Why are so many people so scared to talk about stuff?

[SassySheDevil]

You don't. You get attached to the person typing the words that you see there. You get a glimpse of their heart and mind. And that's what attracts you. And until it happens to you, please stfu and don't judge.

This ^^^

You have no idea who or what is typing the pixels displayed. Could be some dude in an internet cafe' in New Delhi, or a bot in China.

And I've met like 6 people from here in person and none of them were "Some dude in an internet Cafe" You take the risk if you actually care. I regret meeting none of them.

 

[LostGirlTink]

Why the fuck would anybody be so desperate as to get attached to pixels on a screen?

If that’s all the people on the other side of the screen are to you, no wonder you have shitty experiences. It’s kinda what you deserve.
Why the fuck would anyone be so callous as to assume that there isn’t an actual real live person engaging with you? That’s kind of the point of a discussion forum isn’t it?

You don't. You get attached to the person typing the words that you see there. You get a glimpse of their heart and mind. And that's what attracts you. And until it happens to you, please stfu and don't judge.

^^this
Behind every post is a person with a keyboard.
They have thoughts, opinions and feelings that are as valid as yours.
It’s the height of arrogance to think of people as pixels on a screen that way. Go buy a sex you and get yourself some pay porn and leave the people alone.

This ^^^


And I've met like 6 people from here in person and none of them were "Some dude in an internet Cafe" You take the risk if you actually care. I regret meeting none of them.

I’ve met several myself. All real people. Flesh, blood and in possession of a heart and feelings.

 

[JAYBE30]

How would this discussion get "ugly"?

Nooooww, I get how it can get ugly! lol
Oh how naive I can still be on some things

I'm sorry to all of yall who have been hurt. Emotions are a bitch for sure.
I think we can all deal with a some hurt as long as we are proud of who we are.
I know I'm not perfect, but I am bery proud of the person I am, so I'm just gonna keep keeping on, and keep working on MY communication as well as not taking others actions personal.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Nooooww, I get how it can get ugly! lol
Oh how naive I can still be on some things

I'm sorry to all of yall who have been hurt. Emotions are a bitch for sure.
I think we can all deal with a some hurt as long as we are proud of who we are.
I know I'm not perfect, but I am bery proud of the person I am, so I'm just gonna keep keeping on, and keep working on MY communication as well as not taking others actions personal.

*almost spits bourbon trying not to laugh*

Just keep finding the humor in things and being friendly.

 

[Devlishone4fun]

You know sitting back and reading all the post above me has me thinking... The street goes both ways. Most of you know me well and not just through some pm. I for one get really pissed off about the ghosting and or playing magic man/woman and disappearing. everyone that does get involved should expect some kind of explanation, but at alas the times have changed. What we expect and get seems to be two different things.

Maybe its just me, but I find it really disrespectful to send a pic of my private side right off the bat and don't blame you ladies one bit for shooting at those bad apples. Lately we have to police our own around Lit and look out for each other.

Hey it has happened to me to , yes it does happen to us guys, so its just not you ladies. Granted we or I haven't to had any ladies send me naughty pics right off the bat.But have been ghosted, M.I.A. on. And just had to ask why what happened and then it leaves you questioning yourself after getting involved. But in the end do realize this is a porn forum site. Life things happen and people do drop off and out here with out saying goodbye. For their reason unknown to us. Maybe they had their fill an pleasure as someone else above said and just moved on and that's how they are and will continue to be. Yes it sucks. well worse than sucks at times and I think we all withdrawal away and get very guarded to prevent from happen to us again. Nobody likes rejection including myself. Shit this is getting deep....

Well yall carry on and hey you know I will be lurking around just waiting to sneak up behind up grab some ass lol. Sometime you just got cut up and poke fun at each other. It's like a romance kind of thing, a parody. Its kind of sexy picking at you ladies and yes you give right back to me! One thing I wont do is go ghost without a explanation as most of you know how I had NO choice two years ago fighting the fucking cancer to get ghosty. But I knew most of you would understand as to why I could only be here for a limited engagement with you sexy ladies! But hey two year checkup coming up this month and all still hopefully will be good news again... If it is, I can promise you more ass grabbing is coming!!!!
In the end its really not worth it because there is a bigger picture out there and I now realize it, while most never will...At least we have each other and can just pm a friend to talk.

Okay carry ladies,, my two cents plus a few dollars....

 

[barefootgirl69]

You know sitting back and reading all the post above me has me thinking... The street goes both ways. Most of you know me well and not just through some pm. I for one get really pissed off about the ghosting and or playing magic man/woman and disappearing. everyone that does get involved should expect some kind of explanation, but at alas the times have changed. What we expect and get seems to be two different things.

Maybe its just me, but I find it really disrespectful to send a pic of my private side right off the bat and don't blame you ladies one bit for shooting at those bad apples. Lately we have to police our own around Lit and look out for each other.

Hey it has happened to me to , yes it does happen to us guys, so its just not you ladies. Granted we or I haven't to had any ladies send me naughty pics right off the bat.But have been ghosted, M.I.A. on. And just had to ask why what happened and then it leaves you questioning yourself after getting involved. But in the end do realize this is a porn forum site. Life things happen and people do drop off and out here with out saying goodbye. For their reason unknown to us. Maybe they had their fill an pleasure as someone else above said and just moved on and that's how they are and will continue to be. Yes it sucks. well worse than sucks at times and I think we all withdrawal away and get very guarded to prevent from happen to us again. Nobody likes rejection including myself. Shit this is getting deep....

Well yall carry on and hey you know I will be lurking around just waiting to sneak up behind up grab some ass lol. Sometime you just got cut up and poke fun at each other. It's like a romance kind of thing, a parody. Its kind of sexy picking at you ladies and yes you give right back to me! One thing I wont do is go ghost with a explanation as most of you know how NO choice two years ago fighting the fucking cancer. But I knew most of you would understand as to why I could only be here for a limited engagement with you sexy ladies! But hey two year checkup coming up this month and all still hopefully will be good news again... If it is, I can promise you more ass grabbing is coming!!!!
In the end its really not worth it because their is a bigger picture out there and I now realize it, while most never will...At least we have each other and can just pm a friend to talk.

Okay carry ladies,, my two cents plus a few dollars....

*grabs his ass on the way out*

Don't be a stranger, Dev...or strange. Lord knows there's enough of that going around.

 

[Devlishone4fun]

*grabs his ass on the way out*

Don't be a stranger, Dev...or strange. Lord knows there's enough of that going around.

Okay I pull the stickers out of your foot for making you run from me to catch you and get a kiss.... Hey wait a minute you ran, not me. But here I got the tweezers in hand for you BFG

 

[barefootgirl69]

Okay I pull the stickers out of your foot for making you run for me to catch you and get a kiss.... Hey wait a minute you ran, not me. But here I got the tweezers in hand for you BFG

*sits on the porch and puts my foot up*

You know chasing me is half the fun.
Catching me is the other half.
Next time, though, let's do it in daylight - those stickers hurt!

 

[Devlishone4fun]

Know you us devlish ones like the dark, more than the light....

You know that might just work this time during the day. I get to see your precious lips to kiss and the expression on your face afterwards...Snatches that last sticker out and grabs ass and darts off the porch.. Now catch me if you can!

 

[JAYBE30]

You know sitting back and reading all the post above me has me thinking... The street goes both ways. Most of you know me well and not just through some pm. I for one get really pissed off about the ghosting and or playing magic man/woman and disappearing. everyone that does get involved should expect some kind of explanation, but at alas the times have changed. What we expect and get seems to be two different things.

Maybe its just me, but I find it really disrespectful to send a pic of my private side right off the bat and don't blame you ladies one bit for shooting at those bad apples. Lately we have to police our own around Lit and look out for each other.

Hey it has happened to me to , yes it does happen to us guys, so its just not you ladies. Granted we or I haven't to had any ladies send me naughty pics right off the bat.But have been ghosted, M.I.A. on. And just had to ask why what happened and then it leaves you questioning yourself after getting involved. But in the end do realize this is a porn forum site. Life things happen and people do drop off and out here with out saying goodbye. For their reason unknown to us. Maybe they had their fill an pleasure as someone else above said and just moved on and that's how they are and will continue to be. Yes it sucks. well worse than sucks at times and I think we all withdrawal away and get very guarded to prevent from happen to us again. Nobody likes rejection including myself. Shit this is getting deep....

Well yall carry on and hey you know I will be lurking around just waiting to sneak up behind up grab some ass lol. Sometime you just got cut up and poke fun at each other. It's like a romance kind of thing, a parody. Its kind of sexy picking at you ladies and yes you give right back to me! One thing I wont do is go ghost without a explanation as most of you know how I had NO choice two years ago fighting the fucking cancer to get ghosty. But I knew most of you would understand as to why I could only be here for a limited engagement with you sexy ladies! But hey two year checkup coming up this month and all still hopefully will be good news again... If it is, I can promise you more ass grabbing is coming!!!!
In the end its really not worth it because there is a bigger picture out there and I now realize it, while most never will...At least we have each other and can just pm a friend to talk.

Okay carry ladies,, my two cents plus a few dollars....

Well said!
I especially like poking fun back & forth, great, fun flirting to me. I have learned I have to dial it back a bit until they know me a little better though, a few have taken me too serious & instead of firing back, seemed to be offended & called me an ass ha ha. I guess cause s lot of guys really are rude & I thought it was obvious sarcasm ha ha (this is not so much on lit though, this is more so on the dating apps)