Lootequiette: Pmann's Totally Original/Unaffiliated Thread

[Endless_Night]

So you've never had one too many and found "not your type" sleeping next to you?

My rare, one-two-many situations have usually ended with me curled into a little ball. Snoring. Delicately (of course. ).

#lightweight

I’ve been a neglectful Nancy today. Oops!

Tsk, tsk, tsk.

 

[Mr_bogey]

Me thinks someone is tiptoeing around the question.

 

[Endless_Night]

Me thinks someone is tiptoeing around the question.

My unplanned (see other thread ) one-nighters have…


…ended up with my type.


*said with dignity*


If there is such a thing in that situation.


I'm telling you, I have a type!

 

[Lord Pmann]

Alright, Endless_Night’s one-night stands are today’s topic of conversation.

We all have past relationships we think of fondly. And then there are those where we wonder, “What on earth drug me down this path?”

Two parts to the question:

a) Do you think of most past relationships fondly or with regret?
b) The ones you regret, why do you regret them? What made you fall for the person in the first place?

And bonus question:

For all your bad relationships, would you choose to have never met that person or would you choose to go through it anyway?

The Dance by Garth Brooks
https://youtu.be/149XR6htQwU

 

[Endless_Night]

Deep, Dude.

a) Huh. I don’t know that I remember any past relationships fondly. Grateful for lessons learned, certainly, or what was gained, or where it took me. Really, they’re just things in the past.

b) Two with regrets. One resulted in the death of someone close. One in the death of myself. (Enigmatic, huh? )


Bonus: One I would definitely choose not to repeat.


I am now curious. Do most people remember past relationships fondly? It seems like such an active emotion.

 

[RaineDrops]

a) There are only a couple of past relationships I still think of fondly. One with regret. Others, I neither remember fondly, nor regret them.

b) I regret the one relationship, because it was with someone dear to me and ended in a heartbreak, him getting hurt in the process.

I would choose not to repeat the one I regret, but I’m glad I met that person. For other bad relationships that I don’t really regret, I would go through it anyway. I’m thankful for whatever I learned.

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

Alright, Endless_Night’s one-night stands are today’s topic of conversation.

We all have past relationships we think of fondly. And then there are those where we wonder, “What on earth drug me down this path?”

Two parts to the question:

a) Do you think of most past relationships fondly or with regret?
b) The ones you regret, why do you regret them? What made you fall for the person in the first place?

And bonus question:

For all your bad relationships, would you choose to have never met that person or would you choose to go through it anyway?

The Dance by Garth Brooks
https://youtu.be/149XR6htQwU

I've been pretty fortunate, I think. I honestly don't have any relationships that I truly regret.

Some I remember more fondly than others, and there are a very, very small number that I wish had maybe not ended at all, or ended in the fashion that they did, because I still care for them deeply.

I know there are many, many people who have had relationships where they wish the other person had never come into their lives. I know I'm fortunate that I have never had that happen, offline or online.

 

[StacyLeigh]

a) Do you think of most past relationships fondly or with regret?
b) The ones you regret, why do you regret them? What made you fall for the person in the first place?

And bonus question:

For all your bad relationships, would you choose to have never met that person or would you choose to go through it anyway?

a) Most all my past relationships are fond memories. I'm still friends or friendly with every ex I've had, even back to high school. The good in each one outweighed any negative. I've learned valuable lessons from the negative aspects of each - making me a better person, partner, and friend.

b) No regrets. For each, I fell for who they were and how they made me feel....and ultimately each failed because one or both of us changed in someway that no longer worked for our relationship.

Bonus) I likely wouldn't be the person I am without the experiences of my life. I quite like the person I am so yes, I'd go through the bad and ugly again.

 

[LifeIsGood3976]

a) Do you think of most past relationships fondly or with regret?
b) The ones you regret, why do you regret them? What made you fall for the person in the first place?
And bonus question:
For all your bad relationships, would you choose to have never met that person or would you choose to go through it anyway?

I heard an expression once that always stuck with me. That your ex's are ex's for a reason. That is the case with me. I don't regret any of them, and because they usually ended by fizzling out, I cant say I necessarily recall them fondly. Yes, there are moments that come to mind, but for the most part, I don't dwell in the past and try to always look forward.

People are where they are because of the road you took and the forks in that you road that you chose. Choose to change a route, and your life is changed - maybe in ways you didn't anticipate. I would do everything I did previously because it all brought me here.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I remember the moments fondly. I don’t regret any relationships because they’re still learning experiences and things that shaped me.

I do “regret” investing so much time and energy into relationships that were never going to go anywhere. And most relationships have ended with me looking back and wondering what I saw in her.

But retrospect is full of wondering what we were thinking at the time.

Have you looked at your high school pictures recently? You thought you looked cool. You did not.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I often joke about my oh so wrong exes, but I know exactly what drew me, and it was right at that moment. I believe most relationships are transitory, and usually temporary. They are to be enjoyed for the moment, for what they are, to permit personal growth, offer new experiences, and bring enjoyment to life. They were all unique and I am grateful for the experiences. I have always been very open about my relationship philosophy, and found Mr. Wrong was best. There was a trend with men who weren't clearly wrong. They would say they understood my desire for non-commitment when we began dating, but not long after, it happens. “How am I supposed to introduce you when I run into people on the street?" "What are we? Where are we going? What will we do next Christmas? Will we have a house and 2.54 kids someday? Should I be looking for someone else?" Well, damn, this again. I was starting to really like you. Why do I have to plan our relationship years ahead? Why can't we just enjoy it? The pressure, I can’t. I shut down. Shortly, he sees our interactions are now much more superficial and we reach the Floyd relationship ending. He will start with "Why won't you talk to me?" and I will amicably end it with "you are great but I am not what you are looking for" I am still friends with them, I just couldn’t be what they needed, and it just wasn't fair to keep repeating the cycle with another man. 4 months was my typical relationship before commitment, shut down, end. Then I saw how freeing Mr Wrong was. Mr Wrong knew it was wrong, there was no future, thus didn't ask for a promise of one. We simply enjoyed our time together when we had it. Simple, free, no strings. I've enjoyed several Mr Wrongs. I think if most people looked at a book of my exes, they would ask "what were you thinking?". I know exactly what I was thinking. I was having fun. I enjoyed their company. It is that simple. I dated many types and had such a variety of experiences that life probably wouldn't have offered otherwise. Even my husband wasn’t supposed to stick. It was a brief transitory relationship for us that I gave 6 months at most. We just somehow kept moving in the same direction and had an undefined relationship/living arrangement for so long that I was eventually able to feel I could commit to more. Apparently, I just need a few years before commitments can be made.

Zero regrets. I am still friends with almost all, from the Mr. Wrongs, to the amicable ends. I sometimes meet with them if I am in that area. They meet me if passing through Florida. I have met some of their wives. I remember every single one fondly, and I would do them all again.

 

[Suz_anne]

There's only one relationship that gives me any feelings of regret. He wasn't a very nice guy and it took me awhile to figure that out because his not niceness was based in manipulation and other mental gymnastics.

I don't regret the relationship as a whole because I did learn a lot from it. And the sex was unbelievably good. But I regret that it took me so long to figure him out.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Have you looked at your high school pictures recently? You thought you looked cool. You did not.

Fuck off! I looked awesome with my Dawson’s Creek hair style.

——————-

Most relationships I remember fondly. Very few ended poorly, not that I had many. Most were fun times and the girls were super nice and sweet, we just didn’t work out. I liked them for a reason.

As far as regrets, it’s more to do with staying longer than you should that made it go sour. Sometimes it becomes hard to see the good at that point.

Bonus: I am who I am today because of all my experiences. Sometimes the bad helps you learn what good really is.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Fuck off! I looked awesome with my Dawson’s Creek hair style.

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/e7/49/16/e749169b926b7cc6bd98ba3aa9a7c59d.jpg

More like Dawson's Septic Tank.

 

[Suz_anne]

I don't think Pmann ever had Dawson's Creek hair. I feel like he's had his current hairstyle (I use that term loosely) since the age of 8.

 

[Mr_bogey]

Alright, Endless_Night’s one-night stands are today’s topic of conversation.

We all have past relationships we think of fondly. And then there are those where we wonder, “What on earth drug me down this path?”

Two parts to the question:

a) Do you think of most past relationships fondly or with regret?
b) The ones you regret, why do you regret them? What made you fall for the person in the first place?

And bonus question:

For all your bad relationships, would you choose to have never met that person or would you choose to go through it anyway?

The Dance by Garth Brooks
https://youtu.be/149XR6htQwU

There are some I think on fondly. Some where I wonder what they are doing, how their life turned out and what they look like now? Others I don't think about really. No regrets other than opportunities I chose not to pursue. Each experience helped me discover more about me, what I liked and what I didn't and helped me discover what I'm attracted to and what I should avoid. I think that pretty much answers all 3 parts.

 

[Mr_bogey]

I remember the moments fondly. I don’t regret any relationships because they’re still learning experiences and things that shaped me.

I do “regret” investing so much time and energy into relationships that were never going to go anywhere. And most relationships have ended with me looking back and wondering what I saw in her.

But retrospect is full of wondering what we were thinking at the time.

Have you looked at your high school pictures recently? You thought you looked cool. You did not.

You were obviously not considering me when you wrote that last sentence. I looked very cool. Hair parted in the middle and luscious flow were all the rage.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I don't think Pmann ever had Dawson's Creek hair. I feel like he's had his current hairstyle (I use that term loosely) since the age of 8.

This is not true. I am going to have to prove this. Fuck all y’all.

And I shall be back with questions tomorrow. I’ve been tangled in another thread with arguments. You know how it is.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I've been a shameful thread owner, neglecting my own for newer, shinier threads. Anyway...

I was in another thread that had a lot of heated debate going. I like that kind of thing. Not the heated part, necessarily. But I don't mind debate.

However, sometimes I see people who can't stand this. They don't like it. They do everything they can to avoid conflict. Perhaps they lived in situations where people fought and it brings up bad memories.

Where do you lie in this spectrum of conflict and peace? Are you okay with it? Or does it make you uncomfortable?

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

I've been a shameful thread owner, neglecting my own for newer, shinier threads. Anyway...

I was in another thread that had a lot of heated debate going. I like that kind of thing. Not the heated part, necessarily. But I don't mind debate.

However, sometimes I see people who can't stand this. They don't like it. They do everything they can to avoid conflict. Perhaps they lived in situations where people fought and it brings up bad memories.

Where do you lie in this spectrum of conflict and peace? Are you okay with it? Or does it make you uncomfortable?

In general, I dislike conflict. I like debate, but conflict is a higher level thing and I have neither the patience nor the inclination to engage in such things routinely.

There are exceptions to this, especially professionally, but in general I just don't wish to put up with conflict for conflict's sake unless I have a legitimate interest in its resolution.

In this medium, it is exceedingly rare that I do, so I just won't engage without a damned good reason. That's not why I'm here. If I wanted that I could do it on any social media platform...and I don't do it there, either.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I'm naturally conflict avoidant yet am happy to engage in debate. The worst thing for me is being asked my opinion on something I'm completely ignorant to. I hate it. Ill happily admit I don't have enough information to talk on a subject yet some people insist on pushing through that and bombarding me with their opinions. When I question why they think the way they do, often times they're defensive which tells me they're just as informed as I am.

As Tim Minchin says- opinions are like assholes. Everyone has them. Unlike assholes though, yours should be constantly and thoroughly examined.

I do appreciate hearing people's opinions as it presents an opportunity for me to expand my understanding of a topic. I think it's the scientist in me because I love being proved wrong (without the use of logical fallacy).

I also appreciate that often both people can be "right" and very little in this world is binary.

 

[hotwords229_A]

A good debate or even an argument is great. An argument meaning lots of yelling due to passion, but with civility intact.

I’m all for it in real life, and in RL I may be more Pmann-esque in my occasional desire to stir the pot. Online, however, it seems utterly hopeless, pointless and time I could better spend jerking it. Anonymity is far too powerful for some to use as a way of contributing nothing, making things worse, spewing out narrow-minded bullshit and ensuring that nothing will ever be solved.

Plus, this is a porn site, right? I personally come here for the nudity, sexiness and shared perversions, not the controversy and drama. I am here (mostly) to get away from all the dumb shit. So I avoid getting into it with people. There just is no point.

On the other hand, question threads are interesting to me because they are simply ideas that are shared, points of view, opinions that aren’t really up for debate.

As a once great man said, “If you’re not careful, you may learn something before it’s done.”

 

[Lord Pmann]

I’m all for it in real life, and in RL I may be more Pmann-esque in my occasional desire to stir the pot. Online, however, it seems utterly hopeless, pointless and time I could better spend jerking it.

You're a little more pmann esque? Nawwwwww.

I admit, I do try to be the classier of all the pot-stirrers. I stir it with a classy cane.

You do realize you can jerk off and argue on the internet at the same time, right? That's basically how all of my pot stirring happens. And how this post is happening.

 

[Daisy_Love]

I think debate is a great thing, heated discussion even, it shows people believe in standing up for their beliefs. Conflict I don’t like, it’s futile and if the discussion moves in that direction neither parties voice is heard and in my experience it inevitably becomes personal. Words are powerful and once said there’s no going back.

I love to hear others points of view, even if I don’t share the same view and I would never push my views/beliefs on anyone. I’m passionate about certain subjects and when I feel it’s valid or I’m asked I’ll share my feelings on that subject but I will step away from conflict especially online.

 

[Suz_anne]

Pmann jerking off while replying to hw? Have all of my internet dreams come true???