What Squicks You Out?

[IARainman]

I dated a girl like that as well.

I married one, very sad

 

[dreamysub]

I met a girl once like this, i didnt understand why she wouldnt let me return the favour after she gave me a bj. She just said she didnt like it, she was more than ready to suck me anytime i wanted, allowed my fingers or cock in her, but my mouth never got to touch her pussy..

Honestly its the first time I hear some women doesn't like oral. I've always thought everybody must love that! Guess you learn something new every day.

I love oral, both giving and recieving. My PYL loves when I am giving him oral, but he never returns the favor. He might give my pussy brief kiss, but thats it. Guess giving oral its not his thing, I don't know. I tend to think IF I was 20yo he would be all in lol. Sadly I am 47, so... Oh well. In a way I get it, as I know young pussies looks much better than when you have 47 and 4 pregnancies behind you. It still makes me sad sometimes, but I can live with it.

 

[BiBunny]

As for kinky stuff what definitely squicks me is scat. Thats a big no NO! lol

Since you guys mentoined diapers, my Daddy used to play with this girl that was into ABDL. Honestly, I can't even imagine he would do that with me as well LOL! It's like a Hell no! for me, but as BiBunny said if it drives your boat then why not.

Theres things I find "weird", like when I was in the BDSM club and saw this boy dressed up as a dog or a horse. Well that was a bit weird the first time I saw it, but then I get used to it. He might find funny I have a Daddy Dom. And yes I spoke to Dominants who do find DDlg relationships weird. One of them kept sending me vids how weird it is. As if I care. I like what I like and let people like what they like. As long as it doesn't hurt anyone its all good.

They might find squicky I am having sex during period. Hell Daddy even fists me during my period now. My periods are very painful and we heard fisting during period helps to be done with it faster. Which is kinda true I must say after we have tried that. So yes we do that now. Not like we are into blood play, we are not, but it simply helps with the period cramps and it usualy goes away much faster then.

*waves at BiBunny *

*Waves*

Speaking of diapers, I once had a guy message me on CS and say he was into girls wearing diapers, anal, and something else I don't care for that I can't remember. I was trying to be nice, so I thanked him for his message and said I was sorry, but I didn't think our kinks matched up very well. He basically demanded to know how I knew that, and I was like, "Well, you said you like diapers and anal, and I'm not into either of those things, and I also am not a fan of [whatever else it was he said, I forget now]. But good luck on your search!"

He didn't reply to that message, which was fine, but later, he messaged again and was like, "I feel like we've talked before." I just didn't reply, but my first thought was to say, "Yes, and I told you then I wasn't interested," lol.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

A man eating his own cum.... Not my kink.

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

So I thought this might be an idea for a thread. Wasn't sure where to put it, so I stuck it in the Cafe, but mods are welcome to move it to Talk if they want.

Basically, the question's in the title: what squicks you out?

This thread is not meant to be judgmental of anybody's kink or anything like that. If someone doesn't like your fetish, that doesn't mean they don't like you. It just means your kink is not my kink, and that's ok or however the little saying goes. Let's not let it devolve into something that it's not intended to be.

Anyway, I'll start. Breeding fetish squicks me out because the thought of being pregnant is horrific to me. I get why someone else might like it, but it's an automatic, knee-jerk squick for me.

How about you?

I can understand "not my kink".

Okay, well, I don't like sadism and I don't like masochism. I get turned on by loving, sweet, intimate things where I feel safe and close to someone, and I've suffered real physical and emotional abuse all my life, it isn't a turn on, there's no safe or comfortable way for me to experience sexual sadism or masochism, it just triggers my post traumatic stress and social anxiety. I want love and acceptance now, not more abuse, even the not real, roleplay, playful kind.

I can be told I'm a dirty slut or say my lady love is, I can separate that from real abuse and trauma, and I am fine with some nasty pillow talk and roleplay, I can also experience fun from sexual spanking or light bondage, but.... I am sure I am very very mild and would bore the sadists and masochists on this site.

If it tingles, it's fun, if it really hurts, I'm not interested. If you can relax comfortably but I'm responsible for your orgasm and you can't touch yourself, okay, but I don't want to cut off blood supply or leave rope marks or actually put you in danger or make you feel actually unsafe.

I also don't want to engage in really sadistic or insulting name calling even as pillow talk. It's one thing to highlight ooo I'm being so naughty right now or ooo you're being so slutty for me, baby.... but if I know that is what you want to call me or be called, I know this is safe and not abusive.

I can't get down with like, racist bullshit in the bedroom or threats or scary things or really insulting things. I am sorry, if that's what you want, I am too gentle of a person and it will kill my own sexual vibe to say those things to you. It feels deeply uncomfortable.

I also don't want to have anything to do with feces or animals or underage stuff in the bedroom please, or blood that has nothing to do with ordinary period blood. I don't like breaking the skin or biting like that, I don't like needles, I don't want drugs, I don't want smoking.

There's a long list of things I don't want. I don't want you to pee in my mouth, if you really felt like it, you could pee on me in the shower, it's not my thing but it is beyond inoffensive to me if you did that and you got off on it. Not in my eyes, nose, mouth, or face please.

I am also attracted to women so any scenario where I am alone with a man, cisgender man, anyone who looks hairy and manly, I am not interested due to my sexual orientation.

I can get down with a fellow transwoman who is passable to a large degree. If I can still tell you're trans it's fine, just be feminine and smooth and beautiful.

But I want women, so, any M+M scenario my lover cooks up, she has to be involved or I couldn't even get aroused.

I could see a threesome situation where there's male contact with me but it would need to be an awfully special person who really gets off on seeing that and is also interested in stimulating me during, because she's who I'm attracted to, not him.


No kink shaming or homophobia here, just, these are not my kinks, this is not my orientation. I just am attracted to women. I can't change it, if I could, I would be less lonely because my inbox blows up with male attention all the time.

If I could be interested, I wouldn't be single. So..... if I could change my orientation I would, but I've loved women since before puberty started and now, it's way, way too late for me. I will never not adore women.

I don't look forward to being 70, in hospice care, bedridden, dreaming of the days I used to make love to women, and knowing I will never again feel their sweet glorious touch.

That's so sad and lonely. Just pull the plug on me, please.