Still things to learn after all these years

[CanuckKitty]

While sharing some intimate time with my spouse this evening, I turned on a lovely ramblefap audio. After I came, hubs was still stroking. I asked him what he'd think if it was me making the woman in the audio moan and cum, and I swear I don't think I've ever seen him that hard and turned on! He clearly liked the idea!

Afterward, we had an interesting conversation where I learned that I have permission to flirt with or fuck women if I want to, but he wouldn't mind an invitation. He said he thought I "didn't swing that way". And I'm not sure if I do, but I'm curious. I might like to try some day.

We chatted about the spectrum of sexuality, what hotwifing is (is it hotwifing if the other person is a woman?), why it would be ok with another woman but not with a man (why would there be a difference?), about how we might know people who are into the lifestyle and not know it, and other stuff.

It was interesting, and a bit confusing. And a bit disturbing once I realized we DO know people in the lifestyle, and that that's how they actually met! (Too much context required to explain why that was disturbing to me, it's entirely about the context.)

Even after 20 years, we still have things to learn about each other (and ourselves?). I suppose we both now have a bit more fantasy fodder.

 

[NCWSLvr]

Have fun! We have been married for 25 years. Last year my wife said she wanted to be more submissive. I told her I would be slut training her and sharing her with multiple men. This had been fantasy talk for awhile - it is no longer a fantasy. Shared her multiple times and our lives are even better then they were, we are even more open, and it has brought our bond even tighter (and it was amazing before).