Daddy's Little Girl

Pin my hands down beside my head
Cover my body here in bed
Make me sigh and moan and wiggle
Until I scream and cum, then giggle

That's a pretty little poem and one that I'm going to be muttering to myself for days to come :heart:
 
Dear littles,

Just because someone puts himself off as a Dom, hangs around in all the right threads, or the right boards doesn't give him the right to bother you - especially when you've given a hard boundry such as 'leave me alone'. :rolleyes:

Whether on Lit or our day-to-day world, we have the right to say no. Anyone who doesn't honor that request should be viewed as disrepectful. Now, Doms aren't perfect... they make mistakes. But, continued harassing is just that - harassing.

Don't be afraid to stand your ground, and tell someone who will help you be watchful. :rose:
 
Dear littles,

Just because someone puts himself off as a Dom, hangs around in all the right threads, or the right boards doesn't give him the right to bother you - especially when you've given a hard boundry such as 'leave me alone'. :rolleyes:

Whether on Lit or our day-to-day world, we have the right to say no. Anyone who doesn't honor that request should be viewed as disrepectful. Now, Doms aren't perfect... they make mistakes. But, continued harassing is just that - harassing.

Don't be afraid to stand your ground, and tell someone who will help you be watchful. :rose:

This is VERY true. You ALWAYS have the right to say NO.
 
Dear littles,

Just because someone puts himself off as a Dom, hangs around in all the right threads, or the right boards doesn't give him the right to bother you - especially when you've given a hard boundry such as 'leave me alone'. :rolleyes:

Whether on Lit or our day-to-day world, we have the right to say no. Anyone who doesn't honor that request should be viewed as disrepectful. Now, Doms aren't perfect... they make mistakes. But, continued harassing is just that - harassing.

Don't be afraid to stand your ground, and tell someone who will help you be watchful. :rose:

Excellent advice, BFG. None of us deserve to be intimidated or mistreated. I hope maybe other newbies will see this and know that they don't have to put up with that type of harassment. I almost left Lit over it, but I'm glad I didn't because there are some wonderful people here.
 
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The more I think about it, the more I want to try to find a babygirl of my own. I see the relationships on here and it makes me want to try it more and more.
 
Dear littles,

Just because someone puts himself off as a Dom, hangs around in all the right threads, or the right boards doesn't give him the right to bother you - especially when you've given a hard boundry such as 'leave me alone'. :rolleyes:

Whether on Lit or our day-to-day world, we have the right to say no. Anyone who doesn't honor that request should be viewed as disrepectful. Now, Doms aren't perfect... they make mistakes. But, continued harassing is just that - harassing.

Don't be afraid to stand your ground, and tell someone who will help you be watchful. :rose:

Quoting for truth and relevance.
 
This is VERY true. You ALWAYS have the right to say NO.

*nods* :rose:

Excellent advice, BFG. None of us deserve to be intimidated or mistreated. When I first came to the boards I was too embarrassed and shy to tell anyone what was happening even though I had lurked for quite a while. I hope maybe other newbies will see this and know that they don't have to put up with that type of harassment. I almost left Lit over it, but I'm glad I didn't because there are some wonderful people here. Now I'm just very careful where I go. :cattail:

I'm sorry you had to deal with that alone. I think, sometimes, we fear that embarrassment, thinking we are the only one, and it isolates us. I think bad people count on that and use it as a part of their manipulation. But, I totally understand where you are coming from. It took a lot for me to post what I did earlier and tell someone to leave me alone, only because of my experiences... and I refuse to not fight back again. I'm glad you didn't leave, but it still bothers me that we feel we have to be careful where we go because of these bottom-feeders. That really irritates me.
:rose:

Quoting for truth and relevance.

*fixes my hair after the whirlwind*

Tink! Fly safely!!! :rose:
 
The more I think about it, the more I want to try to find a babygirl of my own. I see the relationships on here and it makes me want to try it more and more.

These relationships are no different than others. They are work, and they are rewarding. It never hurts to explore if you find the right person to explore with. :)
 
These relationships are no different than others. They are work, and they are rewarding. It never hurts to explore if you find the right person to explore with. :)

I completely agree. It is no different than any other relationship. It's just a matter of finding the right person. Hope all is well with you these days
 
These relationships are no different than others. They are work, and they are rewarding. It never hurts to explore if you find the right person to explore with. :)

You are correct. These relationships are the same as the norm. Loving. Nurturing. Considerate. There seems to be a thin line between.

Thin lines are silly...aren't they?
 
You are correct. These relationships are the same as the norm. Loving. Nurturing. Considerate. There seems to be a thin line between.

Thin lines are silly...aren't they?

Are they? I really haven't given much thought to it. Sometimes lines are good things, to help delineate betwixt two things.

Otherwise, from the things you've listed, it does seem a silly line. Then, again, sometimes those things are hard to find in "normal" relationships.

Either way, once you find it - not matter if it's a DD/lg or any other, it's not something you want to give up easily.
 
Are they? I really haven't given much thought to it. Sometimes lines are good things, to help delineate betwixt two things.

Otherwise, from the things you've listed, it does seem a silly line. Then, again, sometimes those things are hard to find in "normal" relationships.

Either way, once you find it - not matter if it's a DD/lg or any other, it's not something you want to give up easily.


Yes... i believe the lines are irrelevant. The way a man loves a woman or the way a woman loves a man aren't up to an interpretation. An interpretation would require an acceptance.

No interpretation required
 
These relationships are no different than others. They are work, and they are rewarding. It never hurts to explore if you find the right person to explore with. :)

You are correct. These relationships are the same as the norm. Loving. Nurturing. Considerate. There seems to be a thin line between.

Thin lines are silly...aren't they?

I find such relationships not the same as norm, there are a variety of aspects actually that make them quite distinct and in many ways, requiring much more effort.

Are they? I really haven't given much thought to it. Sometimes lines are good things, to help delineate betwixt two things.

Otherwise, from the things you've listed, it does seem a silly line. Then, again, sometimes those things are hard to find in "normal" relationships.

Either way, once you find it - not matter if it's a DD/lg or any other, it's not something you want to give up easily.

Yes, sometimes what a DD/lg relationship offers is so much more than a "normal" relationship. Normal relationships, whatever they may be, are just that - normal, part of a normative/socially defined pattern of what is expected. It is easy to slip into just a pattern of behaviors that are reinforced by social ideas.

A DD/lg, or any variation there of, is outside the norm and thus requires one to chart their own territory, making the relationship work for them. Further, it is an expression of an innate desire that each of us, both the DD and the lg have more often than not struggled to realize within themselves.

That realization that one is outside the "norm" requires continued effort, continued reflection, continued assertion of one's inner desires to be fulfilled and to have a fulfilling relationship.
 
Yes... i believe the lines are irrelevant. The way a man loves a woman or the way a woman loves a man aren't up to an interpretation. An interpretation would require an acceptance.

No interpretation required

I'm still not sure I get this, except I think you are saying that a man and a woman love each other, and that is all that matters. :eek:

I find such relationships not the same as norm, there are a variety of aspects actually that make them quite distinct and in many ways, requiring much more effort.

Yes, sometimes what a DD/lg relationship offers is so much more than a "normal" relationship. Normal relationships, whatever they may be, are just that - normal, part of a normative/socially defined pattern of what is expected. It is easy to slip into just a pattern of behaviors that are reinforced by social ideas.

A DD/lg, or any variation there of, is outside the norm and thus requires one to chart their own territory, making the relationship work for them. Further, it is an expression of an innate desire that each of us, both the DD and the lg have more often than not struggled to realize within themselves.

That realization that one is outside the "norm" requires continued effort, continued reflection, continued assertion of one's inner desires to be fulfilled and to have a fulfilling relationship.

Now, this makes sense to me. You see... I tried a relationship and, although it had some aspects of the DD/lg (without either of us actually knowing it, that's how it played out)... it wasn't as fulfilling as realizing why I am the way I am, and looking for someone who is like-minded about a DD/lg relationship.

It's much more enjoyable knowing that I'm understood, and that I won't be chided for things that mean so much to me, or the way that I am.
 
It's much more enjoyable knowing that I'm understood, and that I won't be chided for things that mean so much to me, or the way that I am.

I think that is the key - understanding one another, respecting that what each desires is outside the norm, and having the strength to assist one another in realizing their desires!

My baby girl was much, much younger than I (not to mention I was married when we were involved). It took me a bit to overcome my own uncomfortableness with it - but I knew that is what gave her pleasure, being able to be with me, in public, naturally. Yes, other's judged, but we knew what our relationship was about. I appreciate that a DD/lg relationship is much more than a mere superficial age difference, but that is one aspect of it, and often the public face of such a relationship that one has to grapple with...
 
I think that is the key - understanding one another, respecting that what each desires is outside the norm, and having the strength to assist one another in realizing their desires!

My baby girl was much, much younger than I (not to mention I was married when we were involved). It took me a bit to overcome my own uncomfortableness with it - but I knew that is what gave her pleasure, being able to be with me, in public, naturally. Yes, other's judged, but we knew what our relationship was about. I appreciate that a DD/lg relationship is much more than a mere superficial age difference, but that is one aspect of it, and often the public face of such a relationship that one has to grapple with...

I think you make some interesting points here and in your previous posts above, and thank you for sharing your experiences, however, while I appreciate that your DD/lg relationship was marked in part by a significant age difference, I do not think that is necessarily the norm at all.

My DD is actually a smidge younger than me, though for all practical purposes we are the same age cohort. To me, it has much more to do with how we interact and what he can give me, and I him, than our relative ages, just as with any relationship.
 
I think you make some interesting points here and in your previous posts above, and thank you for sharing your experiences, however, while I appreciate that your DD/lg relationship was marked in part by a significant age difference, I do not think that is necessarily the norm at all.

My DD is actually a smidge younger than me, though for all practical purposes we are the same age cohort. To me, it has much more to do with how we interact and what he can give me, and I him, than our relative ages, just as with any relationship.

I fully appreciate that and recognize that DD/lg relationships are not about age, at all. I was merely trying to provide an example of stepping out of the "norm" and what a challenge it can be, even when it is something as superficial as age difference... :)
 
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