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[Wild_Honey_66]

45 minutes?! Is that a thing??

I don't think anyone I've been with has spent longer than maybe 5 minutes down there.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

45 minutes?! Is that a thing??

I don't think anyone I've been with has spent longer than maybe 5 minutes down there.

oh no. If it turns out that it isn't a thing, well, a world where it isn't a thing is just not a world I can even bring myself to imagine.

 

[BongoGal]

Do you remember your best ever orgasm??

I don't know if it was the best ever, but it was definitely the most intense. The short version of the story is that one sunny Saturday afternoon, a soon-to-be-ex boyfriend initiated a round of sexual activity. My plan had been to gently let him know that we were no longer a couple, but I decided to go along with the sex and then break up with him later (that day? the next day? I forget.) For reasons that make no sense to me now, I was determined to go through with the sex but without my getting off. I thought I was being generous and kind to him, and somehow, honest with myself. As I said, it makes no sense.

Anyhow, to cut to the chase, we engaged in intercourse as we had a dozen or so times before. This time was different, though. I figured he'd get off, and I'd just roll over and declare myself done. I can't explain why, but this particular afternoon saw him morph into Mr. Staying Power. At some point, I thought, "This is lasting longer than usual." And he just kept going. And going. I eventually began to think that if he didn't come soon, then I just might. I had already decided beforehand that I wanted to avoid an orgasm of my own, so I did whatever I could to hold it off. I tried doing mental tricks to distract myself, and that did work to an extent. I could tamp it down for a bit, but then it would push back.

My brain was trying to tell my nether regions to stop enjoying this, yet the nethers soon stopped listening even a little. I actually considered faking an orgasm, but that is trickier than you might think when you are well on your way to having one. I thought for a moment that I could stop all this with a make-believe leg cramp or something, but I still wanted to be generous and kind. Eventually, despite my misguided and useless attempts to stop it, that orgasm just exploded within me. Trying to resist it ended up turning it up to 11. My head was a whirlwind of flashing stars and pulsating pleasure. I was gone. I honestly have no idea how long this lasted because I was in my own world. I didn't even notice his orgasm. I guess he could last all that time but wasn't able to keep going while a loudly moaning feral woman is having a virtual seizure beneath him.

When I finally felt my brain coming back to normal, I was actually embarrassed. It was not like me to lose control like that. He said, "That was pretty intense. I've never seen you like that." I ended up not breaking up with him for a little over a month.

 

[Mei5ter]

oh no. If it turns out that it isn't a thing, well, a world where it isn't a thing is just not a world I can even bring myself to imagine.

Oh, believe me. It's a thing.

There are those who take pride in what they're doing.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I don't know if it was the best ever, but it was definitely the most intense. The short version of the story is that one sunny Saturday afternoon, a soon-to-be-ex boyfriend initiated a round of sexual activity. My plan had been to gently let him know that we were no longer a couple, but I decided to go along with the sex and then break up with him later (that day? the next day? I forget.) For reasons that make no sense to me now, I was determined to go through with the sex but without my getting off. I thought I was being generous and kind to him, and somehow, honest with myself. As I said, it makes no sense.

Anyhow, to cut to the chase, we engaged in intercourse as we had a dozen or so times before. This time was different, though. I figured he'd get off, and I'd just roll over and declare myself done. I can't explain why, but this particular afternoon saw him morph into Mr. Staying Power. At some point, I thought, "This is lasting longer than usual." And he just kept going. And going. I eventually began to think that if he didn't come soon, then I just might. I had already decided beforehand that I wanted to avoid an orgasm of my own, so I did whatever I could to hold it off. I tried doing mental tricks to distract myself, and that did work to an extent. I could tamp it down for a bit, but then it would push back.

My brain was trying to tell my nether regions to stop enjoying this, yet the nethers soon stopped listening even a little. I actually considered faking an orgasm, but that is trickier than you might think when you are well on your way to having one. I thought for a moment that I could stop all this with a make-believe leg cramp or something, but I still wanted to be generous and kind. Eventually, despite my misguided and useless attempts to stop it, that orgasm just exploded within me. Trying to resist it ended up turning it up to 11. My head was a whirlwind of flashing stars and pulsating pleasure. I was gone. I honestly have no idea how long this lasted because I was in my own world. I didn't even notice his orgasm. I guess he could last all that time but wasn't able to keep going while a loudly moaning feral woman is having a virtual seizure beneath him.

When I finally felt my brain coming back to normal, I was actually embarrassed. It was not like me to lose control like that. He said, "That was pretty intense. I've never seen you like that." I ended up not breaking up with him for a little over a month.

Could he have noticed you weren't into it, and was trying harder?

It’s a thing. Maybe not 45? But definitely close.
If you know what I’m sayin.

Oh, believe me. It's a thing.

There are those who take pride in what they're doing.

Oh, it is a thing in my world, not an everyday or even every month thing unfortunately, ok fine now it is a rare thing, but it is a thing. I've lost 2 hours before. look at the clock, it is not even 11 yet, look again, and it is past 1. damn when did that happen. I love those nights. But, I haven't been out in the current dating scene. Hell, I need Google open and learn a new word or acronym every time I read the doublelist personals. If is somehow became no longer a thing, that would make me rather sad.

 

[BlondeAmbition4RP]

For me, I am all gung ho hoorah at first. Then the neck and jaw start to hurt and I try to focus on other things and it devolves to the Garfunkel and Oates bj song in my head.

https://youtu.be/DRAY1ObihcE

Hahahaha!! SAME! Also, love those two. "29/31" makes me laugh cry.

02.29.20

Happy Leap Day! Let's talk about orgasms!!!

What makes some better than others? Can you pinpoint it? Is quality worth it or do you need to just bang one out sometimes? Do you remember your best ever orgasm??

A combination of clit and G spot stimulation make the best ones for me, though what REALLY makes a difference is my mood and if I'm in the right head space. When I'm completely in the moment and when the guy taps into my personal kinks and knows just what to say at just the right time to really turn me on mentally too, then those are the best. In general I'm a "quality over quantity" and like to take my time, but I do have times when I just need to rub/bang one out as well, especially if I'm stressed over something or if it's close to my period and I'm extra horny due to hormones.

I've had just once where my orgasm was so intense that I cried, so that would definitely be the best (so far ).

 

[AveryElle]

45 minutes?! Is that a thing??

I don't think anyone I've been with has spent longer than maybe 5 minutes down there.

It’s a thing, but best for everyone not to assume all women want that. Too long feels too passive for me.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

It’s a thing, but best for everyone not to assume all women want that. Too long feels too passive for me.

Yeah, i think I'd get bored after a few minutes.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Yeah, i think I'd get bored after a few minutes.

Yeah... unless there was a mixture of things going on - talk, denial, pain play, etc - but basic oral sex my mind would wander too. Weird how I don't feel that way about giving oral.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Bored? Passive?

Ya'll.

Yeah... I don't quite get it. I've been more bored with regular sex than oral sex.

 

[tnman03]

Yeah... I don't quite get it. I've been more bored with regular sex than oral sex.

Is this in respect to a giving or a reciving side of the equation with respect to having more control over the process? Or is it more a matter of a less intense but more in the moment side of it?

I really found Avery's, WH yours and Indies responses interesting so thanks to all of you for posting them.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Bored? Passive?

Ya'll.

Eh.

I usually make them stop after a couple of minutes. Physically, any longer than that is over-stimulating and exhausting. But it's not stimulating in the right way to make me come, so yeah... bored. I mean, it feels really really good, but i need the D!

Eta: I'm definitely not passive lol. I'm thrashing around, yelping and squealing and sort of trying/not trying to wriggle away from him. He always had to hold me down.

 

[The_gladiator]

Yeah... I don't quite get it. I've been more bored with regular sex than oral sex.

this is very true for me, I find oral both giving and receiving much more interesting than regular sex.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

this is very true for me, I find oral both giving and receiving much more interesting than regular sex.

Huh. Interesting!

I can't come from PIV alone (at least i haven't yet), but i always want something inside of me when i do. I'd rather have PIV and not come, than come without something inside of me.

 

[The_gladiator]

Huh. Interesting!

I can't come from PIV alone (at least i haven't yet), but i always want something inside of me when i do. I'd rather have PIV and not come, than come without something inside of me.

Interesting. It's so fascinating how no two people experience pleasure exactly the same way.


I've had more intense orgasms from hand jobs than PIV with some partners.

 

[tnman03]

It’s interactive. Again. It depends on the man. And his mouth.

OK, now this I've been told before in post-coital bed conversations. I asked questions and listened to what my partner had to say about what she liked.

 

[AlpineFresco]

I've grown a little bit less enthusiastic over time about giving oral. I've never been with anyone who really liked it with me, and only one partner who (AFAICR) has communicated that they wanted it (which could mean I'm just not great). I do it, though, because I like it, it's something of a feeling of 'I'm going to have this now'.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I've grown a little bit less enthusiastic over time about giving oral. I've never been with anyone who really liked it with me, and only one partner who (AFAICR) has communicated that they wanted it (which could mean I'm just not great). I do it, though, because I like it, it's something of a feeling of 'I'm going to have this now'.

I am about a 1.5/10 at asking for what I need in bed, and i suspect that my experience with receiving oral has a lot to do with that. I have no problem asking for what i want: 'Hang on, i want to turn over (so that you can pound me)' 'spank me please?' etc. But when i really need something... nope, not yet. It seems I require something emotionally that I've never had before i can uncover that layer of vulnerability. So... I tolerate the pretty-good-but-less-than-stellar-sex in the meantime.

It's my own fault. I should own my shit and stop complaining.

 

[The_gladiator]

I am about a 1.5/10 at asking for what I need in bed, and i suspect that my experience with receiving oral has a lot to do with that. I have no problem asking for what i want: 'Hang on, i want to turn over (so that you can pound me)' 'spank me please?' etc. But when i really need something... nope, not yet. It seems I require something emotionally that I've never had before i can uncover that layer of vulnerability. So... I tolerate the pretty-good-but-less-than-stellar-sex in the meantime.

It's my own fault. I should own my shit and stop complaining.

it's difficult to ask for what we want... I can identify with this.

 

[AveryElle]

I've grown a little bit less enthusiastic over time about giving oral. I've never been with anyone who really liked it with me, and only one partner who (AFAICR) has communicated that they wanted it (which could mean I'm just not great). I do it, though, because I like it, it's something of a feeling of 'I'm going to have this now'.

You’re good at it

 

[AveryElle]

It’s interactive. Again. It depends on the man. And his mouth.

Maybe I’m doing it wrong. I guess I could touch myself elsewhere (but don’t have especially sensitive tits, so seems pointless if he can’t see?). I don’t want to push his face info me. Teach me, oh interactive one!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

It’s interactive. Again. It depends on the man. And his mouth.

Maybe I’m doing it wrong. I guess I could touch myself elsewhere (but don’t have especially sensitive tits, so seems pointless if he can’t see?). I don’t want to push his face info me. Teach me, oh interactive one!

I'm curious too!

I've only had oral from three partners, the most recent was noticeably more enthusiastic than the previous two, which did more for me, making me more responsive. I buried my fingers in his hair. I pressed down on the top of his head to try to get away... well, my hand would be pushing him away but my hips would be churning and lifting to meet him. I gripped his upper arms when he wrapped them around my thighs to keep me on the bed, or his forearms when he held my wrists. Sometimes he laced his fingers through mine and i would hold tight and push back, i liked the leverage it gave me to be able to grind against his face.

When he was behind me... well, you know... then it was mostly screaming and moaning and writhing and hitting the bed and grabbing the sheets.

 

[The_gladiator]

I'm curious too!

I've only had oral from three partners, the most recent was noticeably more enthusiastic than the previous two, which did more for me, making me more responsive. I buried my fingers in his hair. I pressed down on the top of his head to try to get away... well, my hand would be pushing him away but my hips would be churning and lifting to meet him. I gripped his upper arms when he wrapped them around my thighs to keep me on the bed, or his forearms when he held my wrists. Sometimes he laced his fingers through mine and i would hold tight and push back, i liked the leverage it gave me to be able to grind against his face.

When he was behind me... well, you know... then it was mostly screaming and moaning and writhing and hitting the bed and grabbing the sheets.

this post needs a like button. damn that was hot.

 

[Mtnmike]

I dunno, ladies. When I think of 45 minutes of oral attention, my first thought is heavenly. I want him to make a big sloppy mess of me. And then do it again. And again. And again. Until I'm begging him to fuck me. I want it sweet and gentle, using his tongue to write a whole manuscript between my thighs. I want it hungry and ravenous, devouring every last drop. Yea. I'm kinda greedy.

Thank You Indie, i've been sitting here reading and thinking that I've been doing it wrong my whole life. 45 minutes seems like a short time to spend between a woman's legs, to me personally that would be a quickie? I understand there are men that aren't good at it and get that she would get bored but speak up and help him learn how to be better. I know every lady is a little different on what works or they like but heck that's part of the fun. Just my 2cents.

 

[Mtnmike]

I dunno, ladies. When I think of 45 minutes of oral attention, my first thought is heavenly. I want him to make a big sloppy mess of me. And then do it again. And again. And again. Until I'm begging him to fuck me. I want it sweet and gentle, using his tongue to write a whole manuscript between my thighs. I want it hungry and ravenous, devouring every last drop. Yea. I'm kinda greedy.

O forgot, I'm greedy too. I don't won't to come up for air till she's orgasmed multiple times and is begging for the C.