Need advice from the ladies ... maybe men too ...

[honestWithWifie]

Need advice from the ladies ...

Wife doesn't seem to like porn really (videos) ... I'm trying to help spice up her sexual imagination (and hopefully our bedroom fun time).

I've invited her to spend a week searching the Literotica story site. I showed her how to do an advanced search.

I'm trying to hopefully get her interested in Literotica. To best accomplish that, I want her to find some great stories.

What are the "best"or "better" authors that will give her the best chance of being a repeat visitor to Literotica?

 

[rockcasbah]

Read her some of KeithD's works out loud.

He's one of Lit's only real writers; just ask him.

 

[dolf]

So... You married a woman who you are sexually incompatible with, and now you want random strangers to help you turn her into what you actually wanted?

Maybe it's just you.

 

[juttjaw]

Wifie... Wifie?
You should get kicked in the nuts for actually calling her wifie.
Maybe that'll do it for her.

 

[Carnevil9]

Wifie... Wifie?
You should get kicked in the nuts for actually calling her wifie.
Maybe that'll do it for her.

Maybe she's the famous big-jugged porn star?

 

[honestWithWifie]

Wifie... Wifie?
You should get kicked in the nuts for actually calling her wifie.
Maybe that'll do it for her.

I just looked up wifie. I just learned that it was condescending. Thanks for educating me.

 

[honestWithWifie]

So... You married a woman who you are sexually incompatible with, and now you want random strangers to help you turn her into what you actually wanted?

Maybe it's just you.

I was hoping that some people who were familiar with works on a site that they hung out on would recommend some decent works.

Thanks

 

[stickygirl]

I can suggest some interesting lesbian porn. Maybe she needs to explore that side of herself away from you?

 

[dolf]

I was hoping that some people who were familiar with works on a site that they hung out on would recommend some decent works.

Thanks

No, honey, you're hoping to change her desires to suit yours.

 

[rockcasbah]

No, honey, you're hoping to change her desires to suit yours.

I told you it was a bad idea to let your toy post here.

 

[FL30]

Wife doesn't seem to like porn really (videos) ... I'm trying to help spice up her sexual imagination (and hopefully our bedroom fun time).

I've invited her to spend a week searching the Literotica story site. I showed her how to do an advanced search.

I'm trying to hopefully get her interested in Literotica. To best accomplish that, I want her to find some great stories.

What are the "best"or "better" authors that will give her the best chance of being a repeat visitor to Literotica?

If she's not into porn, she probably won't want to read it either.

She probably has an aversion to it as it was NOT accepted when she was growing up and porn was considered perverse.

Showing her this site will not make much of a difference as it won't change her "mind think".

 

[HisArpy]

So... You married a woman who you are sexually incompatible with, and now you want random strangers to help you turn her into what you actually wanted?

Maybe it's just you.

No, no, it's us. Definitely us.

 

[dolf]

If she's not into porn, she probably won't want to read it either.

She probably has an aversion to it as it was NOT accepted when she was growing up and porn was considered perverse.

Showing her this site will not make much of a difference as it won't change her "mind think".

And there's absolutely nothing wrong with not being into porn.

Not everyone who isn't into it is damaged or repressed.

 

[Fermina_Daza]

I’d maybe ask her what SHE likes, what increases her desire. Like love languages, not everyone has the same turn-one. I personally loathe reading erotica. Talking about sex though.....(not an invitation).

But as stated above, you may just be married to someone you’re not sexually compatible with. Happens far too often. People are so afraid to be honest in the beginning.

 

[jomar]

I’ve always admired this one...

https://www.literotica.com/s/obstinate-stain

And Dirt Gurl had some gems, but seems to have removed her stuff.

Anyway, good luck.

 

[dolf]

I’d maybe ask her what SHE likes, what increases her desire. Like love languages, not everyone has the same turn-one. I personally loathe reading erotica. Talking about sex though.....(not an invitation).

But as stated above, you may just be married to someone you’re not sexually compatible with. Happens far too often. People are so afraid to be honest in the beginning.

Yes!

The erotica on lit dries up my cooch in record time.
And 99% of porn is created by men and for men. WE know she's faking.

She has her own sexuality. It may not be as obvious as his, but it's no less valid.

 

[Fermina_Daza]

Yes!

The erotica on lit dries up my cooch in record time.
And 99% of porn is created by men and for men. WE know she's faking.

She has her own sexuality. It may not be as obvious as his, but it's no less valid.

J and I watched a show called “Slutever” on Hulu. Well, we would START an episode and then, ahem, come back to it later. It just sparked conversation on desires and fantasies and worked way better than porn.

Damn it, now I want to wake him up just thinking about it.

 

[FGB]

Some people just "Don't".

Some people male and female just don't Do Porn at least not the watching or reading version...

There is often a Lady Tigress hiding in those panties.

Finding out what lets the cat out of the cage can take awhile and require some work.

You can't force someone to like anything and it be real.

 

[rockcasbah]

And there's absolutely nothing wrong with not being into porn.

Not everyone who isn't into it is damaged or repressed.

Agreed; in fact, I think those into porn are into it because they're lacking.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I was hoping that some people who were familiar with works on a site that they hung out on would recommend some decent works.

Thanks

We gravitated to this site because of our interests. No one can give you suggestions or recommendations to change your wife’s interests into our interests. Many people on the forums don’t read the stories, btw.

No, honey, you're hoping to change her desires to suit yours.

This ^^^