Cfnm...your thoughts?

[yukonnights]

For me, CFNM goes under 'fantasies I wish had happened to me as a teenager' and generally involve themes of being stuck in situations lasting weeks or months, where teen and/or adult females are in charge, and I'm kept naked with zero opportunity to masturbate. Variations on the female's reactions to the unavoidable and prominent developing male sexual frustration. I'm quite disappointed with teen-myself, for never even conceiving of the concept of orgasm denial, male or female.

So in general C(F/f)N(M/m), org-denial, nc is one of the erotica genres I like.

Which is why I'm here now. The ASN storyboard shut down recently, and I happened to wonder if a particular story started there, has shown up and been continued anywhere else. It is "Fall Into a CFNM Life - Part 2" by author D.B. A very well written start, with great potential.
Knowing ASN was to shut down in October 2019, the author had commented "I’ll probably start posting to Literotica ultimately."

But so far, apparently not. No such author or title here. I saved a copy of the story, and really hope more will come. If you see this D.B. , please do continue.

I'm not DB. But I do have a story in the works for the upcoming Valentines Day contest which you might like. It's two bi-females who decide one night while talking that they need a boi-toy/man-slave to "do stuff to". The story is about them pursuing that desire. I'll try to remember to post a link to it on this thread once it's published.

 

[tonyp]

hmmm

when i was younger i was asked to nude model some photos

which i did ..a guy and his wife took pics

as it started it was him and me then she walked in

i was young ...she was looking at me i got hard

he took pics of me hard next to her clothed

it was very hot

then at the end she sucked me dry

 

[Erosfan]

I'm not DB. But I do have a story in the works for the upcoming Valentines Day contest which you might like. It's two bi-females who decide one night while talking that they need a boi-toy/man-slave to "do stuff to". The story is about them pursuing that desire. I'll try to remember to post a link to it on this thread once it's published.

Sounds like a great story. Please let us know when you finish and post this.

 

[swflsrmale]

I've been naked in front of a female friend of ours. She doesn't seem to mind at all. If I get wife approval I want to do it all the time. I've also told her some of my darkest secrets that only my wife knows and she is always open to hear more. She knows I'm Bi and that I have a submissive streak running through me. And, she saw me at my smallest, (it was almost clitty sized at the time) It actually feels good to be nude in front of her and I want it to continue.....

 

[yukonnights]

I've been naked in front of a female friend of ours. She doesn't seem to mind at all. If I get wife approval I want to do it all the time. I've also told her some of my darkest secrets that only my wife knows and she is always open to hear more. She knows I'm Bi and that I have a submissive streak running through me. And, she saw me at my smallest, (it was almost clitty sized at the time) It actually feels good to be nude in front of her and I want it to continue.....

I have a friend who had an ongoing "friendship" with a dominant woman. He told me that being vulnerable with her really changed him for the better on a deeply emotional/mental level. A lot of what she did was clothed observation, direction and comment while he was nude for her. This led my friend and I into a conversation about toxic masculinity, which in simple terms is; societal expectations taking precedence over internal personal traits. This can be further broken down as; Man boss, woman make babies and behave like Man tells her

So, I guess the moral of all this is; CFnm — It's not only fun, it's good for you...and good for the world

 

[yukonnights]

Sounds like a great story. Please let us know when you finish and post this.

Will do...if I can get the stupid thing edited to my satisfaction

 

[Erosfan]

My wife knows she has to be careful with telling me forcefully to get nude in a private setting...
She does it if we are alone, and I comply
She knows if we were at a clothing optional place I would do it (we have never)
She knows if she tells me to do so in front of her girlfriends I would do it... I hope she thought it right and they know because I will do it...

I would never do it in an out of place location... in a public space were society norms, common sense or law forbids it...


I hope one day going to a clothing optional space again and having her tell me to get nude....

My wife knows she has to be careful telling me to get naked because I will. I've told her I will do it for her no matter when or where we are. She is cautious to a fault times.
I have begged her to invite a couple of friends over and let me be her toy in front of them.

 

[awired50]

Very arousing

 

[nutoseen]

love cfnm mixed with

i found out i was into cfnm mixed with a little sph a few years back and have been trying to find a few good women in WA sate to enjoy with me

 

[brightsmile]

Nice thread. For me I would just like it one-on-one; no sharing with other females. This would be good foreplay.

 

[awired50]

https://realbooru.com//images/679/174c00f1a71d549b4b34ead63b0a4bf3.gif

 

[jsez]

One of my all-time favorites...

Long time practitioner of cfnm - way before I knew it was a "thing". And once I did, woo-hoo! It made it even more fun as it made the dynamics clear and made it easier to look specifically for people who also enjoy this type of 'sport'.

//

 

[JimAner]

CFNM is not really new, at least not for me. It just wasn't called that. We had a CFNM club in the late 1970s. Among our friends, having parties where the guys were nude and treated as sex objects was considered Feminist. I loved it, because for once, we guys didn't have to work hard to get laid. That was when I was in college, and it stopped when I got a real job and most of the other people in the group had kids.

I am finally back in a CFNM relationship after all these years. Since I am retired and can spend most of my time in the house, I am expected to be nude whenever I am inside, unless there is someone in the house who is doing work for us, or old friends and family members who wouldn't understand, are visiting. However, the bulk of the people with whom we now socialize are also in Female Led Relationships; although, not all of them are into CFNM. Nevertheless, they know that when they come to our house for cocktails or dinner parties, I will be fully naked, and that my partner expects all the other men to strip as soon as they come into the house, unless their wives or partners say no. That is not because those women object to making their boys strip in public, it is because they want them in fetish gear and while they may have collars and straps and stuff on, no one will have to try to imagine what their dicks and balls look like. On the other hand, if the guys don't want to remove their clothing, that is their problem; they will strip. The same rules will apply in the other CFNM householdsl, and there will be occasional CFNM parties in non-CFNM houses.

To be clear, these are not sex parties. We may have two other couples over for dinner, and the only things that make it different from any other dinner party is that we guys are nude and doing all the domestic chores. When we have larger gatherings, they are like any other cocktail party, except that the men are nude or in fetish gear (so still nude) and that all men are being treated as sexual objects. We will get fondled and groped. At some point, I know my ass will be compared to other asses, and my dick to other dicks.

While, as I wrote above, these parties are not sex parties, all of the individuals involved believe in corporal discipline for bad boys, and some events, even small ones, do turn into bondage and discipline technique teaching parties. If we are lucky, there might be demonstrations of new and better ways to spank your husband. For example, at the last large party four of us were volunteered to help demonstrate how a young woman could use kitchen and bath items to discipline her husband without having to worry that their children would find their spanking toys. Spatulas really sting, as do large ladles. But the sex comes when it is over. My wife and I will be very hot at that point, and just as soon as I finish cleaning up, I will be expected to spend a very long time with my face between her legs. And if my ass is white enough, I will spend time tied to the spanking bench. Not that I mind.

 

[nutoseen]

cfnm searcher

i am really trying to get into cfnm but cannot find anyone to do it in person. of course i mean ten feet apart these days.

 

[Nubbin2Declare]

CFNM is definitely a matter of interest to many, as the 240+ replies before mine indicate. I particularly like this picture, although the guys shouldn't be wearing masks. The shame on their faces should be visible.

My own CFNM experiences, starting at about age 17 are among the clearest memories I have. It has been a lifelong pursuit of mine, to indulge this kink in real life in inoffensive and socially-appropriate ways. My fleshy little thimble-size penis is about half the size of the guy's on the left, and I'm about his height but in much better overall physical shape than he is. Women are usually greatly surprised when they already know me and see me nude for the first time, a "little secret" exposed. It's then clear why I'm serving drinks or wiping up spills as a servant at the party.

https://www.cloudygirls.com/img/aHR0cHM6Ly-4LmltYWdlZmFwdXNlcmNvbnRlbnQuY9-tL3UvUm-ja9V0X1JhY9Nvb94vNDY9NDAyMC8xMTAzNDQ3MTM3L3RpbnlwZWUxMC5qcGc=.jpg

 

[MohanSingh]

Hottest concept in bdsm. The sexy older boss dominating the young intern.

 

[PrevertOne]

CFNM as a part of the story

I first came across CFNM when I started reading stories on this site. Took a while to figure what the initials meant. There are still some terms I haven't quite grasped. I found CFNM as an interesting concept to use in stories. I wasn't into the BDSM aspect. I found the femdom part interesting up to a point. What I like, and what I decided to use, were situations where the male character was nude by circumstance, whether by accident, lack of choice or escalation. I'm less impressed with stories where the male is an inherent exhibitionist. I prefer stories where the male did not exactly have a desire for nudity, but finds himself in that state. I also prefer the circumstances to be strange or further outside the norm than usual. A male who has to strip for a medical exam or body search is fairly normal. A male who is nude because somebody stole his clothes is less normal. After something like that I prefer an escalation, with situations becoming increasingly more strange.

Moreover, in regards to body type, I prefer the hairless look, with a small to average size male. I prefer the male characters to be fit but less intimidating. I believe my preference stems from my childhood love for Greek, Roman, Renaissance, and Pre-Raphaelite sculptures. Opposite the male, I prefer the woman to be more robust in appearance and demeanor. I like the contrast between the two.

 

[Erosfan]

My wife knows she has to be careful with telling me forcefully to get nude in a private setting...
She does it if we are alone, and I comply
She knows if we were at a clothing optional place I would do it (we have never)
She knows if she tells me to do so in front of her girlfriends I would do it... I hope she thought it right and they know because I will do it...

I would never do it in an out of place location... in a public space were society norms, common sense or law forbids it...


I hope one day going to a clothing optional space again and having her tell me to get nude....

The woman that has this male in her life, has some interesting possibilities before her. She is free to enjoy her whims, her fantasies, without being the sex object herself. She is free to make her man her sex object or toy.
I'm not really into the BDSM side of this. I just want to be her boy toy.

 

[Willieceedee]

I had one intense CFNM experience when I was in college as a freshman. I girl I met on vacation was intown. She went to another university and played on the school band. She was intown for a college basketball game and was staying at local hotel with the band. After the basket ball game over, she called me and asked if I wanted to hook up at her hotel. I of course said yes.

When I got there, the whole band was partying. The band was divided up into boys rooms and girls room, she was assigned a roommate on the girls floor who also was a close friend of hers. When I found my date's room, she was partying with her friends. I started partying with them, and when her friends left the room, we started going at it. Soon our tops came off and we were groping each other, when she went down on me, which included taking off my pants. I was completely naked. That's when her roommate and other friends came it, six total.

Everyone was of course surprised, but not nearly so to leave us alone. In fact they came in and wanted to tease and watch. My girl friend obliged by continuing to stroke and suck me. I was of course embarrassed but not enough to ruin my erection.

We were all rather young adults at the time, so several of the girls started asking questions about male anatomy, sex and how to perform certain acts. So the knowledgeable ones demonstrated on me. It included touching and holding my dick and balls, squeezing and playing with my ass, and giving head and blow jobs. In the end all the girls grabbed me or gave me head. Two tried blowjobs who never had before. I was not about to say "no."

I was completely naked at the time. All the girls were clothed, with the exception of my topless date. To me it was a totally erotic experience being the subject of exploration. I had no problem at the time. Even today its a memorable experience, and enjoy being naked with a woman while she is clothed. In the end, one of the girls wanted to see me come. My girlfriend gave me head and I quickly exploded. After that the party resumed and I never got further with my date, but hey it was an awesome time.

 

[Erosfan]

I had one intense CFNM experience when I was in college as a freshman. I girl I met on vacation was intown. She went to another university and played on the school band. She was intown for a college basketball game and was staying at local hotel with the band. After the basket ball game over, she called me and asked if I wanted to hook up at her hotel. I of course said yes.

When I got there, the whole band was partying. The band was divided up into boys rooms and girls room, she was assigned a roommate on the girls floor who also was a close friend of hers. When I found my date's room, she was partying with her friends. I started partying with them, and when her friends left the room, we started going at it. Soon our tops came off and we were groping each other, when she went down on me, which included taking off my pants. I was completely naked. That's when her roommate and other friends came it, six total.

Everyone was of course surprised, but not nearly so to leave us alone. In fact they came in and wanted to tease and watch. My girl friend obliged by continuing to stroke and suck me. I was of course embarrassed but not enough to ruin my erection.

We were all rather young adults at the time, so several of the girls started asking questions about male anatomy, sex and how to perform certain acts. So the knowledgeable ones demonstrated on me. It included touching and holding my dick and balls, squeezing and playing with my ass, and giving head and blow jobs. In the end all the girls grabbed me or gave me head. Two tried blowjobs who never had before. I was not about to say "no."

I was completely naked at the time. All the girls were clothed, with the exception of my topless date. To me it was a totally erotic experience being the subject of exploration. I had no problem at the time. Even today its a memorable experience, and enjoy being naked with a woman while she is clothed. In the end, one of the girls wanted to see me come. My girlfriend gave me head and I quickly exploded. After that the party resumed and I never got further with my date, but hey it was an awesome time.

That is one outstanding memory. Thanks for sharing.

 

[Erosfan]

I have a friend who had an ongoing "friendship" with a dominant woman. He told me that being vulnerable with her really changed him for the better on a deeply emotional/mental level. A lot of what she did was clothed observation, direction and comment while he was nude for her. This led my friend and I into a conversation about toxic masculinity, which in simple terms is; societal expectations taking precedence over internal personal traits. This can be further broken down as; Man boss, woman make babies and behave like Man tells her

So, I guess the moral of all this is; CFnm — It's not only fun, it's good for you...and good for the world

I think you nailed it with the "toxic masculinity" comment. I am a man that is very much in control of my life and work world.
I really enjoy the rare occasion where I can be the naked male, boy toy for my SO. I am not into the sub thing so much. I want to be her fantasy, her opportunity to enjoy the things she has been subjected to by the toxic male. When I am aroused, I will do anything she wants, any time anywhere, without regard to my situation.
I have found, over the years, that it is very difficult to convey my true nature without being misunderstood. It is my fantasy to be her fantasy.

 

[MsChele]

I stumbled across some cfnm videos on redtube the other day...who knew that was a thing?

Ive been on both sides of this. I can say from the receiving side, there is something incredibly thrilling about me being exposed and out of control while my tormentor/pleasure giver is all buttoned up and erudite. It gives shivers and melts me simultaneously. I’m in charge everywhere in my life. Dumping the responsibility is awesome.

On the giving end? I really enjoyed it. First time I ever participated I was an admin and he owned a company we did business with regularly. I got the complete wrong vibe and thought he was a top in the bedroom. My favorite part was leashing him and putting the leash under my heel, always a savage stiletto. Initially to start play I would leave zero slack. I would finish up emails or even just pretend to work while he earned his slack. I was very surprised how natural switching was for me.

 

[MsChele]

I think you nailed it with the "toxic masculinity" comment. I am a man that is very much in control of my life and work world.
I really enjoy the rare occasion where I can be the naked male, boy toy for my SO. I am not into the sub thing so much. I want to be her fantasy, her opportunity to enjoy the things she has been subjected to by the toxic male. When I am aroused, I will do anything she wants, any time anywhere, without regard to my situation.
I have found, over the years, that it is very difficult to convey my true nature without being misunderstood. It is my fantasy to be her fantasy.

Well said, I completely understand this. I could have written it but for the gender part. I’m always in control out of bed. It’s nice to change that up with someone you trust.

 

[MsChele]

For me, CFNM goes under 'fantasies I wish had happened to me as a teenager' and generally involve themes of being stuck in situations lasting weeks or months, where teen and/or adult females are in charge, and I'm kept naked with zero opportunity to masturbate. Variations on the female's reactions to the unavoidable and prominent developing male sexual frustration. I'm quite disappointed with teen-myself, for never even conceiving of the concept of orgasm denial, male or female.

So in general C(F/f)N(M/m), org-denial, nc is one of the erotica genres I like.

Which is why I'm here now. The ASN storyboard shut down recently, and I happened to wonder if a particular story started there, has shown up and been continued anywhere else. It is "Fall Into a CFNM Life - Part 2" by author D.B. A very well written start, with great potential.
Knowing ASN was to shut down in October 2019, the author had commented "I’ll probably start posting to Literotica ultimately."

But so far, apparently not. No such author or title here. I saved a copy of the story, and really hope more will come. If you see this D.B. , please do continue.

Def8nitely enjoy orgasm denial as part of this as well.

 

[mywife4othermen]

I stumbled across some cfnm videos on redtube the other day...who knew that was a thing?

http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=2096777&stc=1&d=1589915119

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