Did any one thing make you submit?

[sweettalk4u]

When my sub and I decide to give it a try I give them a fairly strong task to begin with. Something that takes them out of their comfort zone. I may have a woman to edge or a guy to shave his cock and balls. This lets me know they want it as bad as I do.

 

[lisaharlot]

There was no activity…

… it was the right person under the right circumstances telling me to take my clothes off. The wrong person in the wrong circumstances would have been a completely different reaction.

 

[sweettalk4u]

They sensed it. You had clicked with a capital C and the time was now. Giving you a task you were just waiting to submit to

 

[StockingGirlJ]

They sensed it. You had clicked with a capital C and the time was now. Giving you a task you were just waiting to submit to

I submitted for a long time without really knowing it. Taking simple direction at first, like when on my knees reaching for his cock and being told to move backwards or sideways first for no apparent reason was, I realize now, the start. That taking direction just expanded really from that kind of point to larger radiating circles.

 

[sweettalk4u]

That’s exactly how it’s done. Take control gradually forming good habits as you go. Then the next thing you know the structure is in place and the power is transferred

 

[Lady2020]

The Voice.

 

[sweettalk4u]

I think a relationship is made up of one or more bonds and voice is one of them. You can message someone and decide to go further but you can’t really click with them until you hear there voice. You discover his humor, passion and the type person he is by his voice. The sounds of love and the lover are in the voice. You begin to learn what kind of person he really is. Voice is the first bond a couple makes.

 

[dirtylittlecucker]

his confidence.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Having too much responsibility and people depend on me and all the consequences that comes from it.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I trusted him

 

[sweettalk4u]

I trusted him

Beautiful. I hope he didn’t betray that trust

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Beautiful. I hope he didn’t betray that trust

I have been extremely fortunate in that regard. I’ve been in relationships with three dominant partners and all have been positive and mutually fulfilling.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I trusted him

Probably one of the best answers.

 

[KatieDoes]

He did. He was the one thing. By making me feel like I was safe to be honest with myself and with him about what I secretly craved.

 

[Travler99921]

I submit

I will submit to a man who is physically superior and has a cock larger than mine, if he wants that. Some men with those characteristics do, not want to be in charge.

 

[kinkeetess]

I submitted for a long time without really knowing it. Taking simple direction at first, like when on my knees reaching for his cock and being told to move backwards or sideways first for no apparent reason was, I realize now, the start. That taking direction just expanded really from that kind of point to larger radiating circles.

It’s funny to look back and see the submissive in myself. She’s always been there, even when I didn’t have a name for it.

 

[Kumquatqueen]

Someone worth submitting to.

Which seems to mean trustworthy, imaginative, having a small mischievous smile and a raised eyebrow. If they've got all that, they've got me.

 

[ChromeCollar]

He built me up instead of tore me down. Pulled me out of a broken place and gave me the wings to fly. Caught me when I fell from the sky and held me close until I was ready to fly again.

 

[Dom70]

He built me up instead of tore me down. Pulled me out of a broken place and gave me the wings to fly. Caught me when I fell from the sky and held me close until I was ready to fly again.

That is so cool! Thanks for sharing that! There are a lot of broken angels....This should give them hope!

 

[SubmissiveCeleste]

It was a matter of me finally coming to terms that fantasizing was no longer an option and the right Dom for me coming along - confident, intelligent, experienced, and trustworthy. He was slow and steady, taking measured and thought out steps luring me to the dominance he knew I craved even more than the air I breathe. Then before I knew it I was caught like a fly in a spiderweb, but unlike the fly I don’t want to be free I’m home.

 

[PiccoloGattino]

It was a matter of me finally coming to terms that fantasizing was no longer an option and the right Dom for me coming along - confident, intelligent, experienced, and trustworthy. He was slow and steady, taking measured and thought out steps luring me to the dominance he knew I craved even more than the air I breathe. Then before I knew it I was caught like a fly in a spiderweb, but unlike the fly I don’t want to be free I’m home.

This right here…….knowing fantasizing just isn’t an option. Waiting for the right person, I guess you will know…like fly in a spiderweb. Thank you Celeste!

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I was a very dominate woman until he came along. Now, I love being his slut, I love being his sub.
He accepts all of me now,; mental and physical.
He's so supportive, and in control.
I'm lucky.

 

[babygirl4u1966]

Did anyone make you submit?

Oh yea A black guy (now my owner), seduced me at a bar, and I became his obedient little slut. He barks, I jump. Before that, I was relatively dominant. Now I'm like a doormat and obediently do as told. He even put a slave collar on me so that everyone knows I'm sir's property.

 

[lisaharlot]

… it was the right person under the right circumstances telling me to take my clothes off. The wrong person in the wrong circumstances would have been a completely different reaction.

Yep! For me the right person told me to take off my clothes and I didn’t even blink. I was standing in her kitchen holding my clothes trying to figure out where I should put them. I think she was surprised I did it and I’m not sure she was joking or not.