Why do older men become bi-curious?

[oneblueye]

hey ...

This is a WILD speculation, but could it be that lowered levels of testosterone that come with age - make them care less?

I asked my urologist that same thing, he said No, but then he was an old fella himself. Because I had low T he started giving me testosterone injections but even with normal T levels, I still have the desire to touch, tug, suck on a nice hard cock.

 

[guns4444]

For me lack of sex and sexual adventures once i got married got me wondering...

 

[Dreamer110]

To be honest I don't really think about it. Just know that I'm very curious.

 

[Geminibeard]

Menopause

Because the wives have lost interest and we are still horny.

 

[Noob80301]

Tutor

I have seen the pattern of older men becoming bi curious too. The commonality I found was the lack of physical affection from wives. Some prior posts postulated this. For me, I would enjoy being a partner for such an older guy looking to explore.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

No idea why it happens, but I'm just like everyone else on this thread. 52 and bi thoughts never really crossed my mind until a few years ago. I've never fooled around with a guy. Glad there are so many of us in the same situation!

It has been a little surprising how many guys have the same thoughts and are in more or less the same situation, for whatever reason. Perhaps later in life we're ready to just let go of the taboo

 

[bobb_sledd]

Maybe not completely on topic, but I've noticed from readings and discussions, that woman seem to be more bi-curious when younger and men more bi-curious when they get older. Thoughts?

 

[betabrad]

As for me I think that there are several factors that have led me to become bi-curious :


I've looked at a lot of porn and by looking at porn and sexy women , you're also looking at a lot of big hard cocks.
I have a small penis and i can not help but be intrigued by a big hard cock.
I tend to be a little bit submissive by nature ( i personally think this is influenced by having a small penis).
I've found out in my 40s that i have low testosterone. I saw a Dr and had some treatment, but nothing seemed to work.I am now in my 50s and i think my levels have dropped even more. I have always had problems sexually and now they're worse. I have always had trouble getting hard , staying hard and cumming too quickly. At this point it just feels to me I am better off taking on a traditionally female role in sex - taking a submissive role in sex ; giving pleasure to women or men with my mouth and tongue and offering my ass to be used.

These days when i masturbate i probably look like a girl - leaning back, legs spread, looking at pics of big hard cocks and imagining that i'm sucking cock or being fucked and moaning while i rub my semi hard cock ( actually, i dont think I should even call it a cock) thru my briefs.

 

[mijbob79]

bi-curious

I am 58 and have been having urges to suck a cock for the last couple of years. Still looking for the first one. Want to be able to take his cock down to the base and feel his cock throb and fill my mouth with his hot cum. I would alos like to feel what it is liked to be fucked. Have used a dildo a few times while jacking off very intense cums from that. Would love to meet a bi couple and make love to both of them. Just so many thoughts in my head. My goal is to do this soon.

 

[vizio]

I am 58 and have been having urges to suck a cock for the last couple of years. Still looking for the first one. Want to be able to take his cock down to the base and feel his cock throb and fill my mouth with his hot cum. I would alos like to feel what it is liked to be fucked. Have used a dildo a few times while jacking off very intense cums from that. Would love to meet a bi couple and make love to both of them. Just so many thoughts in my head. My goal is to do this soon.

If I may suggest if at all possible your first time be with a smaller more manageable cock. IMHO its more pleasurable when you can take it all with out gagging.

 

[gurlsynthia]

I am 58 and have been having urges to suck a cock for the last couple of years. Still looking for the first one. Want to be able to take his cock down to the base and feel his cock throb and fill my mouth with his hot cum. I would alos like to feel what it is liked to be fucked. Have used a dildo a few times while jacking off very intense cums from that. Would love to meet a bi couple and make love to both of them. Just so many thoughts in my head. My goal is to do this soon.

It appears that you and I are in the same place. Both of us are still looking for that right guy/moment to enjoy our first cock. I am older and have reached this point after years of viewing and masturbating to shemale/cross dresser/fembois/sissy/you name it, anything that involved a chick with a dick. I became and still am obsessed with this type of porn to the exclusion of all other types, with the possible exception of lesbian porn. I love the emotional connection expressed between two women. They seem to genuinely to be enjoying each other. I never saw that feeling in gay porn, just let's get fucking. I want to feel that emotional connection (so well expressed by lesbians) with another gurl or guy. First and formost I want to give someone with a dick a blowjob and then later he or she would take my virginity anally. One other thought and I know it is a little far out, but I think I became more obsessed with the idea of orally pleasuring a cock after I began to regularly eat my cum after masturbating.

 

[Escierto]

I never became interested in men as I got older. Instead I developed a fascination for transgender women especially girls who like to top. All these years I never knew how happy I would be as a bottom.

 

[bottomshooter]

It has gotten to the point to where I only fantasize about gay sex and I can only cum thinking of fucking a man.

 

[saintcero]

It has gotten to the point to where I only fantasize about gay sex and I can only cum thinking of fucking a man.

getting there too. Silverdaddies and Lit have normalized m2m activity and shown me that there are many others with the same fantasies and desires.

 

[Hughbaker]

Yep, I want to

I’ve also been wanting to revisit the act. It IS a wonderful and exiting experience; I love the taboo nature of the act. Just need to find a “normal” and safe guy in my area, the same challenge that many of us experience.

 

[mijbob79]

Thanks that is a good point,

 

[Crapshoot1999]

BiC

Being 59, sex with wife has declined. I just like having a jo buddy.

 

[Handzsolo]

What he said

 

[Virginiathick7]

Waynesboro, VA here...................

 

[hulmule]

Because of a sexless marriages I think older men look at everything. Your trying to find a void to fill being you get no affection from your wife. Not attracted to men. But watch all kind of porn to stimulate myself. Haven't been deep throat and cum since I was single. Living off memories. It's Taboo, the list goes on I guess. People fantasy about tons of stuff until it comes time to fulfill the fantasy. MY2cents

 

[bi_cpl_with_crossdresser]

I can honestly say I have been interested in having a bi experience since I was young, but as I get older I feel like I have missed out on something. I have been chatting with the wife about it, so we will see where it goes.

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

why older men get interested in bi

Go to a bath house it's clear every single man there is looking for sex with men; go to an adult theater it's the same. So lots of guys want it and want to get it. It's certainly an odd moment when you admit to yourself that some guys do a really, really great job of sucking cock, and you want more of it.

 

[carln3346]

. . . It's certainly an odd moment when you admit to yourself that some guys do a really, really great job of sucking cock, and you want more of it.

it's also an odd moment when you realize how much you enjoy doing it . ..

 

[Pines]

Go to a bath house it's clear every single man there is looking for sex with men; go to an adult theater it's the same. So lots of guys want it and want to get it. It's certainly an odd moment when you admit to yourself that some guys do a really, really great job of sucking cock, and you want more of it.

Totally agree, especially with the bathhouse venue.

 

[freakyandthensome]

Totally agree, especially with the bathhouse venue.

i think as men get older especially in their 40's as in my case often men get almost doses of estrogen were we see the development of boobs almost; and one could say that when we see men who are not necessarily heavy but have some breast development that they prob. have gay/bi tendencies. This is an unlocked erogenous zone to the prob. already discovered prostate..

https://xhamster.com/videos/horny-and-playing-around-12985902

this compounded by the sexless marriage; where the wife is now an expensive roommate.