What do I have to do to pay for sex to lose my virginity??

[Ladyrookie123]

Just in case I'm truly at the end of my rope and it really is unlikely I'll be able to happily get laid at my age(30 years old) I'd like to at least prepare myself for the inevitable shame and regret of losing my virginity to a lady of the night of some sort.

Thing is this is a sensitive subject and I have no clue how to go about achieving this so I'd appreciate any helpful input on this.

 

[pollynova]

Just in case I'm truly at the end of my rope and it really is unlikely I'll be able to happily get laid at my age(30 years old) I'd like to at least prepare myself for the inevitable shame and regret of losing my virginity to a lady of the night of some sort.

Thing is this is a sensitive subject and I have no clue how to go about achieving this so I'd appreciate any helpful input on this.

Say you do pay someone, then what? It won't make you feel any better about yourself.

 

[Saint Peter]

Your soul.

 

[suckonsimon]

Why speak of shame? If you do this, you'll be with a real person with her own story in life and her hopes and dreams. You'll have opportunity by your attitude towards her to give her some affirmation and the respect and gratitude she'll deserve for giving you a first experience of penetrative sex.

 

[Debbie]

There is no shame in paying for sex. Sure some might mock but you don't have to tell every Dick, Tom or Harry. In fact why tell anyone if you don't want to.


Where I live there are ads in the local papers for escorts, ladies of the night etc. You just call and make an appointment.

Sex work is decriminalised in New Zealand. It is not against the law to work as a sex worker or operate a brothel, nor is it against the law to pay for sexual services. Sex workers are allowed to advertise in classified sections of the newspaper, and online.


I do suggest you're a bit cautious. Meet somewhere reasonably public. Say a restaurant. Or a coffee shop. Or McDs. Then go from there. But do be careful.



I wouldnt use craigs list. If you aren't sure why I'd say that. Google craigs list murder. It's a bit grisly - unless that's your thing.

The how to board would probably be quite helpful.

 

[Ladyrookie123]

Say you do pay someone, then what? It won't make you feel any better about yourself.

Then I simply try and hope I'm able to find someone who's willing to have sex with me because they want to and hope I don't feel too drained or disappointed from the hooker to be able to appreciate it.

 

[smoothg103rd]

Wait a min. You 30 and ain't get no pussy yet? You got to be bullshitting. $100 to $200 should get you there. Use backpage or something. Or go to a scroll and pay $50

 

[Ladyrookie123]

Why speak of shame? If you do this, you'll be with a real person with her own story in life and her hopes and dreams. You'll have opportunity by your attitude towards her to give her some affirmation and the respect and gratitude she'll deserve for giving you a first experience of penetrative sex.

Because hookers generally don't care, I'm just a john to them what do they need my respect and gratitude for so long as they have my money? This isn't a fairy tale where the john becomes a person who "saves" a hookers soul and from that life.

 

[Debbie]

Then I simply try and hope I'm able to find someone who's willing to have sex with me because they want to and hope I don't feel too drained or disappointed from the hooker to be able to appreciate it.

I think you might feel better about yourself and life if you tried to look on things a little more positively. You seem awfully down on yourself.

Have you considered you might be going through a bit of depression?

Not trying to bum you out or anything. Just an observation reading your posts.

 

[girlsmiley]

Just in case I'm truly at the end of my rope and it really is unlikely I'll be able to happily get laid at my age(30 years old) I'd like to at least prepare myself for the inevitable shame and regret of losing my virginity to a lady of the night of some sort.

Thing is this is a sensitive subject and I have no clue how to go about achieving this so I'd appreciate any helpful input on this.

Does anyone believe this guy is for real?

Ladyrookie, have you thought about non existence?

As in not existing?

Smells like a blob alt. Be posting a pic of his huuuuge cock soon.

 

[Ladyrookie123]

There is no shame in paying for sex. Sure some might mock but you don't have to tell every Dick, Tom or Harry. In fact why tell anyone if you don't want to.


Where I live there are ads in the local papers for escorts, ladies of the night etc. You just call and make an appointment.

Sex work is decriminalised in New Zealand. It is not against the law to work as a sex worker or operate a brothel, nor is it against the law to pay for sexual services. Sex workers are allowed to advertise in classified sections of the newspaper, and online.


I do suggest you're a bit cautious. Meet somewhere reasonably public. Say a restaurant. Or a coffee shop. Or McDs. Then go from there. But do be careful.



I wouldnt use craigs list. If you aren't sure why I'd say that. Google craigs list murder. It's a bit grisly - unless that's your thing.

The how to board would probably be quite helpful.

I woudn't tell anymore, in fact I would just shoulder that burden and keep it to myself while being strongly ashamed of it until and if I manage to meet someone who can cause me to look past it. Though I do know if I ever fall in love with someone or meet someone who likes me I'd regret how I lost my virginity even further.

Hmmm I guess I could try asking at that other board.

 

[suckonsimon]

Because hookers generally don't care, I'm just a john to them what do they need my respect and gratitude for so long as they have my money? This isn't a fairy tale where the john becomes a person who "saves" a hookers soul and from that life.

So you know about hookers do you? Interesting. So interesting that I'll unsubscribe from your spurious thread now.

 

[girlsmiley]

Just get to the cock pics. That way I can say I called it.

 

[Ladyrookie123]

So you know about hookers do you? Interesting. So interesting that I'll unsubscribe from your spurious thread now.

Sweet good bye and take care.

Does anyone believe this guy is for real?

Ladyrookie, have you thought about non existence?

As in not existing?

Smells like a blob alt. Be posting a pic of his huuuuge cock soon.

Wtf????

I think you might feel better about yourself and life if you tried to look on things a little more positively. You seem awfully down on yourself.

Have you considered you might be going through a bit of depression?

Not trying to bum you out or anything. Just an observation reading your posts.

Yes I do go through depression but it's due to my stupid unfulfilled sexual issues.

 

[Debbie]

Because hookers generally don't care, I'm just a john to them what do they need my respect and gratitude for so long as they have my money? This isn't a fairy tale where the john becomes a person who "saves" a hookers soul and from that life.

When I was a young runaway I did a lot of club hopping, relief bar tending and any job I could get where not too many questions were asked about why I wanted my wages in cash.

I spent a lot of time with sex workers. Most of them were lovely. Some down on their luck and did their thing to make easy money and some of them enjoyed having sex. They (for the most part) were decent human beings and said a lot of what they did for their customers was keep them company. Some of the johns were lonely and some just wanted sexual relief.

Some had their regulars and spoke fondly of them. It's not all daisies and happy endings but you don't know till you have an experience what it's going to be like.

The balls in your court.

 

[Saint Peter]

...that other board.

The GB is the only board. The others count by colors and have sex with stuffed animals.

 

[Saint Peter]

The balls are in their court.

 

[girlsmiley]

The GB is the only board. The others count by colors and have sex with stuffed animals.

I have many pics of myself violating a certain stuffed animal.

 

[Ladyrookie123]

When I was a young runaway I did a lot of club hopping, relief bar tending and any job I could get where not too many questions were asked about why I wanted my wages in cash.

I spent a lot of time with sex workers. Most of them were lovely. Some down on their luck and did their thing to make easy money and some of them enjoyed having sex. They (for the most part) were decent human beings and said a lot of what they did for their customers was keep them company. Some of the johns were lonely and some just wanted sexual relief.

Some had their regulars and spoke fondly of them. It's not all daisies and happy endings but you don't know till you have an experience what it's going to be like.

The balls in your court.

It's still a relationship based around the exchange of money for favors and I'd prefer not to be another one to add to that lifestyle until I finally reached a point of desperation which I'm slowly creeping towards.

 

[Nezhul]

THis guy creates the same topics in several forums and then just attention-whoring in them.

Just forget him and leave him to his misery.

 

[Ladyrookie123]

THis guy creates the same topics in several forums and then just attention-whoring in them.

Just forget him and leave him to his misery.

Or instead of being a typical stuck up individual on the internet who looks down on people they deem insignificant and ASSUME the worse you simply give me the advice that I asked for. There's a limit to attention whoring and even I feel this would be much if it was.

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

Just in case I'm truly at the end of my rope and it really is unlikely I'll be able to happily get laid at my age(30 years old) I'd like to at least prepare myself for the inevitable shame and regret of losing my virginity to a lady of the night of some sort.

Thing is this is a sensitive subject and I have no clue how to go about achieving this so I'd appreciate any helpful input on this.

Just check your dignity at the door of the bar and remember that the closer it gets to closing time, the better you will look.

 

[NightL]

The GB is the only board. The others count by colors and have sex with stuffed animals.

My purple unicorn says "fuck you"

 

[NightL]

I'm slowly creeping

Yup...

 

[Hard_Rom]

Then keep your virginity if losing it to a non-emotional pro is an issue. There is nothing unhealthy about being a virgin. Worrying about it maybe. The orgasm feels the same whether by intercourse or masturbation.

You're looking for love not sex by the sounds of it. Going to an escort may increase your confidence in approaching women. So maybe it is a good idea.

And posting personal issues on the GB is a sure fire way to attract some abuse. That is standard here.