In today's setting is it possibly for safe contained group sex?

[crazy4myhusband]

In today's setting is it possibly for safe contained group sex? I supposed this is the way to best word it.

I fully understand that I write long intros and backgrounds, it helps me organize and lay out my thoughts better. Yes I am long winded – there it is! I do greatly appreciate valid, thoughtful replies, input, and responses. I would love other’s perspectives on this. Your site and posts have me rethinking things after decades of marriage sex.

So does anyone have this figured out given the current climate/environment? Are their people out there who are open to sex outside a relationship but will stay within a very select or small group for safety?

 

[SaraSera]

And here I sit saying to myself the solution to your problem is my fantasy come true. Might even be a story in the idea. Anyway, I’m sure there must be some compatible CD or Transwomen near enough to you that could help out.

 

[Cleanphil]

great story idea

In today's setting is it possibly for safe contained group sex? I supposed this is the way to best word it.

I fully understand that I write long intros and backgrounds, it helps me organize and lay out my thoughts better. Yes I am long winded – there it is! I do greatly appreciate valid, thoughtful replies, input, and responses. I would love other’s perspectives on this. Your site and posts have me rethinking things after decades of marriage sex.

I love my husband dearly and I love sex with him. He wants sex way more than my body can handle. Even with spreading it out: vaginal, some oral, hand jobs, anal, toy sex, the man still has the ability for way more.

I encourage him all the time to masturbate and to use all our toys and playthings but darn him, he still wants his penis in my mouth more and of course my anal hole. The man loves his oral and his anal. We do a lot of doggy vaginal which he loves as well and allows him to play with me anally. I can take it pretty well back there as well as give good oral but never enough for the man. He isn’t pushy but I can still tell when he is playing with the toys for me he always has that hungry look for the real deal.
So I have been poking around on this site lately wondering what all the hub bub is all about. Women letting and even liking their men having sex with others. Eeehh, I am like I don’t want to share my man with another woman but I do see the benefit of it. Extra bodies, equal extra holes, etc. But the drama that can come with it? Is it really worth it? And safe? Especially in the weirdest time of our lives on the planet?

So does anyone have this figured out given the current climate/environment? Are their people out there who are open to sex outside a relationship but will stay within a very select or small group for safety?

Of all my current local friends and couples in our new location none of the wives except me and one other can comfortably handle anal, only a few are good at oral, and also only a few are able to handle frequent vaginal. Sounds like we are all in the same boat. All of our husbands love anal, and I mean looooovvveeee anal. All looooovvvveee oral. All loooooovvveee vaginal. Okay they all love sex. Period! Yes the other ladies and I talk openly about our sex lives.

I know none us wives would want our husband’s having sex with any of the rest of us and besides none of us need more sex. It’s the darn husbands who do. And I also do not believe many, if any of us would really want new women coming into the mix, I don’t know we have never done this since marriage. We have all had open relationships during our college years including some if not many bi relationships. So it is not new, it has just been a while.

I am repeating myself but…again I see the benefit of it. Extra bodies, equal extra holes, etc. But the drama that can come with it? Is it really worth it? So here is where I stand if that is doable: I am open to whatever can help satisfy my husband, disease free, virus free, safe sex, closed within a safe group environment that is trustworthy, then have all the sex any way needed. I know I am asking for a lot but I am willing to give up a lot. I am open to bisex if need be, in whatever form that takes. Too frequent of penetration for me is the most difficult part but I am available for whatever it takes up to the point of getting raw or very sore. Plus I would not only be giving my body up for others to make it work if necessary, more importantly opening our marriage to others and everything that come with that.

I know this is may be a very stupid thought and what I am about to say is in no way as simple as I am going to put it but here goes. If all the men want all this oral, and all this anal, why not f*** and s*** each other until their little “dudes” get all they can handle? I mean on paper it makes sense, does it not??? It would so much less wear and tear on us ladies, yet we could still enjoy it all be being there, watching, encouraging, participating if needed. Yes, yes, the men need to be bi curious as least, I know, I know, but gheeeeez worst case scenario they freak and say no way. It’s a long shot I get that and it is a big leap, possibly, or not…

As I mentioned I am open and willing to play with others to encourage everyone to open up and try something new. From reading here, there is not much many men will not do if several ladies put on a good playtime for them, then encourage, help, assist, even guide them into having some playtime of their own.

I know my husband is like that with me. He didn’t masturbate much until I requested it. I helped him learn more about pleasing himself. Then I guided him into anal play not only with me but on himself. Turned out to be quite the grand idea, it does a lot for him and I absolutely love it! I agree with the ladies here, it is quite the turn on. I noticed that this progression is very common in men who like to play with themselves even without encouragement (or so I have concurred reading many many posts). We have progressed rather far and that is why I say it is a big leap, possibly, or not…

All I have had to do so far is what I mentioned above and we have all sorts of fun and the man is as good as I am in every area from what I am able to tell. So why not? Why couldn’t we wives sit back, relax, and watch a great show of sex? Whatever it is? Is it possible? Even just for my husband and I? Are people okay with it today?

Of course the men will give their 100 cents but what about the couples, ladies as well? Can we get a group these days?

Thanks everyone ahead of time

Interesting post and query.

My SO and I were just discussing our limited adventures at a couple of the ‘swingers’ resorts way back around the turn of the millennium, and were wondering how they’re doing things now, in the dark ages of Covid-19.

You do not mention your age, but I guess maybe 30’s or 40’s? If you are indeed approaching middle age, and your libidos are headed in opposite directions, I have one suggestion, and one you already hinted at yourself.

Does your husband have any latent bisexual urges? I believe that does happen more frequently than you might imagine, though most heterosexual men keep those urges to theirselves for fear of ridicule from one’s peers.

In your group of close friends, is there another man/couple your husband might entertain spending all of that extra testosterone on? Any man he would consider an potential option for such forbidden pleasures? And are they a couple you could trust to ‘keep the secret’ between the four of you?

If so, it might make for an interesting ‘private’ little get-together, with the women encouraging their men along.

My stories loosely follow those themes, but you have given me yet another idea for a story along those lines.