❓ PLP Inquires❓

[PrettyLilPussy19]

06.24 20

Dirty Talk

Like it or Love it? Are you good at it? Do you like to hear it from your partner? Are there certain words or phrases that really turn you on? Are there certain things that turn you off?
Bonus points to everyone who posts a fantastically filthy sentence to be used during sexy times.

<PLP gets her notepad and gets ready>

Love it. (Nice catch Trekka)

I'm not bad at it. I'm good with words and think in pictures so that helps. I'm surely not the best and when I'm actually enjoying myself sometimes I repeat the same word "please... please... please..." over and over but who could blame me?

I would say the ability to speak my Filth Language is the #1 sexual attractant to me. I like a good mix of tease, sweet, playful, and degrading. Like a perfect cocktail

I will say that speaking in the third person, asking questions and making me repeat phrases are particularly hot to me. While use of the ever-loathed M-word, overly romanticized words for genitals (tender love petals), anatomical words (labia) or juvenile words (boobs) are a turn off.

My partner has a particularly sexy, growly voice so this helps.

 

[AveryElle]

06.24 20

Dirty Talk

Like it or Love it? Are you good at it? Do you like to hear it from your partner? Are there certain words or phrases that really turn you on? Are there certain things that turn you off?
Bonus points to everyone who posts a fantastically filthy sentence to be used during sexy times.

<PLP gets her notepad and gets ready>

Love it.
But when it’s bad, it’s horrible.
Luckily, I’ve never really experienced anyone not good at it. I’ve had partners partake less frequently, which is actually nice because I know it’s earned. I sometimes prefer quieter partners with whom the purely physical connection works - it’s very rare, but sometimes it works when it’s groans and physical direction.

I don’t think I’m good at it. My proof is recording sex and listening to myself. Yeah. Horrible. I have no imagination and am vanilla, especially compared to other partners main partners. I’m essentially crap at everything!

 

[Deacon_Voss]

I think I talk enough for both of us

 

[AngelicaS1780]

06.24 20
Dirty Talk

Like it or Love it? Love it, with qualifications as detailed later in this response.

Are you good at it? The reviews have been positive. A bit more experience with virtual dirty talk than the dirty talk that occurs when physically with a partner. I empathize with those who find it hard to complete a sentence when someone else's body is touching theirs.

Do you like to hear it from your partner? Oh yes, please.

Are there certain words or phrases that really turn you on? Yes. Similar to PLP, I prefer when there is a mix of different types of tone...playful, teasing, possessive, filthy, and sweet. Maybe a hint of degradation directed my way. For example, calling me a cumslut is meh, but calling me their beautiful cumslut is a definite yes. Several people have already expressed the other aspects very well. Be passionate and in the moment. Tell me what you like and what you want to do to me. Be descriptive. Make me tell you what I want. Try to be creative, vary the words and ideas.

Are there certain things that turn you off? As far as anatomical terms, PLP summed it up well. Tits, not boobs. Lips, not labia or tender love petals. I'm not a fan of the term "balls", but will admit that I have not put much effort into finding a better alternative.

Bonus points to everyone who posts a fantastically filthy sentence to be used during sexy times. Sorry, "my beautiful cumslut" is all you'll get from me.

 

[inkandiridiumnibs]

06.23.20

The Lit Mix!!

We are making an album of Literotica parady songs. What is you parody song title??

wow, I can't believe no one mentioned that absolute classic

House of the Rising Son

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

wow, I can't believe no one mentioned that absolute classic

House of the Rising Son

I think you mean House Of The Rising UgliestSon.

 

[tnman03]

06.23.20

The Lit Mix!!

We are making an album of Literotica parady songs. What is you parody song title??

You can get anything you want at indiesoul’s restaurant.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Wild Hineys, couldn’t drag me awayyy...

Now it’s in my head.

Mine too!

My 8th grade art teacher used to play that during class. That and Pink Floyd.

 

[Orchidea73]

06.24 20

Dirty Talk

Like it or Love it? Are you good at it? Do you like to hear it from your partner? Are there certain words or phrases that really turn you on? Are there certain things that turn you off?

Love it. I'm good enough, I think. In person, not in writing and/or online, unfortunately.

I love it even more to hear it from my partner. If we know each other well and the chemistry and desire is high, there isn't much that can turn me off. He can say or call me whatever he wants in bed. All bets are off.

 

[inkandiridiumnibs]

06.24 20

Dirty Talk

Like it or Love it? Are you good at it? Do you like to hear it from your partner? Are there certain words or phrases that really turn you on? Are there certain things that turn you off?
Bonus points to everyone who posts a fantastically filthy sentence to be used during sexy times.

<PLP gets her notepad and gets ready>

I needed to circle back around to this one.

My honest answer is that it is circumstantial.

My Ex's first Husband had pretty much trained her to be as dirty and raunchy at the mouth during sex as he could get her to be. The truth was, he didn't see her as his wife, but, as a live in prostitute. He was very demeaning, and degrading, and this was one of his tactics to keep her under his thumb.

The first few times was a turn on, but when it became a trend, I asked her about it, and when I realized she was doing it out of "Training" it really turned me off to it. To say it caused some problems for a while is an understatement. When she got help for some of her issues, the way her ex treated her got brought up during therapy. That helped the most. She had come to like dirty talk as a turn on, but it wasn't about the total raunch. She started working on using words she liked, when she liked it. We revisited, and both again got back into the dirty talk. She really liked that I chose to speak with non-derogatory terms. Raunchy talk became foreplay while we were out, but changed when we got into fun. Raunchy talk became our "Public" Play where we were definitely doing very inappropriate things in places we really shouldn't have been, so the raunchy talk fit and it was no longer her doing what her Ex had trained her to do. We made it safe together again.

However, one of the signs our relationship was falling apart was when she started falling back into that old trigger. That old self depreciation. The old habits and traits that had caused her to have to go into rehab and therapy. It wasn't fun anymore. It was very disheartening.

So, yes, it is very circumstantial for me when it comes to dirty talk.

I will add though, it isn't about a woman dressed to the nines, exuding a level of sensuality and eroticism to make your head explode, and have her talking raunchy, but to have her talking to you in a very inappropriate way with smooth words and double entendre will just make me explode that much harder.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

06.24 20

Dirty Talk

Like it or Love it? Are you good at it? Do you like to hear it from your partner? Are there certain words or phrases that really turn you on? Are there certain things that turn you off?
Bonus points to everyone who posts a fantastically filthy sentence to be used during sexy times.

<PLP gets her notepad and gets ready>

I like dirty talk, don't love it. During actual sexual encounters, I find it distracting. Not what is said to me, but having to respond, with words. It is like in the moment, I am feeling the moment, focusing on the physical sensations, functioning on just instinct, then damn it, I have to flip that off in order to be able to articulate a thoughts and words. Fuck. I'd really rather just feel, and what sounds that come out will be moans, or growls, or purrs, or screams. Also, I find an intense look, a growl, and an overt sexual action more of a turn on than dirty talk. Not that I don't like "I am going to fuck you like the little slut you are" or whatever. It is the waiting for me to respond "oh yes, fuck me like a naughty little slut, fuck me hard" that is distracting. Now, if it is just a statement of intention, and the action immediately follows, that totally works. I'd rather they not wait patiently for me to try to find a sexy reply.

I am not that good at dirty talk. Again, during sex, I am flat out bad. If I am really enjoying myself, the only actual words will be "fuck yes" and maybe "harder" or "faster". As foreplay, probably low average. I either am speaking honestly, which can feature my brand of awkwardness and likely be a bit selfish, or I am playing a role, which feels awkward, and cheesy, if not a designated role play game. However, there are a lot of really prudish women out there, so at least making the effort probably raises me to like a D+ or C-. It is also hard to say something that would actually really freak me out. The most commonly heard kind of a turn off phrase would probably be "good girl". Usually, men uttered it as a way to assert control, to put me in my place, such as good girls don't do that or think like that or want that, or be a good girl and go get me a coffee, do what I tell you. I hear the phrase like a neon warning sign to prepare for a fight, either with them or with myself because I need to resist the urge to dump their coffee in their lap. My impulse reaction is an actual audible growl. Then I remind myself about the true intent of the current usage, so I am not annoyed, but I am flustered for a bit. Unless, of course, it is used by the rare partner where we enjoy a more rough visceral sexual style, that is just fucking fun. Most men use the phrase sexually to express a desire for a submissive instruction based play style where they are dominant rather than as a method to evoke a visceral hostile response because we both enjoy more primal power play. I very much enjoy the later, but it is rare to find. The former is sometimes fun as an occasional game, but bores me fast if done too often. Overall, I'd find "bad girl" much more of a turn on than "good girl", unless they are down with getting growled at and bit for it, and will respond in kind.

If I had a fantastically filthy sentence, I'd not be below average. I am ready for notes though. I might lead with something along the lines "oh I just can not wait for tonight, when your cock is in my mouth, because your cock is just the most delicious dessert that I have ever tasted." However, then I feel super cheesy because I am lying, badly. I might as well be saying "blow jobs are just my most favorite thing ever and I do it several times a day, I even stop random strangers just so I can blow them but your totally average cock is the largest that I have ever seen and I am sooo intimidated by it." However, it is not like I am winning dirty talk with "you have been kind of a dick today so I am going to see if I can improve your mood with a blow job so I don't have to keep putting up with your cranky ass. Would you mind if I leave the Food Network on in the background, I want to see what they end up doing with that basket? Then I'll get laid later, RIGHT". At least, I can reign the blow job back into realism by describing my typical blow job technique once I have led into it. I prefer going with my actual thoughts though, so if I am leading, I tend to start with my preferred opening sexual position, maybe "Oh, I just can not fucking wait for tonight, all I can think about is striping you, pushing you down, straddling your cock, and riding you hard." and continue with my feelings, thoughts, what I want. My real dirty talk is very self-centric, as I am sitting there thinking about what gets me off. If I am playing a role, I really want a full character and a costume, with my partner having at least a character too.

 

[BadAmy]

I love dirty talk. The key is to go with the mood. Don't over do it.

It can go in funny directions, though. This one time, in the heat of the moment, I told a girl "Goddamn, your pussy is a genetic miracle." But we had a laugh and it was all free and fun.

Have I told you about my dino-arms story?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Have I told you about my dino-arms story?

Lol! I love that story!!

 

[AlpineFresco]

Have I told you about my dino-arms story?

Bahahaha! I remember that!

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I feel like I need to dirty talk with you all now. Just because I know what you like!

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

06.29.20

What is your Lit Code of Conduct? Or do you have one?
How has it evolved over your time on Lit?

 

[Orchidea73]

06.29.20

What is your Lit Code of Conduct? Or do you have one?
How has it evolved over your time on Lit?

Yes I do.
Stay away from the drama and toxic people.
Never put personal issues/problem I might have, out in the public.

Do not discuss politics
Do not discuss religion
Have fun

 

[cole4258]

I started Lit having learned the hard way not to share too much information
with people online because there are some really crazy people out there. My code of conduct was pretty much to just post on Lit, don’t message much, don’t share my personal information. Just enjoy having fun on the threads.

It’s changed a little over time because I have gotten to know a few people that I really admire and care about. So, I relaxed my rules a little bit and slowly have made a few friends here over time. I still err on the paranoid side but I’m glad that I’ve gotten to know some friendly Litsters.

SB you always share the cutest "personal info" on here. I for one quite enjoy it Note AV pic

 

[BadAmy]

If plp will allow me...
https://voca.ro/owouyLkuYfT

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

If plp will allow me...
https://voca.ro/owouyLkuYfT

that was amazing!

(And now I have to pee because of the background noise)

 

[BadAmy]

06.29.20

What is your Lit Code of Conduct? Or do you have one?
How has it evolved over your time on Lit?

Well...
I am nice to everyone who is nice to me.that hasn't changed.
I try to make people laugh and smile or roll their eyes in a jovial way.
I try not to share all that I have stuffed inside my brain. But sometimes shit leaks out. Can't help it.
And...
Oh and when I fuck up or think I have, I try like hell to make it right.

I like talking to new people. Men and women, so my convos go to pm most times.
Doesn't mean I wanna ...wink wink. Despite this place being a virtual orgy at times
(Not that there is anything wrong with that)
I do like friendly platonic flirting. Always have and will.
Things I won't do...
Be mean in public. That's never ok.
Also will not show my face. I learned...

 

[hotwords229_A]

06.29.20

What is your Lit Code of Conduct? Or do you have one?
How has it evolved over your time on Lit?

Live in constant outrage over everything.
Take everything personally.
Share all of my most extreme political views and belittle everyone who disagrees.
Spread misery at all times.
Be as closed minded as possible.
Share all emotional outbursts.

. . . but with dick pics.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

If plp will allow me...
https://voca.ro/owouyLkuYfT

I'd not heard that before! And THE DUCKS!

Imagining him throwing the stuff down and calling the whole thing off is gonna keep me going all day.

What a great way to start the week.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Live in constant outrage over everything.
Take everything personally.
Share all of my most extreme political views and belittle everyone who disagrees.
Spread misery at all times.
Be as closed minded as possible.
Share all emotional outbursts.

. . . but with dick pics.

I heard they were passing out dick pics?

 

[Orchidea73]

If plp will allow me...
https://voca.ro/owouyLkuYfT

I love the sound of the Ducks. They are so funny.

You have a beautiful voice, Amy.