Anyone have the urge to receive but not give?

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Due to diabetes and years of hard living I am unable to achieve an erection. It really is not a problem for me. I enjoy giving oral to men and women. I love when a man shoots in my mouth. If he wants to reciprocate I never turn anyone away.
 
Far too long since my wife has sucked my cock. Im probably like a number of married men in that I think Im past the point of worrying if its a woman's or man's lips wrapped around my cock.
 
As a bi-guy, I am versatile, but have felt so bottomish for so long... I love to give pleasure, and I feel pleasure in return by giving. Hope that makes a little sense.
 
Far too long since my wife has sucked my cock. Im probably like a number of married men in that I think Im past the point of worrying if its a woman's or man's lips wrapped around my cock.

I understand, but, have you shared that thought with her? Perhaps she wants you to go down on her also? Maybe you do but she does not reciprocate?

I wouldn’t say men don’t care who blows them, I would just say it’s different.
 
Being in a sexless marriage i can tell you. I'm straight but i read all threads and different stories. I get so horny sometimes, i could close my eyes and wouldnt care who was between my legs as long as they could swallow 8" to the base and take my load. Like owning a Harley and but riding a moped, all good as long as you dont get caught.
 
Being in a sexless marriage i can tell you. I'm straight but i read all threads and different stories. I get so horny sometimes, i could close my eyes and wouldnt care who was between my legs as long as they could swallow 8" to the base and take my load. Like owning a Harley and but riding a moped, all good as long as you dont get caught.

It’s interesting when the first line is “I’m straight” the continues with a “I would not mind being blown by a man.”

Could the taboo element is probably adding to the excitement. No? Maybe a little?
 
it has been brought up before by Klip. Like he said, A guy just wants to catch his nut... then he's done.
 
I understand, but, have you shared that thought with her? Perhaps she wants you to go down on her also? Maybe you do but she does not reciprocate?

I wouldn’t say men don’t care who blows them, I would just say it’s different.

I go down on her to orgasm at least once every time we have sex, she just does not reciprocate orally all that often. She knows I love it, but it is not something she makes the effort to do.
 
I go down on her to orgasm at least once every time we have sex, she just does not reciprocate orally all that often. She knows I love it, but it is not something she makes the effort to do.

Ouch, I hear you though. Going down on a woman is one of my favorite pastimes, sadly, just like you, it is not a shared activity in my house!
 
Ouch, I hear you though. Going down on a woman is one of my favorite pastimes, sadly, just like you, it is not a shared activity in my house!

I absolutely love eating her pussy, both before and after we fuck. I just wish I could feel some lips wrapped around my cock and sucking the cum out of me...
 
it has been brought up before by Klip. Like he said, A guy just wants to catch his nut... then he's done.

Granted I deal with ED which messes up my sex life BIG time.

Nevertheless, your description of guys seems way off. Sure there are times you have to be somewhere soon after sex -- work, family, etc. So you have to get-off and go. However, my sex drive was never so low that once I got off I was really "done". I used to be able to recharge within 30 minutes, man I miss those days.

The only way I felt "satisfied" was if I could smell my cum from a guy's ass and there was a lot post-sex skin contact. Then I felt like I had really marked my territory and could take a nap. Those times that it was someone who was asexual right after sex, I usually went back on the prowl for someone more charged up. I remember years ago one f-buddy who was 10+ years older, but multi-receptive. Hairy as all could be and his body smelled wonderful -- unfortunately, I realize in hindsight he drank so much that he was sweating alcohol. Nevertheless, he would spend one or two nights with me when he was at the end of his week as a night shift prison guard. I'd make love to him, then we fell asleep. Usually, in the middle of the night I'd get so damn horney, that I would do him again. Sometimes he would wake up and tell me to finish what I started. Other times he would seem to stay asleep. I don't know why but sometimes that was just as hot as when he woke up. He may have been a tad bit awake as he would chub up normally on me usually when I slipped inside him. It was no effort as he would still be lubed up from the prior time I had gone inside him.

Seriously, if some guy has no drive after getting off, they may need some kind of t-supplement to boost his energy. At least such a guy should talk to their doctor about it. Of course some guys naturally have a low sex drive. We are NOT all made from the same cloth. Regardless, it just doesn't sound right for a normal healthy man to get off and be done.
 
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I’d love to look down and see a cute guy with my cock in his mouth, but I would be so turned on that I would have to suck him too
 
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