I know you too well to share my kinks.

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Does this happen to you on Lit?

no. but I am vanilla.

Do you find yourself not sharing as much with the people you become closer to so as to not tarnish your awesome, carefully cultivated Lit persona?

no, my reputation is a lovely shade of tarnish. whatever.

Are you a little more bi than you let on?

I don't think so. I think predominantly straight is a fair classification. Sometimes I have a chick craving, in both real life and lit, and indulge it, but I heavily lean to men. My women experience, is light, playful, wine heavy, dancing, cartwheels, nail polish, hot tub, cuddly, giggly, sweet, highly immature, like teenage slumber party, all in good fun with a friend or two. My last irl chick fling was like 5 years ago with a close friend. Lit, I've played around with a chick like twice in my time here. Men who I am highly attracted to is highly driven, I feel hot, my heart pounds and races, a rush, a desire to taste them, to touch them roughly, it is almost predatory, not sweet, and hard to resist. Every once in a while I meet a lesbian, non binary, androgynous woman who confuses me, as I am attracted to them like I am a man. Not bi enough to be bi, but not straight enough to be completely straight. Maybe Experimental is better than predominantly straight. idk

Are you kind of embarrassed to admit you “maybe” looked at the BDSM threads longer than you want people to know.

no. I browse from time to time to see if there is something I am unaware of and needs further investigation. I don't comment as it causes some to assume I want orders from sir. I get why, but I do not seek discipline, I seek unique physical sensations, and strange men randomly attempting to discipline me makes me irrationally stabby.

Have you considered creating another Lit account so you can post in (or create) threads that you are curious about, but you want to do it “anonymously”?

not exactly. I do have a desire to experience lit as a man or gender anonymous user, which I can't do as my account. If I was stripped of the advantages femininity brings, could I still find enough interaction/connection to make it enjoyable?

For those of you who have changed your username, can you tell us why you did it?

I've considered changing mostly so dudes stop calling me mommy and wanting to be my dirty little boy. Come on, desperate housewife syndrome and I seek a space where family doesn't define me, I do not have a fetish of kids defining me. Random strange men approaching me this way makes me feel unheard.

I’ve often wondered if relationships would work better if we told each other our weirdest kinks on the first date just to get it all out of the way and if no one is bothered by any of it then we get to know each other.

I don't think that is quite right as it requires already knowing your weirdest kink and never evolving. my thoughts, short version, 1) Stop expecting your partner to stay exactly the same as when you got together
2)Ask for what you want if you really want it. Men, I often hear it would disturb her, disgust her, no way. Do not underestimate a women's tolerance for compromise, pragmatism, bargaining, and threshold for disgusting. We made it through motherhood, decades of blood, giving birth, catching vomit in out hands to avoid scrubbing carpet, diapers, moldy plates under the bed. Spit it out, ask her how often she is willing, and what she wants in return. Even my lit pet peeves above are role plays I may do occasionally, with a clear arrangement. Honestly, I can't even think of something not felonious my husband could ask for that I would not consider occasionally for the right bargaining chip. Hell, if he sent me away for the weekend to a hotel and deep cleaned the house, I would do whatever the fuck he wanted the following weekend.
3)Shut up and listen when your partner asks and say yes at least 50% of the time. run the "who does it matter to more" filter. And don't tell them what they want or how they want it instead. Special note to women, some men are dense, so if you are always getting nowhere and feel they will even try, try again using nothing more subtle than a baseball bat to the head when explaining what you want, (figuratively) have them repeat it back. and have them clarify the importance. Many men, including my husband, don't hear me. I swear I am direct, clear, concise, but in one ear, out the other. I watch other women have this issue too. It is very important to us, and he hears us talking about like new hand towels.

 

[Mei5ter]

no. but I am vanilla.

no, my reputation is a lovely shade of tarnish. whatever.

I don't think so. I think predominantly straight is a fair classification. Sometimes I have a chick craving, in both real life and lit, and indulge it, but I heavily lean to men. My women experience, is light, playful, wine heavy, dancing, cartwheels, nail polish, hot tub, cuddly, giggly, sweet, highly immature, like teenage slumber party, all in good fun with a friend or two. My last irl chick fling was like 5 years ago with a close friend. Lit, I've played around with a chick like twice in my time here. Men who I am highly attracted to is highly driven, I feel hot, my heart pounds and races, a rush, a desire to taste them, to touch them roughly, it is almost predatory, not sweet, and hard to resist. Every once in a while I meet a lesbian, non binary, androgynous woman who confuses me, as I am attracted to them like I am a man. Not bi enough to be bi, but not straight enough to be completely straight. Maybe Experimental is better than predominantly straight. idk

no. I browse from time to time to see if there is something I am unaware of and needs further investigation. I don't comment as it causes some to assume I want orders from sir. I get why, but I do not seek discipline, I seek unique physical sensations, and strange men randomly attempting to discipline me makes me irrationally stabby.

not exactly. I do have a desire to experience lit as a man or gender anonymous user, which I can't do as my account. If I was stripped of the advantages femininity brings, could I still find enough interaction/connection to make it enjoyable?

I've considered changing mostly so dudes stop calling me mommy and wanting to be my dirty little boy. Come on, desperate housewife syndrome and I seek a space where family doesn't define me, I do not have a fetish of kids defining me. Random strange men approaching me this way makes me feel unheard.

I don't think that is quite right as it requires already knowing your weirdest kink and never evolving. my thoughts, short version, 1) Stop expecting your partner to stay exactly the same as when you got together
2)Ask for what you want if you really want it. Men, I often hear it would disturb her, disgust her, no way. Do not underestimate a women's tolerance for compromise, pragmatism, bargaining, and threshold for disgusting. We made it through motherhood, decades of blood, giving birth, catching vomit in out hands to avoid scrubbing carpet, diapers, moldy plates under the bed. Spit it out, ask her how often she is willing, and what she wants in return. Even my lit pet peeves above are role plays I may do occasionally, with a clear arrangement. Honestly, I can't even think of something not felonious my husband could ask for that I would not consider occasionally for the right bargaining chip. Hell, if he sent me away for the weekend to a hotel and deep cleaned the house, I would do whatever the fuck he wanted the following weekend.
3)Shut up and listen when your partner asks and say yes at least 50% of the time. run the "who does it matter to more" filter. And don't tell them what they want or how they want it instead. Special note to women, some men are dense, so if you are always getting nowhere and feel they will even try, try again using nothing more subtle than a baseball bat to the head when explaining what you want, (figuratively) have them repeat it back. and have them clarify the importance. Many men, including my husband, don't hear me. I swear I am direct, clear, concise, but in one ear, out the other. I watch other women have this issue too. It is very important to us, and he hears us talking about like new hand towels.

Well this is bizarre. I was in Bed, Bath and Beyond with your husband just the other day, and he was complaining that you never ever manage to have a full set of matching towels in the bathroom, and you're a nightmare for leaving soaking wet ones on the floor as if your home is a hotel and he's the maid. You guys need to work on this stuff. Sheesh.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Well this is bizarre. I was in Bed, Bath and Beyond with your husband just the other day, and he was complaining that you never ever manage to have a full set of matching towels in the bathroom, and you're a nightmare for leaving soaking wet ones on the floor as if your home is a hotel and he's the maid. You guys need to work on this stuff. Sheesh.

haha.
my husband is not setting foot in bed bath and beyond lol. Though seriously, he is hearing me as of late, but man, I feel like I am ranting like a demanding crazy lady to get him to hear the smallest thing. it is working though. I have been having issues with my bosses, my kid, and now swinging the bat around where I think I sound wildly insubordinate is getting me rewarded and actually heard and taken seriously. But I swear, I've been saying the same things over and over and over and over, once a week for four months in email and verbally. ugh driving me nuts. at this point it has to be is a me issue, but it is like I have to be really angry and trying to keep calm to not be talking about pomegranate or scarlet hand towels.

 

[Mei5ter]

haha.
my husband is not setting foot in bed bath and beyond lol. Though seriously, he is hearing me as of late, but man, I feel like I am ranting like a demanding crazy lady to get him to hear the smallest thing. it is working though. I have been having issues with my bosses, my kid, and now swinging the bat around where I think I sound wildly insubordinate is getting me rewarded and actually heard and taken seriously. But I swear, I've been saying the same things over and over and over and over, once a week for four months in email and verbally. ugh driving me nuts. at this point it has to be is a me issue, but it is like I have to be really angry and trying to keep calm to not be talking about pomegranate or scarlet hand towels.

Tell him it's called Boobs, Butt and Beyond. See if that makes a difference?

And I'm sorry you're dealing with so many people whose ears are decorative rather than functional.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Tell him it's called Boobs, Butt and Beyond. See if that makes a difference?

And I'm sorry you're dealing with so many people whose ears are decorative rather than functional.

shit if he gave a fuck about boobs or butts, I'd be less cranky. hardware, autoparts, or beer is about all that will work.

 

[Mei5ter]

shit if he gave a fuck about boobs or butts, I'd be less cranky. hardware, autoparts, or beer is about all that will work.

Justa, there's nothing else for it. You'll have to try role play. Maybe all it will take for ample lubrication and a tight screw is you dressing up as an adjustable wench.

Sorry. Missed a consonant there.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Justa, there's nothing else for it. You'll have to try role play. Maybe all it will take for ample lubrication and a tight screw is you dressing up as an adjustable wench.

Sorry. Missed a consonant there.

Haha Well at least my wench roleplay is decent, now wrench, yeah that is a tough role to get into

 

[hotwords229_A]

I don't think that is quite right as it requires already knowing your weirdest kink and never evolving. my thoughts, short version, 1) Stop expecting your partner to stay exactly the same as when you got together
2)Ask for what you want if you really want it. Men, I often hear it would disturb her, disgust her, no way. Do not underestimate a women's tolerance for compromise, pragmatism, bargaining, and threshold for disgusting. We made it through motherhood, decades of blood, giving birth, catching vomit in out hands to avoid scrubbing carpet, diapers, moldy plates under the bed. Spit it out, ask her how often she is willing, and what she wants in return. Even my lit pet peeves above are role plays I may do occasionally, with a clear arrangement. Honestly, I can't even think of something not felonious my husband could ask for that I would not consider occasionally for the right bargaining chip. Hell, if he sent me away for the weekend to a hotel and deep cleaned the house, I would do whatever the fuck he wanted the following weekend.
3)Shut up and listen when your partner asks and say yes at least 50% of the time. run the "who does it matter to more" filter. And don't tell them what they want or how they want it instead. Special note to women, some men are dense, so if you are always getting nowhere and feel they will even try, try again using nothing more subtle than a baseball bat to the head when explaining what you want, (figuratively) have them repeat it back. and have them clarify the importance. Many men, including my husband, don't hear me. I swear I am direct, clear, concise, but in one ear, out the other. I watch other women have this issue too. It is very important to us, and he hears us talking about like new hand towels.

I agree with this. Men and women don’t communicate well. There are very few couples I know of (if any) that are really good at getting their points across without a whole song and dance.
In defense of men, I can say that women are rarely as clear as they think they’re being. I’ve been in the situation of being told that ”I told you like fifty times” and I feel like it’s the first time I’ve ever heard these words. BUT, I’ve also observed, in the wild, where a woman was being clear (in her mind) but the other guy was clueless. He walks away and she thinks her point was made and I know that he has no idea what just happened.
I’ve (mistakenly) given advice like “Just tell him A, B, C” and then I saw her tell him “a§, ¥=x, 4” and she thinks she said my exact words.
Weird!

 

[hotwords229_A]

I like CFNM (clothed female naked male) scenarios.
However, out of all of it that I’ve seen I would say I like about 3-5% of it.
That’s not a lot, but when it’s good I really like it. I like women looking at men (me) the way we (I) look at women. It’s sexy.
Unfortunately, most of CFNM is humiliation based, subservient, perverted guy exposing himself in public when it’s uncalled for or just plain derogatory—and I don’t like any of that.
So I am hesitant to say I like CFNM because that statement comes with a massive disclaimer.

I also like horror movies, but I usually don’t bother telling people that because they assume I like all the crap that’s made now and I despise all that garbage.

Luckily for me CFNM isn’t really something you can plan or ask for (at least not my version of it) so it’s just a jackoff fantasy, but—

How do you filter your kinks?
I’m sure most of us don’t like 100% of any particular thing, but what if you only like a small percentage of a kink? How do you communicate that and expect to get good results?

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Though seriously, he is hearing me as of late, but man, I feel like I am ranting like a demanding crazy lady to get him to hear the smallest thing. it is working though. I have been having issues with my bosses, my kid, and now swinging the bat around where I think I sound wildly insubordinate is getting me rewarded and actually heard and taken seriously. But I swear, I've been saying the same things over and over and over and over, once a week for four months in email and verbally. ugh driving me nuts. at this point it has to be is a me issue, but it is like I have to be really angry and trying to keep calm to not be talking about pomegranate or scarlet hand towels.

I relate to this. I’m known for my communication skills and lately it’s been falling on deaf ears with my boss who I have a great relationship with and respect a lot. To the point that when he says it would be helpful to have the data, I send him the analysis we already went over and he agreed to. In writing. I’ve finally gotten to the point that I’ve realized through observation, as calm and logical as he is and respects in me, what really changes his mind and is memorable is insistent arguing. I’ve tried it and it’s been successful, but I hate every minute of it

 

[hotwords229_A]

Obvious question, if you can bear it? Is it actually the CFNM itself you like? Or is it an objectification kink, where you like the idea of women appraising you while you're naked in front of them, and their being dressed while you aren't is an incidental part of the scene appropriate to the wider dynamic?

I think it’s just the objectification. I don’t know about the word appraising as much as enjoying.
Fun with nudity, but with the script flipped for a change.

 

[Trekka]

I like CFNM (clothed female naked male) scenarios.
However, out of all of it that I’ve seen I would say I like about 3-5% of it.
That’s not a lot, but when it’s good I really like it. I like women looking at men (me) the way we (I) look at women. It’s sexy.
Unfortunately, most of CFNM is humiliation based, subservient, perverted guy exposing himself in public when it’s uncalled for or just plain derogatory—and I don’t like any of that.
So I am hesitant to say I like CFNM because that statement comes with a massive disclaimer.

I also like horror movies, but I usually don’t bother telling people that because they assume I like all the crap that’s made now and I despise all that garbage.

Luckily for me CFNM isn’t really something you can plan or ask for (at least not my version of it) so it’s just a jackoff fantasy, but—

How do you filter your kinks?
I’m sure most of us don’t like 100% of any particular thing, but what if you only like a small percentage of a kink? How do you communicate that and expect to get good results?

You try looking at CFNM Porn that is made by women, for women? (That’s the main way i filter stuff o/l now! I miss smutty old Tumblr.)

It’s a cool af growing niche in the porn world that is less hard core in general,
and I think some of them maybe have the fun or sensual feel to them versus the humiliation piece…. ?

It’s a fun fantasy… in both directions… it
can be humiliating but also my mind didn’t immediately go there. You’re over thinking this!

Like i dig a leash. Maybe some ears and a tail. A cage sounds sexy but in reality it takes up too much room, it’s bad for my back, and how do we explain it to the kids?!

So I’ll dress the part and crawl around on a leash. Maybe drink from a dish if we are home alone. —> there I said it.

Like, I just say it. And he’ll be like “Can we…_____?” And im like “get out of here with that anal hook for the umpteenth time!”

So we talk it all out.
It’s fun to talk out!

 

[hotwords229_A]

You try looking at CFNM Porn that is made by women, for women? (That’s the main way i filter stuff o/l now! I miss smutty old Tumblr.)

It’s a cool af growing niche in the porn world that is less hard core in general,
and I think some of them maybe have the fun or sensual feel to them versus the humiliation piece…. ?

It’s a fun fantasy… in both directions… it
can be humiliating but also my mind didn’t immediately go there. You’re over thinking this!

I’ve searched for that very thing (for women, by women). If you have a link . . .

I like the embarrassed part, but they always seem to go too far. I should have been a porn writer/director!

I was just using the CFNM as my own example what is everyone’s batting average at finding the stuff you like as opposed to sifting through all the crappy stuff?
Am I in the minority or majority?

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Only around 10% of what I find works for me, so there’s lots of sifting. One of the main issues for me is that the situations portrayed are almost always too extreme for my tastes. The other main problem for me is how the women are usually portrayed.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I like CFNM (clothed female naked male) scenarios.
However, out of all of it that I’ve seen I would say I like about 3-5% of it.
That’s not a lot, but when it’s good I really like it. I like women looking at men (me) the way we (I) look at women. It’s sexy.
Unfortunately, most of CFNM is humiliation based, subservient, perverted guy exposing himself in public when it’s uncalled for or just plain derogatory—and I don’t like any of that.
So I am hesitant to say I like CFNM because that statement comes with a massive disclaimer.

I also like horror movies, but I usually don’t bother telling people that because they assume I like all the crap that’s made now and I despise all that garbage.

Luckily for me CFNM isn’t really something you can plan or ask for (at least not my version of it) so it’s just a jackoff fantasy, but—

How do you filter your kinks?
I’m sure most of us don’t like 100% of any particular thing, but what if you only like a small percentage of a kink? How do you communicate that and expect to get good results?

I‘m with @Trekka on just throwing it out there and talking it through. I’ve stumbled upon some really fun kinks that way including things my partner was super into, but hadn’t quite brought up yet. Something about being that authentic and a bit vulnerable is a turn on in itself for me, so articulating the specifics of what aspects I’m into, not into at all, or neutral about is enjoyable for me.

Similar to @Love_Is_Blonde I think where I occasionally struggle is conveying that just because I enjoy something, doesn’t mean I want it every time. I have different moods and like variety. Like I love both gelato and chocolate, but don’t want the same brands of each every night nor only/always at the same time. So why should sex be any different? If it’s something my partner enjoys so much it borders on fetish versus kink though, I hesitate to bring it up because I don’t want to stifle their enjoyment or excitement.

I think it’s just the objectification. I don’t know about the word appraising as much as enjoying.
Fun with nudity, but with the script flipped for a change.

This reminds me of one of my favorite lines of poetry/lyrics.

“You came to me this morning
And you handled me like meat.
You’d have to be a man to know
How good that feels, how sweet.”

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Last night I was res-erecting old threads and I found a few that I was a little embarrassed to dig out of the old Lit basement.
<snip>
Does this happen to you on Lit?
Do you find yourself not sharing as much with the people you become closer to so as to not tarnish your awesome, carefully cultivated Lit persona?
Are you a little more bi than you let on?
Are you kind of embarrassed to admit you “maybe” looked at the BDSM threads longer than you want people to know.
Have you considered creating another Lit account so you can post in (or create) threads that you are curious about, but you want to do it “anonymously”?

Tell us, we know each other well enough.

God, looking at old threads and posts really gets me in my humiliation kink.

I don't craft a Lit persona. I am very careful with parts of myself here. Very few of them are my kinks. If we met in Lit, we probably aren't close friends unless you know some dark shit my brain likes. There have been moments where I've been nervous to share what I like because I worry what people will think of me (aka SRP content) and then I remember that - with utmost respect - if I wouldn't fuck you, I probably don't care much about your opinion of me.

I'm comfortable with my sexuality and my kink levels. And not just on Lit but off Lit as well. My main reason for keeping anything close to the chest is to keep it special.

 

[hotwords229_A]

. . . My main reason for keeping anything close to the chest is to keep it special.

This is another area where I find kinks interesting.
Although I’m taking your point out of context, it makes me think of the difference between a kink we have that we want to explore and one that only seems to interest us as a fantasy.

Some of my kinks are (I think) fantasy only. Masturbating to the fantasy is fantastic, but the reality of actually pursuing the kink may not be for me.

Do you have kinks that are fun to fantasize about but you have no interest in pursuing?
Care to share?
Or are your kinks a solid bucket list that you must try at least once?

 

[AveryElle]

This is another area where I find kinks interesting.
Although I’m taking your point out of context, it makes me think of the difference between a kink we have that we want to explore and one that only seems to interest us as a fantasy.

Some of my kinks are (I think) fantasy only. Masturbating to the fantasy is fantastic, but the reality of actually pursuing the kink may not be for me.

Do you have kinks that are fun to fantasize about but you have no interest in pursuing?
Care to share?
Or are your kinks a solid bucket list that you must try at least once?

I have some where the logistics are such that they’re not accessible (public play, for example). I also think the idea of two men at once is WAY better than it would actually be, so I don’t have any real interest in pursuing it at this point. Maybe when I was younger!
I don’t have a bucket list of things I must try at least once because it seems like it would setting myself up for disappointment somehow it I didn’t ever get those things.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

How do you filter your kinks?
I’m sure most of us don’t like 100% of any particular thing, but what if you only like a small percentage of a kink? How do you communicate that and expect to get good results?

Good question, I thought about it, and came the conclusion I often don't try to explain. I just skip around like a mystery, wrapped in an enigma, wrapped in a big ole ball of whacked. Do most women successful explain themselves to men so they get her? The thing is, they don't need to get me, just indulge my whims sometimes, just say yes.

This is another area where I find kinks interesting.
Although I’m taking your point out of context, it makes me think of the difference between a kink we have that we want to explore and one that only seems to interest us as a fantasy.

Some of my kinks are (I think) fantasy only. Masturbating to the fantasy is fantastic, but the reality of actually pursuing the kink may not be for me.

Do you have kinks that are fun to fantasize about but you have no interest in pursuing?
Care to share?
Or are your kinks a solid bucket list that you must try at least once?

If I am fantasizing, I will have interest in perusing, and it will be put on the todo list. If it seems fun, why not have fun. If I am concerned my fantasy version is very far from accurate, I will then question if I have accurately assessed my inaccuracy. Then wonder if I can adjust the situation in a way as to match the fantasy, identifying where fantasy and reality diverged, and why, and what I can do to adjust. My bucket list compilation far exceeds my kinks. It is a list of curiosities. Things to try, for um science (always say yes to science.) Many I am rather certain I will not like, but will try anyway. Am I accurate? About my level of my dislike? What could change that? My kinks have always been, so I knocked off just about everything I could possibly dream up to experience in relation long ago. Isn't that what teens and 20s is for? It gets difficult to continue to find new as I get older. I guess, in a way my list is still a list formulated around my kinks, if there is such a thing as a kink about the excitement of the feel of trying something new.

 

[Endless_Night]

https://64.media.tumblr.com/e3cbfa78685a74c788e931d42ee3197c/dadddbd4f0c1cce2-f0/s640x960/37d8c51078a292ec1df8bdcd5ff7d6b2da1ffe15.jpg
Look at those flux capacitors!

Have you ever been body painted?
If you have, details please.
What would you like to be painted if you could?
Is it just for art’s sake or is there a sexual component to it?
Is it a form of exhibitionism?
Would you walk around naked in public if you were painted?
How do you wash that off?

I have ALWAYS wanted to do this. Not for art's sake, though the visual component is fancy plus. Not necessarily for a sexual component either, more…sensual? Rather like when you get a therapist with great touch who gives a smooth Swedish style massage.

Nope. I absolutely would not walk around naked in public. There is not an exhibitionist based bone in my body.


Note: Couldn't think of an antonym for exhibitionist, so headed to the search engines. Shrinking Violet popped up.

Note Note: I'm not that either.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

https://64.media.tumblr.com/e3cbfa78685a74c788e931d42ee3197c/dadddbd4f0c1cce2-f0/s640x960/37d8c51078a292ec1df8bdcd5ff7d6b2da1ffe15.jpg
Look at those flux capacitors!

Have you ever been body painted?
If you have, details please.
What would you like to be painted if you could?
Is it just for art’s sake or is there a sexual component to it?
Is it a form of exhibitionism?
Would you walk around naked in public if you were painted?
How do you wash that off?

Oh, I love the concept of body paint, there is some beautiful works out there. As for my experiences, does vanilla pudding mixed with food coloring to make edible body paints count? I have never been painted for the sake of art as I don't really know anyone with that level of artistic talent. I can, however, put a sexual spin on about anything I stumble across that catches my eye, thus became my need of edible body paints, as such pudding seemed the best medium. Is body paint Exhibitionism, if artistic, yes there is a component. In my world, nope, just something new or different to do. I would walk around naked. and I do not have enough information on the type of paint to answer how I'd remove it. It varies greatly.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I’ve searched for that very thing (for women, by women). If you have a link . . .

I like the embarrassed part, but they always seem to go too far. I should have been a porn writer/director!

I was just using the CFNM as my own example what is everyone’s batting average at finding the stuff you like as opposed to sifting through all the crappy stuff?
Am I in the minority or majority?

I’ve searched around for the CFNM stuff. The idea is appealing, but like you said, the humiliation part is not for me. And I’ve searched the ends of the web for decent videos. Unfortunately, all I end up with is some unfortunate Dancing Bear stripper movies.

I’m not very kinky compared to you sick bastards. But finding stuff I like that leans towards my kinks is like finding a needle in a haystack.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I’ve searched around for the CFNM stuff. The idea is appealing, but like you said, the humiliation part is not for me. And I’ve searched the ends of the web for decent videos. Unfortunately, all I end up with is some unfortunate Dancing Bear stripper movies.

I’m not very kinky compared to you sick bastards. But finding stuff I like that leans towards my kinks is like finding a needle in a haystack.

It’s a kink that never reaches it’s full potential.
We need more women porn directors maybe?

 

[Lord Pmann]

It’s a kink that never reaches it’s full potential.
We need more women porn directors maybe?

Or me. I could direct the porn shoots. I would be incredible.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I feel the same (about me). I actually had a guy who asked me if I wanted to make porn years ago and he said he could finance it. I have to admit it was tempting, but he was a little . . . connected . . . and I didn’t want to end up in the NJ Pine Barrens wearing my skeleton on the outside, so I politely declined.

I would probably be a Zillionaire by now and the world of porn would be classy as fuck!
Oh well.