You lived thru the stuff.. love your storyI was 5 at the end of the 70s, 15 by the end of the 80s.
We woke up very early every day, did all our chores, whatever farm work needed doing, came back in, ate breakfast, got run out of the house by mom or whichever adult was at home and in charge (aunts, uncles, grandparents) with a lunch bag and apples for the rest of the day until supper. No one adults ever knew where we were, only the general area/plan of the day. Despite the ladies knowing how to stretch a meal for drop by guests, and we always had plenty of those, when the horn blew, you had to beat it back home as fast as possible if you wanted to eat before it all disappeared. Which meant if you were not there by blessing time, you got scraps. Those ladies sure could cook.
It was a great treat to go to the library, be there for story time, read books, pick out ones to take home
Another treat was going to the pharmacy for root beer in a frozen mug, hamburgers/fries, and ice cream, or floats.
Went to most everyone's birthday party in our grade when young. Small school. Tight community.
While we were younger, the rest of the day was running, playing, exploring the woods, sports, riding bikes, go-karts over time, then motorcycles. We made and threw paper planes, boomerangs, frisbees, shot sling shots, climbed ton of trees, built forts, attacked each other with sticks, pine cones, acorns, mud, and about anything else we could throw or sword fight with. Went swimming in any water hole, creek, river we found, played tag, freeze tag, hide and seek. If we wanted to reach out to a friend, we hiked through miles of woods until we made it to their house.
Friday nights were all about the local high school football games and gatherings. As kids, we played our butts off with friends under the bleachers.
The clothing I remember at 4-7 was tough jeans with patched knees and butts, almost always hand-me-downs. Tough shirts for all the sticker bushes we walked/rode through most days and heavy boots. As others have said, "We lived in a real world rather than a virtual one," it was outside, rugged, we created our own play/fun, had hatchets, knives, compasses, water canteens, could build forts faster than builders frame homes.
Sundays were all about family day, church, and pro football season. As someone posted, everything was closed. We went to after church picnics or potlucks. Once home, we watched black and white tv with rabbit ears when young, graduating to a large antenna pole that we'd have to go out and hand turn to get different signals, especially in storms. We got our first color tv somewhere during all this and everyone (extended family, friends, neighbors) came over to watch games. Still only a few channels on a good day.
Music was family playing, radio (am/fm), an old cabinet radio/stereo, vinyl records, 8 tracks became popular but I do not know when. Saturday mornings somehow became kids morning with cartoons. Got up early as always, ate breakfast watching cartoons. Did chores, farm work, and was out the rest of the day. Sports took over Saturdays as we had more offered to us.
When it was no longer football season, we loved going to local community gatherings which is where we'd schedule times to hook up in the woods at various locations so no one had to travel a crazy distance to meet up. That's when we often met up at various swimming spots all over. We swam year round no matter the temperature. No one cared. Crazy to think back on it, cold, bugs, snakes, mosquitos, wild life, we swam with no concerns.
Bows took over sling shots, then BB guns and stronger bows, next was hunting rifles, we began going hunting (for food, not for sport). We learned to fish, clean, cook, camp.
As we aged, we went to more school events, basketball and football games were even bigger, we discovered girls (strange how they all of a sudden appeared out of nowhere), went to school dances, talked, hung out, parties became more spin the bottle, 7 minutes in heaven, and that darn shoe game (no idea what the name is). We called them kissing parties. So much kissing. Also skateboarding and roller skating became an extra thing to do with places to hang out when there were no sporting or community events, as did video arcades when we went to town with friends.
We wrote letters to people on the other side of the county during the summer and other far away friends that we met at some camp somewhere away. Our school was over 20 miles away, many school friends further. We lived near islands and would attend camps in the islands making amazing friends from all over the world.
Music products progressed to where we could do as another poster mentioned, "We made mix tapes based on whatever albums we had or else waited for a song to come on the radio. Music was better." No doubt the music was incredible. We were all hitting that age where it meant something. At some time I wound up with a Walkman, must have been my brothers.
I agree with so many here:
No cell phones for sure. Didn't even use the phone much.
We walked everywhere or rode bikes all over.
We listened to rock and roll groups on the radio and stereo.
Things were calmer and I’d say safer.
We didn't worry about some chickenshit pussy pulling a gun out and shooting everybody back then, or an adult doing something inappropriate because we had our own guns and would have most likely shot them.
Unlike today we didn’t believe that men could be women and feelings weren’t offended by anything and everything. We didn’t hate someone who didn’t vote the same way we did and we could disagree with someone and still be friends. All in all it was a better and simpler life tougher in some ways but with friends and family we still enjoyed it.
Funniest thing is that black, white, hispanic, asian, never came up with us a kids. We were great friends hanging out all through growing up there was no color or differences as far as we knew. We still talk about that when we meet up. Crazy how sensitive new generations have gotten.
High school changed quite a lot, but that wasn't until the 90s.