Panty fetish questions...

[rcll3]

Hello all

32 M here who has had a panty fetish as long as I can remember. I’ve always taken my wife’s or someone else’s dirty panties and masturbated to the scent of her pussy, it’s such a turn on to me. What makes them even better is if they are satin. I recently tried on one of my wife’s silk thongs and found it extremely arousing. I have been masturbating this way and absolutely love it. I’d love to incorporate me wearing them during sex someday. So here’s my question.

To those who wear woman’s panties, does your wife approve?
How did you tell her?

I don’t want my wife thinking I’m some cross dressing man who’s a sicko. It’s just my panty fetish and some thing thats always been a huge turn on.

Any help is appreciated.

 

[joefelton]

Hi Rc,

I've been wearing panties for three years. I'm sixty-five years old. I was putting laundry away and on a whim tried on a pair of her panties. I loved it and started secretly wearing her panties for two weeks. I was enjoying it even more and I decided this was something I wanted to continue and I wasn't harming anyone. I've been married for over thirty-five years. I decided I would tell her because after being happily married for so long I decided it wouldn't make sense to break up over something so trivial as what type of underwear I choose to wear. I waited for our next "date night", in bed wearing her panties under my pajamas. When I told her she was more curious than upset, so I explained my feelings. She was fine with it, and offered to go panty shopping with me the following weekend. I have about fifty pairs now. She did request that I don't embarrass her. However she did tell her best girlfriend about it.

 

[FloridaBob]

I don’t know if it qualifies as a fetish, but I’d rather see a woman in some sexy lip than in the nude. Just super hot and sexy for me to look at,🏖

 

[liqueur]

To those who wear woman’s panties, does your wife approve?
How did you tell her?

We're separated now, but she did approve and encouraged it. One year she and her daughter went panty shopping together for my birthday presents.
We talked about it very early, before we were married. It turned her on. She often wore jockey shorts, to emphasize the gender role switching.

I don’t want my wife thinking I’m some cross dressing man who’s a sicko. It’s just my panty fetish and some thing thats always been a huge turn on.

My wife actually encouraged me to cross-dress a couple of times, but I didn't like it too much. I have a very masculine body, and I looked like a bad parody of a drag queen— looking in the mirror just made me sad. But the real point is that loving panties and cross-dressing can be and often are two separate things. I think your wife will be able see that difference—especially if you emphasize that it's panties that she's worn that especially attract you.

(but even if you were a full-on cross-dresser, that wouldn't make you a 'sicko.' be careful of trampling on other people's fetishes)

 

[Lucien_Al]

I can sympathize as I have had a huge panty fetish for over 40 years and fairly early in our marriage I tried to raise the issue of me using her panties to sniff while wanking and also about wearing panties. She didn't freak out at all but just acted like I had never mentioned it.

She did catch me once, where I used a pair of her panties to sniff while wanking and then finished by cumming into the gusset. I fell asleep with her cum stained panties next to me and when I woke up she was putting the panties into the laundry hamper and nothing was said.

I do wear panties occasionally when I am travelling and really love satin and lace pairs the most.

Last year in Italy, I found men's trunks made from a fabric that is very similar to women's panties and I now wear these daily.

 

[rudil]

The fabric, color, style, where they've been, but most of all, the woman scent.

 

[newhere2learn]

Hello all

32 M here who has had a panty fetish as long as I can remember. I’ve always taken my wife’s or someone else’s dirty panties and masturbated to the scent of her pussy, it’s such a turn on to me. What makes them even better is if they are satin. I recently tried on one of my wife’s silk thongs and found it extremely arousing. I have been masturbating this way and absolutely love it. I’d love to incorporate me wearing them during sex someday. So here’s my question.

To those who wear woman’s panties, does your wife approve?
How did you tell her?

I don’t want my wife thinking I’m some cross dressing man who’s a sicko. It’s just my panty fetish and some thing thats always been a huge turn on.

Any help is appreciated.

Been wearing since I was in my teens, just tried them one day. Loved the feel, so much more seductive than plain boxers.

Over the years I've worn various GFs, housemates, my wife/ex-wifes and now I live alone I've bought my own.

As a fan of edging, they feed into that.... Steady arousal all the time I'm wearing.

Wife never knew. Never told her. She'd have freaked. Hers, I had some hot solo sessions in them when she was having an affair and didn't know I knew. She'd come in from "the gym" or a walk, wearing nice knickers, and hide them in the hamper.

Once she was in bed or out, I'd spend ages playing with/wearing/licking her wet panties