❓ PLP Inquires❓

[PrettyLilPussy19]

06.24 20

Dirty Talk

Like it or Love it? Are you good at it? Do you like to hear it from your partner? Are there certain words or phrases that really turn you on? Are there certain things that turn you off?
Bonus points to everyone who posts a fantastically filthy sentence to be used during sexy times.

<PLP gets her notepad and gets ready>

 

[BadAmy]

Oh my.

There are so many things I love about dirty talk.
But my favorite type, if there is one, is when someone talks in the third person to me...and describes what they are going to do to me...or what they are currently doing to me...
Like...hmmmm...let's say...
"Kitten, come to Daddy, he's going to fuck your throat now."
Or..."do you like watching Daddy lick your little......?"

Uhhh huh....
Yah that curls mah toes.

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But then...if you dive deep into my kink....some things that are said..
Shouldn't be said in mixed company.
*Coughcan you say degredationcough*

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

<scribbles furiously>

Ahem. That is a very good first entry. Gold stars for Amy!

 

[Mei5ter]

<scribbles furiously>

Ahem. That is a very good first entry. Gold stars for Amy!

Go on. Call her Good Girl.

 

[BadAmy]

<scribbles furiously>

Ahem. That is a very good first entry. Gold stars for Amy!

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[PrettyLilPussy19]

Go on. Call her Good Girl.

When she earns it

 

[BadAmy]

Go on. Call her Good Girl.

When she earns it

I'll have you know....
I have it on very good authority that perhaps....i glean the impression of said good girledness based on some modicum of behaviors, the likes of which have at one time or another been acknowledged, even as much as to consider the usage of the term good girl, however aside from such verbiage, I cannot confirm or deny the possibility of such deportment being coined likewise in fashion or not.
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[Wild_Honey_66]

06.24 20

Dirty Talk

Like it or Love it? Are you good at it? Do you like to hear it from your partner? Are there certain words or phrases that really turn you on? Are there certain things that turn you off?
Bonus points to everyone who posts a fantastically filthy sentence to be used during sexy times.

<PLP gets her notepad and gets ready>

Love it.
Fucking love to hear it from my partner.
On/off - see below

I adore narration. And instruction. Third person is excellent as well.

What I don't like is an overuse of crude language. It brings my arousal to a screeching halt. Be articulate. Be imaginative. Be graphic without being crass. Then when you do finally let 'er rip, it'll pack a bigger wallop.

Whisper a lot. Growl occasionally. Call me by my name. Make me call you Daddy/Master/Sir/whatever.

Whew. So hot.

 

[AlpineFresco]

06.24 20

Dirty Talk

Like it or Love it? Are you good at it? Do you like to hear it from your partner? Are there certain words or phrases that really turn you on? Are there certain things that turn you off?
Bonus points to everyone who posts a fantastically filthy sentence to be used during sexy times.

<PLP gets her notepad and gets ready>

Fuck yes, I love it. A partner with a filthy mind and a mouth that knows how to speak it is one hell of a turn on. That said, it definitely doesn't have to be anything complex - simple and direct works just fine.

It's really the passion of the expression that's a turn on, knowing that somebody is moved to speak in that way to me - I think it's a very individual thing, like any kind of speech (not just word choices but emphasis and pauses and callbacks to things previously done/discussed) and we're all going to express ourselves somewhat differently.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Are you good at it?

I'm going with yes.

I've had a lot of practice online and very little practice offline, but it seems to be effective in both environments.

 

[BadAmy]

I like situational dirty talk too. Getting into a headspace of the session we are in...and say I start a dialogue, saying how good it feels...or being specific like...

"your cock is so fucking hard! I can feel it all the way inside me"

Or, getting into my depravity, and saying how it hurts, because it does! But I like pain..
So we feed off of that.

The intercourse of words is what energizes me.
Seeing that tight nipple and pointing it out while slurping it up, or Watching the muscles tense in his forearms as he towers over me drilling me into the mattress.
...goodness me.

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What I love is being with someone who gets it ( my sex) and can take it and run with it. That is magical. You just need the right connection for that. I suppose. When you know someone well enough, to expose your vulnerability of dirtiness...aka...kink, And they amplify it without cringing and saying something like, "eww" then Oh yes. Major points there.(speaking from experience)

Oh and foul language is a major turn on for me.

Be a gentleman...until you aren't one.

 

[BadAmy]

I think I am pretty good at it..
But then only those who have talked dirty with me.
ehem...
Could decide that.

Turn offs?

Record player dirty talkers.
Jesus get some new material already! Ffs.
Be creative, open, willing to push the envelope.
The same ole same ole is a yawnathon. And will make me lose interest pretty fast.

Some guys think their game is good. And it is. But wears thin if they aren't willing to broaden their thoughts or dive deeper into them...and mine for that matter.

 

[AlpineFresco]

It's difficult, isn't it, to say "Yes, I'm good at that" ? I guess a lot is chemistry. I have exes where dirty talk felt awkward and it didn't really happen.

I'd say I'm not bad, but I've definitely misread things and nosedived before now.

 

[Dust_in_the_Ground]

06.24 20

Dirty Talk

Like it or Love it? Are you good at it? Do you like to hear it from your partner? Are there certain words or phrases that really turn you on? Are there certain things that turn you off?
Bonus points to everyone who posts a fantastically filthy sentence to be used during sexy times.

<PLP gets her notepad and gets ready>

A couple of hours ago, I found myself in an odd situation, discussing homosexuality with a devoutly religious friend. I'm vaguely aware that she had a wild past, but she's never shared any details. I was trying to keep a straight face and stick to legal terminology while describing sodomy laws, while my friend seemed to work "blowjob" or "in the butt" into every other sentence. At one point she was trying to refer to a contraption that she didn't know the name for, and I helpfully offered, "Strap-on?" Uh oh, I thought. I've revealed too much of my esoteric knowledge. But she knew what I was talking about. It was only after I got home that it occurred to me that my friend was talking dirty while I had my head up my ass. I must really suck at dirty talk if I don't even recognize it when it's happening right in front of me.

"Go ahead and make a mess; I'll clean it up."

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

It's difficult, isn't it, to say "Yes, I'm good at that" ?

It is!

Is there an objective standard for what qualifies as 'good dirty talk'? And how are we defining 'dirty' talk? Is it different from 'sexy' talk? Or 'sensual' talk?

I think: if it aroused them, if it brought them off, if it made that happen faster with my words than without... then I must be okay at it.

I'm tempted to say I'm pretty damn good at it, but then it's so subjective. What one person thinks is great will leave someone else looking for their tv remote.

I think part of being good at it is finding out what they want to hear and telling them that. And well, I've always been a pleaser, so that comes pretty easily. But it's still work. It's just work that I know I'm not total crap at. So, rewarding, on some level.

I have to say, I was mighty smug the first time I did it person and my partner went from a pleasant drive in the country to flooring it on the Autobahn. Vroom Vroom!

 

[Dust_in_the_Ground]

Fuck yes, I love it. A partner with a filthy mind and a mouth that knows how to speak it is one hell of a turn on. That said, it definitely doesn't have to be anything complex - simple and direct works just fine.

It's really the passion of the expression that's a turn on, knowing that somebody is moved to speak in that way to me - I think it's a very individual thing, like any kind of speech (not just word choices but emphasis and pauses and callbacks to things previously done/discussed) and we're all going to express ourselves somewhat differently.

Yes, simple and direct. Long ago I equated dirty talk with porny nonsense. But then I had a girlfriend who would say the simplest things, like "I want to have sex" or "Make me wet." At first, these struck me merely as demands I was happy to comply with. I was a knucklehead, and didn't realize that the things she said were also an opportunity for conversation. I made a mental note, and the next time she said "Make me wet," I said, "Show me how you make yourself wet." And that led to us having a richer, and more orgasmic, relationship. I am endlessly fascinated by the power of a sentence, or a withheld thought revealed.

 

[Trekka]

06.24 20

Dirty Talk

Like it or Love it? Are you good at it? Do you like to hear it from your partner? Are there certain words or phrases that really turn you on? Are there certain things that turn you off?
Bonus points to everyone who posts a fantastically filthy sentence to be used during sexy times.

<PLP gets her notepad and gets ready>

Like it or Love it - LOL - no dislike option? Kidding.

I like it. Sometimes I love it, if it's, like Honey and Amy mentioned, creative, descriptive, varied... alternately whispered, stated plainly, growled, barked...

High Quality Dirty Talk. Mmm-fucking-hmm.

But.

As much as I run my mouth around here, write filthy things, and have sexy convos with others about all kinds of naughty... when I am suddenly stripped of my clothing and someone is touching me? I lose all my words. Game over.

Maybe some yelps, a mew, a purr, an "mmm..." I can manage a name. I can whimper. I can beg if given a script. But please don't ask me generate original speech if I'm underneath you. Or on top, for that matter.

It's one of the few ways on Earth to shut me up.

 

[Jd192235]

Like it or Love it - LOL - no dislike option? Kidding.

I like it. Sometimes I love it, if it's, like Honey and Amy mentioned, creative, descriptive, varied... alternately whispered, stated plainly, growled, barked...

High Quality Dirty Talk. Mmm-fucking-hmm.

But.

As much as I run my mouth around here, write filthy things, and have sexy convos with others about all kinds of naughty... when I am suddenly stripped of my clothing and someone is touching me? I lose all my words. Game over.

Maybe some yelps, a mew, a purr, an "mmm..." I can manage a name. I can whimper. I can beg if given a script. But please don't ask me generate original speech if I'm underneath you. Or on top, for that matter.

It's one of the few ways on Earth to shut me up.

Well then come on over and let me make you really quiet. Over and over. Lol

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

...As much as I run my mouth around here, write filthy things, and have sexy convos with others about all kinds of naughty... when I am suddenly stripped of my clothing and someone is touching me? I lose all my words. Game over.

Maybe some yelps, a mew, a purr, an "mmm..." I can manage a name. I can whimper. I can beg if given a script. But please don't ask me generate original speech if I'm underneath you. Or on top, for that matter.

It's one of the few ways on Earth to shut me up.

Haha!

Yeah I can only talk if I'm either doing the giving, or if I'm not directly involved. If I'm receiving pleasure in any form, my ability to vocab goes on hiatus and leaves me with only 'ohmygod' and 'i want to turn over.'

 

[BadAmy]

I wanna let loose with my words when in the thick of it. Believe it or not I am timid about it. Worried I might be judged or turn someone off...it sucks sometimes.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I wanna let loose with my words when in the thick of it. Believe it or not I am timid about it. Worried I might be judged or turn someone off...it sucks sometimes.

Nah.

Go for it. He'll love it.

 

[Dust_in_the_Ground]

I wanna let loose with my words when in the thick of it. Believe it or not I am timid about it. Worried I might be judged or turn someone off...it sucks sometimes.

Oh, let loose! Tell your man that he's a failure, has a little dick, and will never be worthy of love! Oh, wait . . . that gets me hard, but may not work for everyone.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Lol!!

 

[Dust_in_the_Ground]

No one asks for my advice anymore.

 

[Mei5ter]

I wanna let loose with my words when in the thick of it. Believe it or not I am timid about it. Worried I might be judged or turn someone off...it sucks sometimes.

But that's not so much the language used as where your imagination has gone, I think?

You can describe some things in completely non-dirty terms. If a man is going to be offended by his partner saying, "I need you inside me, please", they really shouldn't be having sex in the first place. When it comes to kink, though, if your imagination goes places that some partners may find uncomfortable, you risk shocking them however you express it.

But isn't it wonderful when you finally blurt out the one personal fantasy which makes you shamefully damp because the fantasy itself is deliciously, filthily wrong...and your partner isn't shocked but grins, calls you a fucked up little whore in loving and understanding kind of way, and explores every dark and twisted crevice of it with you?

PS. I'm shit at dirty talk, as I have no imagination, a four word vocabulary, and talk in a boring, nasal monotone which causes instant vaginal desiccation in the listener.