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Inspirinious said:
OMG!! Wow, just WOW!

What a fabulous response to my request. Several great ideas there. I like them all. The cooking dinner for a lover, dressed only in an apron is a very interesting idea.

And thank you for the comments about replies. Yes, I am aware of lurkers who come perv but don't leave comments. I feel I have to "encourage" people to post replies. If I get no replies to my pics, I will stop posting them. I do need (require) some encouragement to continue.
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You are very welcome!
It really was a pleasure.

I fully agree on your thoughts about needing (and requiring) encouragement to post. If I wouldn't like to hear comments from other people than myself I could simply turn around in front of the mirror.
 
murmurmara said:
I'm sorry -- I've swung by several times today, and just get mesmerized by your eye in your AV and the changing picture show. I have been pondering quietly, though.

I love OnlyMeMyselfandMeAgain's story ideas, especially the cooking one.

But what I was pondering was the response issue. Plenty of times, I get very few replies to pics. I've been told to look at views, not just replies, but the fact remains that it hurts to put yourself out there with little response. I tend to find ways to blame myself: I post too much, I'm too old, my photos are more extreme and blatant than many. I know that many here have Lit friendships from before my time on the site this go-round. There's limited time to spend here, so people I think of as Lit friends may comment elsewhere, nourishing longstanding friendships, and run out of commenting energy by the time they're looking at my pics [if they look!]. And that's the mystery and the heartache and the obsession of Lit. Someone will come around often and then disappear from my thread -- they're active elsewhere on Lit, but ignoring me, it feels. Letting go of that sense of being judged and found lacking is the other side of the coin for those who post. Sometimes there are these heartfilling responses and then you're ignored. Quite a rollercoaster to ride. It's far easier to adjust expectations than hopes. I'm trying to tamp both down, but it's a struggle.

I do hope you continue to post, Inspirinious.
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Thanks to everyone for their messages of support. A few others have echoed these sentiments, but as Mara articulated the issues the best, I will reply to her message.

"I tend to find ways to blame myself: I post too much, I'm too old, my photos are more extreme and blatant than many." - This rings very true for me. I am older than you are, and as a male, far less appealing to most people on Lit. I also tend to post more extreme photos and be more blatant. My Charlie gets lots of exposure. :eek:

I have heard several times that I need to look at "views" instead of "replies". So I have done some analysis of the numbers, looking at my thread, Mara's thread, and Stackey's thread.

Concerning posts (replies):
My thread - 52% of the posts are by visitors (about 1 reply for each of my posts)
Mara's thread - 74% of the posts are by visitors (about 3 replies for each of her posts)
Stackey's thread - 78% of the posts are by visitors (about 4 replies for each of her posts)

Concerning views:
My thread receives on average 28 views per each of my posts
Mara's thread receives on average 98 views per each of her posts
Stackey's thread receives on average 172 views per each of her posts.

Either way I look at this, my thread, my photos, my posts come nowhere near the traffic received by others. It really makes me wonder why I do this.

But I need to get past the grumbling. I have promised some friends that I will not delete this thread as I have to many of my pic threads in the past. I will keep this as a permanent "home base" for people to keep tabs on me. There just may be times when I don't feel like posting new photos. Please bear with me.

I have received a very nice PM of support from a lady that is shy and prefers to not post on other people's thread. I understand that and I thanked her for her message.

I also have a new collaborative project in the early stages of discussion and I am excited about that. It may take some time (weeks) before we can complete that project, but it should be fun for us and for our followers. :)
 
I'm happy to hear that you're not giving up.....It's supposed to be fun. A mere outlet for expression through photos and words. As well as just a place to call your own, to chat and have fun with friends. Post when you're in the mood and don't when you're not. Just have fun my sweetie. :)

And now as I sip my coffee and digest some pizza, I'm going to perv back to part #3 of your sexy story. Mmmmmm, I love how you dream.
 
Inspirinious said:
For the third night in a row my dream lover has come to me. Again I awake with a raging erection in my briefs. I sense your presence in my bed. I smell your fragrance, I feel your touch. I taste your sex on my lips. I can hear your moans of pleasure in my ears.

I lay back, eyes closed, and again savor these sensations, the thoughts, the feelings. A hand grabs my cock and squeezes it, making it throb even more. Soon a hand is in inside my briefs, flesh on my flesh, exciting my erection harder and harder. I roll onto my side. I continue to feel your touch. A hand slides over my ass, exciting another erogenous zone. Soon my briefs are down around my ankles, my crotch is exposed, and a hand is touching my anus, my balls, and the base of my cock.

The attention to my erogenous areas increased. You remove my briefs, freeing my legs to spread. I lay there and accept the pleasure that rolls through my body as you touch me, pleasure me.

You are applying touch to multiple sensitive areas of my body. You whisper in my ear "Cum for me baby" as your finger slides into my ass. My arousal increases. It become obvious that your attention to my body has one ending, an eruption of cum as I orgasm. Your hand grips my cock and stokes harder and faster. Your kisses on my face and neck feel fabulous. Your scent fills my nose and adds to my arousal. I feel my orgasm slowly building in my groin. Faster you pump my cock. Your tongue dives into my mouth in a very passionate kiss. My body reacts and humps against your actions. My body is reacting uncontrollably. My muscles twitch with excitement and suddenly a rush of my orgasm rips through my body. My cock erupts, spewing my cum over my body.

"Thank you lover" I whisper in your ear. You smile at me, lean over and plant a gentle kiss on my lips.
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This! Is super hot! Makes me want to go take a nap so I can dream a little dream myself. :devil:

I love this series in black & white. Very well done. :)

Can't wait to see what cums next!! :)
 
I really love your new thread. I know you've been working to find the right formula of combining your words with your pictures. I really think you've nailed it this time.

I understand how difficult it is to post here, sharing such intimate parts of oneself. And, I'm supercritical of my own pics which is rough on my self esteem, so I understand that, too. But please always know that your time and effort are truly appreciated. Your threads are always sexy and fun, like you.
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Stackeydreams said:
This! Is super hot! Makes me want to go take a nap so I can dream a little dream myself. :devil:

I love this series in black & white. Very well done. :)

Can't wait to see what cums next!! :)
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kara1234 said:
I really love your new thread. I know you've been working to find the right formula of combining your words with your pictures. I really think you've nailed it this time.

I understand how difficult it is to post here, sharing such intimate parts of oneself. And, I'm supercritical of my own pics which is rough on my self esteem, so I understand that, too. But please always know that your time and effort are truly appreciated. Your threads are always sexy and fun, like you.
:rose:
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talikat said:
Happy Thanksgiving!!

http://www.4smileys.com/smileys/thanksgiving-smileys/thanksgiving026.gif
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Thank you all for the comments. I REALLY appreciate these. :heart:
 
I found your analysis very interesting, Inspirinious, and I'm grateful for what I learned. After writing to you, I went for a long walk and thought about whether I'm too needy/greedy. And resolved [as usual, seems to be a life lesson that keeps coming around to smack me in the face] to lighten up -- to Let Go and Let Flow. I'll take Stackey's advice to heart. Thanks, Ms S!

Love the naked turkey prep, I! Happy TDay!
 
Inspirinious said:
Happy Thanksgiving to everyone. :D

Here is a sneak preview of a future story w photos series.
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*hey.....good lookin, Whatcha got cookin....how's about cookin somthin up with me......* :devil: :)

I can't wait to see what goodies cum out of this series! :)

murmurmara said:
I found your analysis very interesting, Inspirinious, and I'm grateful for what I learned. After writing to you, I went for a long walk and thought about whether I'm too needy/greedy. And resolved [as usual, seems to be a life lesson that keeps coming around to smack me in the face] to lighten up -- to Let Go and Let Flow. I'll take Stackey's advice to heart. Thanks, Ms S!

Love the naked turkey prep, I! Happy TDay!
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I was happy to see this murmurmara. :) we just need to have fun here together, post our photos and stories to have fun with each other, whom ever chooses to play with us.

It's a real shame that the American Society is so uptight about sexuality and nudity in the ways it is naturally. Social media has a set standard for what age, size etc is considered sexy, and unfortunately many people are brainwashed into a level of shallowness that reflects what this society has pumped into their brains. I too am guilty of this as I too, choose to use high levels of photographic strategy, (certain poses/clothing) etc that carefully hides areas of my body that I'm not comfortable with. It really is a shame.

I hope you both keep posting and being proud of your bodies and sexuality. You're both awesome. :)

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
 
murmurmara said:
I found your analysis very interesting, Inspirinious, and I'm grateful for what I learned. After writing to you, I went for a long walk and thought about whether I'm too needy/greedy. And resolved [as usual, seems to be a life lesson that keeps coming around to smack me in the face] to lighten up -- to Let Go and Let Flow. I'll take Stackey's advice to heart. Thanks, Ms S!

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Stackeydreams said:
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I was happy to see this murmurmara. :) we just need to have fun here together, post our photos and stories to have fun with each other, whom ever chooses to play with us.

It's a real shame that the American Society is so uptight about sexuality and nudity in the ways it is naturally. Social media has a set standard for what age, size etc is considered sexy, and unfortunately many people are brainwashed into a level of shallowness that reflects what this society has pumped into their brains. I too am guilty of this as I too, choose to use high levels of photographic strategy, (certain poses/clothing) etc that carefully hides areas of my body that I'm not comfortable with. It really is a shame.

I hope you both keep posting and being proud of your bodies and sexuality. You're both awesome. :)

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
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It is unfortunate that we have to have this discussion, but it picks up my spirit that there are others that come to pick up our spirits. I think both Mara and I have a fresh outlook.

Thanks to everyone for contributing to this discussion.
 
I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving. :rose::rose:

kara1234 said:
Hey! I think I need you in my kitchen this morning, just like that! (Can't wait to see the rest).
Happy Thanksgiving. :rose:
(And be careful around the stove :eek:)
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Careful around the stove? Why do you think I have the apron? :)

murmurmara said:
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Love the naked turkey prep, I! Happy TDay!
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Thanks! Not actually naked. I am wearing an apron. :devil:

OnlyMeMyselfAndMeAgain said:
I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving!
This just looks so yummy ...
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Thank you very much.

Stackeydreams said:
*hey.....good lookin, Whatcha got cookin....how's about cookin somthin up with me......* :devil: :)

I can't wait to see what goodies cum out of this series! :)
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HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
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I believe this was a very early sneak preview. May be a while before the series gets posted.

talikat said:
I would love to come to this after a long day at work!
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Are you referring to the turkey? Or to me? :confused:
 
Keep it up

I think most of us AmPics posters have the same types of feelings about the rollarcoaster of keeping up our threads, and the inspiration to continue doing it. I certainly can relate to everything that has been said. :heart:

I took the week off, so am just now catching up on your thread. It probably was slower than average this week due to the Holiday. I haven't seen your older threads, but I'm really loving everything you're doing on this one. The story was hot with the perfect photo finish! I'm looking forward to the kitchen series! :heart::kiss:
 
MadRose said:
I think most of us AmPics posters have the same types of feelings about the rollarcoaster of keeping up our threads, and the inspiration to continue doing it. I certainly can relate to everything that has been said. :heart:

I took the week off, so am just now catching up on your thread. It probably was slower than average this week due to the Holiday. I haven't seen your older threads, but I'm really loving everything you're doing on this one. The story was hot with the perfect photo finish! I'm looking forward to the kitchen series! :heart::kiss:
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I hope you had a Happy Holidays. :)

Yes, it is a roller-coaster and I need to accept that and just go with the ebb and flow. Also I need to avoid the feeling that I MUST always post. I should post when I have something to post. Sometimes I will have lots of creative ideas and photos, and sometimes I won't. I need to accept that and go with it.

I am very busy with real life this week. Several house guests all week, so I sneak little time slices to get on Lit and do posts like this. Hopefully next week all this craziness will die down and I can work in earnest with my project partner on the kitchen series. Should be a fun project.

Thank you for your support and contributions here to this discussion. :rose::rose:
 
Inspirinious said:
For the third night in a row my dream lover has come to me...
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More B&W morning awesome-ness from you. This set is gorgeous, too!
I just love your hands and the angle in “onto my side” and your hand (and ass) again in “exciting another erogenous zone”
There is a slow sensuousness that I love here. I just picture and feel molding my curves into you.
And of course, I just love the mess in “my cock erupts” — These are all very sexy and provocative pics.
And the words that go with them are equally so. Very, very nicely done!

Inspirinious said:
Happy Thanksgiving to everyone. :D

Here is a sneak preview of a future story w photos series.
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I would have loved my Thanksgiving so much more if you were the chef in my kitchen.
I love this and can't wait to see where this goes.
 
eLLEXa said:
More B&W morning awesome-ness from you. This set is gorgeous, too!
I just love your hands and the angle in “onto my side” and your hand (and ass) again in “exciting another erogenous zone”
There is a slow sensuousness that I love here. I just picture and feel molding my curves into you.
And of course, I just love the mess in “my cock erupts” — These are all very sexy and provocative pics.
And the words that go with them are equally so. Very, very nicely done!


I would have loved my Thanksgiving so much more if you were the chef in my kitchen.
I love this and can't wait to see where this goes.
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Thank you Llex. I would love to cook in your kitchen as well.
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Working with a partner on a kitchen story with pics. Should be fun. :D
 
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