Threesome experience

[Jasmineblue]

Thread dedicated to all the people to learn more about Do's and Don'ts in the threesome world..
Please share your experiences good, bad, nasty, kinky any experience is good as it's a learning for rest.

 

[PaxNurgle]

I'd love to hear more, particularly, about it in a BDSM sense, specifically from a cuckold/bull/hotwife perspective, or multiple dominates with one sub.

I once served two dominas at a session and it was pretty powerful; one of them was a friend of my typical pro dommme/mistress who appeared to be "in training" so to speak- She was quite literally "showing her the ropes." While it was pretty fun, I felt a little extra pressure to be "a good model sub" for both of them, and the added pressure made me a bit more self conscious and that made it not quite as enjoyable as I had thought it would be. But, still pretty intense.

 

[Jasmineblue]

I'd love to hear more, particularly, about it in a BDSM sense, specifically from a cuckold/bull/hotwife perspective, or multiple dominates with one sub.

I once served two dominas at a session and it was pretty powerful; one of them was a friend of my typical pro dommme/mistress who appeared to be "in training" so to speak- She was quite literally "showing her the ropes." While it was pretty fun, I felt a little extra pressure to be "a good model sub" for both of them, and the added pressure made me a bit more self conscious and that made it not quite as enjoyable as I had thought it would be. But, still pretty intense.

I love intense makeout to a subdued one any day.. nevr had the opportunity to serve two Doms though..
Once I served a bi gay couple that was intense for me.. I had a major head rush.. with everything that was happening around me.. I almost fainted that day in ecstasy

 

[ashkitten]

One of my biggest frustrations is when a dom learns I'm bi and immediately wants to hear alllll about my experiences with other women or immediately start planning a threesome. I love being a fuck toy, but some things are not toys (at least for me). So, with anything: don't assume and assume even less when there are more people involved.

 

[Goldenfinger]

If your partner is the jealous type ito not a good thing.

Make sure all participants are interested in each other or it’s a 2some with a third wheel.

 

[seela]

In a D/s scene, either make very clear plans about who outranks whom and what's expected of each party or be prepared to have some mid-scene negotiations.

Not so much fun when people who both feel like they are, or at least should be, the top dog in the scenario start a silly pissing contest. Similarly, wasn't so much fun to hear after the fact that one of the parties thought I'd be dominant towards them as well and was disappointed when I wasn't.

 

[ultramarineblue]

I haven't had very many experiences. It was better when there was one person that directed everything. I think depending on the situation there has to be probably even more negotiation before to make sure everyone gets what they want out of it. I'm friends with a couple and we've played some but we really need to sit down and talk through what everyone wants and where everyone stands so things will work better.

 

[Jasmineblue]

In a D/s scene, either make very clear plans about who outranks whom and what's expected of each party or be prepared to have some mid-scene negotiations.

Not so much fun when people who both feel like they are, or at least should be, the top dog in the scenario start a silly pissing contest. Similarly, wasn't so much fun to hear after the fact that one of the parties thought I'd be dominant towards them as well and was disappointed when I wasn't.

So true, nothing worst than people start competing against each other. My personal experience says the best kind of threesomes are the one where everyone knows their role and are willing to sacrifice their personal interest for a while for the collective goal of all and vice versa.

 

[Jasmineblue]

One of my biggest frustrations is when a dom learns I'm bi and immediately wants to hear alllll about my experiences with other women or immediately start planning a threesome. I love being a fuck toy, but some things are not toys (at least for me). So, with anything: don't assume and assume even less when there are more people involved.

I think people who switch are ideal for threesome, that's my personal opinion I don't know about others..
Someone with more experience please throw some light on this.

 

[twister947]

I've had a couple...not my cup of tea.

 

[Bramblethorn]

I've done a few threesomes and foursomes. I've always found it really hard to avoid having one person end up as a third wheel and not enjoying the experience.

 

[splish splash]

Our’s

Our first one started out with my wife’s friend always complaining she never gets any
My wife shocked me by asking me to fuck her friend
My wife was totally straight then
I was fucking her doggie when she asked me to put it in her ass as a treat as she knows my wife isn’t into anal
My wife was playing with her pussy when her friend crawled over and started eating her
Shocked can’t describe it
She has been hooked ever sense
She wanted to get even so we did a few MFM she can’t get off with other men so she goes and picks up FM for us to play with

 

[Jasmineblue]

Our first one started out with my wife’s friend always complaining she never gets any
My wife shocked me by asking me to fuck her friend
My wife was totally straight then
I was fucking her doggie when she asked me to put it in her ass as a treat as she knows my wife isn’t into anal
My wife was playing with her pussy when her friend crawled over and started eating her
Shocked can’t describe it
She has been hooked ever sense
She wanted to get even so we did a few MFM she can’t get off with other men so she goes and picks up FM for us to play with

Sounds fun, I can only imagine this.. best wishes to you both..

 

[cookiecat]

I'm glad a few posts wandered in to the D/s realm. I don't see threesomes as inherently BDSM. You might get more traction in the Kink / Fetish forum.

In the situations where a threesome was planned out, it didn't seem to go as smoothly as when they just happened. Which was rare - I don't want it to sound like either happened all the time.

I was in a situation where the guy was my boyfriend / Dominant. The third was a woman who said later she was in love with him. During sex, it was weirdly competitive. At one point, I remember thinking I was glad she was doing all the work.

I was never much interested in lady parts. And I wasn't super interested in seeing my guy's cock in someone else. So 3somes didn't float my boat. It was always more to make him happy.

I've enjoyed group stuff when it's centered more around a kink activity - I was being flogged and it turned in to a group grope. There was a piss play scene I walked in on and that was a crazy good experience. So the out of the blue moments have been much more enjoyable.

 

[Beth87]

When i did a 4some none of us were a couple. Me and 3 men who were friends. Weird man banter but otherwise was good. Still think about one of them 13 years later

 

[cookiecat]

When i did a 4some none of us were a couple. Me and 3 men who were friends. Weird man banter but otherwise was good. Still think about one of them 13 years later

haha! Weird man banter.

Did the men do stuff with each other?

That's the one stupid thing about MMF or in your case MMMF -- how guys are in to it as long as they don't touch each other. Like somehow it's ok for girls to fuck girls. Or 3 guys to fuck one girl. But for god's sake - if penii (what is plural for penis?) touch, they'll all turn to salt.

 

[Beth87]

haha! Weird man banter.

Did the men do stuff with each other?

That's the one stupid thing about MMF or in your case MMMF -- how guys are in to it as long as they don't touch each other. Like somehow it's ok for girls to fuck girls. Or 3 guys to fuck one girl. But for god's sake - if penii (what is plural for penis?) touch, they'll all turn to salt.

Lol proper laughed at that and yeah i was expected to keep all peni (?) happy simultaneously but god forbid they touch swords

 

[Jasmineblue]

Lol proper laughed at that and yeah i was expected to keep all peni (?) happy simultaneously but god forbid they touch swords

Haha.. this is funny.. something is weird about guys who pretends to be all manly and squirm like rats when you make them cum.. and what's with mixing each other cums on face and letting their cocks touch other..

I met a bi gay couple in Bahamas, atleast they were real. I would say that was my best threesome yet.. unlike the isolated threesome I had here..

 

[Jasmineblue]

I'm glad a few posts wandered in to the D/s realm. I don't see threesomes as inherently BDSM. You might get more traction in the Kink / Fetish forum.

In the situations where a threesome was planned out, it didn't seem to go as smoothly as when they just happened. Which was rare - I don't want it to sound like either happened all the time.

I was in a situation where the guy was my boyfriend / Dominant. The third was a woman who said later she was in love with him. During sex, it was weirdly competitive. At one point, I remember thinking I was glad she was doing all the work.

I was never much interested in lady parts. And I wasn't super interested in seeing my guy's cock in someone else. So 3somes didn't float my boat. It was always more to make him happy.

I've enjoyed group stuff when it's centered more around a kink activity - I was being flogged and it turned in to a group grope. There was a piss play scene I walked in on and that was a crazy good experience. So the out of the blue moments have been much more enjoyable.

Out of the blue are the best ones for me too. Orgies with know people is ok and with strangers is a big no for me.. I need to know the hands touching me..

 

[marriedpervs]

I've had a variety of experiences over the years in the threesome world.

My observation are quite mixed, although I admit that best ever orgasm I have had is when I am being fucked while another man or woman licks me to orgasm. Wow! If you haven't tried that, I suggest you so.

In the BDSM realm, those of you who know me know I delve into the BDSM world every now and again. My first threesome experience in BDSM was at a ball here in Melbourne where I was shackled and flogged, whilse being played with. The 'Master' then asked if he could fuck me, and I agreed. He did me from behind while many watched and another guy approached and offered me his cock. I was spit roasted in those shackles and thoroughly enjoyed it.

Many more but won't hog the thread.

Happy to answer questions?

 

[Jasmineblue]

I've had a variety of experiences over the years in the threesome world.

My observation are quite mixed, although I admit that best ever orgasm I have had is when I am being fucked while another man or woman licks me to orgasm. Wow! If you haven't tried that, I suggest you so.

In the BDSM realm, those of you who know me know I delve into the BDSM world every now and again. My first threesome experience in BDSM was at a ball here in Melbourne where I was shackled and flogged, whilse being played with. The 'Master' then asked if he could fuck me, and I agreed. He did me from behind while many watched and another guy approached and offered me his cock. I was spit roasted in those shackles and thoroughly enjoyed it.

Many more but won't hog the thread.

Happy to answer questions?

Spit roasted in shackles sounds like dream..
Please share more..as will learn

 

[marriedpervs]

Spit roasted in shackles sounds like dream..
Please share more..as will learn

Hi Jasmine,
What would you like to know, baby? I'm 52 now, by the way. Quite a wild life during my thirties and forties. I posted a lot back then. I'm easing off these days but still very active in my private sex life with my voyeur hubby.

 

[KimGordon67]

Lol proper laughed at that and yeah i was expected to keep all peni (?) happy simultaneously but god forbid they touch swords

The last guy I was seeing said he was happy for another guy to join us ... but it couldn't be someone with a bigger cock than him.

 

[Beth87]

The last guy I was seeing said he was happy for another guy to join us ... but it couldn't be someone with a bigger cock than him.

Men lol..id do fmf but not if the man was my bf to be fair

 

[Beth87]

Haha.. this is funny.. something is weird about guys who pretends to be all manly and squirm like rats when you make them cum.. and what's with mixing each other cums on face and letting their cocks touch other..

I met a bi gay couple in Bahamas, atleast they were real. I would say that was my best threesome yet.. unlike the isolated threesome I had here..

If theyd tried to mix their cum on me i would have gagged. So pleased they werent like that