StrangeLife
Eater of beef
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Dead serious. Technically anybody who dies without a kid can be labeled an abject failure. Personally I think we currently live in a world where I'd rather my philosophy live on than my DNA but that doesn't blind me to the scientific facts. Besides my son will be soaking in my philosophy from the second he's born. . .
"Technically anybody who dies without a kid can be labeled an abject failure."
In other words, you see the meaning of life as "procreation of the species?"
All that stuff about pursuit of knowledge, happiness, experiences, self-realization, growing as a person.... what most of us identify with "living" is simply distractions from our true path? Congratulations. You just nullified ten thousand years of social development and declared us to be no different than any other plant or amoeba.
We have a fundamental difference in life-philosophy, I suspect. I see us as a higher lifeform that has evolved to the point where we have control over our own destiny. Having kids is a choice. Of course as a species we need to breed to survive, but it's not like we're short of people anywhere on the planet. There are plenty who are willing to pick up the slack. Many people breed whether we pay them or not, so why pay for something that's free?
...you're not paying for her pregnancy.
Money isn't created out of nothing Sean, so the only way she can get paid for not working is if somebody else is working without getting paid. Who should do that? Me? I want to spend all the free time I have with my kids - I want to spend my money on them. Why should my kids miss out so I can pay for her kids?
Third can we apply this loony logic to other things? Can I say refuse you entry to the ER because I don't want to pay for your snowboarding accidents?
Like you say, that's an "accident."
Pregnancies can happen by accident too - true - but even in the insurance world you operate with the notion of "intent" and an implicit obligation to do damage control (the latter being getting a pack of Plan B asap). If you choose to let a pregnancy run it's course, you're in the same bracket as a guy standing idle by watching his house getting flooded because of a busted pipe. You get no compensation. The same goes for situations caused by neglect.
Should I refuse your children an education because you can't read? Should I deny you protection because you can't be arsed to learn how to fight off an entire gang by yourself? Can I deny you a road because you're too fucking lazy to pave the way yourself?
C'mon - that's totally different. Those are basic societal structures. Stuff needed in order to make our civilization function. You are comparing apples and oranges now.
Well that's pretty much impossible. Following your plan is a large part of why so many industrial nations have declining birthrates. And in this case even if she was financially stable becoming pregnant would make her no longer financially stable unless she's RICH. Not stable, but rich. The kind who can afford to take six months to a year off from work with no consequences. Most people will never find themselves in that situation.
We can however, and should CREATE those circumstances. You want a better society, once again tell me why Europe has better upward mobility than we do. The answer is of course a robust social welfare system that enables work. We don't have that here.
Wrong.
You don't have to be rich in order to bring up a kid. It's about priorities, is all. Get some education, a decent home, put money aside for six months and take a leave of absence right after the kid is born. Rinse and repeat a few times, if you want more than one. That's it. Why involve the state or me?
The issue with the declining birth rate is largely based on hysteria. It's a self-regulating system - either we attract more immigrants to fill the void or our wages will go up and give more families the ability to afford more kids. As said earlier, we have no shortage of people on the Earth...