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sarod said:
Where the fuck are all these people? I would be such a giver QUOTE=curious_newbie;86563070]Let me preface my post by saying I've never done anything sexual with another guy in real life. With that said, I've been thinking (or more accurately fantasizing) about a getting blown by a guy. However, I have no desire to reciprocate. I know that sounds selfish but I'm just not there yet, nor do I think I'll ever be. As anyone felt the same way ? Does this pretty much foreclose on the possibility of getting a blow job if I don't want to give one ?
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Lol in this part of the world, you can't throw a rock without hitting a bottom (receiver). And I've been hit by some of those rocks, so I'm not the only one throwing.
 
Same here man, I did swap a couple times with best friend in the can't talk about early days but only did it as I felt it was only fair to trade.

Didn't do anything for many years after but in the last year have let two dudes suck me I met online and they were hot experiences. These guys just loved sucking some good dick :)
 
I suppose the more I experiment in the lifestyle, the more I realize I don't understand myself.

I LOVE giving blowjobs to men, straight, gay, doesn't matter to me. I enjoy cock. Seems pretty simple, right?

But I never ever get hard when I'm with another man. I have zero romantic interest with men, and take zero pleasure from men when they try. Maybe once or twice a man went down on me and got me semi-hard, but for the most part, I get nothing from being pleasured by men.

I do however, get rock hard for women, easily. I also have a tendency to get very emotionally attached (however, controlled, I can turn it off light a light anymore!) to women. I had really deep connections and relationships with my last few dominas/mistresses.

And here's the weird thing. Even in a straight MFM, I can't get hard. I'm turned on as hell, but fall into some kind of weird submissive mode when another man is playing. All I want to do is pleasure them both orally, and watch them fuck it out.

I'm very dynamic when it comes to turn on's and play that I like, but when I go to themed parties, such as cuckold parties or bi parties, I go only to orally pleasure people, and have no intention of receiving. I love getting blowjobs from women, but even in those party situations, I won't get there, so I just keep it in my panties. Plenty of guys reach in and try to get me going, but it never happens.

I was thinking maybe taking viagara to pop a boner to make everyone happy? I have no objections to being pleasured by men, it just doesn't seem to do anything for me.

Like I said, I'm still trying to figure myself out, and I've been active in the lifestyle for more than 3 years now.
 
sub2femdom said:
I suppose the more I experiment in the lifestyle, the more I realize I don't understand myself.

I LOVE giving blowjobs to men, straight, gay, doesn't matter to me. I enjoy cock. Seems pretty simple, right?

But I never ever get hard when I'm with another man. I have zero romantic interest with men, and take zero pleasure from men when they try. Maybe once or twice a man went down on me and got me semi-hard, but for the most part, I get nothing from being pleasured by men.

I do however, get rock hard for women, easily. I also have a tendency to get very emotionally attached (however, controlled, I can turn it off light a light anymore!) to women. I had really deep connections and relationships with my last few dominas/mistresses.

And here's the weird thing. Even in a straight MFM, I can't get hard. I'm turned on as hell, but fall into some kind of weird submissive mode when another man is playing. All I want to do is pleasure them both orally, and watch them fuck it out.

I'm very dynamic when it comes to turn on's and play that I like, but when I go to themed parties, such as cuckold parties or bi parties, I go only to orally pleasure people, and have no intention of receiving. I love getting blowjobs from women, but even in those party situations, I won't get there, so I just keep it in my panties. Plenty of guys reach in and try to get me going, but it never happens.

I was thinking maybe taking viagara to pop a boner to make everyone happy? I have no objections to being pleasured by men, it just doesn't seem to do anything for me.

Like I said, I'm still trying to figure myself out, and I've been active in the lifestyle for more than 3 years now.
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Sub,

You should not have to do anything that you do not want to or not feel comfortable with.

So, you like women and, also like sucking cock. Sorry to break it to you, you would not be the first.

Also not getting pleasure from a guy sucking you, that’s ok also!

If you are fine with it, great.

If you are not mentally good with it, you could consult a professional to help you come to terms with it.

Enjoy good and safe sex .... ;)
 
sarod said:
Where the fuck are all these people? I would be such a giver QUOTE=curious_newbie;86563070]Let me preface my post by saying I've never done anything sexual with another guy in real life. With that said, I've been thinking (or more accurately fantasizing) about a getting blown by a guy. However, I have no desire to reciprocate. I know that sounds selfish but I'm just not there yet, nor do I think I'll ever be. As anyone felt the same way ? Does this pretty much foreclose on the possibility of getting a blow job if I don't want to give one ?
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Absolutely not.

I’m a masculine guy who loves to suck cock and swallow cum. I neither want nor expect anything in return. My reward is his cum.

Although I am outwardly masculine and straight, I enjoy being put in a submissive role by a confident man.
 
Absolutely not.

I’m a masculine guy who loves to suck cock and swallow cum. I neither want nor expect anything in return. My reward is his cum.

Although I am outwardly masculine and straight, I enjoy being put in a submissive role by a confident man.[/QUOTE]

Sometimes it just feels good to be used.
 
JackOfNoTrades said:
When it come to oral and many activities, I like to give and receive. When it comes to anal, I only like to receive. I'm one of many bottoms, which make it hard to find the other side of the sexual tryst.
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Yeah, like real talk where the fuck are all the tops that are literally everywhere in gay media? It's like finding a fucking unicorn. I did, thank god, but I think that there are only like 5 actual tops on the whole planet and we've all had to share them.

Yhall need to find a way to reproduce or something. There's a major shortage.
 
sub2femdom said:
I suppose the more I experiment in the lifestyle, the more I realize I don't understand myself.

I LOVE giving blowjobs to men, straight, gay, doesn't matter to me. I enjoy cock. Seems pretty simple, right?

But I never ever get hard when I'm with another man. I have zero romantic interest with men, and take zero pleasure from men when they try. Maybe once or twice a man went down on me and got me semi-hard, but for the most part, I get nothing from being pleasured by men.

I do however, get rock hard for women, easily. I also have a tendency to get very emotionally attached (however, controlled, I can turn it off light a light anymore!) to women. I had really deep connections and relationships with my last few dominas/mistresses.

And here's the weird thing. Even in a straight MFM, I can't get hard. I'm turned on as hell, but fall into some kind of weird submissive mode when another man is playing. All I want to do is pleasure them both orally, and watch them fuck it out.

I'm very dynamic when it comes to turn on's and play that I like, but when I go to themed parties, such as cuckold parties or bi parties, I go only to orally pleasure people, and have no intention of receiving. I love getting blowjobs from women, but even in those party situations, I won't get there, so I just keep it in my panties. Plenty of guys reach in and try to get me going, but it never happens.

I was thinking maybe taking viagara to pop a boner to make everyone happy? I have no objections to being pleasured by men, it just doesn't seem to do anything for me.

Like I said, I'm still trying to figure myself out, and I've been active in the lifestyle for more than 3 years now.
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I feel like if I was in this situation I'd get a cock cage and pretend like it was on purpose. Plus like... there's no reason to not have a cock cage anyway. 2 birds 1 stone type of deal.
 
Giving is always a pleasure for me. To have the privilege of getting a guy cum in my mouth is a wonderful feeling. Having received many a blow job myself, it is time to share the wealth and give.
 
So Cal (818) 91342

Bottom line for me. I like sucking cock...I enjoy it. I don't enjoy getting sucked off by other guys. I'm just not attracted to men like that. It doesn't turn me on...I've tried it. The only way I could even get hard was to close my eyes and pretend it was my wife sucking me off. There's only one part of a mans body I'm attracted to and that's the cock (and balls of course). I've been trying for years to find a local guy who wants regular NSA blowjobs without wanting to reciprocate at all...practically impossible.
 
I have crazy urges to be taken and suck and get fucked, but no real desire to be sucked or fuck a guy most of the time.
 
Same

Eros_epoch said:
I have long fantasized about sucking a guys cock and letting him fuck my ass, but have no real desire for the other way around.
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Same. If there is some sort of submissive gene, at least in fantasy, I've certainly got it, as this describes me.
 
I'm a selfish recipient only. Scared of STDs, otherwise I'd be the best cocksucker on the planet!
Harry in Rhode island.
 
Sylmar CA 91342 (818)

debear said:
Bottom line for me. I like sucking cock...I enjoy it. I don't enjoy getting sucked off by other guys. I'm just not attracted to men like that. It doesn't turn me on...I've tried it. The only way I could even get hard was to close my eyes and pretend it was my wife sucking me off. There's only one part of a mans body I'm attracted to and that's the cock (and balls of course). I've been trying for years to find a local guy who wants regular NSA blowjobs without wanting to reciprocate at all...practically impossible.
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I still say it's practically impossible to find a nice, sane, healthy, clean guy who wants to just sit back and regularly get a blowjob without wanting to do something to me in return. I live in the San Fernando Valley (populations 1.75 million) in the town of Sylmar (population over 80,000). That works out to about 6350 people per square mile. Where are all of these guys who truly and honestly want an NSA blowjob. I've had profiles up on Silverdaddies, Squirt, and Menwhoswallow for years. I have had a few experiences giving guys NSA blowjobs but they've all been one time deals. 99% of the responses I do get to my ads the guy seems to want a piece of me too. Anyway...just venting
 
I find that an issue too. Most of the ones who want nothing in return, don’t want a second meeting. They are married or deeply closeted and fear being stalked or blackmailed. But most fail to realise that many of us are in this together.
 
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