❓ PLP Inquires❓

[bigtallman]

08 13.20

Is masturbation ever better than sex? Discuss!

Sorta depends on the context. In my real life my SO is not interested in sex anymore and it doesn't happen, so masturbation is way better, because it does happen (often). In some other life without that little roadblock, sex is way better.

 

[ErosMyMuse]

Difficult Sometimes...

Sorta depends on the context. In my real life my SO is not interested in sex anymore and it doesn't happen, so masturbation is way better, because it does happen (often). In some other life without that little roadblock, sex is way better.

I have no significant other to romp with, if they were so inclined. So my answer may be somewhat different. I think both actual sex and masturbation have their own respective places in our lives.

And without someone I know and feel comfortable with, I will normally not have sex. I avoid simple hook-ups... well, since college anyway!

Hence, masturbation and toys! Vibrators are popular items for a reason! As for being "better" than sex... I can't decide from a pleasure viewpoint.

But real sex with human contact and intimacy... wins out in my book!

Eros

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

08.18.20

What places on your body do you like to be touched? What places make you uncomfortable or do you not like to be touched?

 

[AlpineFresco]

08.18.20

What places on your body do you like to be touched? What places make you uncomfortable or do you not like to be touched?

Honestly... most places can feel really nice, if it's done right! I'm fine if nobody ever touches my feet and ankles, though. Kneecaps and elbows are also entirely content on their own.*

*and by 'on their own' I mean 'not given particular touch-attention', I don't mean to suggest they're somehow removed from the room and left to their own devices, possibly watching Netflix elsewhere.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Honestly... most places can feel really nice, if it's done right! I'm fine if nobody ever touches my feet and ankles, though. Kneecaps and elbows are also entirely content on their own.*

*and by 'on their own' I mean 'not given particular touch-attention', I don't mean to suggest they're somehow removed from the room and left to their own devices, possibly watching Netflix elsewhere.

I always knew you were just a pile of limbs....

 

[AlpineFresco]

08 13.20

Is masturbation ever better than sex? Discuss!

I'm answering this assuming the question is about solo masturbation.

So I mean... generally? No. Sex is better. But masturbation is a lot simpler. And sometimes I want to be selfish and just focus on me. And I've definitely had sex that wasn't amazing and masturbation that was (vice-versa too).

So, 'is it ever better'? Yeah, for me, under some circumstances it can be.

 

[AlpineFresco]

I always knew you were just a pile of limbs....

If the luggage had no actual chest...

 

[AngelicaS1780]

08.18.20
What places on your body do you like to be touched? What places make you uncomfortable or do you not like to be touched?

I assume that, for places you like, you mean besides the obvious choices. For me, those are my neck, shoulders, and lower bacK. There really aren’t any places that make me uncomfortable or that I dislike. I love a full body massage.

 

[Orchidea73]

08.18.20

What places on your body do you like to be touched? What places make you uncomfortable or do you not like to be touched?

I can' think a place in my body where I don't like to be touched.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

08.18.20

What places on your body do you like to be touched? What places make you uncomfortable or do you not like to be touched?

Umm... everywhere? Everywhere.

Inside, outside, upside, down.

 

[Bigspurt]

08 13.20

Is masturbation ever better than sex? Discuss!

As for myself, solo is much more common and I'm pretty good at it. So yes.

 

[Sh75]

08.18.20

What places on your body do you like to be touched? What places make you uncomfortable or do you not like to be touched?

The only place i dont like being touched is my feet. They are terribly ticklish.

 

[AveryElle]

08.18.20

What places on your body do you like to be touched? What places make you uncomfortable or do you not like to be touched?

Almost everywhere is good except feet. Ew.

Back, neck, ears, ass, hands, scalp. All amazing. I’m self conscious of my being a fat ass, but I guess if someone is in bed with me they either don’t care or will put up with it enough for sex!

My breasts aren’t as sensitive or responsive as men tend to want them to be (I think I’m just numb from nursing and it never came back?).

I do enjoy finding new places on a partner that they enjoy being touched. It’s one of the best parts of foreplay.

 

[beachbaby179]

The bottoms of my feet are very ticklish, so if you're giving me a foot massage it can't be a light touch. Other than that, I'm self conscious about my belly but it's part of the package so ... just caresses there, don't stop to play with it and you're good.

 

[AveryElle]

I'd tap that ass. ^^^

I’m not going to satiate your fat fetish. Shop elsewhere

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I'd tap that ass. ^^^

I’m not going to satiate your fat fetish. Shop elsewhere

I volunteer as tribute

 

[Orchidea73]

My breasts aren’t as sensitive or responsive as men tend to want them to be (I think I’m just numb from nursing and it never came back?).

I don't think so. I have the same thing. Except for pain, which I am very sensitive and can't stand it.

 

[AveryElle]

Same.

#nonsensitivenips

Mine used to be more so, I do think I’ve emotionally detached from them because of how much I hated nursing. Maybe that’s part of it. They hold very little pleasure for me. But I know guys like them so have at it!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Mine used to be more so, I do think I’ve emotionally detached from them because of how much I hated nursing. Maybe that’s part of it. They hold very little pleasure for me. But I know guys like them so have at it!

Ooo, I loved nursing! And a good letdown was almost as good as an orgasm. If I'd known about ANRs and if I'd had a willing partner, I would've been all over that shit.

 

[Karabare]

08 13.20

Is masturbation ever better than sex? Discuss!

Sometimes, yes. I always get myself off and there's no one else to worry about.

08.18.20

What places on your body do you like to be touched? What places make you uncomfortable or do you not like to be touched?

My belly, it's totally psychological because I see myself as a fat chick. If someone is in bed with me, they're probably not seeing things the same way.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

08.18.20

What places on your body do you like to be touched? What places make you uncomfortable or do you not like to be touched?

Dislikes are my tummy and upper arms. I just... yeah, don't like it. Or my feet because...feet.

I especially like my hair, the small of my back, my wrists, my neck. Along with all the obvious places.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

08.25.20

How good are you at knowing when you're the problem? How often do you consider yourself to be genuinely wrong in a situation? Are you good at self policing or does someone have to point that out?

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

08.25.20

How good are you at knowing when you're the problem? How often do you consider yourself to be genuinely wrong in a situation? Are you good at self policing or does someone have to point that out?

Sometimes right after the wrong has been committed, it hits me RIGHT THEN. I acknowledge my part in things but I notice others are not so willing to extend forgiveness. They will react like crabs in a barrel out of spite when positive change is in the works. In a way, I can understand they may have frustrations towards me. Pushing forward to correct those changes is hard when you're all alone, but it can be done...at a slower pace but it can be done.

Sometimes when it's pointed out to me, my faults, it''s a bitter pill to swallow, but I do. Sometimes it's easier than other times, but it never feels good. Still I say, moving forward isn't so easy, but it can still be done as a result. It opens my eyes to other's reactions as I move forward though.

I guess I'm answering another unspoken question in this as well. I'm not just focusing on the fault but progression. It's also a matter of forgiving myself to move forward. It's not so easy when you're dragging loads of regrets with it. Letting those regrets go helps in moving forward with quicker responses than carrying EVERYTHING all at once, with each step made. Letting go is hard, because of being uncomfortable. Change is never comfortable at first. It's a process of getting used to the new and unexpected. You can't do that when dragging baggage too heavy to move. Letting go is necessary for growth.

 

[AlpineFresco]

08.25.20

How good are you at knowing when you're the problem? How often do you consider yourself to be genuinely wrong in a situation? Are you good at self policing or does someone have to point that out?

Hard one to answer since I don't know how objective I am, despite trying to be (and I'm well aware I have my biases).

While it's true of all talk-about-yourself issues, I feel like all answers here, more so than most questions, are going to be a reflection of how the person sees themselves (or how they believe their nearest perceive them) more than how they actually, objectively are.

So, to take a stab... um... sometimes I'm the problem? Sometimes I'm not.
I'm frequently wrong about all manner of things. Hell, I'm rarely ever right about anything, given how often new information means I have to shift my positions. "That's fine, learning and growing is part of being human" - is what I tell myself when my ego is feeling a bit bruised. Sometimes helps

I'd say it's pointed out to me more than I realise it myself, too.

 

[Paul_Chance]

08.25.20

How good are you at knowing when you're the problem? How often do you consider yourself to be genuinely wrong in a situation? Are you good at self policing or does someone have to point that out?

I definitely have an awareness of the times I am the problem. (Whether or not I am going to change my behavior because of it is a whole other story.)

I'm wrong about things often enough that I am constantly self policing and self correcting. Still, there are times when I need someone to point it out, and I am good at taking that feedback.

I'm not a person who holds tightly to anything and insists I am right. It's dangerous, but my attitude to other people is "here is what I believe is the "right action", you don't have to believe me, I am just providing you with my experience/education/knowledge. Go ahead and give your way a try and let me know how it works out.

We're each on our own journey in this life, living our karma. It's not my job to live someone else's karma for them. Life is a continual exploration and what works for me might not work for you.