How to get my man to clean me out after he cums....

[Creampiequeen1]

I have been so turned on by the thought of my man fucking me and then me sitting on his face while he cleans the hot cum out of me.
I have mentioned it a few times and had him watch videos online and he even suggested it during 'talk' a few nights ago. But without tying him up, how can I turn fantasy into reality?

 

[james4fun3480]

I have been so turned on by the thought of my man fucking me and then me sitting on his face while he cleans the hot cum out of me.
I have mentioned it a few times and had him watch videos online and he even suggested it during 'talk' a few nights ago. But without tying him up, how can I turn fantasy into reality?

turn on your pm's

 

[BabblingBrooke]

I have been so turned on by the thought of my man fucking me and then me sitting on his face while he cleans the hot cum out of me.
I have mentioned it a few times and had him watch videos online and he even suggested it during 'talk' a few nights ago. But without tying him up, how can I turn fantasy into reality?

Have you asked him to do this? That step seems to be missing from your attempts thus far.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

climb on top
ride him.. but stay in control of the pace
and when you ask him if he wants to cum
throw in what you want
if he says yes.. it's yes
if he says no.. then maybe it will stay in the fantasy world

 

[phil_o]

If

climb on top
ride him.. but stay in control of the pace
and when you ask him if he wants to cum
throw in what you want
if he says yes.. it's yes
if he says no.. then maybe it will stay in the fantasy world

If he says no does he still get to cum??

 

[GiggLeGasm]

If he says no does he still get to cum??

lol.. I've never been with a man who couldn't figure out how to make that happen if we'd already begun

 

[phil_o]

mmmm

lol.. I've never been with a man who couldn't figure out how to make that happen if we'd already begun

aint that a fact sister, and sometimes adds a whole new dimension to love making !!!

 

[Eilan]

turn on your pm's

If you have advice that the rest of the How-To community might benefit from, you should post it to this thread. Because right now you're coming across as a creeper who's preying on a n00b with a female-sounding username.

 

[Cumference]

For a start, you being on top may be a bit much for a start.

If he is on top and you ask him to do, he can set the pace himself.


In my own case, the interest in doing it varies considerably pre- and post cumming.
But I never turn down the request.



If he thinks it could be fun to be tied up and used, you certainly should do it!

 

[Learin]

I have been so turned on by the thought of my man fucking me and then me sitting on his face while he cleans the hot cum out of me.
I have mentioned it a few times and had him watch videos online and he even suggested it during 'talk' a few nights ago. But without tying him up, how can I turn fantasy into reality?

Well, first let him go down on you while he's on top. Let him get used to the taste at his own pace. You cannot force this on him.

Tying him up, riding his face and all that hardcore stuff comes later on.

 

[GforGraham]

turn on your pm's

Good idea, you can't screw if it is your pms time, as too crotchety with all those flying hormones. Tell him your pms will stop as soon as he agrees to eat you out afterwards.

That or just tell him that you overheard the young guy down at the supermarket telling someone that he liked the after munchies.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

For a start, you being on top may be a bit much for a start.

If he is on top and you ask him to do, he can set the pace himself.

hmmmm... yeeeaaahhhh... good point

 

[pplwatching]

If your man suggested giving it a try, then you're half way there. Unfortunately, the other half way takes some commitment from both of you. This is one of those things that seems like a no brainier. After all if you both want to try it then try it, right? In my experience, it is more dynamic than that. Other posters have alluded to varying levels of interest.

I really enjoy doing it, and I love the way that my wife responds to it. But even with that going for us, it sometimes doesn't work out. Depending on how much you've read you may have heard of "the blues", where no matter how hot the idea seems the moment before orgasm it is suddenly the furthest thing from a man's mind the moment after. Even if he is totally on board, your man may need a little nudge to follow through. It's definitely a team sport

My wife will sometimes subtly "push" me down, which works well. Other times she'll roll us over so she can grind our wetness into my mouth. I think that's incredibly intimate and hot, but can definitely be a bit overwhelming at first even though I know what to expect. Other times we might talk a good hot game during sex, but just not follow through for whatever reason. It's still fun

If he just needs time to get used to the idea (and the taste), you can start slowly by playing with him in other ways. Kissing after a blow job or after you've cleaned him up is erotic, and you can control whether he just gets a taste or more. You can also use your fingers to give him a taste, and work your way up to something more.

Good luck. If it works for both of you, it's a great way to keep playing after orgasm.

 

[Riley69]

Mutual cum play

I've had experiences with what you are attempting to get your man to do. After I married my first wife, we got into an "experimenting" phase because we were both interested in finding out more about each other and what our "kinks" were. One night while I was inside of her, I said I was going to fill her up then lick her clean. Well, she flinched and winced, so I guessed I was marching down the wrong path. After we finished our normal lovemaking, we talked about it and she honestly said the thought of it turned her off.

So, I decided to introduce a little "cum play" into our lovemaking at times. There were times I would lick and suck her pussy until she had a huge orgasm. Then, I would fuck her until I was ready to cum, but I would pull out and cum on her belly. I would cuddle with her and rub my load into her belly and up onto her breasts, and especially on her nipples. One night, after rubbing my load all over her nipples, I leaned over and started licking and sucking them. She didn't seem to mind at all! lol

One night, she was giving me a wonderful blowjob and I told her I wanted to cum on her breasts. I was sitting on the bed and she was kneeling between my legs at the time. When it was time for me to cum, I pulled out and squirted my load on her breasts and made sure to get a good amount on her nipples. I pulled her up to a standing position and put my arms around her while I licked my cum from her milky white breasts and her rock hard nipples. She was moaning the entire time, so I felt like we were getting closer to my eventual goal.

Finally, I made love to her one afternoon when we both had time off from work and filled her pussy with my hot load. Quickly, I moved down between her legs and started licking and sucking her pussy while I held her tight. Saying she had "multiple orgasms" is putting it mildly. When we talked about it later, she breathlessly told me she loved every second of it! After that, we made a point of me cleaning her out whenever possible, including her straddling my face after I filled her with hot cum.

So, you might want to "work up to it" by engaging in a little cum play now and then. Get him used to the idea of licking a little of his cum off your nipples. Suck his cock and when he cums, massage some of his cum into your nipples, start rubbing your clit and breathlessly beg him to lick and suck your nipples, that you can't stand not having his mouth on them. Make it fun for him and hopefully he will graduate to the point of having his mouth glued to your pussy after he fills it with his hot cream.

 

[Bigspurt]

Cum

So It was said "Tying him up, riding his face and all that hardcore stuff comes later on."

Maybe but if I am on my back with my hands tied at my wrists and secured to the side of my body, I don't think that I have a chance to avoid the cum dripping pussy presented at my waiting mouth. I can't wait.

 

[mrron]

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[Hedo_Harry]

After you fuck, crawl down to his cock and say, "What a mess! You need to be cleaned up." Then proceed to lick his cock clean as a whistle.

When you're finished, straddle his face and say, "Now it's my turn to get cleaned up."

It would work on me!

 

[Cumference]

After you fuck, crawl down to his cock and say, "What a mess! You need to be cleaned up." Then proceed to lick his cock clean as a whistle.

When you're finished, straddle his face and say, "Now it's my turn to get cleaned up."

It would work on me!

A good point!

The golden rule of "Do to others as you would have them do to you" also applies when horizontal.


In many respects it could also be rephrased to:
"Don't expect others to do things for you, that you would not do for them".

 

[shrek100]

Set the mood, take control of the whole evening. Tease him, get him to the point where he is willing to do anything you like.
Give him orders. Tell him that he will do whatever you like. Make him agree.

Be on top, ride his dick for a while then move and make him like you pussy. Then return to riding him. . After he cannot take it any more and as he starts cumming slide off of him do his cock is still jerking and move up and sit on his face, by the time the moment has worn off he will have licked almost all of his cum.

Failing that, turn and start massaging his prostate, as he is getting into this just swing your leg over and he will not be able to resist. This works every time with Mr Shrek

 

[beingtrue2me]

OP: There's also the chance that no matter what you want, you aren't gonna get it. So you may want to keep that in mind. We don't all share the same kinks or even the same arousal levels. What does it for you may not for me and so on. When some men cum ........they are in the kitchen raiding the fridge before anything drips out. For others they'll do whatever their lover wants to make her happy. If it isn't in them to do something it may never be. I can relate to that. I dated a guy that was like off the wall into anal sex. I will not do that and it isn't even open for debate. He couldn't get past it and I wasn't gonna do it. It happens.

 

[tmmmbrrr]

...and if the answer is no

...there's also the chance that your guy may need a little time to get used to the idea. I can personally attest that it can take a few years, but the good news is that most of us are always evolving sexually. So the sooner you plant the idea, the sooner it may sprout.

 

[amofiga]

<<<<I have been so turned on by the thought of my man fucking me and then me sitting on his face while he cleans the hot cum out of me.
I have mentioned it a few times and had him watch videos online and he even suggested it during 'talk' a few nights ago. But without tying him up, how can I turn fantasy into reality?>>>>

You didn't really say if he told you he was averse to the idea or you're wanting to just "surprise" him. If he's squeamish about the taste of his own cum, you might try something I did to get a lady friend over the hump (no pun intended) and learn to take cum in her mouth and swallow. She was really afraid of the taste and texture. So, what I did is convince her to let me cum ON her face and closed mouth. After we did that a couple of times for her to get used to the feel and smell, the next time I kissed her and gently forced her lips open with my tongue. By Frenching the cum into her mouth while still pretty aroused, she learned that the taste wasn't do horrible. After that, she was able to take it in her mouth and I'd kiss her long enough that her natural tendency to swallow took over and gradually she learned that it wasn't poison.

SO..... if it's your guys fear that his own cum is so horrible (and by the way does he expect YOU to swallow? Turn about is fair play) then you might start by having him cum on your lips or in your mouth and you can "snowball" with him a little to let him see it's ok. Or, perhaps suck his cock after he pulls it out of you after cumming. You'll get both of your juices in your mouth and on your lips and then kiss him. The next step is him eating your creampie and you won't have to force him, unless of course the D/S/bondage aspect of it is also a turn on for you. I personally like cumming on the face or in the mouth of a bound/helpless woman as a little added erotic kick.

 

[TomPal]

I think you shouldn't have to ask him..he should do it without you telling him...mmm..eating cum after you have just cummed...mmm

 

[MarianneRavenwood]

Ask him?

 

[subill]

I am a man that loves the idea of cleaning my wife up after I cum inside her. I always loose the ambition after I cum though. I found the only way I can do it is to edge myself. I bring myself just to the edge of orgasm then I slow myself or sometimes I have to stop all movement all together and just hold myself inside my wife while I kiss her and play with her nipples. When I edge myself I still cum, although not as much as a full on mood killing explosion, and the desire is still there. So if you can time it right and stop fucking him right before he cums he will still cum in you and still be horny as fuck and under your complete control. He will eagerly eat you up if you can time it right. I can edge myself several times before I orgasm. I did it four times the other night with my wife. Sadly for me though my wife does not seem to care for it. Oh well maybe someday she will cum to like it.