Just how kinky are you?

1. Tag-teamed pain-Domming a girl at a BDSM club, which means everyone else could see it if they pleased. The other person used a flogger, I had a riding crop. No more details than that for the sake of anonymity.

2. I own a mattress cover for spills, piss, whatever, which only comes out for pee play. Partook of kitten-play and ended with a hell of a lot of piss on the bed. Handler got me off the bed, picked up the cover and moved it, and gave me spankings for that.

3. Consensual Nonconsent (CNC) role play with my fiancé. He wants to be choked but haven't tried that yet.

This is the real life stuff. It doesn't get more (subjectively) kinky than that. My mind is a bit more fucked up and creative
Mmm nothing wrong w being more fucking and creative. Seems u and ur fiancé got the real deal
 
Kinky enough for some. Not kinky enough for others. My interests have expanded in the last couple of years. Looking forward to new experiences soon.
 
I've long said, "one persons perversions (kinks), are another persons pleasures". I too once thought I was "kinky". From being on Lit for awhile, it's just another day that ends in "y".
 
LOL, hey, it ain't a contest. I always say that kinkiness is totally subjective. We cannot measure how extreme or taboo a sex act is because that is different in different cultural contexts, to individual people, for various reasons. It's why I think piss isn't "extreme" while others think that is the most disgusting thing I like.
You are so right. At the end of the day, it is all about how far you and your partner want to go. Totally subjective
 
Kink huh? Such a subjective but still useful topic. I know people (myself included) that get off on getting someone off. A woman I know loved to have myself and her husband suck each other off. She would strip down and masterbate to a very pitched orgasm. He and I treasured her participating by watching and getting so turned on.

Children, blood, non-consent and scat are my off limits and a big turn off.
 
I don't consider myself that kinky. M/F, light sensual Dom/sub fantasy play. Although I would like to relieve men of their control issues by tying them up softly and teaching them to let go (you can imagine how that goes over with conservative married men). :)
 
At one time, I thought I was one kinky mofo. That time was before I found Lit.:oops:

See. And here I thought I was more vanilla than Dairy Queen soft serve. But only the BDSM crowd will talk to me anymore after I revealed some of what we considered foreplay...
 
See. And here I thought I was more vanilla than Dairy Queen soft serve. But only the BDSM crowd will talk to me anymore after I revealed some of what we considered foreplay...
This has sort of been my experience as well. My first boyfriends were somehow, pure luck, into the same things I was and we did lots of fun things. It was only later on that I realized that what I enjoy is far less common than I had thought and I started to have trouble finding people sympathetic to my interests.
 
I am open to plenty of ideas and I'm down to try just about anything that doesn't involve feces, blood, or extreme violence. Saying that, I'm in a 16 year marriage and the extent of my sex life is limited by having a wife who's comfortable with what we already do. I don't think she wants to go out of the way to try new things, invite people in to the equation, and we are also at a point in our lives where we don't have the time to really spend with each other to really figure out new things. We have kids, we have work that keeps us away from each other sometimes.

If she said, "We should find a guy who'll fuck me while you eat me out." I'd be down for the conversation and most likely go for it. If she said, "You should tie me facedown to the bedposts and pleasure me with a dildo for an hour while I wear a blindfold," I'd be down for it. I'm not embarrassed to bring up fantasies and ideas but she's generally been disinterested, so ... oh, well.
 
I am open to plenty of ideas and I'm down to try just about anything that doesn't involve feces, blood, or extreme violence. Saying that, I'm in a 16 year marriage and the extent of my sex life is limited by having a wife who's comfortable with what we already do. I don't think she wants to go out of the way to try new things, invite people in to the equation, and we are also at a point in our lives where we don't have the time to really spend with each other to really figure out new things. We have kids, we have work that keeps us away from each other sometimes.

If she said, "We should find a guy who'll fuck me while you eat me out." I'd be down for the conversation and most likely go for it. If she said, "You should tie me facedown to the bedposts and pleasure me with a dildo for an hour while I wear a blindfold," I'd be down for it. I'm not embarrassed to bring up fantasies and ideas but she's generally been disinterested, so ... oh, well.
You have to eventually go there, or you will explode....you just can't turn your sexuality off forever it will creep out slowly....
 
I don't consider myself that kinky. M/F, light sensual Dom/sub fantasy play. Although I would like to relieve men of their control issues by tying them up softly and teaching them to let go (you can imagine how that goes over with conservative married men). :)
My late wife once said she would like to tie me up and do as she wished with me. I told her she didn't need to tie me up because I would gladly give her her wish. Anything she wanted, any time, anywhere. We had some wonderful experiences.
 
Earlier today I got drugged by a foursome, they laid me on my back, strapped me to a gurney, put my legs up in stirrups suspended from a chrome bar high above me, then they knocked me out cold and went to town on my ass.

Basically, I had surgery for diverticulitis this morning. :eek:

How kinky am I? I'm turned on by the fact that it feels like I got gang-banged. 😁
 
After being in the lifestyle for a long time I think it is difficult to determine how kinky you really are. It gets to a point where it is really relative although I can safely say that I am kinky enough that my subs never get bored or ask for more variety.
 
I always thought I was kinky until I walked my dog around the woods to the golf course. She took off one beautiful summer night only to find her humping, then licking the neighbors leg and balls as his wife had staked him out 20 minutes earlier. As I walked back laughing, giving the neighbor the dignity by not approaching, I crossed paths with his wife. I could see her turn red under the moonlight. I told her the dog was friendly but not submissive. Moments later my dog returned. She goes to his crotch at every block party and dearly loves him. Now how do you explain that to a vanilla wife when you walk in the house with a smile on your face. Irony, the wife's name was volunteered for the animal rescue so she serves on the board. Small town gossip you don't dare release.
 
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