Hi, mid 50s MWM...sex is very limited with my wife...wondering if there are others like me? The lack of sex has driven me to think more and more about bi fantasies...replacing the intimacy I crave with a women, with a man. The kissing, the passion...anyone else?
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hungry4u_man
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54, curious wanna-bi here in 91702
hi, i'm in same boat, though i prob got into wanting to try stuff w men a bit differently...... my woman can no longer have sex, so if i try and get frisky with her, she shoots me down pretty quickly. i guess for her, it'd cause too much pain to get horny and then not be able to follow through to orgasm. ive been w her more than 30 years, we used to be really good in bed too. but since i gotta get off without her now , ive gone to camsites on computer in garage. for inspiration, y'know, lol. i'm good with my hand, i know i would love it if someone else could appreciate my affection and attentions again, and return them too... i cannot see that happening w another woman...hell, the one i have now is enough work. but i have seen so many of us lonely horny fuckers out stroking on cam and talking about how we would like to feel that spark again, how hot it would be to help each other get off, really get off like never before, that i want to try m2m stuff for real too...... damn pandemic put an end to that adventure for now though. but god, just think how great it would be if after ur woman pisses u off u can de-stress by calling up ur bud and head over to his house and suck each other off, touch n taste each other all over, swallow a load or more, then head happily home. mmmmmm, need a buddy like that?
hi, i'm in same boat, though i prob got into wanting to try stuff w men a bit differently...... my woman can no longer have sex, so if i try and get frisky with her, she shoots me down pretty quickly. i guess for her, it'd cause too much pain to get horny and then not be able to follow through to orgasm. ive been w her more than 30 years, we used to be really good in bed too. but since i gotta get off without her now , ive gone to camsites on computer in garage. for inspiration, y'know, lol. i'm good with my hand, i know i would love it if someone else could appreciate my affection and attentions again, and return them too... i cannot see that happening w another woman...hell, the one i have now is enough work. but i have seen so many of us lonely horny fuckers out stroking on cam and talking about how we would like to feel that spark again, how hot it would be to help each other get off, really get off like never before, that i want to try m2m stuff for real too...... damn pandemic put an end to that adventure for now though. but god, just think how great it would be if after ur woman pisses u off u can de-stress by calling up ur bud and head over to his house and suck each other off, touch n taste each other all over, swallow a load or more, then head happily home. mmmmmm, need a buddy like that?
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Exactly the same. Before my wife I would occasionally check out porn, nothing too wild. But my wife was a bit kinky so we explored some fun stuff including eventually her pegging me, cleaning my own cum from her, etc......
But she lost her sex drive years ago which lead me to depend on porn to get off. My interests went from pegging porn to eventually shemale then to only bisexual (there had to be a woman in the scene) to now outright gay sex scenes.
If our sex life hadn't nosedived the way it has, I don't know if I would have these desires, or at least not yet.
I'd love to chat more about it schinitz (or anyone else), maybe we can commiserate together when needed or provide each other some stress relief when necessary.... pm me boys
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I can totally relate. My wife has a very low sex drive and I find myself taking care of my own needs the majority of the time. I have a strong interest in MMF and MFM porn and find myself more drawn to bi fantasies as I don't get enough relief with her. Never have experimented but think about a man sucking my cock more and more...
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I think what’s happening might be your long suppressed bisexuality coming to the surface. I would advise you to continue being intimate with your wife. Explore and flirt all you want but don’t shortchange her
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Same Here
Yes same here in UK. Wife not interested in sex anymore ,I have always had a thing for Cd`s Trans or a MMF . So look at Trans or MMf porn and read Lit stories for release.
Yes same here in UK. Wife not interested in sex anymore ,I have always had a thing for Cd`s Trans or a MMF . So look at Trans or MMf porn and read Lit stories for release.
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Exactly the same position as I'm in.
We are not alone
Same here in NW Pennsylvania. I've had a few encounters but nothing that really made me want to continue the relationship. What I need is a nice guy with whom I could become close friends, maybe even besr friends. My closest and best friend died a little over 20 years ago. We were not close as in a sexual way, but did enjoy hanging together.
Same here in NW Pennsylvania. I've had a few encounters but nothing that really made me want to continue the relationship. What I need is a nice guy with whom I could become close friends, maybe even besr friends. My closest and best friend died a little over 20 years ago. We were not close as in a sexual way, but did enjoy hanging together.
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Mwm in NE Indiana, she is goin through the change...I have been on a couple sites, squirt being the best, I have been meeting up with older guys and we have been sucking each other off, been a few months for me...I need a cock...and some cum other than my own...have not been fucked in about 5 yrs. Ready for a guy to own me again....fuck me balls deep and shoot a massive load in me....hmu...lets talk about sucking cocks...
Mwm in NE Indiana, she is goin through the change...I have been on a couple sites, squirt being the best, I have been meeting up with older guys and we have been sucking each other off, been a few months for me...I need a cock...and some cum other than my own...have not been fucked in about 5 yrs. Ready for a guy to own me again....fuck me balls deep and shoot a massive load in me....hmu...lets talk about sucking cocks...
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