The problem with men these days...

[Rachaelxx]

Society is feminizing you and your sons. It is leading to women being in the initiators in 80% of divorces. This is taken from something I discovered in cruising YouTube last night and I thought it was interesting.

How is this happening?

1. Public schools have over corrected and now are too focused on building female leaders. STEM is leaving boys behind. Most teachers are women, teaching in a style that favors girls. Rowdy boys are told to calm down, etc.
2. Toxic feminism is forcing men to retreat into corners and shut up or be cancelled.
3. Hollywood depicts men as bumbling idiots. Not enough Fonzies and too many Raymonds.
4. Soy, GMOs, elevated hormonal birthcontrol levels (environmental factors) in city water could actually be changing men's biology

What do you think of this?

I am struggling with this in my marriage and I'm concerned about the kind of men that will even be available for my daughters when they are older.

 

[rockcasbah]

I am struggling with this in my marriage

Your husband refuses to put his thumb inside you?

http://i975.photobucket.com/albums/ae233/oursibear/fonzie37489623946239.gif

 

[Rachaelxx]

Your husband refuses to put his thumb inside you?

If it were only that simple!

 

[Pikemaster41]

Society is feminizing you and your sons. It is leading to women being in the initiators in 80% of divorces. This is taken from something I discovered in cruising YouTube last night and I thought it was interesting.

How is this happening?

1. Public schools have over corrected and now are too focused on building female leaders. STEM is leaving boys behind. Most teachers are women, teaching in a style that favors girls. Rowdy boys are told to calm down, etc.
2. Toxic feminism is forcing men to retreat into corners and shut up or be cancelled.
3. Hollywood depicts men as bumbling idiots. Not enough Fonzies and too many Raymonds.
4. Soy, GMOs, elevated hormonal birthcontrol levels (environmental factors) in city water could actually be changing men's biology

What do you think of this?

I am struggling with this in my marriage and I'm concerned about the kind of men that will even be available for my daughters when they are older.

Society doesn’t like to see men be men! Responding more in a different forum

 

[Comshaw]

Society is feminizing you and your sons. It is leading to women being in the initiators in 80% of divorces. This is taken from something I discovered in cruising YouTube last night and I thought it was interesting.

How is this happening?

1. Public schools have over corrected and now are too focused on building female leaders. STEM is leaving boys behind. Most teachers are women, teaching in a style that favors girls. Rowdy boys are told to calm down, etc.
2. Toxic feminism is forcing men to retreat into corners and shut up or be cancelled.
3. Hollywood depicts men as bumbling idiots. Not enough Fonzies and too many Raymonds.
4. Soy, GMOs, elevated hormonal birthcontrol levels (environmental factors) in city water could actually be changing men's biology

What do you think of this?

I am struggling with this in my marriage and I'm concerned about the kind of men that will even be available for my daughters when they are older.

Really? I have the solution.

Go here...follow instructions:

https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=93395639&postcount=1


Comshaw

 

[Rachaelxx]

SOME of society. Not all. Not me! It's this lady's fault...

https://media.tenor.com/images/26c12de2d6f7061a9c7a2da35255e497/tenor.gif

Society doesn’t like to see men be men! Responding more in a different forum

 

[Pikemaster41]

SOME of society. Not all. Not me! It's this lady's fault...

https://media.tenor.com/images/26c12de2d6f7061a9c7a2da35255e497/tenor.gif

I am generalizing, obviously not all, if was all, we’d be in worse shape!

 

[Smyles90]

You could go a ton of different directions on this one. You could start with the fact that men have gone from being told to grow up to be gentlemen to idolizing gangsters and thugs. It's not taking care of your responsibility anymore but worrying about what car you have and what clothes you wear. Society tells men they can't be men anymore because it is offensive to others. News flash you can be a man and not be a bully. You can be tough and be respectful. But we have shown that if we find any issue at all we strive to over-correct it.

 

[LLCox]

Yeah, I saw all the stuff when it started to happen. Some men are just pussies. If the bitches want to think I'm some kind of "heathern" it's their loss.

 

[rockcasbah]

C'mon, we all know real men would put elbow deep fists in her.

http://www.bent.com/media/catalog/product/cache/2/image/800x800/9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95/_/f/_fisting-rubber-gloves-elbow-black-2.jpg

You shouldn't post pics of sean without his permission.

 

[dolf]

Maybe it has nothing to do with society.
Maybe it's just from living with you.

 

[Sean]

Did I wake up in the 1970's this morning?

 

[Swoops]

I think that during the strive for balance, things can get messy and even ugly. As long as we aren't mired in that and we continue to try and achieve a semblance of balance, then we'll do okay. "Overcorrection" is a reasonable response to all of that and in my opinion, a clear sign that balance is still being sought.

As their parent, all you can do is your best now and hope they do the best for themselves, later.

 

[Rachaelxx]

The over-correction is what I think has caused this. That and hollywood. I never thought about the gangster movies, that is a good point Maybe porn too.

You could go a ton of different directions on this one. You could start with the fact that men have gone from being told to grow up to be gentlemen to idolizing gangsters and thugs. It's not taking care of your responsibility anymore but worrying about what car you have and what clothes you wear. Society tells men they can't be men anymore because it is offensive to others. News flash you can be a man and not be a bully. You can be tough and be respectful. But we have shown that if we find any issue at all we strive to over-correct it.

 

[LittleMissStubborn]

Wow this is some astonishingly next-level horseshit.

 

[rae121452]

Where Have All the Cowboys Gone?
Paula Cole

One two three four

Oh you get me ready
In your '56 Chevy
Why don't we go sit down in the shade
Take shelter on my front porch
The dandelion sun scorching
Like a glass of cold lemonade

I will do the laundry
If you pay all the bills
Where is my John Wayne
Where is my prairie song
Where is my happy ending
Where have all the cowboys gone

Why don't you stay the evening
Kick back and watch the T.V.
And I'll fix a little something to eat
Ohh I know your back hurts
From working on the tractor
How do you take your coffee my sweet

I will raise the children
If you pay all the bills
Where is my John Wayne
Where is my prairie song
Where is my happy ending
Where have all the cowboys gone

I am wearing my new dress tonight
But you don't, but you don't even notice me
Say our goodbyes
Say our goodbyes
Say our goodbyes

We finally sell the Chevy
When we had another baby
And you took that job in Tennessee
You made friends at the farm
And you join them at the bar
Almost every single day of the week

I will wash the dishes
While you go have a beer
Where is my John Wayne
Where is my prairie song
Where is my happy ending
Where have all the cowboys gone
Where is my Marlboro Man
Where is his shiny gun
Where is my lonely ranger
Where have all the cowboys gone

Where have all the cowboys gone

Where have all the cowboys gone
Yipee-ay-yippee-yeah (Yeah, yeah, yeah)
Songwriters: Paula Cole
For non-commercial use only.

 

[WillJ8787]

Society is feminizing you and your sons. It is leading to women being in the initiators in 80% of divorces. This is taken from something I discovered in cruising YouTube last night and I thought it was interesting.

How is this happening?

1. Public schools have over corrected and now are too focused on building female leaders. STEM is leaving boys behind. Most teachers are women, teaching in a style that favors girls. Rowdy boys are told to calm down, etc.
2. Toxic feminism is forcing men to retreat into corners and shut up or be cancelled.
3. Hollywood depicts men as bumbling idiots. Not enough Fonzies and too many Raymonds.
4. Soy, GMOs, elevated hormonal birthcontrol levels (environmental factors) in city water could actually be changing men's biology

What do you think of this?

I am struggling with this in my marriage and I'm concerned about the kind of men that will even be available for my daughters when they are older.

To a certain extent I agree with some of what your saying.
Definitely think this is an area for exploration and discussion.

 

[RoryN]

Socialism distancing...Toxic feminism...cancelled...Hollywood...blah blah

^^^
Poor baby. You should probably quit the snowflake tears before you whine about anyone else supposedly being weak.

 

[BoyNextDoor]

Women initiate divorce more often as part of the tactics of family law and family court.

The rest ... you just need a real man.

 

[Rachaelxx]

Yes - they call that starting a business I believe. Very sad for all involved.

Women initiate divorce more often as part of the tactics of family law and family court.

The rest ... you just need a real man.

 

[Smyles90]

The over-correction is what I think has caused this. That and hollywood. I never thought about the gangster movies, that is a good point Maybe porn too.

There are some studies showing porn has created unrealistic expectations for a lot of people when it comes to sex. And in going with that basically unless it's something kinky and wild both men and women are finding it boring.

 

[Rachaelxx]

I can see how porn could possibly build up the fuck and forget muscle for some people... For me, porn has never been as sexy as what really happens when the right two people find each other. In person, sometimes just a first glance or touch is 100X more exhilarating than porn.

There are some studies showing porn has created unrealistic expectations for a lot of people when it comes to sex. And in going with that basically unless it's something kinky and wild both men and women are finding it boring.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Women initiate divorce more often as part of the tactics of family law and family court.

The rest ... you just need a real man.

It sounds like all she wants is this:

https://www.rightstep.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/abusive_alcoholic_husband-1200x900.jpg

nothing soy or feminized about that kind of mofo, huh?

 

[Rachaelxx]

Thanks to those of you who posted intelligent things. And for the few PM's I received today. It feels good to know that there are people out there who like traditional roles and see why they should be preserved.

 

[Hypoxia]

Traditional values: Rape. Alcoholism. Family abuse including wife-beating and forced incest. Slavery: chattel and sexual. Domination by religious figures. Child labor. Illiteracy. Early death. Are these are your goals? Do you need a man to punch you unconscious? I'm sure you'll find volunteers at dive bars.