I've bottomed out

[Adjudicator]

pink uses the board to reach out for some small support when she's unhappy. no one forces you to read it and no rules on here saying she can't use it for this purpose.

so why read it if it drives you nuts with tedium?
how is it you derive entertainment from another poster's genuine upset?

Misery on display. How could that not entertain?

 

[gerbilwhisperer]

Uh, it needs to be remembered here that this "bottomed out" is about a 23-year-old ADULT finally moving out of mommy's house. THE HORROR!

It is no surprise though, to astute observers, that progressives can't help but equate all bottomed outs as equal, just like they can't help but strive to equalize everything else so that one day we can all be equal victims of everything together.

 

[butters]

Misery on display. How could that not entertain?

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[Adjudicator]

Uh, it needs to be remembered here that this "bottomed out" is about a 23-year-old ADULT finally moving out of mommy's house. THE HORROR!

It is no surprise though, to astute observers, that progressives can't help but equate all bottomed outs as equal, just like they can't help but strive to equalize everything else so that one day we can all be equal victims of everything together.

This is so very true.

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Thank you!

 

[warrior queen]

Uh, it needs to be remembered here that this "bottomed out" is about a 23-year-old ADULT finally moving out of mommy's house. THE HORROR!
.

What's with this obsession about offspring moving out?
It wasn't that long ago, on the human timeline, that kids stayed at home living with parents untill they married - and if they didn't get married then they stayed pretty much forever.
Moving out young is a relatively new thing (and a predominantly Western thing.)

My youngest is 19. He still lives at home, and will likely be here for some years yet.
Not because he's lazy...... he has had a fulltime job for almost 2 yrs now (since he finished his education)..... but because it makes financial sense that he does so. For both of us.
I have zero plans to kick him out into the world untill he has at least finished saving his deposit for a house of his own.

You seem quite fixated on the age of the person still living at home. Why?

 

[jaF0]

I've seen quite a few news items lately saying that the young'ns is hangin' 'bout the nest much longer these days than they used to. Some of it is economics. A lot of it (in my opinion) is cowardice and moral weakness -- unable, unwilling or simply unprepared to go out into the world on their own. (Why cook and clean for myself when Mommy will do it?)

I bailed when I was 18 and never looked back. I should have gone sooner, but I couldn't sign the contract to buy or rent a place.

I think it ought to be a law. If you're able bodied, you're out at 18. Only the physically or mentally handicapped would be allowed to remain home.

 

[warrior queen]

I've seen quite a few news items lately saying that the young'ns is hangin' 'bout the nest much longer these days than they used to. Some of it is economics. A lot of it (in my opinion) is cowardice and moral weakness -- unable, unwilling or simply unprepared to go out into the world on their own. (Why cook and clean for myself when Mommy will do it?)

I bailed when I was 18 and never looked back. I should have gone sooner, but I couldn't sign the contract to buy or rent a place.

I think it ought to be a law. If you're able bodied, you're out at 18. Only the physically or mentally handicapped would be allowed to remain home.

See, I don't get that attitude.
Why wouldn't a parent do whatever was necessary to help their child get ahead?
These days, my son will need to save around $40k as a deposit for his own home. It will be a LOT easier for him to do so if he stays here with me, and doesn't have all the extra expenses of renting on his own.
It's a win/win, because I get his muscle and help when I need it, my own living expenses are shared, I get help with all the chores.....

 

[Fata Morgana]

See, I don't get that attitude.
Why wouldn't a parent do whatever was necessary to help their child get ahead?
These days, my son will need to save around $40k as a deposit for his own home. It will be a LOT easier for him to do so if he stays here with me, and doesn't have all the extra expenses of renting on his own.
It's a win/win, because I get his muscle and help when I need it, my own living expenses are shared, I get help with all the chores.....

I agree with you.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny---<-----that's me! The male half

Alright some of us bottomed out and fucked up.
I'm glad that I can write anything I want here on Lit even though I see it pisses off many.
I also wrote that I was sorry for some of the things I did say on Pinks thread. As mentioned she wrote about being flamed, knowing some members would be polite and flame her. Keep in mind Pink loves the attention.

The fact that certain "ladies" jumped all over my ass for my flame job just proves, right or wrong, that I did a good job.

My biggest reason for the negative comments was the part about making her daughter leave. I'll admit, most of us have no idea what really brought that on. There are many reasons to tell a family member to hit the road.

Going through more complicated matters of my own about kids, I just got upset about the daughter being asked to leave after Pink wrote only an hour before about her ex- getting married, seemingly happy.
The two comments seemed to go together in some way.
It's true I haven't read all of Pinks threads and comments, she creates a new one with every changing mood. I'm sure they are just as much fun as those I have read. They are meant for public reading and comments and I love to comment ------------- when I'm not writting about sex and tits.

I promise not to kick any stray dogs and be nice to kittens.
I suppose being on iggy lists make me an official Litster. Now all I need is a real Alt.

 

[pink]

Yes, you all are correct, this thread was a big mistake. Ya think I'd learn.


At the same time, many, many of you are making assumptions about what upset me. Yeah, I had a REALLY bad day yesterday but I did not post about what hurt and scared me. I'm not that stupid. I can post I'm struggling but not tell you what is really happening. Again, it might surprise you, I'm not that stupid.


Now, how many fucking pages is this now?

 

[warrior queen]

Yes, you all are correct, this thread was a big mistake. Ya think I'd learn.


At the same time, many, many of you are making assumptions about what upset me. Yeah, I had a REALLY bad day yesterday but I did not post about what hurt and scared me. I'm not that stupid. I can post I'm struggling but not tell you what is really happening. Again, it might surprise you, I'm not that stupid.


Now, how many fucking pages is this now?

I don't think it was a mistake.
You reached out - as you have every right to do!

Besides, it has opened other discussions.....

 

[neci]

i hope you're feeling better today, pink.

 

[pink]

i hope you're feeling better today, pink.

Thank you, neci. You are a sweetheart.


I posted some boobs so I must be getting better.

 

[neci]

Thank you, neci. You are a sweetheart.


I posted some boobs so I must be getting better.

titties cure all.

 

[pink]

titties cure all.

They certainly help.

 

[eyer15]

What's with this obsession about offspring moving out?

The issue isn't about "moving out", "darkie" hater wanker queen, the issue is about Joan Crawford going Joan Crawford again, this time simply because her 23-year-old ADULT woman daughter is moving out.

 

[Lancecastor]

Masochists need Sadists and vice-versa.

Keep up the good work, Pink!

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny---<-----that's me! The male half

Thank you, neci. You are a sweetheart.


I posted some boobs so I must be getting better.

Denny--------- You have beautiful boobs Pink.

You can't hit bottom. They willl help you float. Just laugh. It'll make you feel better.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

Yes, you all are correct, this thread was a big mistake. Ya think I'd learn.


At the same time, many, many of you are making assumptions about what upset me. Yeah, I had a REALLY bad day yesterday but I did not post about what hurt and scared me. I'm not that stupid. I can post I'm struggling but not tell you what is really happening. Again, it might surprise you, I'm not that stupid.


Now, how many fucking pages is this now?

don't be concerned about the thread, Pinky.

look after yourself.

 

[Debbie]

I bet every single one of us has reached a point in our lives when we've felt overwhelmed and sometimes you feel you're all alone and you don't want to burden others or just don't know what to do.


If coming here and venting, having a rant, getting shit off your chest helps anyone in anyway then once again I think literotica is the bees knees.


I have reached out here when we as a family were going through tough times with bigreds mum deciding to come home to die. justpet and others helped me in the dark still of night when everyone else here was asleep and I was exhausted and didn't know how I could carry on but wanted bigreds mums dying wish to be with us as a family and not in a hospice or in a hospital.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Lancecastor]

I think the mentally ill are an important part of the GB.

 

[hashtag45]

I have tbh - while I like pink (she hasn't shown an ounce of malice on the board) and I believe that venting is entirely appropriate (we all need it and do it from time to time),

I also feel that perhaps she should be a tad more careful about personal info, like ensuring that her daughter might be less identifiable by the potential stalkers out there.

 

[Fata Morgana]

I think the mentally ill are an important part of the GB.

They sure make up a large percentage.

 

[Lancecastor]

I used to get letters from a crazy lady in new hampshire; she would rant for pages about "three beautiful boys, all the same shoe size, and sacks of blood".