Online relationships?

[Rigger287]

When I worked overseas away from home for months at a time my lovely wife was often not at home to receive our pre-arranged phone calls - she was just "out with friends" - but she could never tell me which friends. I met a lady online and we had a long term online relationship which lasted for several years, but I never had the courage to go and see her. We shared everything online until I returned home and I this lady eventually met and married a nice man she met. Although invited, my wife and I never went to the wedding - but I have seen the pictures. He looks like my identical twin.

 

[skinnysinner]

Interesting variety of responses. I have an FWB, an old friend from years ago who hooked back up with me about 5 years past. Online only, she is not in the UK often... and we share everything... We do share personal stuff away from the naughty side, but the best chat is the kinky chat... And we do share a lot of that. I have to say its great, I would recommend it!!

One other online one from here lasted well over 6 months, but petered out when the desire on her part to turn it real more frequently could not be met by me. The online stuff she did with and for me - a true sub to me - was amazing - but I guess that was never going to last.

And then there's a few that never quite worked, started to share and they back off, or I do, when something is not quite right. Hard to say what, but.. you don't know what you are missing unless you try and eventually one will work so well its well worth the wait. Never take a failure personally from this online link, its the only way to cope as its so much easier not to respond when the person is at the end of the internet. Manners are not always the same on here as they are in real life.

Overall.... fantastic, and having someone to share and see fantasies that no-one in real life understands is amazing!

 

[BareBackRider2]

I've had 2 wonderful online relationships in the past.

Neither through here. One was through email and was a supplier I communicated with for work. The other was through a totally non erotic forum which had a local social aspect.

Both resulted in RL "offers" which I passed up as I could never cheat on my wife regardless of the struggles we had at the time.

What I learned from it though I'd that there are levels of ' love's and you may find yourself loving more than one person in your life.

I've said too much already

 

[desiwife16]

Yes i have a few.

 

[curiousdreamer51]

A Few

There have been a few that resulted in getting to know much more than the sexual banter and chat. I have found that knowing the person's frustrations, needs, background and more makes it seem much more intimate when we do play.

 

[Gerry_111]

I see some positive posts here, particularly the three above me. I love to see this. If more of us see it this way the better chance we have in finding this elusive relationship. Once you find one the routes you can take are many.

 

[AKS]

There have been a few that resulted in getting to know much more than the sexual banter and chat. I have found that knowing the person's frustrations, needs, background and more makes it seem much more intimate when we do play.

Yes!!! Exactly. Otherwise its a cheap booty call.

 

[Gerry_111]

Correction. I did not mean the "three posts above" in my previous post. I was on wrong page.

Anyway it is good thread but I urge users to refrain from advertising their personal "wares" here. It makes it unpleasant reading. Oher threads and personal ads are there for doing it.

 

[Mz_Blaze]

I have had my share. Usually lasts a few weeks and then fizzles out.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I appreciate all the replies. It is nice when you have someone that you can talk to about "anything".

 

[LucyCanyon]

Yes!!! Exactly. Otherwise its a cheap booty call.

Agree, sexy stuff is fine and after all it's what we meet through

However, just spent time helping one contact fill in job application form, and an FWB discussing psychics and sex!

Occasionally we drift back to naughty stuff...

 

[bill3901]

Agree, sexy stuff is fine and after all it's what we meet through

However, just spent time helping one contact fill in job application form, and an FWB discussing psychics and sex!

Occasionally we drift back to naughty stuff...

Physics and sex???? Wich physics were you talking about?

 

[leather_spitfire]

i have a friend in the usa with whom i'm having an online relationship of sorts. we met through another forum, completely unrelated, and met in London a couple of times when she came over here on holiday. our relationship started out as flirting on a message board like this and migrated to emails in which we discovered a mutual fascination for BDSM. many many conversations later we sort of took roles, her as my Domme and me as her sub. neither of us had that aspect in our every day lives and no real outlet for it so it served a purpose perfectly, but we maintained that initial friendship too. anyway cut a long story short, we broke contact.... well i did actually, though not entirely because there were the odd message back and forth. but recently we've reconnected on a D/s level too and its so great to have that back again. someone i can tell my concerns with things i'm feeling and craving who wont judge me and kind of knows what i'm going through.

online relationships can be great but i've had some ones that werent so great... ye just forget about those though

 

[Gerry_111]

Seems to me that Lit should be a great place to form online relationships. After reading many threads on this and other matters I might be wrong. Not sure now. In early 2000 online relationships were blossoming everywhere and I don't mean dating sites. There were a lot of chat rooms where people met. Could be that Ashley Madison took the lion share of those who are looking for online relationships?
Many questions and few answers.
I had many relationships and still have contacts with them as friends. I wonder if it would be possible now. Something is changing.

 

[oxfordsea]

One Nighters

Had a few good online one nighters. Preferred that way.

 

[just_one_vice]

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[Fredie2015]

online relationship can be even better=)

I'm in online relationships with one Russian woman. For me online relationship is even better, because I can date only Russian woman, it's my fetish. It's not so easy to find Russian women, so I usually met them on [Spam link removed]. But I must admit, that this woman is special.. Her name is Sasha. It's nice, isn't it? I even start thinking about marriage... It's so not me! It's very important that we are on the same wavelength!)