LJ_Reloaded
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No, srsly, feminists are now defining refusing to give a woman sex as abuse. You can probably go to jail for that, or you will in the next revision of the Violence Against Women Act.
http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/abusiverelationships/a/pa_sex.htm
http://www.hiddenhurt.co.uk/subtle_sexual_abuse.html
If a guy does it, it's called abuse.
Don't worry, male feminists, if this confuses you, that's understandable. Most of you only know about sex via sex ed anyways.
http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/abusiverelationships/a/pa_sex.htm
http://www.hiddenhurt.co.uk/subtle_sexual_abuse.html
Mind you, if a woman refuses sex for any reason, it's called feminism in action.Withholding Sex and Affection
The sexual controller does not just demand or force sexual acts, but is just as likely to withhold sexual intercourse or intimacy. It might be conditional on our behaviour or on our participating in certain sexual acts with which we do not feel comfortable. He will also withhold affection in the form of just cuddling or kissing unless it leads to sex. It is either sexual intercourse or nothing. Or he will tell us we are a tease for wanting affection without it automatically leading to intercourse, leaving us feeling guilty. Refusing intimacy is a form of subtle sexual abuse because it is a way controlling sex - it is the flip side of demanding sex.
They will refuse our sexual advances. He has to be in control of sex, when, where and what takes place. He will also call us a whore for being sexual creature and wanting that sexual intimacy. He is also telling us that our sexual needs, desires and preferences are of no value.
Withholding affection, intimacy and intercourse from us not only attacks our feelings of self worth, but also leave us open to more coerced sexual acts. In our need and desire for intimacy we are more likely to agree to sexual acts we would under normal circumstances have refused.
If a guy does it, it's called abuse.
Don't worry, male feminists, if this confuses you, that's understandable. Most of you only know about sex via sex ed anyways.