What Are You Thinking? Continued 5

[Malacos]

Words have power.

I feel like you should be able to tell a woman, "I'd like to fuck you very hard in the mouth," and, on the off chance she doesn't fancy the idea, not be labeled as some sort of mind-raping monster. It's a compliment. It's meant as compliment, not a sexual assault. Doesn't intent matter? If intent can be the difference between manslaughter and murder, I really feel it should have some bearing on whether you made someone mildly and, in all likelihood, momentarily uncomfortable with an inappropriate compliment as opposed to forcibly violated them with your words.

You mention momentary discomfort, while failing to acknowledge that many women experience entire days that consist of being treated (maybe not to that hyperbolic degree at all times) like this, by people who think they can act just like this, because "It's momentarily making them uncomfortable with an inappropriate comment." Or "It's just words." However there is alot of ways to compliment, and flirt with women, respectfully, and even sexily without treating them like nothing more like a personally owned/leased object with no feelings, put on the planet for your personal mouth fucking.

Just to add some additional context, in terms of legality and relativity here... in legal terms, were Stranger A to walk up to Stranger B and say - "i want to punch/stab you very hard in the face" and Stranger B sincerely believed such a stabbing could or would reasonably occur without their immediate reaction of self defense/departure e.t.c. ; Stranger A HAS legally committed the act of Assault, in the eyes of the law, which is why your suggested action could also quickly, arguably into sexual assault.

And Wife of Bath also referenced, your devaluation of the human being, that you somehow expect to worship your member.

I think again it depends on the context.

If someone I barely knew said that to me, while I might be internally marginally flattered, I’d immediately excuse myself from the conversation. Especially in the context of a first or second date. A hard pass. And, I’m a woman who would be receptive to that from my romantic partner. So it’s not the concept itself. It’s the idea that the only value you’re placing on her is the bulge you can put in her throat.

I hope this gives anyone, including CleverCowardice, a filling in of some missing perspective missing perspective. This is a sore topic for me, having seen too many strong women I'm close with put up with this shit day in and day out, and it wrecks them mentally and emotionally too often because of the constantancy of it.

P.s. I apologize for any grammar and spelling issues I missed while editing, this device hates me.

 

[Jada59]

Why is this guy really messaging me? I don't think his "I want to learn English" is the real reason.

 

[Taegul]

God dammit. I will never be able to unsee that.

 

[JustbeingRandy]

Should I take 2 or 3 extra strength Tylenol to start this day off. Yeah better make it 3, it's going to be a busy day.

 

[AlpineFresco]

Oh huh, that was fast. I think I have data again. Nice.

 

[Sh75]

I could sleep for a week and still need a few naps afterwards

 

[Whiskeyjack]

It's too damn early to be awake on my day off.

 

[beachbaby179]

It's too damn early to be awake on my day off.

On any day, really.

You've been scarce . Welcome back.

 

[KarenB59]

Let it be a good day.

 

[numeniusa]

I could sleep for a week and still need a few naps afterwards

What have you been up to?

 

[Sh75]

What have you been up to?

I wish i had something wonderfully fun or exciting to tell you Numi.
But unfortunately, apart from celebrating SA wonderful win, its just purely been minimal sleep, too much work and not enough play

 

[Misshotndeep]

I am so bored. It’s freezing cold and my fingers are kinda numb. Sigh. Well at least I have work today. Beats laying around with nothing to do. But at least if I was doing that I could snuggle in my blankets warmly. Money is good though.

 

[AlliaPotestas]

I don’t think we’ve ever spoken, I don’t know you and I’m sure I’ve disagreed with something you’ve said in the past.. because otherwise I probably would have tried to talk to you (I have a pathological need to be liked)
But the truth is this post is gold.
All of it.
The part I bolded is my favorite.
But everything from not tearing one another down to keeping lit healthy is huge.

As someone who has “brat” tendencies and certainly has parts of my personality that can identify as a bit little, I don’t talk about it much because of that stigma. I don’t want it to be confused. I don’t want anyone to think anything that it’s not.
I want EVERYONE to know that I want nothing to do with underage nonsense. We should all be standing up and screaming that.

But yeah. I just wanted to kind of second all of this and maybe say it one more time for those that seem to think that the only way to succeed is by tearing one another down.

I want everyone to be happy.

Thanks for this, it does mean a lot.

I don’t think you and I have ever interacted but there have probably been at least two occasions I may have left a sour taste in your mouth.

First when I called out your Tolk for his ‘even Trolls’ comment to Chris. I considered it something of a passive-aggressive twat comment given he has been open about him and Chris not getting along in the past. And thus I wasn’t overly happy with anyone attempting to console someone who had lost his parents to murder/suicide with an ‘even trolls’ don’t deserve this. But Chris took no offence and I am not a fan of taking offence on behalf of others.

Second when I exploded because BFG wrote a dear lister calling me a kinkshamer because I closed down a thread where a fuckard wanted to fuck his own underage stepdaughter... and the little community rallied around her. Not all of them. Women comfortable their kink was nothing to do with kids defended me. But those in the Daddies Little Girl room were outraged. Apparently the correct response for someone attacking me publicly was to respond privately.

Anyway, her success is not your failure isn’t mine - I stole it from some meme. But I do passionately believe it’s true and while lit’ers in the playground seem to regularly go for the jugular, often with a sickly sweet smile on their face, us ampic’ers support one another, it’s the reason I am a million times more comfortable there. We build one another up rather than knock each other down. And it’s the reason I stuck my head above the parapet again here... because misshotanddeep levelled a blanket insult at the ampic ladies. And I am fucked if I will keep my mouth shut for that bullshit.

If it’s just me someone wants to insult, I don’t care... go after my fellow ampic’ers and I will burn this shithole to the ground... which incidentally is easier done than some might think... any idea how quickly lit dies if I were to point a journalist to some of the dodgier ‘I’d like to fuck my underage stepdaughter’ content? The answer is very...

Thanks again for publicly backing the women supporting women sentiment, I am not sure it achieves much in this space, but it is nice to raise a solitary cheer even if you and I may disagree on other things, xx

 

[Chris_Michael]

Death Stranding releases in 15 hours 20 minutes. Yay!

I already have it downloaded and ready to boot up.

https://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/dynamic/143/590x/Death-Stranding-1198324.jpg?r=1572727082188

 

[Chris_Michael]

Thanks for this, it does mean a lot.

I don’t think you and I have ever interacted but there have probably been at least two occasions I may have left a sour taste in your mouth.

First when I called out your Tolk for his ‘even Trolls’ comment to Chris. I considered it something of a passive-aggressive twat comment given he has been open about him and Chris not getting along in the past. And thus I wasn’t overly happy with anyone attempting to console someone who had lost his parents to murder/suicide with an ‘even trolls’ don’t deserve this. But Chris took no offence and I am not a fan of taking offence on behalf of others.

So, I'll address this.

I feel like you're giving him the least charitable interpretation of what he said. The most important piece of context is that I identified myself as the troll. IIRC, he was basically saying, "Trolls don't even deserve that" or something like that. I don't necessarily think he was doubling down and calling me a troll.

Actually, I remember giving you the same courtesy during the Lit Awards. Weren't you the one who offered my name as nomination for Troll of the Year? *Correct me if I'm wrong but I thought that was you* I didn't think you were being mean about it. I thought it was kind of funny, and I was a little salty about not winning.

And AP, you have to admit that even you and I have had extremely heated arguments. That said, the one thing I liked about you was that you were willing to at least engage with my thoughts about very controversial topics when everybody else would just run to their echo chamber. Even when we fought, we could still walk away pretty chill.

Not a lot of people get me. And I gave that guy a charitable interpretation because he seemed to be coming across with a kind heart. I'm not going to be a dick to somebody who's trying to be nice to me unless I feel like I'm being manipulated or deceived.

 

[AlliaPotestas]

So, I'll address this.

I feel like you're giving him the least charitable interpretation of what he said. The most important piece of context is that I identified myself as the troll. IIRC, he was basically saying, "Trolls don't even deserve that" or something like that. I don't necessarily think he was doubling down and calling me a troll.

Actually, I remember giving you the same courtesy during the Lit Awards. Weren't you the one who offered my name as nomination for Troll of the Year? *Correct me if I'm wrong but I thought that was you* I didn't think you were being mean about it. I thought it was kind of funny, and I was a little salty about not winning.

And AP, you have to admit that even you and I have had extremely heated arguments. That said, the one thing I liked about you was that you were willing to at least engage with my thoughts about very controversial topics when everybody else would just run to their echo chamber. Even when we fought, we could still walk away pretty chill.

Not a lot of people get me. And I gave that guy a charitable interpretation because he seemed to be coming across with a kind heart. I'm not going to be a dick to somebody who's trying to be nice to me unless I feel like I'm being manipulated or deceived.

I don’t think it was me that offered you up as troll of the year. I went GLbock I’m sure...

Re: the Tolk comment, I took offence but then you made clear you weren’t offended and I have no desire to be offended on behalf of others (I’ve been the other side of that and it’s annoyed me), so we’re good, x

And we have had heated arguments, but we still respect one other, I don’t look for mates who bow to my every word - it’s boring and worse still, insincere. I’d much rather have friends who have their own viewpoint and are willing to defend it...

 

[Whiskeyjack]

On any day, really.

You've been scarce . Welcome back.

Thanks - I've been popping in here and there, but things have been hectic the past couple weeks. Which is why I was so looking forward to getting some extra rest on my day off.

 

[Chris_Michael]

And we have had heated arguments, but we still respect one other, I don’t look for mates who bow to my every word - it’s boring and worse still, insincere. I’d much rather have friends who have their own viewpoint and are willing to defend it...

Yeah, I'm definitely not a fan of the hive mentality. The dog whistle is "Be nice." In reality, what's meant is "Conform to our group think."

Nah, I'll continue to troll.

 

[tnman03]

Yeah, I'm definitely not a fan of the hive mentality. The dog whistle is "Be nice." In reality, what's meant is "Conform to our group think."

Nah, I'll continue to troll.

Sometimes you do troll Chris, but most of the time when it's perceived as trolling you're just being brutally direct.

 

[EroticRomanticMan]

Is sending yourself a pm the same as cyber masturbation?

 

[Chris_Michael]

Sometimes you do troll Chris, but most of the time when it's perceived as trolling you're just being brutally direct.

Yeah, I find that to be a HUGE problem. If you can't be "brutally direct," you might as well just call Lit the great big circle jerk of the internet.

I'm not here to tell women how beautiful they are or to refresh their threads, hoping they posted something I can compliment.

I think some people are so used to being complimented that they feel entitled to be treated nice by everybody. And sadly, there are enough jerk offs around here that will fill that void of wanting to be loved that they can make it a rule that you MUST BE NICE. At the same time, these people can be complete dicks to the rest of Lit and not get a single bit of backlash because they're popular.

And I would say that I'm being passive aggressive here, but the problem is... I can't call anybody out because it's pretty much everybody on here.

So, fuck all of you.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Poor thing.

 

[blade_rocknut]

I could go for a stiff drink and one of those hour long, silicone lube assisted, edging marathon hand jobs in the bath. Maybe a little backdoor vibrator action with her at the controls.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I am thinking women who attack ampic women for looking like men in drag have no idea how fabulous men in drag are - I am taking it as a compliment. Men in stockings wear them way better than I do with my constantly skew-if stocking tops...

I am also thinking women that attack older women and their ‘leathery’ skin and attack women who wear wigs seemingly with no regard for who has alopecia, cancer or just love to have fun with wigs, probably should be focusing on their own self development rather than openly pondering how anyone can find anyone else’s personality attractive.

I am also thinking women who claim their kink has nothing to do with kids, should stop passive-aggressively attacking women who shut the underage shit down. If they aren’t linked, you should be supporting the action. Everyone should be supporting that aim.

I am also thinking, it’s fucking depressing how much women attack each other on here. Can it fucking stop? It’s unnecessary. It’s unhealthy. And it is not the behaviour anyone should want their daughters to follow.

Lit is big enough for all legal tastes, and we don’t need to tear one another down to make ourselves bigger.

Everyone has their space to belong. Lit, like life, is not a competition and ‘her success is not your failure’.

And I know that will be mocked... go ahead... I am not competing here.

Here you go. For my favourite little martyr.

https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/51YYFOS8oqL._SY879_.jpg

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Here you go. For my favourite little martyr.

Dude....