an erotic smack in the face

[dolf]

I should make this my sig for certain -noble, righteous, virtuous, giving, serving, pleasing and never accepting there is not just one way to be a submissive/masochist/whatever- submissives out there.

you've read the bdsm section on lit.

 

[StrayKat]

you've read the bdsm section on lit.

Even worse, posted on it.

 

[eyer]

that's the bit you struggle with. it's not just that.

Really?

It doesn't do anything for me one way or the other, but it makes him happy and that makes me happy.

Listen, blunt: as you've endlessly informed to the Board, you can't really be sexually pleased unless the "right" man degrades you psychologically and physically. I don't really care one way or another about what floats that insecurity boat of yours (specifically)...

...but after you get up off your knees and then need to play your strong and independent woman act, it just makes me howl at what a fraud you truly are.

 

[Lancecastor]

I think what we're really learning in this thread is that eyer doesn't know what lust feels like.

Could be DSB....dangerous sperm buildup.

 

[eyer]

Your assumption that all who enjoy a vibrant sex life are driven by character flaws...

Actually, what should be clear is my stating that you only being able to get off dominating a submissive woman is most definitely a character flaw of yours...

...just like a rapist: it ain't the sex that tweaks your insecurity, it's the power over women that busts your bozo nut.

 

[bluebell]

Could be DSB....dangerous sperm buildup.

That sort of thing can internally combust a dude.

Am now also imagining a fire hose where the penis should be.

 

[doowdniw]

delete

 

[Farrah]

Because enjoying your sex how you like it ISN'T a very feminist stance?

Eeyore needs some education.

A split second after a slap (to the face) my sensibilities definitely get ruffled, but knowing that I'm being used however he likes, makes me wet and sensitive. And I'd agree that it has everything to do with the guy for me - it's not something I would tolerate from just anyone.

What these ladies said.

Dolf, this is a fantastic thread, overall.

My stance...it's absolutely not abuse if it's consensual. That one person's kink is not another's is fine, of course, but I can't believe the topic of abuse has even been raised. When two trusting, consenting adults enter a bedroom and both get off on a shared desire, it's called sex, no matter the details. Sex. Not abuse. Really, it's pretty simple. I don't understand the outrage.

 

[eyer]

...who think women are like vending machines you put kindness coins into until sex falls out. And then they get pissed when they find out it doesn't work that way.

Too friggin' funny...

1) me as any type of "kindness" payer, and

2) your proclamation that "kindness" doesn't pay with a woman.

Life called, bozo...

...it said, Welcome back to the Board, n000b.

 

[eyer]

My stance...it's absolutely not abuse if it's consensual. That one person's kink is not another's is fine, of course, but I can't believe the topic of abuse has even been raised. When two trusting, consenting adults enter a bedroom and both get off on a shared desire, it's called sex, no matter the details. Sex. Not abuse. Really, it's pretty simple. I don't understand the outrage.

You might likely be the most submissive and dependent female who posts on the GB...

...so it's simply natural that you wouldn't "understand the outrage".

 

[doowdniw]

that's the bit you struggle with. it's not just that. I've craved it from guys who wouldn't/couldn't do that sort of stuff. whether my reasons for enjoying it are messed up or not, I still enjoy it. it makes me wet. my cunt twitches with each strike. i'm submitting to it for my own selfish reasons.

I get it, and if that's what floats your boat, go for it. Perhaps I'm just too enthralled with the look on her face when she reaches orgasm to want to do anything to interrupt her moment. But if a slap to the face helps someone to reach or enjoy their own moment, then who am I to judge? Just not my thing (although I have plenty of other "things").

 

[dolf]

...but after you get up off your knees and then need to play your strong and independent woman act, it just makes me howl at what a fraud you truly are.

if you think everything else in a woman's life is negated by how she occasionally fucks, howl away

 

[Lancecastor]

You might likely be the most submissive and dependent female who posts on the GB...

...so it's simply natural that you wouldn't "understand the outrage".

Farrah must be "submissive" , "dependent" and bad...because she doesn't agree with You.

Hahahaha!

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/c/cb/Compliance_Movie_Poster.jpeg

 

[eyer]

He just wants to use it to fuel his sense of nice-guy entitlement and justify his negative attitudes toward women. And I'm sorry, I'm not about to have that.

My "nice-guy entitlement" says a bozo like you will never understand the supreme truth about posting on the Internet:

It doesn't matter how much your insecure, dominant-wannabe ego demands you to assert crap like, "I'm not about to have that"...

...you will "have that", and your starving ego will cream with every word you read of it, punk.

 

[eyer]

Farrah must be "submissive" , "dependent" and bad...because she doesn't agree with You.

Hahahaha!

Farrah is submissive and dependent...

...just your kind of conquest, wannabe.

Although, actually, her obvious dependency is so deep that such a masterful "dom" as yourself would no doubt soon tire of that tragic human reality - unless, of course, she gives really good blowups. Right, Lancie?

BTW:

Nice touch on posting a movie poster to underline the fantasy your ego worships...

...it is perfectly fitting.

 

[Lancecastor]

Eyer, some grrls get off, big time, on being smacked in the face just as they are starting to cum.

And they like it.

Why this makes you angry is anyone's guess, but it's not germain, Jackson.

Might make a good thread topic of its own, if you'd care to start one as a self-exploration.

 

[dolf]

it sums up the view eeyore types have of women.

they can get themselves an education, a job, pay the rent, put up their own shelves, open their own jars, move their own spiders out of bathtubs, live their own lives... but if they don't keep their sex lives to his standards, they're nothing.

 

[Farrah]

You might likely be the most submissive and dependent female who posts on the GB...

...so it's simply natural that you wouldn't "understand the outrage".

If 'submissive' is meant to be an insult, you've fallen short. But my guess is that's status quo in your life.

And I'm needy as hell. Makes me a fantastic sub.

The power and control I surrender in the bedroom has nothing to do with the way I live my life or engage in any other aspect of my relationship with my S/O, my friends or my family. I make decisions, I work, I have hobbies, I spend time with people I enjoy...all as an equal. Really, what is so difficult to understand?

 

[Farrah]

Farrah is submissive and dependent...

...just your kind of conquest, wannabe.

Although, actually, her obvious dependency is so deep that such a masterful "dom" as yourself would no doubt soon tire of that tragic human reality - unless, of course, she gives really good blowups. Right, Lancie?

BTW:

Nice touch on posting a movie poster to underline the fantasy your ego worships...

...it is perfectly fitting.

Jesusfuckingchrist. I'm not a fucking submissive. I like rough sex with my favorite person in the entire universe. Full stop.

 

[eyer]

if you think everything else in a woman's life is negated by how she occasionally fucks, howl away

Tell it to the cunning, commanding, capitalist CEO who rules over his business realm so powerfully...

...and then "relaxes" by donning a diaper and nipple clamps and clamoring for his bottle from his mommy dominatrix.

Truth does not abide contradiction.

 

[eyer]

Eyer, some grrls get off, big time, on being smacked in the face just as they are starting to cum.

And they like it.

Thanks for that newsflash, Olsen.

 

[eyer]

it sums up the view eeyore types have of women.

they can get themselves an education, a job, pay the rent, put up their own shelves, open their own jars, move their own spiders out of bathtubs, live their own lives... but if they don't keep their sex lives to his standards, they're nothing.

That could apply...

...as long as truth testifies that ALL WOMEN are just like you.

Now...

...just go ahead and try to lie that that is, indeed, the case.

I. dare. you.

 

[Disgustipated]

Eeyore gets off telling others how NOT to get off.

 

[dolf]

Tell it to the cunning, commanding, capitalist CEO who rules over his business realm so powerfully...

...and then "relaxes" by donning a diaper and nipple clamps and clamoring for his bottle from his mommy dominatrix.

Truth does not abide contradiction.

people are always a contradiction.

trying to make it black & white, because black & white seems so much less scary and so much more simple, doesn't change anything.

I spend 50 weeks being independent, then have two weeks fuckation.
he rules his kingdom, regardless of the diapers in the back of his closet.
...you might respect him less, but that doesn't reduce either his power or his ability.

 

[dolf]

That could apply...

...as long as truth testifies that ALL WOMEN are just like you.

Now...

...just go ahead and try to lie that that is, indeed, the case.

I. dare. you.

no need to lie when the truth is plain.

if you don't approve of a woman's sex life then you dismiss her as worthless. you would rather we were all married off, housewives, letting hubby's vote speak for us.