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If you had to choose, would you only have flowering trees or flower pots?

Flowering trees. I have a Magnolia, Rhododendron, Mock Orange, Flowering Almond, Azalea, Lilac, Cherry, Butterfly bush and my Pride and Joy: A Catalpa tree that's nearly 20 feet high, despite the fact that it's died three times in the last twenty-five years.

Do you see your lawn as a matter of pride or something to be endured (full disclosure: I replaced mine with decorative stones)..

Oh: HEY YOU KIDS! GET OFF MY LAWN!
 
“First Time”

If you had it to do over again, would your first time be with the same person?

I'd probably get to it a lot quicker. Budding late bloomer.


Who on Lit would you want to be your "first" if you were to start over?
 
Regrets? I’ve had a few. But then again, to few to mention.

What has been your biggest sexual regret?
 
I'd probably get to it a lot quicker. Budding late bloomer.

Who on Lit would you want to be your "first" if you were to start over?

The same woman whom I count as my actual "first" and happens to also be on Lit.

What has been your biggest sexual regret?

Well, I wish that I'd been better schooled on the practice of checking in often with a partner during an experience (to make absolutely sure they're still mindfully consenting throughout) back when I was making out with a particularly submissive and sensual one.

We were both sober, and only went as far as kissing and 'petting' (which base is that these days?). But, she told me later that there was a point at which she became overwhelmed by the intense sensuality, and pretty much zoned out into non-responsive subspace (with me being none the wiser) until we both stopped to catch our breath. She says it's fine, she liked everything we did, etc., but knowing after-the-fact that she may not have been fully "there" for part of it still bothers me.

I learned from that, though. Check in often! Aim for "enthusiastic 'yes'", not just "the absence of 'no'".

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Okay, question: What's one of your untried kinks, at the edge of your comfort zone, that you would still be willing to try?
 
The same woman whom I count as my actual "first" and happens to also be on Lit.



Well, I wish that I'd been better schooled on the practice of checking in often with a partner during an experience (to make absolutely sure they're still mindfully consenting throughout) back when I was making out with a particularly submissive and sensual one.

We were both sober, and only went as far as kissing and 'petting' (which base is that these days?). But, she told me later that there was a point at which she became overwhelmed by the intense sensuality, and pretty much zoned out into non-responsive subspace (with me being none the wiser) until we both stopped to catch our breath. She says it's fine, she liked everything we did, etc., but knowing after-the-fact that she may not have been fully "there" for part of it still bothers me.

I learned from that, though. Check in often! Aim for "enthusiastic 'yes'", not just "the absence of 'no'".

...

Okay, question: What's one of your untried kinks, at the edge of your comfort zone, that you would still be willing to try?

I really don't have any untried kinks they have all been tried but some not to the full extent I would wish for. So for a completely honest answer I will say topping a guy and more pee play please.

So I won't say same question even if it is a good one because I know most people won't have a honest answer that they want to post on a open thread instead I will go with
What fantasy do you think of the most?
 
I really don't have any untried kinks they have all been tried but some not to the full extent I would wish for. So for a completely honest answer I will say topping a guy and more pee play please.

So I won't say same question even if it is a good one because I know most people won't have a honest answer that they want to post on a open thread instead I will go with
What fantasy do you think of the most?

These days I'm more likely to think of memories than fantasies. Good, hot times with my wife or an ex-girlfriend. And it's never so much any particular act or thing they did, than the enthusiasm with which they did it.

How long does it take you to admit when you're wrong?
 
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These days I'm more likely to think of memories than fantasies. Good, hot times with my wife or an ex-girlfriend. And it's never so much any particular act or thing they did, that the enthusiasm with which they did it.

How long does it take you to admit when you're wrong?

That has never happened. I'm ALWAYS right! :D

What did you have for dinner tonight?
 
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