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[AlwaysFara]

Well, I don't know whether this is falling apart or evolving into a deep discussion.

Nope, it's falling apart.

I came here for the high-quality smut. I started writing it myself. I still do, and I think I'm getting better. I enjoy the intelligent exchange here between fellow perverts.

And titties.

I have some PM friends who I truly enjoy chatting with, but i don't need a spreadsheet, because like (I syspect) most guys, I only have one persona. I don't have to remember who I treat one way and who I treat a different way. Like I said, I think most people on here are the same.

Oh yeah, there's Fred in AmPics who has an index of breasts with size...he's cool. That's for Science anyway.

PLP, I think we need a new question.

Why is it falling apart?
Disagreement is natural. We are all from different places, likes and dislikes, fetish.

I like that this sparked discussion.


Let’s keep at it. Or delve deeper.


I don’t believe the excel spread sheets stuff, btw. Name names.


And as for territory, I will only claim someone who claims me.
Have I gotten jealous and petty? Hell, yes.
Pride and heart are different, though, and if I love you and you love me it usually comes out in the wash.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Every single person I've ever talked to with the exception of one started with the stories, had no idea the forum was here, and then discovered. Not to be a contrarian but I think you're 100% wrong here, P.

 

[AbsintheFather]

I started with stories too. I was thinking I could get some ideas to spice up my marriage. I came here looking to improve my marriage. See how that worked out

No spreadsheets for me. I do keep a list of friends' birthdays. A list of first names too if we've shared them, because I can be absinthe-minded.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Where was spreadsheet guy? That sounds more GB than PG.

I joined specifically for the forums. I don't recall if i knew there were stories or not.

 

[hotwords229_A]

09.03.19

Same Sex Friendships on Lit

How important are they to you? Are they harder to make because of the nature of the site. Girls seem to have it a bit easier. Is that just the nature of women to make friends a bit easier or... other reasons. Discuss!

Not important at all. I want to hear from and interact with cool, funny and interesting people here regardless of their sex. I also don't know that I agree with the girls having it easier idea. I think guys can pretty much relate to other guys pretty easily, especially where sex and dick stuff is concerned. I guess it's a matter of how we are defining the word 'friends'. It does make me laugh, as Tolyk pointed out, the guys who are so uptight that they can't even acknowledge other guys in the threads. (Notice how I just acknowledged a guy on this thread to show how sexually confident I am )

People are weird

Also, there are far more interesting things about women that can be spread on sheets than collected data

 

[Lord Pmann]

Me obviously.

You aren't kidding. You like to be obnoxious. Just own it. I am currently rolling my eyes so hard I'm giving myself a headache.
You claim to know not one, but two of these men, but don't remember any details including their names, but you knew them so well that they confided information that would have gotten them basically blacklisted by most women here.
VERY few women here are as weird about things as me, but the idea that someone was compiling their info would not have sat well with anyone woman on lit.
So you know this, but you didn't even talk to these people? doesn't make a lot of sense.
Unless your reliable source was in fact a woman and then we'd all know about it, because women share this type of potentially hurtful behavior, potentially harmful and maybe even dangerous behavior with each other usually and stuff like that becomes legend and everyone would remember who it was that reduced women to tickmarks on their spreadsheet and bragged about it.



If he was smart it would be things like birthdays and what she likes and how she likes things... but if it's true it was probably bullshit like how big her boobs are and if she will cam.



I feel like this is an urban legend in the making... but I'm wearing my skeptical panties today.

While I do like to be obnoxious, I really was kidding in reference to those gentlemen who posted in this thread. They're nice guys and not deserving of my being obnoxious. I have always owned my style. I just wasn't being a dick for once. I was spared by the recent hurricane and given a nice outlook today.

I do know one of their names; the other I cannot remember. This was over five years ago when I was here before. The source was someone I consider reliable. Not someone with whom I had any type of relationship other than friendship. She had nothing to gain by telling me. I have no reason to believe it to be false. And it is purely consistent with everything I know about the guy.

I'm really at a loss for why this is so shocking to you all. Have you seen the shit that happens on Lit. Does anyone remember that heap of shit Des? You'll believe the shit that happened with him- promising the moon to millions, but not that a guy at Lit might have a spreadsheet of bitches?

I would get the skepticism if I was trying to stir up drama with this. But I'm not naming names as I did not see it for my own eyes and it was 5+ years ago. But I feel like this is purely naive to think this is so impossible. Even if I'm wrong about both of these guys, is it that hard to believe it happened.

Why is it falling apart?
Disagreement is natural. We are all from different places, likes and dislikes, fetish.

I like that this sparked discussion.


Let’s keep at it. Or delve deeper.


I don’t believe the excel spread sheets stuff, btw. Name names.


And as for territory, I will only claim someone who claims me.
Have I gotten jealous and petty? Hell, yes.
Pride and heart are different, though, and if I love you and you love me it usually comes out in the wash.

I think it is a good discussion too. The original question was good and this little side conversation has been nice.

I said why I won't name names. I've not seen it for my own eyes. I believe it to be true, yes. But I haven't seen it.

Every single person I've ever talked to with the exception of one started with the stories, had no idea the forum was here, and then discovered. Not to be a contrarian but I think you're 100% wrong here, P.

Perhaps I'm wrong on this. But the thought of guys searching for erotic stories on the internet... That's far more unbelievable (to me) than some bloke on a porn site with a spreadsheet. Ever heard about the guys who read the articles in Penthouse? Me neither.

As I said, I may be completely wrong here. But I bet if you look at the number of females who came here for stories versus makes, there would be a huge skew. It could probably be deciphered somewhat by looking at the authors breakup of gender.

I will say, obviously this is an opinion and, based on the sample size of men posting in here, I would be wrong. Perhaps a poll could give us some better insight. Maybe tomorrow I could start one.

To Honey- these were both PGers. Not GBers.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Not important at all. I want to hear from and interact with cool, funny and interesting people here regardless of their sex. I also don't know that I agree with the girls having it easier idea. I think guys can pretty much relate to other guys pretty easily, especially where sex and dick stuff is concerned. I guess it's a matter of how we are defining the word 'friends'. It does make me laugh, as Tolyk pointed out, the guys who are so uptight that they can't even acknowledge other guys in the threads. (Notice how I just acknowledged a guy on this thread to show how sexually confident I am )

People are weird

Also, there are far more interesting things about women that can be spread on sheets than collected data

I automatically like dudes that can be funny and friendly with other guys here. The guys that are so homophobic that they can't even take a joke get a quick pass/not interested from me.

I dont think women have it easier here at all. It took me 6 months to make one girl friend but I do think (in general) women are more prone to same sex friendships than men. Total generalization based on observation.

 

[tolyk]

Not important at all. I want to hear from and interact with cool, funny and interesting people here regardless of their sex. I also don't know that I agree with the girls having it easier idea. I think guys can pretty much relate to other guys pretty easily, especially where sex and dick stuff is concerned. I guess it's a matter of how we are defining the word 'friends'. It does make me laugh, as Tolyk pointed out, the guys who are so uptight that they can't even acknowledge other guys in the threads. (Notice how I just acknowledged a guy on this thread to show how sexually confident I am )

People are weird

Also, there are far more interesting things about women that can be spread on sheets than collected data

Hey, no name dropping!

He doesn't know me. Wait, he's more popular than me. Keep name dropping.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I'm really at a loss for why this is so shocking to you all. Have you seen the shit that happens on Lit. Does anyone remember that heap of shit Des? You'll believe the shit that happened with him- promising the moon to millions, but not that a guy at Lit might have a spreadsheet of bitches?

I would get the skepticism if I was trying to stir up drama with this. But I'm not naming names as I did not see it for my own eyes and it was 5+ years ago. But I feel like this is purely naive to think this is so impossible. Even if I'm wrong about both of these guys, is it that hard to believe it happened.

I believe it. I've seen enough to know spreadsheets are hardly the worst thing that has happened here.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Why is it falling apart?
Disagreement is natural. We are all from different places, likes and dislikes, fetish.

I like that this sparked discussion.


Let’s keep at it. Or delve deeper.

I worry that any serious discussion on the internet (even here) will inevitably devolve into name calling, finger pointing and virtual shit flinging.

I'm curious and will lurk while the rest of you chat.

 

[Apisto42]

Yeah, stories. I started reading stories on lit back in the late 90’s. I didn’t even know there was a forum for a few years. Why stories? I don’t particularly care for most video porn - my imagination coupled with erotic writing is much more pleasurable. Plus, I started reading penthouse letters when I was way to young to admit to. Oh, and my grandmother had a whole closet full of romance novels (his heaving, throbbing manhood graced my glistening clit)...

Anyway, that eventually led to me trying my hand at writing. Not the “good smut” - just jerkoff stories. Which led me to reading the authors hangout and tips for writing/posting. Which then led to me exploring the rest of lit. Which culminated in an interactive spreadsheet of all my ho’s, organized by the amount they squirt when I voice them.

Seriously, I totally believe the spreadsheet stuff. I have known guys in real life who had spreadsheets/lists of “conquests.” Some people are just assholes.

As far as talking with guys - I feel I’ve gotten to know a few well enough to drop them a line occasionally or that I’ll get a real response to a question (alpine and hot words come to mind).

 

[hotwords229_A]

Right, right. We all came here for the stories.

I'm sure some guys came here for the stories. *coughs* But let's be real... Most guys didn't come here reading stories.

I came from reading some of the stories. Does that count?

 

[RudyGardet]

Perhaps I'm wrong on this. But the thought of guys searching for erotic stories on the internet... That's far more unbelievable (to me) than some bloke on a porn site with a spreadsheet. Ever heard about the guys who read the articles in Penthouse? Me neither. .

I have no idea about lithe men here (quixk answer to the question I have no male friends here yet) but I definitely came for the stories and enjoyed them for a very long time before joining and discovering the boards. Like someone else mentioned, I was looking for something to spice up my then message (didn't work) and I hit hooked on the stories. I wasn't looking for community then, that came much later.

I did read Penthouse and Playboy when my right hand got tired. Not so much the articles, but the "letters", cartoons, jokes etc were - for better or worse - a big part of my sexual education when I was young. Especially the "letters" about "real life adventures" got to me then like a good Lit story does now.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Hey, no name dropping!

He doesn't know me. Wait, he's more popular than me. Keep name dropping.

You are far more popular than me, have you seen your profile pic?

 

[hotwords229_A]

I dont think women have it easier here at all. It took me 6 months to make one girl friend but I do think (in general) women are more prone to same sex friendships than men. Total generalization based on observation.

I agree with that observation.

 

[standard1]

Every single person I've ever talked to with the exception of one started with the stories, had no idea the forum was here, and then discovered. Not to be a contrarian but I think you're 100% wrong here, P.

exactly what happened with me. exactly.

 

[Apisto42]

I came from reading some of the stories. Does that count?

That works for me (and apparently you as well).

You are far more popular than me, have you seen your profile pic?

Dayum. I don’t always look at other guys profile pics, but when I do it’s Tolyk’s.

 

[LostGirlTink]

You are far more popular than me, have you seen your profile pic?

That works for me (and apparently you as well).

Dayum. I don’t always look at other guys profile pics, but when I do it’s Tolyk’s.

Are you two perving on my guy?
*grins*
You have excellent taste.
Carry on.

(Does he have the bow in his profile today?)

 

[Apisto42]

Are you two perving on my guy?
*grins*
You have excellent taste.
Carry on.

(Does he have the bow in his profile today?)

I didn’t notice a bow, but the sheets looked to be of high quality. That’s important.

 

[AveryElle]

09.03.19

Same Sex Friendships on Lit

How important are they to you? Are they harder to make because of the nature of the site. Girls seem to have it a bit easier. Is that just the nature of women to make friends a bit easier or... other reasons. Discuss!

Honestly, there are so few relationships on lit that are really important to me, the sex or gender of the person doesn't matter. However, what I've witnessed...girls don't have it easier. The women are very territorial over the men they're "in relationships" with. Men are more casual. Women - as far as I've witnessed - take lit more seriously than the men. Again, just what I've witnessed.

That said. There are two, maybe three, women that I'd make an effort to meet in person and that I open up with. It's not much different than real life. I've always valued male friendships more than female friendships. It's easier for me be casual friends on lit with guys. I am not consistent in my communication, and it has seemed to me that men are more understanding of that. I've also found a few guys that I really connect with in a non-sexual way (to discuss marriage, parenting, etc). Women, except for a couple, it's harder for me to make that connection.

In real life, I don't have many female friends (though, I'm getting better at it as I get older), and generally don't trust women. It doesn't seem to be that different for me on lit.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Poll Posted:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1508936

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Ooooh. Are we digging up skeletons?!?! This could be fun!

<says nothing, but refills my coffee >

 

[DarkSimian]

I have no idea about lithe men here (quixk answer to the question I have no male friends here yet) but I definitely came for the stories and enjoyed them for a very long time before joining and discovering the boards. Like someone else mentioned, I was looking for something to spice up my then message (didn't work) and I hit hooked on the stories. I wasn't looking for community then, that came much later.

I did read Penthouse and Playboy when my right hand got tired. Not so much the articles, but the "letters", cartoons, jokes etc were - for better or worse - a big part of my sexual education when I was young. Especially the "letters" about "real life adventures" got to me then like a good Lit story does now.

When I was younger, I would read Playboy cover to cover. It was a ritual for me. I learned so much about politics, culture, movies, books....Did the same with Penthouse (when I would buy the occasional issue), but didn't learn near as much. But I did enjoy the stories...

As to Lit; I actually learned about Lit from a lesbian friend of mine, back in the late 90s. She turned me on to the stories, which I would read from time to time. It was at least the mid 2000s before I ventured into the forums, and only 2011 before I became a member. So people do come here for a variety of reasons. And yes, some of them are less than honorable. But I think for the most part we are a good group of people...

 

[tolyk]

You are far more popular than me, have you seen your profile pic?

That works for me (and apparently you as well).



Dayum. I don’t always look at other guys profile pics, but when I do it’s Tolyk’s.

*Laugh* I happen to have seen my profile, aye. I took that photo for Tink shortly after we met. (During our paired pic photo)

I'm going to change it today to a photo I took recently.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

You crack me up.

It's been a while since we've had a good, ugly scandal! Somebody's hiding something, mark my words.