The Brush My Hair and Pat My Butt Thread

cookie you naughty little pixie you!

I saw the title of this thread and was like šŸ˜

Then I opened it and was like šŸ˜’ hahaha!

:heart:
 
I actually don't do well with soft touches in general...except when I was a child. I would sit on the floor in front of my grandma's chair and she would brush my hair the whole time her "shows" were on...All My Children, One Life to Live, General Hospital.

I felt so loved and safe.

I know this isn't the direction you were meaning this to go...just made me think of her. Miss her.
 
I actually don't do well with soft touches in general...except when I was a child. I would sit on the floor in front of my grandma's chair and she would brush my hair the whole time her "shows" were on...All My Children, One Life to Live, General Hospital.

I felt so loved and safe.

I know this isn't the direction you were meaning this to go...just made me think of her. Miss her.

I like the direction you took Eva
 
I actually don't do well with soft touches in general...except when I was a child. I would sit on the floor in front of my grandma's chair and she would brush my hair the whole time her "shows" were on...All My Children, One Life to Live, General Hospital.

I felt so loved and safe.

I know this isn't the direction you were meaning this to go...just made me think of her. Miss her.


Can I ask why you don't do well with soft touches? Do you like NO touches or rough touches or ???

This is a sweet memory and it's good you shared. :rose:
 
I started this thread as a spoof on the Hairpulling Thread. Which I like! In perusing the Spread Everything thread, a "thing to do" I also really really like, a lot of it seems really really harsh. Does anyone remember the site Insex? I used to like that site -- it was fascinating. Cruel, unusual and I couldn't look away.

In the past, I enjoyed harsher stuff. Heavy impact, predicament bondage, whippy canes, clamps and weights. Humiliation.

Now, though, I'm not so sure. I was teasing a bit about "brush my hair" -- but I do like the thought of having my butt patted / petted?? and being called good girl. Sunshine and hugs vs. dungeony basements and hogties.

Brush the hair from my face...
 
Can I ask why you don't do well with soft touches? Do you like NO touches or rough touches or ???

This is a sweet memory and it's good you shared. :rose:

I prefer rough touches. I think soft touches make me feel vulnerable in some way. I am not sure why. I've never really explored into it very deeply as to why I can't be vulnerable in that way. My partner of almost 2 decades isn't much of a soft toucher so it hasn't been an issue. Sometimes in the sleepy darkness, I would reach for him or him for me and there would be tender touch, slow kissing, vulnerable love making....something about the dark, thickness of night would give me the protection to go into that sweet space.

I don't know. I'm kind of complicated. haha I don't wish to be but...well...it is what it is.

I do wonder if soft touches feel more like love to me...and I always wall up with love. Can't relax into it.
 
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I can't help it.

I like PDA, I've discovered.
We were walking around and I had these super cute shoes that I hadn't broken in. So, my toes started bleeding.
Of course.
I was mortified.
He sat me down, bought me bandaids and gently took care of me until I could walk like a somewhat normal person again.
He knew I was embarassed, so he held my hand the whole time we were in the store.
Gentle touch from someone who can be so strong is probably the hottest thing ever.
 
I like PDA, I've discovered.
We were walking around and I had these super cute shoes that I hadn't broken in. So, my toes started bleeding.
Of course.
I was mortified.
He sat me down, bought me bandaids and gently took care of me until I could walk like a somewhat normal person again.
He knew I was embarassed, so he held my hand the whole time we were in the store.
Gentle touch from someone who can be so strong is probably the hottest thing ever.

That was nice of him but a shieldmaiden needs tougher feet. ;)
 
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