Online relationships?

[Hipshot1554]

I am curious about this. How many here have significant online relationships? Not just erotic chats, but someone you share your joys and troubles with. Someone that knows your sexual preferences and cares about what is happening in your life.

I have had this in the past but, as we all know, life has a way of changing circumstances.

 

[ProfQ1955]

I have made some good friends here that I speak freely with about everything.

 

[Miasorrow]

I haven't opened up to anyone here like that yet to be able to have such a relationship.

 

[Texas_Mom]

I have had several online relationships that would fit that description

 

[Slutty_Wife_Kim]

Yeah.

 

[perrafuker]

I am curious about this. How many here have significant online relationships? Not just erotic chats, but someone you share your joys and troubles with. Someone that knows your sexual preferences and cares about what is happening in your life.

I have had this in the past but, as we all know, life has a way of changing circumstances.

i have dabbled in to this a few years ago,had some phone sex with a few women,cybered as well but at the end of the day nothing lasted because i felt guilty and because one of those women became a stalker.fun times!

 

[Buck_Austin]

They exist. Hell, I have had my share.

 

[BlueBelle47]

Yes, it was awesome. And I miss my Celt

 

[rj0314]

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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[ffdan]

I have

and finds it fills a void in your life. Its nice to have someone who cares about you as a person as much as you feel about them.

 

[seacher51]

Its been awhile...... looking for another.... any takers.....

 

[Eilan]

*raises hand*

 

[beachbaby179]

been lucky enough in the past and would like to think possibly now....... life is funny how you can have more in common with someone 1000's of miles away then the one on the other floor of the house.......

what he said... definitely!

 

[sometimes_sub_f]

I didn't find them here...but I do

 

[BubblyBookworm]

It's hard to get past a few chat sometimes....

 

[midwestyankee]

*raises hand*

Ditto

 

[emma_the_librarian]

I have had a few. One has recently hit the guardrail and burst into flames (metaphorically speaking), but there is another that still gives me great joy. Most have a shelf life, though.

In the beginning there are all the things that attract you to anyone (e.g. personality, the way they look at the world, their style of conversation, etc.), but later it gets harder to maintain when your outside life draws you away. You can't encircle the amount a person grows and changes, if there is a huge part of their life that they don't share.

For myself, the best have been ones where both of us are certain of exactly where the lines are drawn. Fairly early in the connections, I ask myself a series of questions. For example, does he talk about you to anyone or are you a singularly private joy? Do you seek something sexual with every conversation or do some just meander through your daily life? When things are blurry, it is inevitable that eventually your expectations and theirs don't align. I guess that's true whether or not you are online...

 

[seacher51]

Well Elian* pulls up a chair* have a seat and lets get to know each other.

 

[Gerry_111]

I had good relationships online in the past. They lasted from several months to 5 years. As long as expectations are clear it works. This is not the place to deal with ones problems of sexual repression, shyness or marital issues.
If you are sexually active, an extrovert or even exhibitionist in physical and mental sense and meet someone similar you will have a lot of fun. It can even spark your marriage. At the same time you can share your innermost desires without being judged.
However, if you come here with a baggage of unhappiness in your real life this and all other sites will fail you.
Open yourself, most people here are like you so there is no need to be afraid or critical. Have fun.

 

[masterslave00]

Had several, lasting from few months to one that lasted 5+ years...

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

I have had a couple of them. Most have fizzled over time, as real life tends to get in the way, then you don't hear from them, or they don't hear from you, it is assumed that the interest has been lost. Then there are sometimes jealousy issues. Then of course as with me, I tend to notice things overtime that I dislike about the other person.

So it has been awhile since I have had an online relationship. Thought one was going to blossom a few months ago, but it too faded.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Its a numbers game. A few are keepers but most are butterflies.

 

[daddysbaby150]

Learned a lot from my first one. Totally wasnt looking or expecting anything and it progressed naturally. I like to think I helped his marriage and personal relationships. After it was over and recently, I have seen how much it made me look at my life and my marriage and see what I can change and what I need to accept or move on with. Miss him as a friend and being able to share that everyday mundane stuff, but thats why we meet new people and have real life friends. Hasn't been a bad thing to reconnect with some of them either. Always trying to find the positive.

 

[Xeres_4000]

I have been privileged to meet and get to know some nice people with whom I shared the good and the not so good things about life. My soul needed inspiration and then I found "The One". I look back in the past with a big smile on my face and I still wear that same big smile today.

Online relationships? Hell, Yes!

 

[AKS]

I haven't found anyone worthy of seeking one with, for a long time. I HAVE a friend here I talk to about anything with,an occasional flirttee/ naughty moment thrown in.