!
I guess what turned me on the most was that she didn’t know when it happened and where and she gave them the control
(I know it was staged but my mind loved that thought)
But it wasn’t at all forcefully because she discussed before what her limits where and what she likes etc.
I'm sure you'll like this story too: https://www.literotica.com/s/ravaging-fantasy, similar idea. There's a sequel to it of the same author that I don't know yet.
 
I found a porn lately where a girl who is in total control over her live went to an agency who provide exactly that
She asked to be taken by several man in a bdsm way and that she doesn’t know when it happened
That was very hot!
I guess what turned me on the most was that she didn’t know when it happened and where and she gave them the control
(I know it was staged but my mind loved that thought)
But it wasn’t at all forcefully because she discussed before what her limits where and what she likes etc.
That's not an unusual fantasy for some women, especially women who are in positions of control or power, such as an executive at a company/organization or owner of their own business. Despite being in control in real life, they secretly want to be dominated by one or more men, which can translate into BDSM scenarios. I'd assume you could find many stories on Lit and elsewhere online that center around this desire. ;)
 
Then there are people who are in control in their life as a defense mechanism: they fear being dominated. For them this is the worst thing. It's important to realize that we can't tell from the outside without communication. That said, the communication is scary because there could be a strong negative reaction at even the idea.
 
That's not an unusual fantasy for some women, especially women who are in positions of control or power, such as an executive at a company/organization or owner of their own business. Despite being in control in real life, they secretly want to be dominated by one or more men, which can translate into BDSM scenarios. I'd assume you could find many stories on Lit and elsewhere online that center around this desire. ;)
Yes I found many of them on lit 😊
That is what brought me to lit in the first place
All the amazing stories who had wonderful and very arousing new fantasies for me
So I could habe my fun with them
Especially the bdsm ones ☺️
It was much later I discovered lit has a forum too
So I had to join it 🙈
 
Then there are people who are in control in their life as a defense mechanism: they fear being dominated. For them this is the worst thing. It's important to realize that we can't tell from the outside without communication. That said, the communication is scary because there could be a strong negative reaction at even the idea.
Absolutely!
Communication is every thing!
If you don’t talk about what you like or don’t like it is not fun for both
 
I find I'm so dominant in life.... a real 'ball breaker' I guess you might say. That in this one area, I like to lose total control (in a consenting way of course) and let someone else take charge, and just take what they want, in a forceful manner. It's not for everyone, but it's almost like a holiday for my mind while my body enjoys the pleasure. But even if it gets a bit rough, there's still got to be consent from him and me, because let's face it, it's not for every guy either.
You are correct, not everyone is into it, I can be into it if that's what really gets her going but normally i'm the more slow, loving, teasing kind of person.
 
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