Gay/Bi Cruising

[goodsonformom]

Have you ever gone cruising for sex. Have you cruised know areas for cock?

I have always loved wandering around a woods, an isolated area where other males hang out looking for anonymous sexual encounters. Many of us may have discovered this innocently when hiking or using a public restroom.

Tell us your stories......or share an image or video link that depicts Gay or Bi cruising....

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

Yes I have. Once in a forest that gay men frequented. I had my chance, but passed it up. Other than that, toy stores/adult theaters. Had a little success, but not enough. Next time maybe.

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

Actually, a long, long, time ago I cruised a park where men met each other for sex. I let a guy pick my up and take me home. The sex was disappointing but I let him fuck me anyway. You can't always get what you want.

 

[toocurious1974]

Much of my experience with men came about through cruising. At first it was at a local park known for cruising, and later at several ABSs in the area. I always get a thrill from it and have rarely been disappointed.

 

[Kantarii]

When I first started out, l went chasing dick. Then, I stopped when I realized it was looking for me. I never sat alone in bars or clubs long. Someone was bound to ask to sit down at the table or ask if anyone else was joining me. Even a less than feminine voice didn’t deter most guys. So the never was a need for me to “cruise” once I honed my craft and “feminine illusion” Kant

 

[goodsonformom]

When I first started out, l went chasing dick. Then, I stopped when I realized it was looking for me. I never sat alone in bars or clubs long. Someone was bound to ask to sit down at the table or ask if anyone else was joining me. Even a less than feminine voice didn’t deter most guys. So the never was a need for me to “cruise” once I honed my craft and “feminine illusion” Kant

Yes, I understand that. I remember when I was younger and looked fem, all those men that needed the illusion of something feminine, but still were searching for or willing to accept you had a cock, would flock to you. Also, when I was younger in my male persona, I always had men making passes at me, so cruising was more about being part of the thrill of the "hunt".....being the object of desire.....cruising was exciting.....I typically was never the aggressor.....the chaser....the seducer....to another male.

To your point regarding the “feminine illusion”....as we discussed on another thread....What it takes to draw a seemingly straight man into a gay tryst many times is that illusion.

There was a bar in Chicago some 20+ years ago called "Cheeks"....there are plenty of clubs in many cities that will allow CD's & Transvestites in as patrons, but Cheeks was a bar, and 75% of the patrons were Transsexual's, CD's & Transvestites. Here's the irony to your comment.... "I never sat alone in bars or clubs long. Someone was bound to ask to sit down at the table or ask if anyone else was joining me."....at Cheeks it was a feeding frenzy when a handsome male walked in.....Oooooh those girls were all over them, in bunches....

 

[Mqoi]

When I was in my 20s, I was a good looking kid at 5'7" and weighing about 120. When I wanted to suck some dick, it usually wasn't a problem finding one.

 

[bobbyinhouston]

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I like abs. The only problem is all the men are doing what I call the junior high dance. Walking around wanting to play but afraid to take a chance.

 

[goodsonformom]

I like abs. The only problem is all the men are doing what I call the junior high dance. Walking around wanting to play but afraid to take a chance.

I know that dance, seen it many times.....lol......

 

[bc_smash]

Haven't had the courage to go yet

 

[Kantarii]

Yes, I understand that. I remember when I was younger and looked fem, all those men that needed the illusion of something feminine, but still were searching for or willing to accept you had a cock, would flock to you. Also, when I was younger in my male persona, I always had men making passes at me, so cruising was more about being part of the thrill of the "hunt".....being the object of desire.....cruising was exciting.....I typically was never the aggressor.....the chaser....the seducer....to another male.

To your point regarding the “feminine illusion”....as we discussed on another thread....What it takes to draw a seemingly straight man into a gay tryst many times is that illusion.

There was a bar in Chicago some 20+ years ago called "Cheeks"....there are plenty of clubs in many cities that will allow CD's & Transvestites in as patrons, but Cheeks was a bar, and 75% of the patrons were Transsexual's, CD's & Transvestites. Here's the irony to your comment.... "I never sat alone in bars or clubs long. Someone was bound to ask to sit down at the table or ask if anyone else was joining me."....at Cheeks it was a feeding frenzy when a handsome male walked in.....Oooooh those girls were all over them, in bunches....

Now see, Atlanta used to be a thriving place for transgender people with numerous clubs that catered to those that crossed the gender lines. I can’t say that I didn’t frequent the places, but it was hard to pick up a guy in there since there were so many “TG/TS/TV/CD’s. I had the best luck hitting the fetish clubs or swingers clubs.Kant

 

[goodsonformom]

Now see, Atlanta used to be a thriving place for transgender people with numerous clubs that catered to those that crossed the gender lines. I can’t say that I didn’t frequent the places, but it was hard to pick up a guy in there since there were so many “TG/TS/TV/CD’s. I had the best luck hitting the fetish clubs or swingers clubs.Kant

Actually as knowledgeable as I am about Transsexual's, CD's & Transvestites, I just stumbled in to Cheeks on a whim, watching two really hot girls walk in. It was about 1 or 2 in the morning and the place was still packed. I immediately had four girls hanging on me, and frankly, I had no clue. I had to use the restroom, so I ordered a drank and went to pee. I'm standing at the urinal, and the girl I saw walk into the bar, is now pissing next to me. Yep, she pulled up her tight yellow dress and pulled out a cock that was bigger than mine. *brain fart*....now I get it.

 

[jackstud]

Now see, Atlanta used to be a thriving place for transgender people with numerous clubs that catered to those that crossed the gender lines. I can’t say that I didn’t frequent the places, but it was hard to pick up a guy in there since there were so many “TG/TS/TV/CD’s. I had the best luck hitting the fetish clubs or swingers clubs.Kant

smiles

 

[klippert]

I did much more of this when I was in college....

 

[Hitchiker69]

I used to live just around the corner from a gay cruising park, where I could find guys to play with easily. I used it many times, and was never disapointed.
It was in the same neighborhood as several gay bars. I went in to one once, and was hit on immediately.

 

[PariahKing]

I stumbled onto a cruising spot on a beach in a park near where I live. I had never walked that far down the beach and found an area that was kinda quiet and secluded. I came across a guy sitting on a rock shirtless and with loose shorts that couldn't hide the very noticeable tent between his legs. We kinda did that whole exchanging of knowing glances and nods towards his crotch. Next thing I know our shorts are down around our legs and we're sucking each other off. I felt so refreshed afterwards with an extra bounce in my step as I walked back to my car.

I might need to take an very long lunch break today.

 

[jimryan1231]

squirt.org has local cruising spots - there is one close to me that i go too. quite fun to do it outdoors.

 

[PariahKing]

squirt.org has local cruising spots - there is one close to me that i go too. quite fun to do it outdoors.

I'm on that site but not very active. I know the cruising listings can be useful to find out if anyone is planning on going there. Most of the listings in my area though seem to be very public bathrooms in malls and stores. I think I prefer outdoor cruising, something about the open air and nature.

 

[goodsonformom]

I'm on that site but not very active. I know the cruising listings can be useful to find out if anyone is planning on going there. Most of the listings in my area though seem to be very public bathrooms in malls and stores. I think I prefer outdoor cruising, something about the open air and nature.

I prefer outdoor cruising too. Back in the day, many restrooms were relatively safe. But now there are security cameras in many of these places. Even in my area there is heighten security in the traditional forest preserves and parks, specifically targeting these anonymous hook ups.

Due this it's been a while since I've done anything outdoors in a park or forest preserve. I have been fortunate in finding guys at a park or forest preserve who has a place. So after talking and feeling each other out (sorry about the pun), we'd go to his place........

 

[PariahKing]

I prefer outdoor cruising too. Back in the day, many restrooms were relatively safe. But now there are security cameras in many of these places. Even in my area there is heighten security in the traditional forest preserves and parks, specifically targeting these anonymous hook ups.

Due this it's been a while since I've done anything outdoors in a park or forest preserve. I have been fortunate in finding guys at a park or forest preserve who has a place. So after talking and feeling each other out (sorry about the pun), we'd go to his place........

I think that's why the outdoor scene seems relegated to being mostly oral encounters. I can't tell you how many times I wanted to go further. I've been a little fortunate with a handful of encounters that led to meeting at their place later, but it seems like the cruising scene is pretty much just blow and go. :/

Thanks for sharing!

 

[goodsonformom]

I think that's why the outdoor scene seems relegated to being mostly oral encounters. I can't tell you how many times I wanted to go further. I've been a little fortunate with a handful of encounters that led to meeting at their place later, but it seems like the cruising scene is pretty much just blow and go. :/

Thanks for sharing!

I agree. I have had some very hot times in the woods. Back about 20 years ago there was a very secluded woods near my house. Many men would sunbathe naked there. For two or three summers it was a place that attracted a dozen or more men on sunny days. No police or forest preserve rangers, it was peaceful and safe.

It was an easy hook up place for sure. You could spend an afternoon there and play with numerous males and cum a few times.....it was great until it ended.

 

[PariahKing]

I agree. I have had some very hot times in the woods. Back about 20 years ago there was a very secluded woods near my house. Many men would sunbathe naked there. For two or three summers it was a place that attracted a dozen or more men on sunny days. No police or forest preserve rangers, it was peaceful and safe.

It was an easy hook up place for sure. You could spend an afternoon there and play with numerous males and cum a few times.....it was great until it ended.

DAMN. A golden age of playing in the woods ...

 

[goodsonformom]

DAMN. A golden age of playing in the woods ...

Yep......

 

[PanDandy]

I've been cruised at a gay bookstore that unfortunately doesn't exist anymore. I was 18 at the time and just started going into the city. The bookstore was salacious for me, it had all sorts of erotic titles and taboo books on subjects I've never heard anyone talk about before. I loved it.

One day an older gentleman with a very nice build, short-cropped silver goatee and shaved smooth head made eye contact with me. I was so nervous, my heart started to beat so fast. I smiled at him. Feeling the heat of our interaction I left the bookstore and he followed me. At a crosswalk he introduced himself to me and told me he lived around the corner. We went back to his place, making out hard. We ended up on the floor rubbing our hard cocks together through our clothes until he pulled my pants down and flipped my legs over my head. He then pulled out his cock, nice and long and straight. Really hard. And rubbed it against my hole and up to my balls like he was fucking me, until he came all over. I don't think I ever went back after that.

 

[goodsonformom]

I've been cruised at a gay bookstore that unfortunately doesn't exist anymore. I was 18 at the time and just started going into the city. The bookstore was salacious for me, it had all sorts of erotic titles and taboo books on subjects I've never heard anyone talk about before. I loved it.

One day an older gentleman with a very nice build, short-cropped silver goatee and shaved smooth head made eye contact with me. I was so nervous, my heart started to beat so fast. I smiled at him. Feeling the heat of our interaction I left the bookstore and he followed me. At a crosswalk he introduced himself to me and told me he lived around the corner. We went back to his place, making out hard. We ended up on the floor rubbing our hard cocks together through our clothes until he pulled my pants down and flipped my legs over my head. He then pulled out his cock, nice and long and straight. Really hard. And rubbed it against my hole and up to my balls like he was fucking me, until he came all over. I don't think I ever went back after that.

Sounds like some missed opportunities for you with a "Daddy"......