Let's Talk About... Kink Shaming

[jaF0]

Has your Unicorn farted today?

 

[dashie33]

Has your Unicorn farted today?

If your horse isn't farting regularly, you're doing something wrong.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Nun-play anyone?

Or is that a bad habit?

I posted a pic of a hot “nun” smoking a blunt, once, and got shit for it.

But did I complain? No, not a wimple.

 

[dashie33]

I posted a pic of a hot “nun” smoking a blunt, once, and got shit for it.

But did I complain? No, not a wimple.

You need to get your Sister Act together, lady!

 

[AlwaysFara]

You need to get your Sister Act together, lady!

*kneels and preys*

 

[Miles Long]

I'm not about to go read 8 pages of posts, but it's probably safe to assume this thread has been filled with a lot of thoughtful, nuanced discussion about kink shaming, its origins, and various pros and cons in different contexts, yes?


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[TANSTAAFL58]

*kneels and preys*

Who's the lucky prey?

 

[dashie33]

I'm not about to go read 8 pages of posts, but it's probably safe to assume this thread has been filled with a lot of thoughtful, nuanced discussion about kink shaming, its origins, and various pros and cons in different contexts, yes?


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... yesn't.

 

[Miles Long]

Who's the lucky prey?

*snort*

 

[tnman03]

*kneels and preys*

Is this the part where you’re told to "go and sin"???

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

I'm not about to go read 8 pages of posts, but it's probably safe to assume this thread has been filled with a lot of thoughtful, nuanced discussion about kink shaming, its origins, and various pros and cons in different contexts, yes?


https://media2.giphy.com/media/11ISwbgCxEzMyY/giphy.gif?cid=790b7611de4bfbae6399cc676efafe0db04ede43b94de8d5&rid=giphy.gif

When you're right, you're right. Nothing to see here. You should probably grab a beer. Me too.

 

[jaF0]

'She's Sister Mary now and he takes her once a week on the alter like a sacrifice'.

-Queensryche

 

[AlliaPotestas]

Aside from being completely disturbing, this is against the TOS of this site and should be reported. That’s not kink shaming that’s being a decent human being with good judgement.

Not according to the majority on this thread who think if it’s consenting adults, they can role play what they fuck they like and anyone who thinks different is kink shaming...

Nice to not be entirely alone in kicking back against that sort of fuckwittedness, x

 

[AlliaPotestas]

Please climb down off your high horse and find me one person that has responded here who thinks it’s even remotely ok to role play that.

I’ll wait

I have complained about threads where folks have wanted to role play underage shit. Barefootgirl has called me out as kinkshamer. The posters on this thread have made clear if it’s consenting adults wanting to act out child fantasies, anything goes...

I have asked repeatedly what the minimum age is... no one will tell me. Can you tell me?

Genuine question...

 

[AlliaPotestas]

In my personal opinion anything below the legal age of consent is absolutely off limits

Will that shut you up finally? Or do you have to have everyone that has posted on the littles threads tell you their sexual preferences whether it be age play or any other kinks/fetishes they may be into?

This is a thread about kink shaming - I have been called out as a kink shamer by a little thus I thought my contribution was valid. Or was this thread about kink shaming only for people that view the world through your lens?

I get it... some people are terribly insecure in their kinks. I can’t help you with that, maybe speak to someone about it...

 

[jaF0]

The Victim Card is getting worn out.

 

[ShaeLeeTanner]

It looks like there's always going to be a disagreement between people on DDlg's and what they do. If they're adults, they can play at whatever they feel comfortable doing. I'm against anything that involves underage people, but in this case, no one is actually underage and just playing at being that way. It might seem repulsive to some, but it's their kink and they deserve to explore it without shame.

If I saw anything that even smacked of underage in any way, I'd report the shit immediately and call them out on it. As an example, I find crossdressers completely disgusting when I see them dressing up kids like themselves and telling everyone it's okay. Fuck that shit. It's a minor and you're messing with their heads at an age they haven't even figured out their identities yet. That's worse than what the littles are doing by far but no one is saying anything about them and they're actually messing with minors, so let's get priorities straight on who to call out.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Since I like hearing the sound of my own voice

I’ll put these points in here.

There is this weird issue around here (and the rest of the world) where people think that if you don’t love, accept and agree with their thoughts/kinks/statements, you’re a shamer, bigot, pmann type asshole, etc. Why do you fucking care? This is a forum where we exchange thoughts and ideas. Some of you fuckers do some weird shit. I do some weird shit. I like to eat cake and watch look at big boobs. It’s fun. But we must know, when we post these things, we should be ready for people to talk about them. You know, because it’s a forum.

Also, the PG has so much butt kissing, isn’t it nice to see a debate or differing ideas? There is so much high fructose fakeness here, people pretending to be so sweet to one another and talking shit behind their back, isn’t it good to have something real here? Why is it a big deal if someone dislikes this or that? Or even if someone has a go at you? Someone dressing up as a cat and getting fucked or acting like a 6 year old colouring is kind of weird, no? Why can’t someone laugh at that? I find it sad when people have no sense of humour about themselves. You’re acting like a cat, for fuck’s sake! You should be laughed at.

Also, remember like three weeks ago when Allia was so bold and brave and amazing for having a period and standing up for women... and now you all consider her an angry, kink shaming cunt? She was a cunt back then, too, ya know? But she’s at least forward with her thoughts. You know where she stands.

I personally believe whatever two people do in the privacy of their bedroom is up to them. I think it’s bullshit that people are saying, “Oh, roleplaying anything below 18 is horrific.” You all are a bunch of lying little feckers. How many of you have a Catholic school girl outfit? Or had a schoolgirl fantasy? Probably most, if not all of us here, at one point, have had such a thought. Again, it’s a fantasy.

Allia does have a point, though, in one area- some fantasies do go too far. And some normalize or even encourage some unhealthy stuff. But the problem is not with the fantasy. The problem is with a person who is not normal or okay getting a hold of a kink and being a weirdo.

Where Allia goes wrong is that she wants to shut down anything SHE deems offensive. And she makes it a point to climb the ladder, waaaay up to the sky, get on that white horse and ride around and tell people what’s wrong with their thoughts. The tiny titty thread... I’ve never looked there. I would never click on it. But, if the people in there just LOOK young, but are of legal age, how can that be “wrong”? Are we going to bitch about people who look too young? Too skinny? I don’t know why anyone would be into that. It’s weird to me. Can’t we just make fun of them and, when the legit kiddy fuckers slither out, report them and all that?

Everyone wants to just get along. But why? I mean, we don’t have to fight. But the debate is nice. Why would we all get along? All these different people and different ideas, of course there’s discourse. We don’t need to all agree to get along. We need to all agree to be okay with differences. And laugh st those who wanna dress up as a cat and get fucked. Or need orders from a daddy to do menial tasks. Can’t we all agree to just make fun of those people?

 

[Suz_anne]

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I solemnly swear to always make fun of people.

*shakes my fox tail butt plug*

 

[tnman03]

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I solemnly swear to always make fun of people.

*shakes my fox tail butt plug*

 

[UgliestSon]

My favorite kink is getting head while shotgunning a beer. Any beer that I miss rains down on her face. After I jizz I pour a whole bag of those Takis down her throat. Trust me pleasurable for all involved.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZutKlps1myA

 

[missswannie]

Single post. I'm tolerant of most people's games and ideas. I am intolerant of paedophilia, pseudo-paedophilia, incest and other position of power abuses. It is illegal and enabling of it is illegal in many jurisdictions. Earns a report every single time it pops up, admittedly not often as those areas are not my areas of Lit.
Anyone who plays in those areas knows that any post like that is admissible as evidence in court. Just a fantasy doesn't cut it and similar are presented in court under character discovery every day of the week.
It's pretty easy to honey trap in here. You can, for example, embed a bit**** linked image for display in a thread and every browser that displays the image will have a IP address and location listed on the server for marketing analysis by the poster. Or other users. Substitute any number of other image hosting. So being a creepo who just likes looking also can have you listed. My legal people tell all sorts of stories on how they suck up evidence.
Enjoy your kinks, have fun, explore, but don't cross the line and probably don't go anywhere near a line. I like Lit, I enjoy my time here in the areas I wander around. I would prefer that it doesn't go onto the blacklisted sites. Self-police and don't let shit behaviour and direction ever get mitigated under a kink-shaming defense.

 

[jaF0]

You can, for example, embed a bit**** linked image for display in a thread and every browser that displays the image will have a IP address and location listed on the server for marketing analysis by the poster. Or other users. Substitute any number of other image hosting.

My legal people tell all sorts of stories on how they suck up evidence.

Sounds like your legal people are fullashit and telling you 'stories' indeed Miss Wannabee.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Single post. I'm tolerant of most people's games and ideas. I am intolerant of paedophilia, pseudo-paedophilia, incest and other position of power abuses. It is illegal and enabling of it is illegal in many jurisdictions. Earns a report every single time it pops up, admittedly not often as those areas are not my areas of Lit.

Just a curious question...

Do you think something being legal or illegal is really what should shape our fantasies? Consider the following fantasies:

Schoolgirl
Schoolboy (is that a thing)
Hooker
Rape
Incest
Underage

All those things are illegal. But some make my skin crawl more than others. I don’t like incest or underage. Or schoolboy.

I find incest weird and I don’t get it. But, if two adults want to pretend to be brother and sister, what does that really matter? If a husband and a wife want to engage in a rape fantasy, what does it matter?

I think we struggle to realize the dynamics of sexual fantasies. We try to say, “Nothing illegal!” Well, that’s bullshit really. Some states still have laws outlawing anal sex and oral sex. (I’d love to see the police raid of that- “STOP! Put the dick down or I’ll shoot!”)

Then we’ll say, “Well, people should stay the hell out of the bedroom of consenting adults!” Until someone does something with which we are uncomfortable.

Lots of grey area here.

 

[jaF0]

^^ Hooking/Prostitution isn't always illegal everywhere. There are proposals to expand legalization.

Schoolgirl? Costume companies make a fortune on that.

Legal/illegal is a weird thing. There are many places where it's illegal for anyone of any age to buy wine.