Explain Non Consent/reluctance To Me

[NOIRTRASH]

I've lived long enough to experience such events, or so I think, and here's my take on it: My good friend goes to Alaska for a year and his wife invites me over. I feel loyalty to my friend but she aint ugly or unfriendly. She's married to a man with chronic medical issues, and her younger boss invites her to go sailing on his yacht. My boss invites me to go out with her after work, and my wife is expecting me home for a late supper at Dennys. The wife loans me to her sister for a task, and the sister offers me a tempting gratuity. And the neighbor comes over to see my computer set up and lies back on the bed within a few minutes.

Arent we talking about seduction and moral struggles?

 

[fma20fma]

hi

My submitting to anal for my boss whenever he needs, just to keep my job.

 

[lovecraft68]

Reluctance would fall under the moral compass I suppose, how far are you willing to go to get...whatever.

Non consent is a fancier way of saying rape. If you have no consent you have rape.

Its not as fine of a line as people think. If a woman-or man-is given some type of do this or else they are still making the choice to 'do this' which means consent, although a hesitant one. Whereas rape is not taking no for an answer.

 

[ann21red]

simple

Its very simple, i somebodies says NO THEY MEAN NO not perhaps or may be.

No MEANS No.

 

[lovecraft68]

Its very simple, i somebodies says NO THEY MEAN NO not perhaps or may be.

No MEANS No.

They should start flying banners that say that over NFL stadiums on Sunday.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Its very simple, i somebodies says NO THEY MEAN NO not perhaps or may be.

No MEANS No.

Not always, not often. Women talk out their asses to avoid owning their lust. Wanna get dumped PDQ? Take her "no" seriously. Its why bad boys are so popular.

 

[lovecraft68]

Not always, not often. Women talk out their asses to avoid owning their lust. Wanna get dumped PDQ? Take her "no" seriously. Its why bad boys are so popular.

Don't try the "no means yes" shit because all those 'bad boys' who think that's true? They learn what its like when they go to prison for rape and get raped themselves.

I'd explain what exactly the bad boy type is that women are attracted to-and it does not involve being raped and beaten-but it would be a waste of my time.

Keep dragging your knuckles James, it becomes you.

 

[lovecraft68]

My submitting to anal for my boss whenever he needs, just to keep my job.

That would fall under reluctance, because you haven't said no, you've given a resigned sigh, closed your eyes and gone through with it.

 

[fma20fma]

hi

That would fall under reluctance, because you haven't said no, you've given a resigned sigh, closed your eyes and gone through with it.

After my ex-bi-kinky bf with moved, this is a similar affair. It was consensual with that bf. now i am confused which is which?

 

[NicoleZ]

My submitting to anal for my boss whenever he needs, just to keep my job.

That would fall under reluctance, because you haven't said no, you've given a resigned sigh, closed your eyes and gone through with it.

Would it really fall under reluctance, Lovecraft? Isn't what fma20fma describes a quid pro quo situation where in return for a favour, (s-)he receives one in return? Isn't it really a business arrangement or agreement between two parties who have struck a deal and as such can be either re-negotiated or terminated at any point?

 

[NicoleZ]

Women talk out their asses to avoid owning their lust.

And here I was in all of my innocence thinking it was our fannies leading us astray but gee, whaddoweknow?

 

[Areala-chan]

Women talk out their asses to avoid owning their lust.

Whereas you talk out your ass to avoid owning a shred of either intelligence or respectability?

 

[KayceeCharles]

To OP:

You're not talking non-consent / reluctant consent in the situation you discussed. You're simply discussing "taboo" like having affair, or "hall pass".

Non-consent is just fancy word for rape, and reluctant consent is really sex under duress (also rape).

 

[NOIRTRASH]

To OP:

You're not talking non-consent / reluctant consent in the situation you discussed. You're simply discussing "taboo" like having affair, or "hall pass".

Non-consent is just fancy word for rape, and reluctant consent is really sex under duress (also rape).

I fucked a gal with a pussy that smelled like a wet dog, and I didn't go back for 2nds. No encore pissed her off, was I raped when I held my nose did the Muff Dive?

 

[NOIRTRASH]

People here ignore the 2nd most famous enquiry tool next to Occam's Razor: IF IT LOOKS LIKE A DUCK AND QUACKS LIKE A DUCK,

 

[TxRad]

People here ignore the 2nd most famous enquiry tool next to Occam's Razor: IF IT LOOKS LIKE A DUCK AND QUACKS LIKE A DUCK,

It's probably JBJ trying to imitate a duck. God knows, he's tried everything else to get attention.

 

[KayceeCharles]

I fucked a gal with a pussy that smelled like a wet dog, and I didn't go back for 2nds. No encore pissed her off, was I raped when I held my nose did the Muff Dive?

No, you're just being a considerate guy who picked the wrong partner.

 

[sr71plt]

No, you're just being a considerate guy who picked the wrong partner.

Especially as no such thing ever happened.

 

[KayceeCharles]

Especially as no such thing ever happened.

So does that mean you're not considerate, or you don't ever pick the wrong partner?

 

[sr71plt]

So does that mean you're not considerate, or you don't ever pick the wrong partner?

Apparently it means you aren't too observant.