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Because it’s a struggle and a fun little sport to play, I like causing mischief and getting a rise out of him and living out the consequences of my actions. 
Why do we like being submissive?
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dacoach44
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Because...
I am pretty much an Alpha male, but I am not brutal or unreasonable. I dont feel a need to be obeyed all the time. But when I date a CD, they are always sub and its a real turn-on. They will do anything within reason. When I am a gay bottom for my cute cock, I am the same way because I know how good it feels to know that your partner is not gonna resist.
With women, I try to always be polite and considerate, as I was raised Old School.
I am pretty much an Alpha male, but I am not brutal or unreasonable. I dont feel a need to be obeyed all the time. But when I date a CD, they are always sub and its a real turn-on. They will do anything within reason. When I am a gay bottom for my cute cock, I am the same way because I know how good it feels to know that your partner is not gonna resist.
With women, I try to always be polite and considerate, as I was raised Old School.
danielle140
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For me ,being submissive is about the feeling of a Guy taking charge ,me feeling slightly used but still knowing when enough is enough .
Knoturnal
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I love how you said “ Like so many others I don't feel i choose to be submissive i am submissive.”
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givememoresir
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It's not really about liking it....as with other forms of sexual identity, it's not a choice, it just is.
That being said, I'm only sexually submissive. I am a bit of a firecracker outside of that, and it's nice to let someone else take control for a bit. It's like meditation...it calms my soul.
I hope that makes sense.
That being said, I'm only sexually submissive. I am a bit of a firecracker outside of that, and it's nice to let someone else take control for a bit. It's like meditation...it calms my soul.
I hope that makes sense.
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It makes perfect sense to me, as I am almost exactly like that.
dacoach44
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Same here....
I am a type A, really. But when I date my gay hunk, I love being the sub. I am soft, obedient and love for him to have to perform. Thats only in the bed, however. I am 50/50 on a date with a man, woman, or CD. When sucking him off, I love the feeling of making him cum for me.
I am a type A, really. But when I date my gay hunk, I love being the sub. I am soft, obedient and love for him to have to perform. Thats only in the bed, however. I am 50/50 on a date with a man, woman, or CD. When sucking him off, I love the feeling of making him cum for me.
Sounds versatile for me.
dacoach44
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Gotta be.....
its the thrill of being bi....
https://i.imgur.com/Yw2aiYD.gifv
Who wouldnt feast on her?
its the thrill of being bi....
https://i.imgur.com/Yw2aiYD.gifv
Who wouldnt feast on her?
It is also true that different people will trigger different attitude towards sexuality, their sexual radiation can be a factor.
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My very first real sexual relationship was as my best friend Larry's personal Cocksucker. What began as jerk off sessions quickly evolved into me always wanting to suck his beautiful, superior cock. I felt compelled to defer to him sexually because his cock was MUCH bigger than mine and he responded by seizing on each and every opportunity to demean and degrade me and to force his cock as far down my throat as possible!! I cooperated in my own subjugation by eagerly deferring to his every demand. I would give him a blowjob at least once a day, and often 2 and occasionally 3 times that same day. It thrills and excites me to admit to myself and to others that I am, indeed, a "Cocksucker". That I will eagerly drop to my knees in order to allow another man to force his cock down my accommodating throat and to greedily suck on his cock and encourage him to ejaculate his semen directly into my esophagus. I love "being" a Cocksucker!!
Thank you for sharing that!
Very hot honey..
subliminalmassage
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I am glad for you, and also Larry. Cocksucking should always be done in person, imo. I have broken too many laptops trying the other way.
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Oh, the things in would make you do for me.
This explanation works on many levels. Hard tIke understanding how women need me to boss them around. I think it is guilt about sex and my forcing gets rid of that. They have no choice. And that is exciting to them.
This explanation works on many levels. Hard tIke understanding how women need me to boss them around. I think it is guilt about sex and my forcing gets rid of that. They have no choice. And that is exciting to them.
subliminalmassage
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For me it is about being free. Free from the fear of doing something wrong, from the terrible weight of free will, from having needs beyond some other wonderous person's pleasure. It's about melting and flowing and being able to feel because I no longer need to think.
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Life is the hard part. Submission is the easy part.
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I loath it and love it.
I'm not submissive in life at all, I can do an excellent Domme impression, but get nothing from it. Close kink friends are constantly trying to encourage me to explore my dominant side as they know me in regular life and how confident and dominant I can be in non sexual settings. But it doesnt give me the 'feels'
Being dominated by a partner I not only trust but am attracted too is amazing. The thoughts rushing through my head stop. Time stops. Outside life stops. All i can do is respond and feel. There is no self censorship, once i give myself my partner gets the whole raw version of myself.
As a people pleaser i want to make my dominant happy. I crave their smile and their praise. So hopefully if i achieve those things they are enjoying the dynamic. Also because I'm such an in control dominant person my partner gets to feel unique as they are the only ones to see my submissive side. To see them swell with the power I give them is also a turn on.
Sadly a dynamic like that is very rare to find. I can twist most self proclaimed dominantes up until I'm in control and unable to respect them enough to want to hand over authority. But when I'm in the right dynamic, fucking hell, its addictive.
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Enchanted_Dream218
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I think being able to let go has always interested. Just able to let go and have someone feel your entire body with them being in control of you. It's an intense feeling, what what I imagine it to be.
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I honestly don't know....I don't remember ever being attracted to anything else.
Thoughts of it make me feel weak in the knee
Thoughts of it make me feel weak in the knee
TooShyGirl
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Even though I don't get to experience it very much in my every day life, I seem to love everything about it..
Seeing pictures or reading stories about it always seems to get my heart racing.
Seeing pictures or reading stories about it always seems to get my heart racing.
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