Fantasy Vs Reality...

[LetOffSomeSteam]

We all have Kinks/Fetishes and Fantasies we like to explore whether its here in Lit or through endless other avenues. However, I'm curious to know what things are simply a fantasy to you and not something you'd ever actually want to do in real life?
Or have you had a particular Kink/Fetish or Fantasy that you have managed to live out that made you realize in reality it wasn't for you and that's it's best kept as a fantasy?

For example, in my teens, I always fantasized about being with older women and swinging a little, now in my 20's I've had the chance to experience both and It's exactly how I imagined, no complaints at all.
On the other hand, don't judge me... but I've always enjoyed reading and watching material on Incest, specifically Mother and Son situations but this isn't something I myself would want to do in reality. If anything I just like the idea of Role Play.

Curious to know other people's thoughts

 

[screwher]

My wife

Some fantasies are best to be just left as that. My wife once confessed she has fantasized about being raped by another man. The conversation turned us both on. We ended up in the bedroom right away. That started my own fantasies of other men violating her. But ultimately if it were to happen the negative outweigh the positive. First off, I don't think my wife wants it to really happen. So there's police reports. STD tests. Most important the mental anguish that will probably haunt her forever.

That's why when I thought "Hmm, maybe I could make it happen for her" I immediately put the ka - bosh on it.

 

[LetOffSomeSteam]

Some fantasies are best to be just left as that. My wife once confessed she has fantasized about being raped by another man. The conversation turned us both on. We ended up in the bedroom right away. That started my own fantasies of other men violating her. But ultimately if it were to happen the negative outweigh the positive. First off, I don't think my wife wants it to really happen. So there's police reports. STD tests. Most important the mental anguish that will probably haunt her forever.

That's why when I thought "Hmm, maybe I could make it happen for her" I immediately put the ka - bosh on it.

Thank you for sharing and I do think that was a wise decision, that's quite an extreme fantasy and like you mentioned it's probably not worth the possible negative ramifications of actually doing it.

 

[nibbles96]

I fantasised about having sex with a guy with a large cock and it was every bit as great as my fantasy. So I'm ready to try bigger now!

 

[LetOffSomeSteam]

I fantasised about having sex with a guy with a large cock and it was every bit as great as my fantasy. So I'm ready to try bigger now!

Glad you enjoy the larger ones Would you describe yourself as a size queen now?

 

[live4thebj]

Incest. But aside for my nieces legs, none of them do it for me.

 

[Astroman72]

Gay sex for me.

Although the desire is strong, my gay sex fantasies are very specific and purely physical. It's very different from my desire for women. For me, it's something that I feel is better left as fantasy, although if the perfect situation presented itself, I probably wouldn't be able to resist.

 

[GD88]

I'm curious to know what things are simply a fantasy to you and not something you'd ever actually want to do in real life?

I would say incest.

I've fantasized of seducing and then bedding my female cousins but each time I see them, I'm always brought back to the reality that it's probably not something I want to do. It's not that they're not attractive it's just it's probably something that I want to do.

That said, it's probably because I don't have a sister that I love brother/sister fantasies/scenarios so much.

 

[WilliamOddly]

Incest. There's only one member of my immediate family who is, objectively, attractive, but the idea of sex with her does nothing for me at all.

Gay sex. Theoretically, sure, give me the cock. In reality I don't find men all that attractive, I certainly wouldn't want to be in a relationship with one.

 

[smotp]

I create The Daddy Phile's Audios...

It seems that some people have difficulty separating Role Play Fantasy from reality. I deliberately chose the title, Daddy Phile's as a play on words, to mean 'lovers of the Daddy Fetish'.
There is no suggestion of incest or non consent in any of the works, it is all about an Authority figure taking control in sexual situations. I guess it is all in the ear of the listener?

However, there is a knee jerk reaction to some words without any critical thinking involved.
It is an interesting exercise for me to push this envelope and see how many get annoyed.

The favourable feedback has been very satisfying, it seems there are a lot of wet panties out there as a consequence.

 

[oneaboveall23]

Yeah. I've been to a few Fetlife munches where I've had to explain to people that what I like is fantasy role-playing that literally cannot be done in real life like it was portrayed on the shows I watched when I was a kid (e.g. Wonder Woman, The Bionic Woman, Batman, etc...).

 

[Crownvic]

I fantasised about having sex with a guy with a large cock and it was every bit as great as my fantasy. So I'm ready to try bigger now!

Fantasties can really happen..go for it...

 

[MasturbationFriend]

MFM threesome

One of the fantasies I've had for as long as I can remember is being in a MFM threesome. I finally did it with my wife a few years ago and it was absolutely amazing. We both really enjoyed it.

Some fantasies are better left as fantasies - others are worth realizing.

 

[nibbles96]

Glad you enjoy the larger ones Would you describe yourself as a size queen now?

No. I take what I can when I can! I'd certainly go the extra mile for something pecial though.

 

[LetOffSomeSteam]

No. I take what I can when I can! I'd certainly go the extra mile for something pecial though.

I like your attitude! However, If our paths were to ever cross, I may have something special for you...

 

[1darknightowl]

Pregnancy fetish

I have a pregnancy/ breeding fetish and always have. I love pregnant women.

Im monogamous and I have sex with my wife because I enjoy sex with my partner. We made no specific plans to conceive our 1st child. It was natural and I loved the feeling that my equipment actually works as I watched her grow, birth and feeding.

Then came the 2nd, we had to specifically plan sex for the right time and this time the mechanical act did nothing for me. I enjoyed watching her grow but missed the birth. It feels even to this day I donated sperm then picked up a fully fledged baby. Major letdown on the fantasy.

I don't want more children but I still fantasise about getting another woman pregnant. The wife and I do role play it and that is how it will stay.

Note:

I think most fantasies are the mind expressing itself and should remain as that - fantasy.

Speaking of fantasy, as I wrote the above, serial killer sprung to mind. Someone who repeats the ritual to either live up the fantasy they imagined or repeat their 1st kill never able to achieve it.

 

[labierexxx]

I too frequently enjoy incest themed stories, especially ones about brothers and sisters. But seeing how I have no siblings of my own i would have to say that qualifies as a 'fantasy only' interest

 

[Dearelliot]

Ladies tied naked and forced to have oral sex etc, love the theme, but realize it isn't possible...I cant imagine myself being sexually excited by a crying frightened woman!
In my fantasy, she enjoys the sexuality of being tied and abused...not likely.

 

[1darknightowl]

I too frequently enjoy incest themed stories, especially ones about brothers and sisters. But seeing how I have no siblings of my own i would have to say that qualifies as a 'fantasy only' interest

I'm have to say sibling particularly twins is my favourite incest fantasy. I have zero interest in making it a reality.

 

[SusanHoward]

I’m not ashamed to admit that my son and his frat brothers always thought I was an attractive woman, but I have never had sex with him.

 

[wildp]

We all have fantasy and kinks. Some are fun and hot to do. For some though some of the more crazy ones are just for bed talk and a good fuck when talking about it gets both hot. Only talk and would never act them out

 

[komesh]

Fantasy and fantasizing are signs of a powerful brain. We use fantasy to create whatever we like, but many of our fantasies are not real or cannot be active in real life. Sex fantasy is a sex engine to increase our sex desire, which starts when we are kids. We mostly have sex fantasies about our particular mom and sisters, because they are so accessible and close to us. Since we can not have sex with them, we engage with their panties or undies. So, sniffing and masturbating at their panties, along with fantasizing, are the main sexual activities, and it becomes an addiction that follows us throughout our lives. I believe it is a regular and pleasurable sex feeling

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Mine was more the intenseness. We will say I’m a level 4, and got with a mistress that was a level 8. Some of it was exciting at first but it was too much. I’m sure it was the partner more than the play.

 

[Escierto]

I fantasized about having a trans woman fuck me for at least a decade. When it finally happened and I felt her cock penetrating me, it was beyond anything that I had ever experienced sexually. It was simply such absolute bliss!