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[midwestyankee]

I heard it was fashionable! Got to the back of the line as soon as I could...
Hey! Just a moment...WHERE did you get a pic of my mom's boobs?!?

You can feign innocence all you wish, but all I did was post for public viewing the picture you sent in order to get a fast-track forum regular's card. Tsk...tsk.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

You can feign innocence all you wish, but all I did was post for public viewing the picture you sent in order to get a fast-track forum regular's card. Tsk...tsk.

Moi? Feign innocence?
:innocentface:
Whatever do you mean?

 

[midwestyankee]

Moi? Feign innocence?
:innocentface:
Whatever do you mean?

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[midwestyankee]

Midwestyankee, this seems like a barn question.....Sweetdaisymae mentions that she received flogging for her 'seized back'. This is interesting greatly to me. Is this something you / anyone else in the barn is familiar with? Its not what I came to this experience for but if it can have a purpose to help.....why not

I've never heard of using flogging for any kind of medical/therapeutic purpose. I wonder if anyone else has?

 

[LallyH]

If my shoulders get too tense, I get into a vicious circle - the pain makes me tense up which increases the pain which makes me tense up etc etc.

A 'thuddy' flogger can work at the muscles in a similar way to a very firm massage, so those sensations, together with the endorphins that conveniently arrive, serve to reverse the process - the muscles relax and the pain eases.

I got my flogger from a reputable UK company, run by a woman......

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[nurseclynn]

Returning to the thread...

Thanks for weighing in here. Even though I was already in high school when a 50-year old was born, I think 50 is a reasonable place to consider oneself mature. Now, the question is this: on the (probably ludicrous) assumption that you post a nude picture of yourself here at Lit, how do you think you would respond if some guy commented, "She's a hot mature"?

Maybe this is an ok place to ask if any of the women here respond positively to the term MILF (or its analog GILF)?

I posted and then walked away...but upon returning found this provocative question... and then the thread took a bird walk (an interesting bird walk, thanks G...)

so - if y'all don't mind I will bring it back a few pages...with my response to MWY:

1) I really can't imagine someone using that phrase "a hot mature" in response to my or anyone's pic in my peer group or above. I think I would be mystified by it...more than offended. It just sounds...I don't know, weird, unlikely to come off of anyone's tongue ~ or keyboard. This is likely a sign of my sheltered life...??
2) MILF...makes me of the actress who stars in Weeds - super hot, super thin - hyper sexualized in a Hollywood sort of way. Though maybe its because of the frequent references to MILF-weed in that series (hehe)
Like some of the other posters re this question, I do not have a strong negative reaction to this term. I think that in part it is because it is healthy for the culture in general to see mothers as still being sexual beings.
I myself have a bit of a mixed reaction - as I am deliberatively childless, but clearly of the age where most would assume that I have children, likely all grown; and a grandchild (or 3) hanging about somewhere. When applied to me, I have chosen to accept it as a complement... that I am a fuckable, attractive woman. Might as well own it and not fight about the details.

P.S. You assume correctly that never will I post a nude pic on lit. Just keep imaging and dreaming boys!

 

[midwestyankee]

I posted and then walked away...but upon returning found this provocative question... and then the thread took a bird walk (an interesting bird walk, thanks G...)

so - if y'all don't mind I will bring it back a few pages...with my response to MWY:

1) I really can't imagine someone using that phrase "a hot mature" in response to my or anyone's pic in my peer group or above. I think I would be mystified by it...more than offended. It just sounds...I don't know, weird, unlikely to come off of anyone's tongue ~ or keyboard. This is likely a sign of my sheltered life...??
2) MILF...makes me of the actress who stars in Weeds - super hot, super thin - hyper sexualized in a Hollywood sort of way. Though maybe its because of the frequent references to MILF-weed in that series (hehe)
Like some of the other posters re this question, I do not have a strong negative reaction to this term. I think that in part it is because it is healthy for the culture in general to see mothers as still being sexual beings.
I myself have a bit of a mixed reaction - as I am deliberatively childless, but clearly of the age where most would assume that I have children, likely all grown; and a grandchild (or 3) hanging about somewhere. When applied to me, I have chosen to accept it as a complement... that I am a fuckable, attractive woman. Might as well own it and not fight about the details.

P.S. You assume correctly that never will I post a nude pic on lit. Just keep imaging and dreaming boys!

Thanks for coming back. I think you're hearing/sensing the same thing with "a hot mature" as I hear when I see men refer to women as "a female." It's a grating, slightly off semantically usage that reeks of immaturity.

I agree that it's very healthy for the larger culture to see mothers as sexual beings, though there's still something a bit entitled sounding to the MILF term. But then maybe I've just seen too many of those awful "Hot MILF Bangs Her New Neighbor" featurettes at XHamster.

 

[LallyH]

Thanks for coming back. I think you're hearing/sensing the same thing with "a hot mature" as I hear when I see men refer to women as "a female." It's a grating, slightly off semantically usage that reeks of immaturity.

I agree that it's very healthy for the larger culture to see mothers as sexual beings, though there's still something a bit entitled sounding to the MILF term. But then maybe I've just seen too many of those awful "Hot MILF Bangs Her New Neighbor" featurettes at XHamster.

Is using female as a noun a common thing? I have an employee who will say 'I was talking to two females' which always sounds wrong somehow, but not wrong enough to be questioned. I thought it was just peculiar to him

 

[midwestyankee]

Is using female as a noun a common thing? I have an employee who will say 'I was talking to two females' which always sounds wrong somehow, but not wrong enough to be questioned. I thought it was just peculiar to him

It is becoming more common, at least online. My take on this usage, which may reveal more about my prejudices than it does about the language, is that it had its origin in the dismissive discourse of the so-called Men's Rights movement. The men who ascribe to this movement's principles and fill its websites with rancorous rants against women, tend to do everything possible to reduce women to objects. This slight misuse of the language, in which women are reduced to being identified by their gender within the species, seems completely in concert with their ideas and tactics.

 

[dawn_of_night]

I've never heard of using flogging for any kind of medical/therapeutic purpose. I wonder if anyone else has?

I can't say that I doc would suggest it.... but I have said its like a deep massage.... although keep in mind .... it hasto be different for everyone.... and irs cheaper then thearpy. .... physical or not.

 

[desertslave]

I can't say that I doc would suggest it.... but I have said its like a deep massage.... although keep in mind .... it hasto be different for everyone.... and irs cheaper then thearpy. .... physical or not.

A vigorous flogging or caning is better than psychotherapy for me.

 

[midwestyankee]

A vigorous flogging or caning is better than psychotherapy for me.

This is quite an endorsement. I will have to bear this in mind when it comes time to sell someone on a caning.

 

[desertslave]

This is quite an endorsement. I will have to bear this in mind when it comes time to sell someone on a caning.

I am so bad! I just checked my calendar to figure out when/if I might be in your neck of the woods.

 

[midwestyankee]

I am so bad! I just checked my calendar to figure out when/if I might be in your neck of the woods.

Why is this bad? We haven't suddenly turned into Hell just because we re-elected Rahm Emmanuel.

 

[Endless_Night]

It is becoming more common, at least online. My take on this usage, which may reveal more about my prejudices than it does about the language, is that it had its origin in the dismissive discourse of the so-called Men's Rights movement. The men who ascribe to this movement's principles and fill its websites with rancorous rants against women, tend to do everything possible to reduce women to objects. This slight misuse of the language, in which women are reduced to being identified by their gender within the species, seems completely in concert with their ideas and tactics.

Interesting. From several on the conversations I've watched on the board it's obvious that many share this view, whether by virtue of the same reasoning or another. But I have to say, being called a female doesn't bother me in the slightest. I "get" that many don't care for the usage, but in all honest I don't "get" why. It just doesn't impact me in an emotional way.

And yeah, I "get" that I'm in the minority here.

 

[desertslave]

It is becoming more common, at least online. My take on this usage, which may reveal more about my prejudices than it does about the language, is that it had its origin in the dismissive discourse of the so-called Men's Rights movement. The men who ascribe to this movement's principles and fill its websites with rancorous rants against women, tend to do everything possible to reduce women to objects. This slight misuse of the language, in which women are reduced to being identified by their gender within the species, seems completely in concert with their ideas and tactics.

I remember, long ago in my 20's, when it wasn't cool to call someone my age a girl. Thirty-mumble years later, I love it when Master does. Sometimes it's just a matter of perspective.

And my son, full of 20-ish bluster, hates when I call him my boy.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Interesting. From several on the conversations I've watched on the board it's obvious that many share this view, whether by virtue of the same reasoning or another. But I have to say, being called a female doesn't bother me in the slightest. I "get" that many don't care for the usage, but in all honest I don't "get" why. It just doesn't impact me in an emotional way.

And yeah, I "get" that I'm in the minority here.

I'm with you on this one. I have never thought about it, but in itself, female, regardless of the usage (in print), doesn't bother me unless accompanied by insults afterwards. And at that point, it's the insults that bother me, not the word female. Said out loud with derision, different scenario, obviously. Said out loud in normal tones, meh, I don't even notice it. I think I have done too much reading of a scientific bent, not to mention a medical background, to have the word female strike my radar.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[LallyH]

Interesting. From several on the conversations I've watched on the board it's obvious that many share this view, whether by virtue of the same reasoning or another. But I have to say, being called a female doesn't bother me in the slightest. I "get" that many don't care for the usage, but in all honest I don't "get" why. It just doesn't impact me in an emotional way.

And yeah, I "get" that I'm in the minority here.

It doesn't offend me, it just sounds a bit odd when he does it I'm sure he doesn't mean it in a derogatory way, but I've tried to imagine myself using 'males' in the same way and that would seem as odd. Guys, men, chaps, lads even, I would use naturally, but it would never occur to me to use 'males' in that context.

 

[midwestyankee]

It doesn't offend me, it just sounds a bit odd when he does it I'm sure he doesn't mean it in a derogatory way, but I've tried to imagine myself using 'males' in the same way and that would seem as odd. Guys, men, chaps, lads even, I would use naturally, but it would never occur to me to use 'males' in that context.

This expresses my reaction to this use of "female" pretty well. It's the use of a word that has one connotation in the place of the word that holds the right connotation. Here's a similar word pair that can be jarring (pun intended), at least to American ears: jar and bottle. We speak of a pill bottle but a jar of pickles. It's always a bottle of beer and never a jar of beer, just as it's always a jar of mayonnaise but a bottle of salad dressing.

 

[Cumference]

If you have a problem with the word, just avoid it....
http://aggro-gator.com/images/aggro-gatordotcom39116.jpg

 

[midwestyankee]

If you have a problem with the word, just avoid it....
http://aggro-gator.com/images/aggro-gatordotcom39116.jpg

That's too precious for words.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Ok, that one definitely cracked me up...
There's nothing like total avoidance