Losses, hardships, gratefulness in 2014?

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What did you lose in 2014? What were your hardships? What are you grateful for this past year?


It may not see like much but we lost 2 pets in our household. Mocha pup, he was 12/13 years old in February and Monster kitty just a few weeks back. We almost lost a 3rd pet, another kitty came close to death but the vet saved him and he is ok for now. This wasn't our year for pets.

Luckily my family, was ok this past year. We are blessed. My mother is still alive and kicking at 83. My daughter also had a grand year in school and fantastic grades. She will most likely graduate with honors this summer.


Financially, this was a really hard year. I won't go into details but I'm hoping next year will be better. *fingers crossed*

 

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[pink]

Losses.

YWIA.

Thanks, babe.

 

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[ms_ann_thrope]

Just another year.

 

[pink]

Just trying to keep you focused and horny.

There are naked newbies in my pic thread.

 

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[pink]

I need a secretary to keep me on track.

Just paying it forward for you fixing my spelling faux paus.

 

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[Skiddles2014]

What did you lose in 2014? What were your hardships? What are you grateful for this past year?


It may not see like much but we lost 2 pets in our household. Mocha pup, he was 12/13 years old in February and Monster kitty just a few weeks back. We almost lost a 3rd pet, another kitty came close to death but the vet saved him and he is ok for now. This wasn't our year for pets.

Luckily my family, was ok this past year. We are blessed. My mother is still alive and kicking at 83. My daughter also had a grand year in school and fantastic grades. She will most likely graduate with honors this summer.


Financially, this was a really hard year. I won't go into details but I'm hoping next year will be better. *fingers crossed*

I didn't lose anything in 2014 that I know of.

As for hardships, I had heartburn for like 2 days a few months ago.

I'm grateful for my family and for being born a Canadian.

 

[Littlefinger]

Got out of some fairly toxic romantic relationships but earned a backbone. Found out what really matters, you know? First, was my boyfriend of 4 years. Very codependent and passive-aggressive bullshit. He broke it off and broke my heart. Then started dating a woman I've been friends with for years. While I'm trying to make positive changes in my life, one step at a time, she wants things to happen faster and her way. Found I was strong enough not to need anybody and broke it off with her, completely. The friendship, the sex, everything. She's gone from my life.

One by one, this year, I've been systematically cutting bullshit people from my life, realizing what I will and will not fucking tolerate in my relationships and not backing down from that standard. There's like this unwritten rule that you owe relations some sort of chance to be in your life, simple because you're related or you have history. I've decided I don't owe anybody the chance to make me their victim. And every time I put my foot down, it feels like the wind brings something else good my way, like the universe is rewarding me for taking control and owning myself.

And around October I was bit by inspiration and now this bull is riding me like a goddamned feral thing. I sometimes forget to sleep or eat because I'm so in tune with this book and the need to get the words out. My "j" key got stuck last week and I almost went into a conniption fit before fixing it, lol. 2014 has been about finding myself and reconnecting with that creative part of me.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Got out of some fairly toxic romantic relationships but earned a backbone. Found out what really matters, you know? First, was my boyfriend of 4 years. Very codependent and passive-aggressive bullshit. He broke it off and broke my heart. Then started dating a woman I've been friends with for years. While I'm trying to make positive changes in my life, one step at a time, she wants things to happen faster and her way. Found I was strong enough not to need anybody and broke it off with her, completely. The friendship, the sex, everything. She's gone from my life.

One by one, this year, I've been systematically cutting bullshit people from my life, realizing what I will and will not fucking tolerate in my relationships and not backing down from that standard. There's like this unwritten rule that you owe relations some sort of chance to be in your life, simple because you're related or you have history. I've decided I don't owe anybody the chance to make me their victim. And every time I put my foot down, it feels like the wind brings something else good my way, like the universe is rewarding me for taking control and owning myself.

And around October I was bit by inspiration and now this bull is riding me like a goddamned feral thing. I sometimes forget to sleep or eat because I'm so in tune with this book and the need to get the words out. My "j" key got stuck last week and I almost went into a conniption fit before fixing it, lol. 2014 has been about finding myself and reconnecting with that creative part of me.

Wait...what?

 

[Littlefinger]

Wait...what?

Which part is confusing you? The description of my pansexuality, the book writing or the "no longer suffering fools" part?

 

[FGB]

Hm,

I finished losing a wife and about $150,000.00 US.

But I'm not all that upset about it...

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Which part is confusing you? The description of my pansexuality, the book writing or the "no longer suffering fools" part?

You have sex with cookware?

 

[Littlefinger]

You have sex with cookware?

*thrusts against a pot repeatedly and all you hear is a 'Ping! Ping! Ping! Ping, ping, ping, ping, ping ping ping ping!'*

That kettle is so hot baby! I'm going to hit that round, black metal! With oven mitts. I learned my lesson last time.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

*thrusts against a pot repeatedly and all you hear is a 'Ping! Ping! Ping! Ping, ping, ping, ping, ping ping ping ping!'*

That kettle is so hot baby! I'm going to hit that round, black metal! With oven mitts. I learned my lesson last time.

Phew. For a minute there I thought you were gay or something.

 

[Littlefinger]

Phew. For a minute there I thought you were gay or something.

Holes or poles, I like 'em both ways.

 

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[ms_ann_thrope]

Damn! That's hawt!! *fans self*

Get your own damn cookware.

 

[lemonbread]

*thrusts against a pot repeatedly and all you hear is a 'Ping! Ping! Ping! Ping, ping, ping, ping, ping ping ping ping!'*

That kettle is so hot baby! I'm going to hit that round, black metal! With oven mitts. I learned my lesson last time.

As a fellow pansexual, i'm going to die laughing.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

As a fellow pansexual, i'm going to die laughing.

Spoken like someone that never actually died laughing.

 

[lemonbread]

Spoken like someone that never actually died laughing.

Or maybe I'm undead?

 

[QueenLevitra]

Spoken like someone that never actually died laughing.

I don't know you, your age, your sex, your anything,

other than you say you are fighting cancer.

Rest assured I will not die laughing at your death.

Man the FUCK up, Human!!!/Human the FUCK up, ManWo!!!

Or whatever.

Don't lie your last days here.