Anyone have the urge to receive but not give?

[Jcam1980s]

I've fantasised about being assfucked and facefucked before. But recently i fantasised about being made to suck a big cock in order to get with a desired female!

 

[MascMale]

I've fantasised about being assfucked and facefucked before. But recently i fantasised about being made to suck a big cock in order to get with a desired female!

Now that would be a good role play

 

[Vitriolhack]

I've fantasised about being assfucked and facefucked before. But recently i fantasised about being made to suck a big cock in order to get with a desired female!

The things we do to get laid....

But seriously, maybe you have a submissive side you have yet to explore?

 

[HonkOnBobo]

I have crazy urges to be taken and suck and get fucked, but no real desire to be sucked or fuck a guy most of the time.

I like how you think

 

[HomerSimpson123]

I don’t really have an urge to not receive, but I like sucking guys even when they just want to be serviced.

 

[docoral]

Let me preface my post by saying I've never done anything sexual with another guy in real life. With that said, I've been thinking (or more accurately fantasizing) about a getting blown by a guy. However, I have no desire to reciprocate. I know that sounds selfish but I'm just not there yet, nor do I think I'll ever be. As anyone felt the same way ? Does this pretty much foreclose on the possibility of getting a blow job if I don't want to give one ?

There are certainly more givers than receiver's. For me, I don't want to be a cocksucker's cocksucker. I've searched a long time for a married type that for whatever reason wasn't getting what he needed at home and would be happy to meet for just a very intense oral worship session, NSA. iF I could find a partner like that I would make every attempt to take care of his sperm backup when ever he needed it, no questions asked and no recip needed. Unfortunately in today's world with the elimination of Craigslist it's nearly impossible to find and satisfy my needs to enjoy a nice cock. Being married myself it's frustrating to not be able to enjoy my bi-side. Trust me, there are a lot of guys out there that would consider you a gift from the Gods. Put yourself out there you'll get your blowjob whenever you want one just be selective and careful.

 

[docoral]

I still say it's practically impossible to find a nice, sane, healthy, clean guy who wants to just sit back and regularly get a blowjob without wanting to do something to me in return. I live in the San Fernando Valley (populations 1.75 million) in the town of Sylmar (population over 80,000). That works out to about 6350 people per square mile. Where are all of these guys who truly and honestly want an NSA blowjob. I've had profiles up on Silverdaddies, Squirt, and Menwhoswallow for years. I have had a few experiences giving guys NSA blowjobs but they've all been one time deals. 99% of the responses I do get to my ads the guy seems to want a piece of me too. Anyway...just venting

I sooo agree with you. Being married myself, if I could find someone needy I would be thrilled for his company and make every attempt to take care of him when he needed it. A secret partnership.

 

[peter49parker]

There are certainly more givers than receiver's. For me, I don't want to be a cocksucker's cocksucker. I've searched a long time for a married type that for whatever reason wasn't getting what he needed at home and would be happy to meet for just a very intense oral worship session, NSA. iF I could find a partner like that I would make every attempt to take care of his sperm backup when ever he needed it, no questions asked and no recip needed. Unfortunately in today's world with the elimination of Craigslist it's nearly impossible to find and satisfy my needs to enjoy a nice cock. Being married myself it's frustrating to not be able to enjoy my bi-side. Trust me, there are a lot of guys out there that would consider you a gift from the Gods. Put yourself out there you'll get your blowjob whenever you want one just be selective and careful.

You make some good points here docoral. There does seem to be an over abundance of cocksuckers on the market. For every guy who wants to receive, there seems to be a dozen, or more givers. In my earlier days of wanting to explore my bi side, I would have thought it would have been the other way around.

I was lucky enough to find a true receiver of oral pleasure and I enjoyed giving him blow jobs and swallowing his sperm for over three years. Now we are separated by distance. Like you, I do not want to be a cocksucker's cocksucker, but rather a giver. My pleasure is in giving pleasure. It is not impossible to find a guy who wants to get a good BJ, but it is much more difficult than I imagined.

 

[docoral]

You make some good points here docoral. There does seem to be an over abundance of cocksuckers on the market. For every guy who wants to receive, there seems to be a dozen, or more givers. In my earlier days of wanting to explore my bi side, I would have thought it would have been the other way around.

I was lucky enough to find a true receiver of oral pleasure and I enjoyed giving him blow jobs and swallowing his sperm for over three years. Now we are separated by distance. Like you, I do not want to be a cocksucker's cocksucker, but rather a giver. My pleasure is in giving pleasure. It is not impossible to find a guy who wants to get a good BJ, but it is much more difficult than I imagined.

All I know is that If the opportunity arises again and I'm lucky enough to find another partner I will be open to more, like taking my backside if he wants and other activities. Where do you look.

 

[peter49parker]

All I know is that If the opportunity arises again and I'm lucky enough to find another partner I will be open to more, like taking my backside if he wants and other activities. Where do you look.

I have had great results with silverdaddies. Time and patience are needed to weed out the whackos and the pretenders, but if you really want it, there is someone out there looking for you as much as you are looking for them.

 

[gunthernehmen]

For me it's all about giving the perfect bj.

 

[hilton1958]

I must say I'm quite surprised at how many are willing to give a bj without any expectation of reciprocation.

 

[PG564E]

I was surprised too

I must say I'm quite surprised at how many are willing to give a bj without any expectation of reciprocation.

I never dreamed that one day I would desire to suck stranger's dick more than anything else possible sexually. Being a man, having the initial curiosity, then gradual descent into totally submissive homosexuality was so revealing to me. It took some time, but a long story short led to this truth.

I am totally happy to suck a man's cock well, long, and publicly. I get off when men cum in my mouth, or play with my ass, or more. It is ultra sexy to have primal gay sex being the provider of tremendous pleasure to any man with a hard dick.

 

[HornyHal]

This is truly eye opening. Who knew there was such a market for NSA blowjobs with no reciprocation. I love having my cock sucked and have never been ina situation where I was the only one receiving. That sounds awesome!!

 

[winterluver]

I must say I'm quite surprised at how many are willing to give a bj without any expectation of reciprocation.

I am also looking for an exclusive bud I can suck when our worlds line up with no recip.

 

[hilton1958]

I am also looking for an exclusive bud I can suck when our worlds line up with no recip.

Sad that I'm so far away from all these willing mouths.

 

[Massacre]

I'm much closer to receiving than giving.

 

[2wayroad]

I just wish there were more out there who only wanted to get blown or fuck, but not feel obliged in any way to return the favor.

As a matter of fact, i prefer when he just leaves once he’s had his way. I’m not much for small talk. Don’t feel guilty, you just gave a cocksucker like me exactly what I wanted.

 

[HornyHal]

I just wish there were more out there who only wanted to get blown or fuck, but not feel obliged in any way to return the favor.

As a matter of fact, i prefer when he just leaves once he’s had his way. I’m not much for small talk. Don’t feel guilty, you just gave a cocksucker like me exactly what I wanted.

A simple pat on the head and the zip up and then walk off with out saying a word. I’m sure I could manage that.

 

[docoral]

I just wish there were more out there who only wanted to get blown or fuck, but not feel obliged in any way to return the favor.

As a matter of fact, i prefer when he just leaves once he’s had his way. I’m not much for small talk. Don’t feel guilty, you just gave a cocksucker like me exactly what I wanted.

To me, it's important to have one and only one friend to be exclusive and needy. I will take care of his needs whenever needed weather it be a long worship session or a quickie on the way to work, once I provide relief and he is soft it's time to part company till the next time. I want our relationship to be purely sexual. I want to feel like his cocksucker not his friend, to be uncomplicated and nonintrusive.

 

[gunthernehmen]

Works for me. Pat me on the head after pulling on my ears!

 

[cosmic264]

I admit to being solely a receiver , I am str8 but have been trying to find a bate bud. That in it self isn't easy. I have found that most all that I have talked to want so much more as in full on gay play. I just have no desire at all for men but enjoy watching porn, talking getting naked and strok'n watching each other. I wish I could find someone that doesn't want a return I would gladly let him suck all he wants but around here it just don't happen. It ain't easy believe me.

 

[docoral]

I admit to being solely a receiver , I am str8 but have been trying to find a bate bud. That in it self isn't easy. I have found that most all that I have talked to want so much more as in full on gay play. I just have no desire at all for men but enjoy watching porn, talking getting naked and strok'n watching each other. I wish I could find someone that doesn't want a return I would gladly let him suck all he wants but around here it just don't happen. It ain't easy believe me.

I feel for you. I can't find what I need either.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I admit to being solely a receiver , I am str8 but have been trying to find a bate bud. That in it self isn't easy. I have found that most all that I have talked to want so much more as in full on gay play. I just have no desire at all for men but enjoy watching porn, talking getting naked and strok'n watching each other. I wish I could find someone that doesn't want a return I would gladly let him suck all he wants but around here it just don't happen. It ain't easy believe me.

Where is around here Cosmic?

 

[peter49parker]

I admit to being solely a receiver , I am str8 but have been trying to find a bate bud. That in it self isn't easy. I have found that most all that I have talked to want so much more as in full on gay play. I just have no desire at all for men but enjoy watching porn, talking getting naked and strok'n watching each other. I wish I could find someone that doesn't want a return I would gladly let him suck all he wants but around here it just don't happen. It ain't easy believe me.

It is a familiar lament. Those who just want to suck cock and swallow, can't find a good guy who just wants his cock sucked. I had such an arrangement for three years but it came to an end recently when I sold my winter home. I miss my buddy more than the winter home. By the way, I was the giver and loved every second of it.